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PaPa 04-24-2017 01:43 PM

Therapeutic for me means relaxing and being grounded...

Taking time alone in nature listening, observing, and just being as one with my surroundings. I am not talking a park or in the back yard. I mean the wilderness with no other people within yelling distance. I am very blessed to have grown up in that type of environment so it is very therapeutic for me.

gotoseagrl 04-24-2017 05:19 PM

Sometimes the wind in my face is all I need to recharge and carry on.

Gráinne 04-24-2017 08:19 PM

Great thread-I'm getting ideas.

For me:

"Fiddling around"-detail cleaning the kitchen, bathrooms, even my car. The more strenuous, the better.

Washing dishes by hand, even though I have a dishwasher. I think it's the feel of suds and warm water, and the definite beginning and ending of the task.

Throwing things out. Today, in fact, I've been feeling unsettled for some reason and I purged a big box of papers.

Listening to music and doing genealogy, even if it's just examining hints.

Swimming or yoga, or running

ynt_dv8 04-24-2017 11:54 PM

great topic!

I always have a running "project." right now its a restoration/rebuild of an old honda 250r racing three wheeler...

long motorcycle rides...

weekend camping trips, long hikes, picnics, fishing, bon fires, loud music with good friends...

girl_dee 04-25-2017 03:34 AM

endorphins........

Gemme 04-25-2017 07:28 AM

His voice.

Instant calming effect.

:tea:

Gayandgray 04-25-2017 08:06 AM

Aromatherapy!!!! As in scented Yankee candles, scented foot soaks, Healing Garden eucalyptus & mint body spray, anything coconut........

girl_dee 04-25-2017 05:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1140253)
His voice.

Instant calming effect.

:tea:

YES............

Venus007 04-25-2017 05:40 PM

Dancing until I am a sweaty pounding flowing extension of the music

gotoseagrl 08-03-2017 08:49 PM

Stepping into the silence of the crisp, cool night air, under a sky of stars, while the rest of the world is asleep.

hopelessromantic69 08-03-2017 08:57 PM

Classical music or just some plain ol silence. A lot of the times during the 5 hour drive to Seattle from Eugene, it would be just the road noise and wind to keep me company.

Wrang1er 08-03-2017 10:34 PM

I find the sounds and smells of the ocean therapeutic. Something about it's vastness makes my troubles less overwhelming.

candy_coated_bitch 08-03-2017 11:05 PM

Sometimes, just watching some crap tv.

Gemme 08-04-2017 05:19 AM

Working on crafts. Laying on Him and listening to His heartbeat. Like CCB, watching TV. Love People's Court and Judge Milian.

2qt 08-04-2017 05:27 AM

Walking the dogs, riding a horse, relaxing on the beach staring at the ocean, waterfalls, outdoors... I find them all therapeutic....

Orema 08-04-2017 07:20 AM

Thinking about the things and people for which I'm grateful.

A. Spectre 08-04-2017 07:23 AM

Running my fingers through her luscious, long strawberry blonde hair. Her hair is a cascade of sunshine.

AmazonDC 08-04-2017 09:28 AM

being cuddled up with My babygrl. Camping in the middle of no where away from everything and everyone .. fishing....watching My daughters laugh and have fun... Watching Michigan football....watching Titans football.....Watching lacrosse.....I know I am pretty boring

Bèsame* 08-04-2017 09:43 AM

stepping out of the pool, relaxing on chaise with a good James Patterson book!

I'm heading there soon!

TL1 08-04-2017 09:52 AM

The ocean
Laughing
Jet boating
Music

justkim 08-04-2017 11:10 AM

The last 25 miles or so driving to the coast. The way the old oaks and pine trees smell, there is something so peaceful about them. Like their hiding some long forgotten secrets.

girl_dee 08-07-2017 04:19 AM

nesting in my ma'am cave
charging up my altar
bottomspace/subspace
photography
crocheting
long drives

Tuff Stuff 08-07-2017 08:36 PM

These days, an old movie.Sleep is good... hot tubs,yeah.

Katniss 08-07-2017 08:55 PM

As others have stated it depends on the mood.

If I am snorting mad then weeding the flowerbeds. Several years ago when my longtime ex and I broke up I actually won "yard of the month" in my subdivision. (Every cloud....)

When stressed I like to read autobiographies or walk in the woods. Meeting up with friends who like to laugh helps as well.

If possible (and it rarely seems possible anymore) a long drive at night with the sunroof open. A couple of hours on the road, get to the next town, grab a bite at a diner (helloooo, Waffle House) in the wee hours, then head back home.

Katniss~~

JDeere 08-08-2017 12:39 AM

Sleep but that is rare these days.

Happyfemme 07-23-2018 06:45 PM

My silky
Getting tasks done
The ocean
Sunsets
Comforter right out of the dryer
Someone being kind and caring
Wearing black pants or dark jeans
Someone being protective
Someone being dominant in the right way
Black pajama bottoms and a black tank top
Comedy on satellite radio
Organized desk
Going out to dinner
Going to the movies
Wearing black dress and black high heels
Getting my hair done
Putting on my makeup
Eating ice cream or frozen yogurt

Blade 07-23-2018 07:15 PM

My pups
Campfires
Mowing
Water..sitting by, in, near water
Fishing
Music
Quiet country nights
Working out...which I haven't been able to do in a while

Watching the little people learn and experience new things

Time with friends
The mountains
Watching critters and birds

homoe 07-24-2018 08:14 AM

Sorting any built up of clutter and tossing or donating!

Reach *BANNED* 07-24-2018 08:33 AM

Meditation
Taking a walk up this country road when the stars are all out.
Baby animals.
Mountain biking.
Camping.
Being as CLOSE to the Earth as possible.
Finding like minds that knock your socks off.
Being given another day to serve.
Helping others.
Making new friends near and far.
Doing my daily mantras first thing in the morning.
Finding my center core and staying there.

Happyfemme 07-24-2018 07:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Happyfemme (Post 1219881)
My silky
Getting tasks done
The ocean
Sunsets
Comforter right out of the dryer
Someone being kind and caring
Wearing black pants or dark jeans
Someone being protective
Someone being dominant in the right way
Black pajama bottoms and a black tank top
Comedy on satellite radio
Organized desk
Going out to dinner
Going to the movies
Wearing black dress and black high heels
Getting my hair done
Putting on my makeup
Eating ice cream or frozen yogurt

Also
Kayaking
Tennis
Golf
Red Sox games
New sun dresses

CherryWine 07-24-2018 08:22 PM

Good, hard belly laughs.

Kätzchen 08-04-2018 05:43 AM

Listening to stringed music (cello, piano, violins), observing nature, hours spent at the beach or boating on the river, birdwatching .... :stillheart:


Blade 03-25-2019 04:16 PM

Fishing, it's quiet you can listen to the sounds of nature

JDeere 03-25-2019 06:51 PM

Showers, hot ones
Music
Journaling
Sweets LOL

cathexis 03-25-2019 07:15 PM

Deep tissue massage
Forest walks
Music (most all genres)
Catharsis

Gemme 03-26-2019 10:01 PM

Zentangling.

kittygrrl 03-27-2019 05:27 PM

Watercolor
good coffee
poetry

RockOn 03-27-2019 06:27 PM

Sitting in a chair relaxing outside after work watching my pups eat their dinner and play ... it was grand outside a little while ago ... then darkness came, it started getting a little too cool for a tshirt ... they were ready to come in anyway, wanted their after dinner cookie(Alpo Snaps)

~ocean 03-27-2019 07:35 PM

dancing ~~~~~

easygoingfemme 03-28-2019 05:16 AM

Cleaning and organizing my house.
Exercise- best is a good long bike ride.
Dancing- Grateful Dead shows with my girl gang.
Slumber parties with my girl gang.
Getting up early for alone time before everything starts up.
Talking to my spouse.


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