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seduce them , pamper thir ego... submitt .
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Keep it real! Playing house won't get you anywhere.
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communicate...by any means necessary..be it face to face,email,text...just TALK!!!
be yourself always(unless ur roleplaying ;) ) let them know they are appreciated everyday laugh together--loud and often |
Forgive yourself for your faults
Forgive them theirs Admit it when you screw up Try to fix it |
yes! be yourself for crying out loud!
i don't want someone who agrees with all of my beliefs and ideals. i respect someone who has their own set of beliefs and ideals.. it always makes me shake my head (and feel sad) when i see someone dive head first very quickly into the belief system (like religion) of someone else and within a day claiming that as their belief system too. It would creep me out actually. Maybe that is how someone can appear to be so completely compatible ..... Yup that could be how that happens |
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scootebaby right on!
I want to add to touch each other often, make love, f*ck often, but touch every day. Hold hands, touch, kiss her hand, fingers, kiss her deeply, hold her like its your last day on earth, hold her forever. Take one day a week to be together and enjoy each others' company, talk about your goals for your life together...cook together, or wash the dishes if your not into cooking. When you go to bed, look into her eyes, hold her, and tell her how much you do love her...I miss doing all of these things with my wife. So, enjoy your life together, you never know when it will be the last moment. Greco |
Goals, yes Goals, have a future!
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LISTEN... I can be terrible at this one sometimes because I have the attention span of a 3 year old, but it is so nice to actually be listened to! Makes me feel very lucky.
Look in the eyes often. Watch your friends sometimes. You'd be amazed how many couples can go a whole day talking without looking in each other's eyes. Be appreciative and never take the other person for granted. Be supportive of their endeavors. Like Greco said, TOUCH. You cannot underestimate the importance of it. For those of us not yet to the point of being together all the time, it's the thing you miss the most. Even better than sex (if there's any such thing ;) ) |
What TO DO in a relationship...
Be present and in the moment Listen with your heart as well as with your head Drop the ego and admit you screwed up Apologize with conviction Dream your dreams together |
Don't get lost. Rely on your own center, not the relationship as your center. Put your oxygen mask on first, then help her with hers.
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Laugh...often... :)
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Hold hands, look into each others eyes, be grateful for each moment and just be happy! Don't sweat the small silly stuff because it jut takes away from the fun stuff.
One thing that my partner does that no one has ever done for me before is to make me feel whole. I don't know how to explain feeling "whole", but I can describe it as feeling 100% loved, protected, cared for, adored, cherished, honored and worthy. I think anyone in any relationship would want that, and I hope I make her feel the same. |
She knows you love her so don't just tell her , let her know why you love her.....
SS (f) I love you for the woman that you are.....the way you give of yourself to make others happy ( just remember you have to be happy :) )....you don't just hear what is being said, you listen..I love that you encourage me to go out and have fun and not be jealous...I love that you are into the mysteries of the world, the unknown ( and now I get to explore with you :) )....I love your love of travel....I love the way you smile, how your eyes smile....Okay I could go on and on but I think everyone knows, can see how much I love you (f) You are My Rare Beauty (f) |
Be clear in the difference between "settling" and "accepting."
In one, you compromise on things outside of yourself. In the other, you compromise your self. I know the difference, and that feels good—but it wasn't easy getting there, to that understanding. |
Wow that is SO true!
i feel we all have our own dealbreakers. Each time i ignored them things went bad. Can't blame someone else because i ignored my own boundaries. Sometimes i feel (especially in the internet world) when people know your boundaries they can hide those behaviors rather well beause they want it to work. i don't mind compromise but the settling i cannot do. |
If you miss them, or you're thinking about them...tell them how much.
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Look both ways before crossing the road. I know this doesn't sound like it goes in this thread, but it does. If you look both ways before you cross the road you won't be blind sided
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Treat your relationship with the respect you both deserve. :)
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i got an awesome rep that was dead on.... if starting off online make sure you know what you are getting into because once the honeymoon week is over and the real life starts things and people can change in a heartbeat!
i want to evolve not dissolve! |
Laugh about things together until you both lose your breath.
Don't take things so seriously, there is always something to smile about. Meet in the middle, financially and emotionally. :hangloose: Remember that sometimes, the deepest conversations happen at night after the lights go out and all there is to focus on is each other's voice. :) |
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