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little man 10-31-2010 07:43 AM

wondering if management will get the humor in my collecting my paycheck next thursday and giving them a pink page with my resignation typed on it. i like the idea of letting them go as my employer. heh

UofMfan 10-31-2010 08:02 AM

Imaginary players.

Random 10-31-2010 08:51 AM

That relationships may happen over night, but good ones take a hella lot of work, time and effort...

To get the rewards of a strong, fufilling and meaningful relationship, it takes blood sweat and tears.

Relationships are like coffee...

You can have instant... It's Hot Easy and Fast.... It's also weak, nasty and just doesn't satisfy..

or

You can have a Breve made with fresh roasted/fresh ground beans..

A lot of work, but oh so satisfying...

Arwen 10-31-2010 09:19 AM

Language. Some people get it and others don't. It's a precision instrument to me. I prefer to act as if language is a luxury and a privilege. My only annoyance when people play fast and loose with words is when they do not honor the roots of language.

Without those who taught us how to do it right, we would never have found the freedom to do it wrong.

Think of what e.e. cummings might have done with words if he didn't have the freedom of knowing where the boundaries were so that he could cross them.

Tcountry 10-31-2010 09:27 AM

Wonder...fear...friend...hope...future...time

suebee 10-31-2010 09:40 AM

Two months ago today it was 100F out. Today it's snowing. That seems awfully quick, doesn't it? :|

Miss Scarlett 10-31-2010 10:48 AM

Trying to wrap my brain around the fact that my grandmother died 26 years ago today...hard to believe...

LipstickLola 10-31-2010 11:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kobi (Post 217530)
May I suggest just "accidently" dropping it in the toilet? Is easier to explain and usually absolves you from replacement costs.

LOL, actually? in my zeal to quickly tie the knot, *snort*, that sucker flipped right off the waist band and was so quicklly sucked down that toilet I'd not had time to blink!! Umm, so I can't really use that again, LOL, but thanks! :D

Today...I am mindless

Queerasfck 10-31-2010 03:46 PM

http://www.flashofinsight.com/web/Wo...ainTunnel1.jpg

Queerasfck 10-31-2010 03:47 PM

http://www.masters-table.org/pagan/o...hapshetsut.jpg

Queerasfck 10-31-2010 04:08 PM

http://aardvarks.files.wordpress.com...pg?w=400&h=327

Faux French.

Mister Bent 10-31-2010 04:08 PM

http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a293/mrbent/bfd/3.jpg

little man 10-31-2010 04:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suebee (Post 217845)
Two months ago today it was 100F out. Today it's snowing. That seems awfully quick, doesn't it? :|

but you live in the great white north! (i think the white references snow...i could be wrong, though)

i am grateful to be moving south before winter here.

Gemme 10-31-2010 04:49 PM

Good times with a good friend.

Just_G 11-01-2010 01:55 PM

I am trying to wrap my brain around how one can go from being in an intimate relationship to "let's be besties". Can people REALLY do that? What about the hurt feelings? What about all the hateful accusations made along the way? How do you just shift gears like that? Seriously. Man, what is wrong with me that I keep getting involved with chicks like this! :blink:

I need to have my head examined...big time!!:seeingstars:

Arwen 11-01-2010 01:58 PM

G, it's not easy. OrganicButch and I managed to maintain a friendship. Admittedly, we actually discussed what would happen if/when we stopped dating. We may not be besties but I trust him and would go to him with issues. I know he would have my best interest at heart.

Also, some women don't have good boundaries (hello, I've been one of those) so you may need to set up new ground rules like "no contact for three months" or something so you can process and move on.

Love you. Mean it. Want some cake?

Soon 11-01-2010 02:00 PM

Portia DeGeneres is on Oprah right now if you wanted to catch it.

Just_G 11-01-2010 02:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Arwen (Post 218533)
G, it's not easy. OrganicButch and I managed to maintain a friendship. Admittedly, we actually discussed what would happen if/when we stopped dating. We may not be besties but I trust him and would go to him with issues. I know he would have my best interest at heart.

Also, some women don't have good boundaries (hello, I've been one of those) so you may need to set up new ground rules like "no contact for three months" or something so you can process and move on.

Love you. Mean it. Want some cake?

Thanks Arwen! I made mention that I need some time and space to deal with my feelings and to start moving forward and it got all ugly with accusations of "you said you would never leave me" kind of stuff. It has gotten to the point that I want NO contact if it is going to be all passive aggressive and stuff.

She wants the friendship right NOW, and I just can't act like there were never any feelings involved. Boundaries have been set...trust ME!

Thanks for your input!!

lipstixgal 11-01-2010 02:12 PM

I'm watching right now!!

Arwen 11-01-2010 02:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Just_G (Post 218545)
Thanks Arwen! I made mention that I need some time and space to deal with my feelings and to start moving forward and it got all ugly with accusations of "you said you would never leave me" kind of stuff. It has gotten to the point that I want NO contact if it is going to be all passive aggressive and stuff.

She wants the friendship right NOW, and I just can't act like there were never any feelings involved. Boundaries have been set...trust ME!

Thanks for your input!!


Ewwwwwwwwwwww on the PA stuff. No no and or NO. Run run run. That's not, as you already know, okay. Love you. You are right! :)


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