I would agree that telling a person face to face that you have a crush on them, or even one on one, outside this forum's thread, could evoke haunting concern's of what movies are made of...

but here? In this thread? I dont think anyone would bat an eye if someone declared a sweet adoring crush on someone.

the only exception..would be if either person was in a relationship...

Oh, I typically let them know in one way or another, especially if it is just a harmless crush.

Sooo Kat and ocean... I admire and crush on you both.

Oh.. and you too Breezy.. kotc

Awwww ty Sleepy one ..... yes I'm harmless I crush on you too Sleepiness

And I can't fight this feeling anymore...
 

I have a crush on someone in BFP but she can never be mine.... Crushing on a person who you can't date is fun no?

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Hello beautiful Ladies and handsome Gents. I hope you all are staying cool today!! See you all later!:)

My post wasn't in relation to this thread - rather, it was in relation to real-life.

This thread is a bit off-tangent and just harmless fun where people are increasingly happy to announce that they are crushing on folk. In fact, I don't think there's much taboo about annoucing a crush on someone in here who is in a relationship as lines are very blurred in this thread between what is an actual crush and what's just carrying on.

Sadly someone who will never feel the same. Ive had the same crush for quite a long while now

Feminality...

There I admit it!

Charming, your a brave soul. Yahoo!! A real honest to goodness crush!! Sorry Charming, I love this stuff.

HellO crushers, hope you all aren't melting like chocolate. Have a great day everyone!!;)

Actually i was kinda melting like chocolate until i got a new air conditioner, now cool as ice.

OK so now i have a s i t u a t i o n (and no not the Jersey boy aka Mike the Situation because well #1 he's a player and #2 I don't swing that way, I think i have #1 and #2 mixed up.

I had resigned myself to being single for awhile. Ya know working on myself blah blah and so on, then like ants, they come crawling all over. Not that ants are a bad thing necessarily, i mean there are chocolate covered ants, those can be tasty, right. I haven't had them so i really couldnt tell ya.

I have two crushers (neither are on the planet, unless i really do have a crusher as well on the planet that i am not aware of) ,

....... and 3 crushee, me being the crushee of course over the 2 crushers (that are not on the planet) and (one that is on the planet) but only one crusher i am sure of (sure that she's crushing on me)

Th other... is helping me do my laundry tomorrow lol, does that means she likes me or just wants to get out of the house. Wish i knew her intentions. Hmmmm Oh and before you ask, yes i did ask her and she says its friends but then why does she keep trying to kiss me lol. Friends with benefits?, possibly could be in hys mind, but knows i am not that kind of girl to just jump in the sack.

I am actually interested to know if she is going to try to kiss me again tomorrow. Not that i protest much, lol. I mean this butch is highly kissable and hekka cute but i don't want to get hurt later down the road. I would protest if she wanted to help me put my clean sheets on my bed. lol

Are most bois confused like us girls or what? tee hee. I just read over this and I cant even understand it so if you read it, thanks because it was very sweet of you to try and figure out what the heck i just typed.

Have a fabulous evening all you crushers and crushee's

When I find someone to crush on I get all shy and bashful. I mean my face gets red if they smile at me. How bad is that? Lol I'm such a dork.

I am sooo crushing on the pizza delivery butch tonight! Hubba hubba yowza! Shame I only order Pizza once a darn year lol :blink:

[SIZE="4"]Well if you must know the truth what I am feeling is way beyond the crush stage. The progression was natural not forced or phony. Like Sleepy Butch I carried a crush for her but never had the courage to tell her but I found reasons to be around her and we developed a good friendship. Yes butches and femmes can be friends. lol Then one day I got a text from her that absolutely made me sit down and read it like 5 times to make sure I was not seeing things. "Hi and why don't you flirt with me btw". FYI femmes sometimes you have to hit us with a 2x4 for us to figure out your crushing on us. From that second on I concentrated on only her and by doing so I was rewarded with the best relationship I have ever had. Simply because she sees ME, All of Me. I still find at least one thing about her everyday that renews the crush making the actual relationship much stronger. There is communication and lust on both parts. This is a good thing because for me lust, communication, and crush feelings lead to one beautiful strong RT relationship. Oh and did I say she knows all about how I feel. :wine:

Now that I am no longer single I still get my innocent crushes on people her at BFP and I would not trade my bro crushes for anything except of course for more time with the femme that saw me.

Sorry Mr. Nice Guy I still will NOT reveal her name. I am old school that way, I do not kiss and tell and she appreciates Me for it!

Have a wonderful weekend....now back to the exciting world of crushes.
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Hmmm... Right now I'm not really crushing on anyone but I look forward to when that will happen again. It's so fun!

This reminds me of some of the questions I used to get asked in maths class when I was a young (and very well-behaved) child i.e. kind of "if you take two crushers crushing on a crushee and the crushee is a crusher on three crushees, how many crushers and crushees are there in total?" :confused:


I don't know if it means she is crushing on you or not. However, I do know that, second only to the ability to cook an excellent lasagne, the willingness to do my laundry (and other housekeeping) is high on the list of what I look for in a lady.

She could lack personality (well, I do too so evens itself out), not look particularly attractive and I may not be turned on by her sexually ... but if she's happy to do my laundry, I'd probably be happy enough to make out with her, even if I have to close my eyes :blush:

Crushes? Hmmmmm ...... I think I'm way pass that stage of the game. I'm more of a rt person. I like to take my time and get to know the person, I hate surprises ... lol.

I am so with you on that, Nice Guy. I can blush just thinking about someone I'm crushin'. (talk about dork!):blush:

I don't have a crush but I DO think someone is really attractive from the looks of their photos in the gallery. :blush:

I gasped in horror as I read this as it sent bolts of shock through my laundry-loving system. :laundryday:
LoL!

<<<<< Already pondering what next weeks pizza will be lmao

After many years of limp performance between the sheets, it's been my long-term dream to send bolts of shock through the system of an attractive lady. Alas, I wasn't hoping for it to be the case in these precise circumstances ..... it's true what they say - the world does work in mysterious ways.

Tell you one thing, the next time that I pray for a dream to come true, I'll be a bit more literal.

Why am i getting butterflies right now thinking of this certain butch coming over to help with my laundry. Actually, she is bringing her laundry too. So not actually helping me as much as keeping me company while she does hers as well. She will be lifting the heavy things though so yes that in itself is a big help.

I am nervous. Hahahah, laughing because no butch ever makes me nervous.I am always the one standing there looking into their eyes while they are getting shy and turning red and looking away. Seldom can a butch keep eye contact with me when they first meet me. Seems i have been told my eyes are too intense to look at when first meeting me. So for me to be nervous right now is making me laugh, well in a nervous kind of laughing kind of way.

I think i am gonna puke now. LOL :seeingstars:

Wish me luck. :laundryday:

Oh and....

I am now crushing on 2 planet butches and 2 planet femmes tee hee:blush:

Okay all of ya'll spill the beans... enquiring minds want to know.....

But Ciaran, dear, you made no mention of an attractive lady in your scenario. You spoke of one not particularly attractive but whom you'd snog, tightly-lidded, were she a willing taker of your sweaty vests, stiff socks and skid-marked knickers. (I did indeed take a liberty there!)

I only take issue with this because me being such the lover of all things freshly stacked on the bed, and a proud domestic goddess, I would say your standard in seeking a spic-and-span oriented companion/housekeeper-with-benefits, may prove to be too narrow. We, the alluring head-of-household-type are a rare breed, but we do exist. You may want to broaden your scope, branch out a bit dear, explore their native habitat more closely, maybe? (Pack plenty of water...cologne is not suggested.)

And, I have found it best to ask for exactly what I want in prayer. :praying:
Good thing is that even when you get results you may not have been expecting on the first try, simply try, try again. Seems as though someone up there has quite the sense of humor.
~Bleu


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Supermam Underoos are not embarrassing, just so you know. :)

It's ok Alix, you can keep your secret. I'm just happy to see all the Crushers crushing. :)