Ah, the first scenario was essentially an example of my practical approach to all things. Whilst I'm a natural romantic at heart, I'm also practical so, until my dream woman who combines sexual allure with high domestic skills, I'm prepared to compromise around the edges i.e. a woman with sexual allure (in which case, I'll order take-away food and go to launderette) or a domestic queen, in which case I'll just lie back and think of England or, in my case, Ireland.



I've just prayed again :praying:

I've asked God to grant me the ability to take a woman to heights she's never previously experienced. I was confident God would answer my prayers and he already has. Alas, it's that I've remembered that I'm bringing a friend to Mount Lyell in Yosemite later in the year :blush:

But is the friend a celestial domestic being sublimely combining skill, poise and prowess? I suppose being on an adventure at Yosemite, her domestic talents might matter not, more on the lines of hunting and gathering, fire pit skills and wound care. And certainly the 13,000 ft that Mt. Lyell boasts might certainly be a new height...unless she's a sherpa. (Sherpas often have such baggage.) LOL!:eyebat:If so, you may have to work a little harder.

Just remember the air thins out quite a bit at the elevation.

[nomedia="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zq9dDlxeRLc"]U2 - Elevation - YouTube[/nomedia]

~Bleu

:carride:Have a fun trip!

ps: I'll pray again too, for good measure. :praying:

No, I don't have a crush on anyone here—and I would admit it, even though I live with someone. I do of course have my many "femme crushes," and I feel like I'm starting to have friendships here, or some cyber equivalent to what a friendship can be.

Um. You've given me quite a lot to consider. Two things in particular. The first is what I'm looking for in a femme. Until now, I was under the impression that it was just sex appeal and highly skilled domestic abilities. Unfortunately, I now realise that I also need someone who can do the manual work and, importantly, protect me from bugs and insects and such like. For example, as a metrosexual, I cannot risk damaging my nails by helping to erect a tent or to carrying heavy loads. No way.

My ideal femme will hopefully do all of that stuff .... I don't believe in rigid gender sterotypes where the "guy" does all the heavy work and the "girl" does all the other chores. I'm simply happy for the girl to do all of it.

The second thing is more of a concern - whether I'll be able to "put up" in the heightened altitude. If I don't have the physical stamina, I'll need to either a) disappoint or b) feign a headache.



Bleu - your prayers are much appreciated.

I've just said another prayer to God where I've asked him to bring me a woman who is a "looker". However, I've a really strong Northern Irish accent so I'm now concerned that he thinks I want a women who is a "lurker". Time will tell .......

Even Plato, in his Republic, was an early proponent of the division of labor...
*sigh* More prayer might be in order. :praying:

Hmmm....Not a crush but perhaps a mild interest.

Yes, but Plato was Greek and look how their economy has turned out - there's very little labor there to be divided up ..... :vigil:

I'm definitely in favour of more prayer so if you can say one or two (or ten) prayers for me, that would be much appreciated. I've sometimes been told that alms can work very well in lieu of prayer. Therefore, if you would like to give some alms too, please let me know and I'll send you my paypal address.

yep. he's a dog, that one. but i love dogs. damn my naive idiot girl brain. i love dogs. :dog:

awww! i didnt know you were crushing on ME! i knew there was a reason i liked you!

Hi Crushers, hope your day turns out to be a good one. Who's Ivan?

sorry Julien. i was desperate for someone to crush on me. i'm a sad and pathetic person. :| please pity me. :help:

minus 3000 points to you for not knowing about one of the only culturally available butch or trans icons for femmes to crush on.




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Well that's ok. I have enough points to go around. :) besides I don't look at Butches and I'm not Femme so maybe I'm just out of the loop. Or just old. :)

as a butch it is your sacred DUTY to insist on butch and trans icons for your femme friends to crush on! you're all surrounded by a cazillion examples of femme to crush on every day. femmes dont get the same luxury. so you all need to become famous so that we can google you, watch you on youtube and the telly and put posters of you up on our walls! be the new hot teen crush! or at least do a racy calendar for the older crowd will ya? all respect to chaz bono, bear bergman, jack halberstam, kd lang and leslie feinberg but they just arent enough to go around! we need more public representation of butch and trans guys to get all dreamy eyed over!

I don't have any Femme friends in my real life. It's never worked for me. Feelings can sometimes get in the way. I have Femme friends here and it's safe. No worries about another Butch getting jealous.

so that's a no on the calendar thing then?

Well no, I'm always willing to meet anyone and be friends with anyone. I'm just always on guard until I know it's safe. Sheesh, it sounds like I'm afraid of Femmes. Lol

:4femme:

hello! did you not see my "racy calendar" request? enough with the feelings. are you gonna produce some scandalous pics or not?

oy!

Oh now that's funny. I've sort of done that on another B-F site years ago. Now I'm the one looking for scandelous pics. So where's yours? ;) Heck I think all the Femmes should post sexy pics. A Butch needs to perv you know.

I totally agree with you. Where are those sexy femme pics???

I guess you better take my three points away as well. I had no idea..

You don't need us on youtube or google. You have us all right here and there are many many many to choose from.. I'm just sayin.

Hey Sleepy, glad you agree and I'm glad I'm not the only Butch who didn't know Ivan.

Still have no clue.. lol.. but I didn't look at the youtube videos either... sooo.

Me neither. But if it was a hot Femme video that would be a different story. ;)

Ivan Coyote :countpetal: :heartbeat:

i'm crushin on my friends in Amherst who surprised me today by inviting me to stay with them indefinitely while i take care of business. thanks be to all that's sacred, i can get out of the damn car for a while!

That's awesome!! Now you can hang and crush more. :)

For the record... I had to google Ivan. No idea.

nah. one crush is all i can handle! :drool:

Another person who didn't know Ivan. Yahoo! I think I'm getting my points back. :)

Now I bet if Ivan Coyote was a femme putting youtube video's out there you would know all about it! lol

Wow, that means minus maybe 4000 points for me? Gee, where have I been. Thanks for my new Iconic Crush! *drools quietly*

Wolfie - my heart skips a beat when I see you getting all dominant like that .....
:blush: