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JustLovelyJenn 09-10-2016 10:41 AM

Good Morning Singles!!!

I hope you have fun weekend plans!!

This is my weekend home with the kids... as I have plans the next three weekends in a row.

*drops off gluten free muffins and juice for everyone*

Rugged 09-10-2016 05:36 PM

Happy Saturday night Singles
 
How's everyone doing?
I have another 3 day weekend to do nothing lol
My brother and his wife asked me if I wanted
To go see "When the bough breaks" with them.
I want to see it, but not with them. Might go alone tomorrow
Hope everyone is doing great

Mel C. 09-11-2016 06:02 PM

Alas, there was no love connection today. Maybe next time.

Gemme 09-11-2016 06:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 1091897)
Alas, there was no love connection today. Maybe next time.

That's too bad. Her loss, absolutely! Don't forget that I love and adore you, boo. You have a fan in me.

:waitinggirl:

clay 09-11-2016 09:29 PM

Evening all you beautiful folks!!!

Hope your evening is a pleasant one & you have sweet dreams tonight.
Good night all...

Zimmeh 09-11-2016 09:59 PM

Today has been a crazy day for me! I worked nearly nine hours and it is September 11th. This is one time in my life that I still get upset. Fifteen years later, my heart goes out to the families of everyone who lost a loved one and to the New York Police Dept, Fire Department and the city itself.

Night Everyone!

#gonebutnotforgotten

Zimmeh

Zimmeh 09-11-2016 10:04 PM

Mel,

You are an awesome person and do not settle for second best. Remember my jokingly advice about a requested second date. The second Tuesday of next week :)


Zimmeh


Quote:

Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 1091897)
Alas, there was no love connection today. Maybe next time.


Zimmeh 09-12-2016 05:33 AM

Today is a light breakfast since I am off. I am enjoying a cup of Yoplait yogurt and Sumatra coffee. I am going to see my mom today and I need to do laundry.

Might find a movie on Turner Classic Movie channel.

Zimmeh

Gemme 09-12-2016 05:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zimmeh (Post 1092040)
Today is a light breakfast since I am off. I am enjoying a cup of Yoplait yogurt and Sumatra coffee. I am going to see my mom today and I need to do laundry.

Might find a movie on Turner Classic Movie channel.

Zimmeh

Good for you! Days off are nice.

Funny thing; my store's number has been posted online and given out by TMC as a customer service number so I get at least a couple calls per month when someone's not happy with the movies chosen for the channel.

So, if you have issues and they give you a number that's not local and not an 800/888/866 number, that's probably me.

:blink:

Rugged 09-13-2016 04:05 PM

Evening singles.....
 
Had a "not so good" day
After running into my ex
And her girlfriend.... They were all smiles
And looked very happy as we once did.
It's been over a year and I was
Doing fine. Why am I bothered by this???
Ughhhh heartbreak sucks

JustLovelyJenn 09-13-2016 04:53 PM

Question singles...

Do any of you ever feel like maybe its something about you... that keeps you at that single status... like somehow... you are not wanted... and don't fit?

Gráinne 09-13-2016 05:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn (Post 1092544)
Question singles...

Do any of you ever feel like maybe its something about you... that keeps you at that single status... like somehow... you are not wanted... and don't fit?

I do, and sometimes it sucks, but most of the time I don't want to fit :). It would be nice to be wanted, but I won't settle.

Rugged 09-13-2016 05:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn (Post 1092544)
Question singles...

Do any of you ever feel like maybe its something about you... that keeps you at that single status... like somehow... you are not wanted... and don't fit?

Sometimes, I feel like it's the energy I am giving off..
I try to stay positive and hope that love finds me.....
Other times my energy is so bad, it's like there is
A sign that says "don't even try it".
I don't know. But these days I won't allow myself
To let anyone get close enough, especially if I can
Smell BS a mile away "shrug"

Mel C. 09-13-2016 06:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn (Post 1092544)
Question singles...

Do any of you ever feel like maybe its something about you... that keeps you at that single status... like somehow... you are not wanted... and don't fit?

Yep.......

ferret 09-13-2016 07:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 1092603)
Yep.......

I'm always wondering what's wrong wIth me or if I'm....defective somehow. Makes me not want to put myself out there to only get rejected.

Sue

ferret 09-13-2016 07:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn (Post 1092544)
Question singles...

Do any of you ever feel like maybe its something about you... that keeps you at that single status... like somehow... you are not wanted... and don't fit?

All the time. It makes me feel like I'm "defective" somehow. Makes me not want to put myself out there to only get rejected. Maybe being single isn't such a bad thing.

Sue

JustLovelyJenn 09-13-2016 07:32 PM

Glad its not just me...

homoe 09-13-2016 07:33 PM

Putting myself out there with the possibilities of facing rejection hasn't ever really bothered me! Having been in a long term committed relationship, I know how much work a relationship takes and I guess unless I'm not fully committed to putting in the work, I shouldn't even consider a relationship.

Gemme 09-13-2016 08:46 PM

I'm at a point where I'm good either way. I'm good by myself, although I would like to have more friends and family nearby to do stuff and socialize and to stop me from buying excessive quantities of craft stuff, and I would be fine in a relationship too.

But it's not a need. I'm content with myself.

That's come with age. The older I get, the less tolerable I am of crap and that's the handoff....you get less to work with if you hold yourself and others to a higher standard....BUT the ones you get (if you're doing it right) will be of higher caliber and much better for you.



Zimmeh 09-13-2016 10:47 PM

Some people cannot handle me. I have found that Imgive up a part of myself in a relationship and I get taken for a ride. When I make this known, most but he's just stop talking to me. I am fed up with but he's and so called friends being fake. I am to old to play mind games. What really pisses me off is how a butch will look at me as if I am not good enough, because I am heavy.


Zimmeh


Quote:

Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn (Post 1092544)
Question singles...

Do any of you ever feel like maybe its something about you... that keeps you at that single status... like somehow... you are not wanted... and don't fit?


Mel C. 09-14-2016 09:27 PM

So...on-line dating site lady and I are both attending a dance Saturday. No, it isn't a date. Details to follow (maybe).

clay 09-15-2016 01:06 PM

hello all you wonderful singulars!
Have a great evening...
Stop by & say hi to me, sometime, too!

ferret 09-15-2016 01:44 PM

I think I'd actually faint if I was asked out, and the whole online experience has been awful. I think I'm a good person who has a lot to offer, but no one wants to stick around to find out. Being single by choice is looking better all the time.

Sue

JustLovelyJenn 09-15-2016 08:40 PM

Hi singles!!!

*leaves a bouquet of roses for everyone to enjoy*

Zimmeh 09-16-2016 05:56 AM

Hope you all have a good Friday. After reading my previous post, I realized that I am not allowed to respond to a post after 11p.

I am off this weekend and I only need to go grocery shopping.

Zimmeh

Rugged 09-16-2016 08:20 AM

It's Friday!
 
Anyone have any special weekend plans???
I don't, lol I'll probably be working.
I kinda miss the date planning and getting ready and
All that other stuff. But, I'll be rested and ready when the right
One finally decides to show her face...

Cheers to the weekend!!!

clay 09-16-2016 08:34 AM

Morning everyone!
Is a gorgeous, sunny bright blue skied day here.
I am going out in a while on errands.
I was in the pool under that big bright full moon last evening....water temp was a refreshing 82 degrees...it felt amazing. I may do more night time pool forays...:)
Wishing everyone an awesome weekend....fun times...and may someone light you all up inside....:)

quietly leaves...leaving pot of Pumpkin Latte & pumpkin donuts....:)

Mel C. 09-16-2016 09:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rugged (Post 1093277)
Anyone have any special weekend plans???
I don't, lol I'll probably be working.
I kinda miss the date planning and getting ready and
All that other stuff. But, I'll be rested and ready when the right
One finally decides to show her face...

Cheers to the weekend!!!

I'm going to a women's dance with the woman I went miniature golfing with last weekend. Although there was no love connection, we do have a lot in common so it will hopefully be a nice evening out.

Nattih 09-16-2016 04:01 PM

I watched some romantic snap chats knowing FULL WELL that it was gonna cause me to feel bad. But I did it anyway like a butt head. Now I feel bad and I have no one to blame but myself. Clearly I like this merry go round of emotions lol.

clay 09-16-2016 09:24 PM

evening singles!!!

I had a full on, busy day! But was a good day.
I did get in my pool tonight...a big fat harvest moon....so I should sleep well tonight, for sure!!!

Have sweet dreams all of you.....leaving some SleepyTime hot tea....zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Zimmeh 09-17-2016 06:05 AM

I am offthiweekend. My only plans are to help my family and go grocery store. Tomorrow, I have no plans at all!

I to miss planning a date with my boo and or just doing something spontaneous.

Zimmeh


Quote:

Originally Posted by Rugged (Post 1093277)
Anyone have any special weekend plans???
I don't, lol I'll probably be working.
I kinda miss the date planning and getting ready and
All that other stuff. But, I'll be rested and ready when the right
One finally decides to show her face...

Cheers to the weekend!!!


Mel C. 09-18-2016 10:32 AM

I had a nice time at the dance last night. I knew a few people which always helps me feel more comfortable. The woman from the on-line dating site met me there (she wanted to drive together and I politely declined because that feels more like a "date" to me). She talked my ear off so I finally asked her to dance to make her hush for a few minutes. No, it still wasn't a date. There was a lovely femme there, but she had a gaggle of people around her so I couldn't get anywhere near her. Not that I would have done anything if I could get near her but a butch can dream, right?

Zimmeh 09-18-2016 03:04 PM

I am happy that you had a good time at the dance! You never know, that cute little femme might be on here. One day, we all will meet our significant other.

Zimmeh

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 1094192)
I had a nice time at the dance last night. I knew a few people which always helps me feel more comfortable. The woman from the on-line dating site met me there (she wanted to drive together and I politely declined because that feels more like a "date" to me). She talked my ear off so I finally asked her to dance to make her hush for a few minutes. No, it still wasn't a date. There was a lovely femme there, but she had a gaggle of people around her so I couldn't get anywhere near her. Not that I would have done anything if I could get near her but a butch can dream, right?


LoyalWolfsBlade 09-19-2016 03:10 AM

Just stopping by to say hi to all the singles out there.....
Have a great week
The only immediate plans I have is to hook up with the person haunting my dreams if I can get to sleep that is...would be nice to put a face to that kind of energy....

clay 09-19-2016 06:41 AM

Wishing everyone a great Monday morning!

Hoping the week will be a fantastic one & each of you get lots of warm smiles...winks..flirts...& general goodness..

Up & at'em...:)

Zimmeh 09-20-2016 06:58 AM

Good Morning Everyone,

It has been a very busy last few days. I got home from work last night and this hellacious rash from my scrubs is back. I need to find cotton based scrubs, these polyester blend ones are causing me to have an allergic reaction!

This morning it's Potatoes O'Brien and Starbucks Anniversary Blend.

Enjoy!

Zimmeh

Mel C. 09-20-2016 03:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zimmeh (Post 1094566)
Good Morning Everyone,

It has been a very busy last few days. I got home from work last night and this hellacious rash from my scrubs is back. I need to find cotton based scrubs, these polyester blend ones are causing me to have an allergic reaction!

This morning it's Potatoes O'Brien and Starbucks Anniversary Blend.

Enjoy!

Zimmeh

Are you sure it's the scrubs?

Mel <=== wondering if you've been fooling around in the poison ivy

JustLovelyJenn 09-20-2016 04:56 PM

I am pretty sure one of the drag kings was flirting with me at the show this last weekend... I really enjoyed it!!

Zimmeh 09-20-2016 10:10 PM

I had a nurse look at it. It's only on the inside of my ankles. It's broken small capillaries from my legs swelling up. I need to visit a doctor and purchase some compression socks :( Getting old is for the birds! I just want to be a Toys R Us girl for life :)

Thank you for asking about me!

Zimmeh

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 1094656)
Are you sure it's the scrubs?

Mel <=== wondering if you've been fooling around in the poison ivy


Zimmeh 09-24-2016 06:05 AM

Good Morning Everyone!

Hope you all have a good Saturday. I am working this weekend and then I am off on Monday. I enjoyed a plain bagel thin with whipped cream cheese, Yoplait yogurt and Starbucks Sumatra coffee.

Zimmeh


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