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kittygrrl 03-22-2013 04:15 PM

kiss often

TheMerryFairy 03-22-2013 04:17 PM

Respect and be attentive!

StrongButch 03-22-2013 05:12 PM

Do
 
Trust her and show her you love her dont just say it.

kittygrrl 03-23-2013 02:44 PM

keep your eyes on him/her

Daktari 03-23-2013 02:46 PM

Keep yer own metaphorical house clean first and foremost.

kittygrrl 03-23-2013 02:51 PM

Daktari
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Daktari (Post 772178)
Keep yer own metaphorical house clean first and foremost.

Interesting..care to explain?

Ascot 03-23-2013 04:04 PM

Savor her.

TheMerryFairy 03-23-2013 04:07 PM

Remember to take time for each of you and to savor the time you get to spend together :)

ONLY 03-23-2013 04:48 PM

Put love notes on her pillow......

Sweet Bliss 03-25-2013 07:37 AM

Remember to say I love you BECAUSE and ALSO.... "I like you." followed by WHY you like them.....

Ascot 03-25-2013 09:18 AM

Celebrate each others foibles. Try to keep sight of the notion that part of your initial attraction was that her quirkiness is unlike anyone else's.

Amante 03-25-2013 10:10 AM

Make the little extra effort every single day:

Daktari 03-25-2013 10:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kittygrrl (Post 772181)
Interesting..care to explain?

I'm more interested to know your interpretation of it; everyone's is so different.

Miss Scarlett 03-25-2013 10:44 AM

Laugh and just have some crazy/silly fun together and often!!! :frog:

girl_dee 04-04-2013 05:06 AM

Imagine being in the other person's shoes.

Gráinne 04-04-2013 06:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Daktari (Post 773096)
I'm more interested to know your interpretation of it; everyone's is so different.

Here's mine:

*If you have areas where you are irresponsible, change this. I believe your irresponsibility affects your partner, too, even if you don't merge lives.

*Get real with, and deal with, addiction.

*If you have issues from the past, work on resolving these before you get too involved with someone new.

*Essentially, get yourself as emotionally, spiritually, and physically healthy as you can be, then stay that way. Don't look for a partner to "fix" you.

Was I even close?

midwest chick 04-04-2013 06:44 AM

play and romp like puppies and kittens

growling and romping without biting hard or taking it too seriously

deathbypoem 09-02-2013 11:12 AM

Cherish all of the memories, reminisce about them (with each other) often.

LadyApples 09-02-2013 11:39 AM

Typical answers, but for the love of cake, communicate and respect one another's space.

Amante, I love that StoryCorps animation! The rest of the series is also wonderful, but Danny and Annie's story was so touching. <3

Nic 09-02-2013 12:12 PM

If you're mad, hold hands.
 
My wife and I used to hold hands when we were mad at each other. There was a time or two that I thought she was only holding my hand to keep herself from slapping me, so maybe it was worth the effort in the end. Holding hands when you argue makes it hard to disconnect from each another and it makes it hard to escalate too. We took space when we needed it but I swear holding hands when you're mad is the secret to successful marriage.


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