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Sweet Bliss 09-02-2013 12:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Daktari (Post 772178)
Keep yer own metaphorical house clean first and foremost.
Would like to read how you accomplish this order.

Chad 09-02-2013 05:56 PM
Relationships
 
Hi,

I have not been that successful in relationships but I have a couple ideas that I believe in.

Be respectful toward your partner, be honest, be intimate, communicate, and have fun. There is something about laughing together that makes me feel connected to her.

Chad
My two cents :)

deathbypoem 09-03-2013 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted by Nic (Post 840527)
My wife and I used to hold hands when we were mad at each other. There was a time or two that I thought she was only holding my hand to keep herself from slapping me, so maybe it was worth the effort in the end. Holding hands when you argue makes it hard to disconnect from each another and it makes it hard to escalate too. We took space when we needed it but I swear holding hands when you're mad is the secret to successful marriage.
So very true. Actually, I read something about this in a magazine recently. Love this idea. It works.

peachy 09-03-2013 11:05 AM
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Originally Posted by deathbypoem (Post 840750)
So very true. Actually, I read something about this in a magazine recently. Love this idea. It works.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Nic (Post 840527)
My wife and I used to hold hands when we were mad at each other. There was a time or two that I thought she was only holding my hand to keep herself from slapping me, so maybe it was worth the effort in the end. Holding hands when you argue makes it hard to disconnect from each another and it makes it hard to escalate too. We took space when we needed it but I swear holding hands when you're mad is the secret to successful marriage.
That's sweet. I love that. I used to argue a lot with my ex husband. One day when we were both really mad with each other I just slapped him on the backside and he slapped me back on mine. It's impossible to stay angry with someone when you have smacked each other on the bum. It's too ridiculous. Plus it releases the pent up frustration. Don't think that would be for everyone but it worked for us.

We're both quite hot headed and often when we argue now and it gets heated and shouting we just stop and hug and say sorry. Years ago it might be 2 days before it would get to making up hug but now it's usually within about a minute. That's something that has come with knowing each other a long time and knowing we're as bad as each other and that we care about each other regardless of emotional outbursts.

Blade 09-23-2013 05:03 PM
Be respectful, even when having a fuss

ONLY 09-23-2013 05:48 PM
WHEN SHE COMES TO VISIT......
Have flowers in the bedroom .......
Have some of her favorite foods and wine in the fridge, in the cupboard......
Have fresh sheets on the bed.......


When you kiss her, kiss her like she is meant to be kissed......
Love her as she is meant to be loved........
Remind her how beautiful she is, especially on those days that she is having a rough day....

I know I want to hold her all the time and not let her go but make sure you hold her first thing in the morning and last thing at night.....

Alright enough for now, *sigh* missing my girl (f) even more so now.....but hope to see her in a couple of weeks ....... I love you SS (f) xo

Bèsame* 09-23-2013 07:16 PM
Be this ...
 

RockOn 09-23-2013 09:34 PM
honest
honest
honest

And by the way, omitting things/parts is a form of deception. I call it exactly what it is ... which is lying.

Canela 09-23-2013 09:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Brock (Post 847584)
honest
honest
honest

And by the way, omitting things/parts is a form of deception. I call it exactly what it is ... which is lying.
Totally agree.

Blade 09-24-2013 04:14 PM
Listen ie pay attention

Miss Scarlett 09-24-2013 05:37 PM
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Originally Posted by girl_dee (Post 319533)
Meet someone before you commit to a lifetime. Online is only half the story.
Yes! But sometimes it's not even the tip of the iceberg.

And let me add this...really get to know each other well before making any sort of serious commitment.

After much discussion, my Beau and I decided to take things very slow. As my relationship status indicates, we're "going steady." And we're both loving this time of courtship. This may not be for everyone but it's working well for us.

RockOn 09-24-2013 07:20 PM
responding to Nic's post
 
Must add, I love Nic's post also. It is great.

Thanks for sharing it!

Nat 09-24-2013 09:51 PM
Call me, ask me what I would do, then do the opposite. :)

Miss Scarlett 09-27-2013 09:00 PM
Always have time for each other, even if it's brief...

Leigh 09-27-2013 11:09 PM
Don't promise forever unless you can back it up and will actually spend a lifetime with that person

Katniss 09-28-2013 12:46 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Brock (Post 847584)
honest
honest
honest

And by the way, omitting things/parts is a form of deception. I call it exactly what it is ... which is lying.

How many times can I rep the above post? Seriously. None of this "I lied out of love or to spare your feelings" cr@p either. What that usually means is you are justifying your own misbehavior. At the very least you don't respect me enough to think I can handle my own emotions and make my own decisions based on the truth. Liars are just manipulators who haven't grown up enough to be in adult relationships. Give me hard truth any day because we can build something solid on that.

Katniss~~

JAGG 09-28-2013 07:26 AM
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Originally Posted by Katniss (Post 848633)
How many times can I rep the above post? Seriously. None of this "I lied out of love or to spare your feelings" cr@p either. What that usually means is you are justifying your own misbehavior. At the very least you don't respect me enough to think I can handle my own emotions and make my own decisions based on the truth. Liars are just manipulators who haven't grown up enough to be in adult relationships. Give me hard truth any day because we can build something solid on that.

Katniss~~
You took the words right out of my mouth !!! AMEN !!!

Miss Scarlett 09-28-2013 08:06 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Brock (Post 847584)
honest
honest
honest

And by the way, omitting things/parts is a form of deception. I call it exactly what it is ... which is lying.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Katniss (Post 848633)
How many times can I rep the above post? Seriously. None of this "I lied out of love or to spare your feelings" cr@p either. What that usually means is you are justifying your own misbehavior. At the very least you don't respect me enough to think I can handle my own emotions and make my own decisions based on the truth. Liars are just manipulators who haven't grown up enough to be in adult relationships. Give me hard truth any day because we can build something solid on that.

Katniss~~
Quote:
Originally Posted by JAGG (Post 848662)
You took the words right out of my mouth !!! AMEN !!!
Mine too!

I'd rather be hurt with the truth than be betrayed by lies.

If someone doesn't love me enough to be truthful, they really don't (or never did) love me at all.

Scots_On_The_Rocks 09-28-2013 09:57 AM
Be willing to make her coffee and bring it to her in bed...the rewards for this are countless :D

Sweet Bliss 09-30-2013 10:07 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Brock (Post 847584)
honest
honest
honest

And by the way, omitting things/parts is a form of deception. I call it exactly what it is ... which is lying.
CIJS here ... bull crap, bull crap, bull crap.


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