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always2late 06-16-2012 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by ~ocean (Post 602859)
blah blah blah blah blahhhhhhh .. just come right out and say it .. do it... make ur point known .. then get romantic , flirtacious , sexy , and most of all honest ~~~

I agree! Nothing ventured, nothing gained...just think, if you take the direct approach, you could save yourself all the time you are going to be spending hoping, wishing, dreaming. Let her/him/hym know how you feel! What's the worst that could happen? An "I'm flattered but no thanks"?? Who knows? The object of your crush may also be crushing on you...and it might lead to something wonderful...or it might fizzle out. But for me, even if it fizzled it would be infinitely better than never taking the chance at all.

Little Fish 06-16-2012 02:32 PM

Wow !
 
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Originally Posted by Mr Nice Guy (Post 602857)
Give me a second to catch up and then I'll open mouth and insert foot. Lol:)

Bro, your boots are awesome !

Mr Nice Guy 06-16-2012 02:33 PM

That's right people!! Shout it out or just tell me. I'm good at keeping secrets. ;)

Dean Thoreau 06-16-2012 03:09 PM

hell my foot has been in my mouth so many times i just keep spaghetti sauce on the shoe laces :glasses:

that said i am so crushed out on elsbeth, have been for so many years....but alas our friendship is, and always will be a very cherished treasure; :rrose:

Ciaran 06-16-2012 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by always2late (Post 602872)
I agree! Nothing ventured, nothing gained...just think, if you take the direct approach, you could save yourself all the time you are going to be spending hoping, wishing, dreaming. Let her/him/hym know how you feel! What's the worst that could happen? An "I'm flattered but no thanks"?? Who knows? The object of your crush may also be crushing on you...and it might lead to something wonderful...or it might fizzle out. But for me, even if it fizzled it would be infinitely better than never taking the chance at all.

Understand this but, at the same time, a crush is just a crush. Unless getting together is practically possible, then, well, it's just a crush. No need to be taking anything forward, nor to confess undying love for someone you may only know from a few internet posts.

Just my take on things.


ps - I am looking for a wife. Ideally, she will look like Joan Colllins, live like Sue Ellen and make lasagne like Martha Stewart can. All applications welcome.

Ginger 06-16-2012 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Dean Thoreau (Post 602887)
hell my foot has been in my mouth so many times i just keep spaghetti sauce on the shoe laces :glasses:

that said i am so crushed out on elsbeth, have been for so many years....but alas our friendship is, and always will be a very cherished treasure; :rrose:


Funny and sweet! I hope someone discovers you soon.

Ginger 06-16-2012 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Ciaran (Post 602890)
Understand this but, at the same time, a crush is just a crush. Unless getting together is practically possible, then, well, it's just a crush. No need to be taking anything forward, nor to confess undying love for someone you may only know from a few internet posts.

Just my take on things.


ps - I am looking for a wife. Ideally, she will look like Joan Colllins, live like Sue Ellen and make lasagne like Martha Stewart can. All applications welcome.


Very wise, Ciaran! Meeting in person is indeed a different experience than the 2D best-foot-forward of Internet interactions, though I have to say, in the real time of IMs, and I guess skyping though I've never done that, I've experienced a level of authenticity that really touched me.


And PS, your composite fantasy-wife sounds awesome!

Ginger 06-16-2012 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Julien (Post 602791)

I never thought that I would want to take notes in class again, but this is a something I want to know all the nuances. Just a question, why do you think that most of us "project" a sense of toughness and a "stern task master facade"? I see myself as rather reserved on the outside and kink underneath it all. Well at least that's what I've been told and I do identify with that assessment.



Good point, Julien—perhaps I generalized on too narrow a base of evidence—I was just talking about photos, which IMO are often, but not always, very serious—a quality I find appealing.

I have also, I admit, done a certain amount of intelligence gathering :) over time. Single or partnered, looking or not, my appreciation of and delight in butch women never wanes.

**************

In my family, people show affection by dryly teasing each other, and that's how I show someone I like them, and it's also how I flirt.

I don't, btw, assume that's a femme-trait at all. A butch who catches on to me and teases me (gently), about the things she sees that others miss, really zings me right in the heart.

Flirting is most productive IMO, when people have some kind of aesthetic common ground, in the way they communicate.

Bonus point for question asked! Now I have to think of my own questions...

Mr Nice Guy 06-16-2012 04:01 PM

Hmmm. Is all I have to say. My mouth is full. Lol

cinnamongrrl 06-16-2012 04:21 PM

ohhhh do i EVER have a crush ;)

Teddybear 06-16-2012 05:40 PM

its more then a crush here and its going to STAY that way

Mr Nice Guy 06-16-2012 05:46 PM

I think this is so friggin cute. I'm glad this is my guilty pleasure. :)

miss entycing 06-16-2012 08:24 PM

and the winner is.........
 
absolutely, i am crushing.
wait for it............


bam! i'm diggin the hell outta the smiley below.

dont even get me started on the smirk... oh, the snap of that wrist dont hurt none either.
:whip: :whip:
in fact, i'll take 2 please.

gee i wonder if anyone i know won the bet on who the winner was?
:thinking:

DamonK 06-16-2012 11:57 PM

Why yes...

Yes I do....

A Bear and a girl hold my heart.

Two others I've had the honor of knowing for years.

And one I've admired from afar. Now I admire openly.

Yay baby.

LoyalWolfsBlade 06-17-2012 01:42 AM

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Originally Posted by IslandScout (Post 602564)
So Alex, as the Planet's self-appointed Flirtologist, I'm just wondering—

since you "never tell" when you have a crush, how exactly does the lucky recipient of your attentions ever know she has caught your eye?

If you don't use words, do you perhaps use body language?

I think there are a number of ladies on the thread who would enjoy your description of what that might look like.

Only if you feel like sharing, of course.

Scout

First I must admit I had to get a private message from somebody to tell me about your post Scout sorry I have been a tad busy lately.

Well know if it is a full blown crush and not me being nice or just flirting I of course send her a respectful private message. That way no body is embarrassed in case she has her eye on someone else. Now the flirting can lead to a crush. However I only go public with what the femme is comfortable with.

Usually if I am interested in someone she is given my yahoo and I let her know she can reach me there anytime she wants. That way the decision is hers now if she gives me hers in return I of course make the first move of friending her. Then it just goes from there. All this takes time and with my screwy schedule it can be difficult to foster that crush into something long lasting in rt because that is always my goal. Something in real time.


Little Fish 06-17-2012 02:02 AM

So wait a minute...
 
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Originally Posted by Alix67 (Post 603068)
usually if I am interested in someone she is given my yahoo

Alix, is that what we're calling it now?

LoyalWolfsBlade 06-17-2012 03:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Little Fish (Post 603071)
Alix, is that what we're calling it now?

Evidence that I really must edit my personal writing better but it made me laugh.

Mr Nice Guy 06-17-2012 04:52 AM

I'm going to have to keep bumping this thread to start the crushfest. :)

DamonK 06-17-2012 10:18 AM

The one that's on my mind...

Yeah...

Definitely...

LoyalWolfsBlade 06-17-2012 10:36 AM

Yeah definitely thinking I have a crush must be...since I woke up dreaming I was talking to her, the dream was so intense so real I had to lay there for a minute to realize I was dreaming.

The funny thing is this one did not follow my above answer. Proof that each femme is unique and life is better when it is not planned.


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