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lipstixgal 11-22-2010 09:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Daddy Raven (Post 232994)
It's a short week...let's get it over with, people. Happy Monday, singles!

Yes indeed it is work is taking a break Yeah!!

cuddlyfemme 11-22-2010 02:23 PM

Good Afternoon Singles! Monday is almost over! I hope everyone is having at least a decent day

MaggieBluIze 11-22-2010 02:52 PM

Busy but decent, yes ma'am ...

Looking forward to the end of day so I can head home to the kiddo! :)

A touch hesitant about Thanksgiving, first time single during holidays since I was 16, but that's okay ... I have so much to be thankful for!!!! :praying:

Have a great day!!!!!!!!!!!!!

((((hugs and love)))) to you all!!!!!!! :)

asphaltcowboi 11-22-2010 03:25 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 232935)


yeap.... my ACDC cup.. got it last yr for christmas from my darling daughter. even though i aleady had a favorite cup.. and one with a cute australian shepard on it...

i was put in a guilt trip on how come i dont use the cup I recieved for Christmas.. sooooooo ... here we are. lol

hey luv the cup too i have matching slippers!

asphaltcowboi 11-22-2010 03:27 PM

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Originally Posted by QueenofSmirks (Post 232931)
Good morning all :) It's going to be a cool day in Phoenix today (in the 60's). I'm not complaining... it's my first "winter" here and I'm loving it! :)

Have a great day all!

ok rub it in!! yes i willingly moved up here..

lipstixgal 11-22-2010 03:56 PM

I went to the doctor today again this time its an infection and wheezing so I'm on horsepills too. And medrol dosepack which is yucky for me because it makes you eat everything!! Hope everyone had a good day I'm tired and not sleeping well too but going to cook dinner anyway...

morningstar55 11-22-2010 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by cody (Post 233175)
hey luv the cup too i have matching slippers!

your kidding right?? ...... lol lol ...
slippers???? hmmm

DomnNC 11-22-2010 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal (Post 233209)
I went to the doctor today again this time its an infection and wheezing so I'm on horsepills too. And medrol dosepack which is yucky for me because it makes you eat everything!! Hope everyone had a good day I'm tired and not sleeping well too but going to cook dinner anyway...

Aww, hope you get to feeling better soon!

morningstar55 11-22-2010 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal (Post 233000)
Yes indeed it is work is taking a break Yeah!!

hope u get to feelin better......... here's some chicken soup.. :)

http://i166.photobucket.com/albums/u...icken-soup.jpg

asphaltcowboi 11-22-2010 06:57 PM

ok i have a serious question maybe some of the butches in here can help..
ok so the doc has limited my working out due to a hernia.. but says swimming laps would be ok.. now heres the question.. my gym has pretty strickt rules on what can be worn in the pool.. my old apts used to let me wear shorts and a beater but this place wont let me... so should i get a 2 piece suit? maybe in pink? lol im gona look like a drag queen either way with my big ole tatooed arms hanging out.. i guess just a black 1 piece speedo.. sheeez this is gona kill me. anyone know of any alternatives?

Zimmeh 11-22-2010 07:54 PM

Hope the babies are feeling much better. They love to make a mess for us to clean up. I remember when my mom's lab, Sheba, releived herself on my mom's tile floor. My mom came unglued, since the dog was nine years old. After a few minutes, my mom realized that she was having puppies, her male Yorkie had gotten the lab pregnant. Needless to say, those were some odd looking puppies, but very adorable.

Have a good night,

Zimmy

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Originally Posted by AtLastHome (Post 232962)
Morning! UGH, my dog and one of my cats woke me up at 5:30 because they were both sick. Why does this always happen when I have either just cleaned the carpet or washed all the bed clothes?


Zimmeh 11-22-2010 07:58 PM

Hey Cody,

I would try and reason with them. Maybe see if they will allow you to use the pool early in the morning or late at night. I cannot see why they would have a problem. Or you could see if there is a local YMCA if they won't; which would stink since you pay rent to live in the apartment complex.

Hope this helps and have a good night,

Zimmy

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Originally Posted by cody (Post 233400)
ok i have a serious question maybe some of the butches in here can help..
ok so the doc has limited my working out due to a hernia.. but says swimming laps would be ok.. now heres the question.. my gym has pretty strickt rules on what can be worn in the pool.. my old apts used to let me wear shorts and a beater but this place wont let me... so should i get a 2 piece suit? maybe in pink? lol im gona look like a drag queen either way with my big ole tatooed arms hanging out.. i guess just a black 1 piece speedo.. sheeez this is gona kill me. anyone know of any alternatives?


Sunny 11-22-2010 10:39 PM

Answer to your question
 
Go Commando! Bro!!!
Quote:

Originally Posted by cody (Post 233400)
ok i have a serious question maybe some of the butches in here can help..
ok so the doc has limited my working out due to a hernia.. but says swimming laps would be ok.. now heres the question.. my gym has pretty strickt rules on what can be worn in the pool.. my old apts used to let me wear shorts and a beater but this place wont let me... so should i get a 2 piece suit? maybe in pink? lol im gona look like a drag queen either way with my big ole tatooed arms hanging out.. i guess just a black 1 piece speedo.. sheeez this is gona kill me. anyone know of any alternatives?


Sunny 11-22-2010 10:43 PM

Sorry to hear .....
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by lipstixgal (Post 233209)
I went to the doctor today again this time its an infection and wheezing so I'm on horsepills too. And medrol dosepack which is yucky for me because it makes you eat everything!! Hope everyone had a good day I'm tired and not sleeping well too but going to cook dinner anyway...

Sorry to hear you are sick. Hope you feel better for the Holidays. I think you caught it from us here on the Singles site. Right through the wires LOl Or maybe you have been kissing some Butch........

Sunny 11-22-2010 10:50 PM

Maggieblu
 
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Originally Posted by MaggieBluIze (Post 233145)
Busy but decent, yes ma'am ...

Looking forward to the end of day so I can head home to the kiddo! :)

A touch hesitant about Thanksgiving, first time single during holidays since I was 16, but that's okay ... I have so much to be thankful for!!!! :praying:

Have a great day!!!!!!!!!!!!!

((((hugs and love)))) to you all!!!!!!! :)

I hear ya Maggie. This is the first time I will be single also. I will volunteer to be your surrogate Butch. So you are not single at least for the Holiday. What do ya think?

Sunny 11-22-2010 11:25 PM

I am back
 
Hello to my single family. I have been working like a dog. Now instead of working 9 hour days we get to work mandatory 10 hour days which leads easily into 11. We are salaried so I guess it is like free payroll.

Anyhow, I am still taking my horse pills. I missed one day. Hope it does not hurt me. Is there a nurse in the house????? Just sayin.....I think I need one. LOL

Went to Red Lobster over the weekend with friends. The portions are huge. I spent the majority of the evening trying to explain Butch/Femme dynamic to a non Femme/ Butch person. She just did not understand why the labels. She claims that I would be limiting myself to meeting someone that might have qualities I am looking for. I told her even though there were different degrees of Femmes. The energy is what I crave. The Femme energy brings my Butch energy out. It is like a drug. LOL I am not one for labels but I feel at home with my B/F community.

If there is any interest in meeting in the chat room on Thanksgiving Day, let me know. We can set up a time. Which leads to yes, a Thanksgiving story. Here we go.... My Mother would make the most delicious stuffing for Thanksgiving. Of course she would put sausage in the stuffing. She also liked to use the giblets on occaision. You never really knew when she would have the grrrreat idea of adding them. As she would refer to one of the parts as the last part that jumped over the fence. Get my drift? Well we sat down to dinner and just before I was to dig into the stuffing I asked her if she put anything in it meaning the giblets. She said no I did not put them in. I asked her again and she replied, "No." Something told me to check the freezer because she would freeze those parts if not used. What do you think I found? Or did not find. My own Mother lied to me. Hence I did not eat stuffing that year and discovered that my Mom could lie to me. Of course in her eyes for my own good.

Goodnight everyone. Someone is coming to love you. They are just around the bend.

DaddyDevon 11-23-2010 03:30 AM

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Originally Posted by cody (Post 233400)
ok i have a serious question maybe some of the butches in here can help..
ok so the doc has limited my working out due to a hernia.. but says swimming laps would be ok.. now heres the question.. my gym has pretty strickt rules on what can be worn in the pool.. my old apts used to let me wear shorts and a beater but this place wont let me... so should i get a 2 piece suit? maybe in pink? lol im gona look like a drag queen either way with my big ole tatooed arms hanging out.. i guess just a black 1 piece speedo.. sheeez this is gona kill me. anyone know of any alternatives?

Hi Cody,

I feel your pain. I swim about a mile and a half four days a week. I started swimming four years ago after a lot of encouragement <read> nagging from my doctors and physical therapists. They said it was the best thing I could do and should do to avoid further damage to my back or knees.

I hated swimming and was really resistant, but now I love it. I had the same worries as you at first because I knew I would stick out like a sore thumb with all my tattoos, hairy legs and armpits, and the fact that I look more like the guys than the girls. :) I wasn't sure what to wear and was really uncomfortable at first. My pool has a "dress code," but they just don't really want you wearing cutoffs, t-shirts, or sports bras. I wear a Speedo or similar one piece, solid color, with jammers (long swim trunks made out of nylon or polyester, my preference). I also often wear a rash guard, which is a shirt made of the same material. Occasionally if it's really hot I'll wear a competition-style top (which is sort of like a sports bra) with my jammers. This is a great site to buy everything for swimming www.swimoutlet.com If you have any questions about gear, suits, or swimming in general, send me a message.

Best,

Devon

MysticOceansFL 11-23-2010 04:42 AM

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Originally Posted by DaddyDevon (Post 233701)
Hi Cody,

I feel your pain. I swim about a mile and a half four days a week. I started swimming four years ago after a lot of encouragement <read> nagging from my doctors and physical therapists. They said it was the best thing I could do and should do to avoid further damage to my back or knees.

I hated swimming and was really resistant, but now I love it. I had the same worries as you at first because I knew I would stick out like a sore thumb with all my tattoos, hairy legs and armpits, and the fact that I look more like the guys than the girls. :) I wasn't sure what to wear and was really uncomfortable at first. My pool has a "dress code," but they just don't really want you wearing cutoffs, t-shirts, or sports bras. I wear a Speedo or similar one piece, solid color, with jammers (long swim trunks made out of nylon or polyester, my preference). I also often wear a rash guard, which is a shirt made of the same material. Occasionally if it's really hot I'll wear a competition-style top (which is sort of like a sports bra) with my jammers. This is a great site to buy everything for swimming www.swimoutlet.com If you have any questions about gear, suits, or swimming in general, send me a message.

Best,

Devon




Either make it a one piece speedo or wear swim shorts and a sports top that should do it.

morningstar55 11-23-2010 05:32 AM

good morning singles.
heh Sunny...... mom's can be something else huh?? lol
today i go shopping with my mom for a few more items for thanksgiving day..
and im just hoping she doesnt do her back seat driver thing with me....
sometimes she is good and other times. OMG!! she has almost caused me to have a accident..... almost screaming at a car turing on the street in the next lane........ LOOK OUT FOR THAT CAR TURNING!!!
or.. we r a quarter of a mile or so from the light that turnd red.. and im going 35 or so.. ARRE YOU GONNA STOP FOR THAT LIGHT?? OMG!!! .
or.. one time we were in a parking lot leaving a plaza.. im gonna make a left hand turn... on the street for on coming traffic was a NO U turn sign.. well she got all bent out of shape cuz i made a left turn out of the parking lot trying to convince me that I made a U turn .. :| .. and was just not letting it go for a mile or so how im gonna get a ticket.. etc etc.... * sigh* ..
i said....... good ...... let them stop me i dont care. lol

anyways........ hey yep im drinking out of the ACDC cup again this morning.. this is the back side of it.. hmmm wait.. is it really the back side or the front side..??? lol pondering thought.... lol have a good day everyone

http://i120.photobucket.com/albums/o...5/acdccup2.jpg

cuddlyfemme 11-23-2010 05:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sunny (Post 233618)
Hello to my single family. I have been working like a dog. Now instead of working 9 hour days we get to work mandatory 10 hour days which leads easily into 11. We are salaried so I guess it is like free payroll.

Anyhow, I am still taking my horse pills. I missed one day. Hope it does not hurt me. Is there a nurse in the house????? Just sayin.....I think I need one. LOL

Went to Red Lobster over the weekend with friends. The portions are huge. I spent the majority of the evening trying to explain Butch/Femme dynamic to a non Femme/ Butch person. She just did not understand why the labels. She claims that I would be limiting myself to meeting someone that might have qualities I am looking for. I told her even though there were different degrees of Femmes. The energy is what I crave. The Femme energy brings my Butch energy out. It is like a drug. LOL I am not one for labels but I feel at home with my B/F community.

If there is any interest in meeting in the chat room on Thanksgiving Day, let me know. We can set up a time. Which leads to yes, a Thanksgiving story. Here we go.... My Mother would make the most delicious stuffing for Thanksgiving. Of course she would put sausage in the stuffing. She also liked to use the giblets on occaision. You never really knew when she would have the grrrreat idea of adding them. As she would refer to one of the parts as the last part that jumped over the fence. Get my drift? Well we sat down to dinner and just before I was to dig into the stuffing I asked her if she put anything in it meaning the giblets. She said no I did not put them in. I asked her again and she replied, "No." Something told me to check the freezer because she would freeze those parts if not used. What do you think I found? Or did not find. My own Mother lied to me. Hence I did not eat stuffing that year and discovered that my Mom could lie to me. Of course in her eyes for my own good.

Goodnight everyone. Someone is coming to love you. They are just around the bend.

I love your stories :) It can be hard to explain the B/F dynamic to someone that just doesn't get it. I've found myself in that situation a few times and sometimes its like beating my head against the wall. I'd love to be at the Thanksgiving chat but I've given in and am going to my mom's house for Thanksgiving....I want to see my niece and nephew. Can we also have it another time...I really want to be there

cuddlyfemme 11-23-2010 05:35 AM

Good Morning Singles! I hope everyone is having a good day. Sorry I haven't been around much but sometimes in the winter time I get a bit bummed out so I isolate some. Right now I'm going through the "whats wrong with me...why doesn't a butch want me?" I go through that from time to time
Have a wonderful day!

morningstar55 11-23-2010 05:40 AM

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Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme (Post 233720)
Good Morning Singles! I hope everyone is having a good day. Sorry I haven't been around much but sometimes in the winter time I get a bit bummed out so I isolate some. Right now I'm going through the "whats wrong with me...why doesn't a butch want me?" I go through that from time to time
Have a wonderful day!

i tend to think that too sometimes........ but then i try and shake it off and just go about my buiz.....keeping myself busy... cant dwell on it to much... i want to enjoy life with or with out ..... its there loss. yes?? ;)

Zimmeh 11-23-2010 06:18 AM

Good Morning Everyone,

Cuddly, you have a lot of ppl who care for you, so please come in and vent if you need to. There are days when I know that I cannot talk to my best friend about things, so I feel coming on to this site is much easier; since I feel that you guys understand me better than she does. Hugs to you!

I am almost finished with my first cup of coffee and then I am off to start getting ready for college, today is my short day so I will be home before it gets dark.

Have a good to you all,

Zimmy

Zimmeh 11-23-2010 06:20 AM

Hope you had a great day yourself! I found out that I won't be having class tomorrow, so I will be spending the day finishing up my final microbiology paper..

Have a good Tuesay,

Zimmy

Quote:

Originally Posted by DomnNC (Post 232989)
Good morning all, I hope you have a great Monday!!


morningstar55 11-23-2010 06:27 AM

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Originally Posted by ZimmygLrL (Post 233735)
Good Morning Everyone,

Cuddly, you have a lot of ppl who care for you, so please come in and vent if you need to. There are days when I know that I cannot talk to my best friend about things, so I feel coming on to this site is much easier; since I feel that you guys understand me better than she does. Hugs to you!

I am almost finished with my first cup of coffee and then I am off to start getting ready for college, today is my short day so I will be home before it gets dark.

Have a good to you all,

Zimmy

ya know...... i have a friend like that.. we been friends since well .. 13/14 yrs old..... and i can tell her anything .... she is str8 .. and even though it seems like she understands.....
i just feel the need to vent with some of my queer friends.... about some things that i dont always feel my friend gets. does this make sense??

Zimmeh 11-23-2010 07:00 AM

Yes it does. I have known her for almost 24 years and there are days when I want to talk to her about something and I know if I do, then I will spend the rest of the day explaining to her what I am talking about..

Love the coffee cup!

Zimmy

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Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 233738)
ya know...... i have a friend like that.. we been friends since well .. 13/14 yrs old..... and i can tell her anything .... she is str8 .. and even though it seems like she understands.....
i just feel the need to vent with some of my queer friends.... about some things that i dont always feel my friend gets. does this make sense??


asphaltcowboi 11-23-2010 07:01 AM

good morning singles!! hope everyone has a great day!! ill be doing two days work in one i hope.. doing plumbing under a couple mobile homes im going to try to get um both done today so they have water for the holiday we have another storm rolling in this eve so i wont be able to do my work once the ground is muddy!!
cf ? you shouldnt feel like that and were all here for you.. but i do recall one a/c left several messages with no return call until he figured you must be very busy!!

morningstar55 11-23-2010 07:21 AM

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Originally Posted by cody (Post 233750)
good morning singles!! hope everyone has a great day!! ill be doing two days work in one i hope.. doing plumbing under a couple mobile homes im going to try to get um both done today so they have water for the holiday we have another storm rolling in this eve so i wont be able to do my work once the ground is muddy!!
cf ? you shouldnt feel like that and were all here for you.. but i do recall one a/c left several messages with no return call until he figured you must be very busy!!

oh dear...... under mobile homes?? where there at ahh spiders??? :|
getting the heebie geebies just thinking about it..
stay safe out there..........

MaggieBluIze 11-23-2010 07:46 AM

Good Morning Everyone!!!!!!!

Happy Tuesday!!!!!!

Cuddly, honey I'm feeling the same way ... But trying my best to not let myself get down with it ... Gonna enjoy my family and be thankful for my time with my daughter and love me some peeps from here!! :)

Cody, be careful ... I could not do that, even if I knew how or what to do ... Nope. :blink:

Hope everyone has a wonderful day!!!!!

asphaltcowboi 11-23-2010 07:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 233753)
oh dear...... under mobile homes?? where there at ahh spiders??? :|
getting the heebie geebies just thinking about it..
stay safe out there..........

not only spiders here in az.. almost light out.. i dont want to do this.. but i put on heavy cover alls then duct tape around my ankels /wrists and neck .. wear my tuff guy dew rag on my head an go under with a big led light!.. someones got to do it!! not very many around will.

MaggieBluIze 11-23-2010 07:53 AM

Ahhhhhhhhhhh ... Sounds like you're preping for Snakes too Cody.

Nope ... No way ... I know I couldn't.
:blink: :blink: :blink: :blink:

morningstar55 11-23-2010 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by cody (Post 233767)
not only spiders here in az.. almost light out.. i dont want to do this.. but i put on heavy cover alls then duct tape around my ankels /wrists and neck .. wear my tuff guy dew rag on my head an go under with a big led light!.. someones got to do it!! not very many around will.

... dew rag?? ,,:|more then spiders ?? :|
hmmmm before you duct tape urself..... have someone take some pics of u .. hehehe

cuddlyfemme 11-23-2010 08:17 AM

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Originally Posted by cody (Post 233750)
good morning singles!! hope everyone has a great day!! ill be doing two days work in one i hope.. doing plumbing under a couple mobile homes im going to try to get um both done today so they have water for the holiday we have another storm rolling in this eve so i wont be able to do my work once the ground is muddy!!
cf ? you shouldnt feel like that and were all here for you.. but i do recall one a/c left several messages with no return call until he figured you must be very busy!!

a/c?? now you're got my curiousity going. i'm usually really good about returning calls

morningstar55 11-23-2010 08:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cody (Post 233767)
not only spiders here in az.. almost light out.. i dont want to do this.. but i put on heavy cover alls then duct tape around my ankels /wrists and neck .. wear my tuff guy dew rag on my head an go under with a big led light!.. someones got to do it!! not very many around will.

are there them huge waterbugs there too???

lipstixgal 11-23-2010 09:11 AM

Good MOrning to all the beautiful singles out there!! CF do come in to vent some yes the weather is getting me down and yes I would like to be with someone but hopefully one day it will happen..Cody be careful out there under those mobile homes duct tape huh?? well if it works then ok...be back later..

cuddlyfemme 11-23-2010 10:27 AM

Thank you so much for your support and encouragement...somedays I get this way...other days I don't...guess this is one of those days that I do ((((everyone))))

asphaltcowboi 11-23-2010 07:36 PM

hatin coming home to a cold house!! but the hot shower was good and my dog was happy to see me.. gotta luv him.
and how cool is this.. they guy that "owns" the jobs i worked called me "son" today!! he knows im female but doesnt matter.

DomnNC 11-23-2010 08:35 PM

Good evening, I hope everyone had a good day!

Zimmeh 11-23-2010 08:51 PM

Hope you had a good day and was able to get both of the mobile homes done in one shot.

I am completley exhausted from studying, but it is a price I am willing to pay to better myself.

Have a good night,

Zimmy

Quote:

Originally Posted by cody (Post 233767)
not only spiders here in az.. almost light out.. i dont want to do this.. but i put on heavy cover alls then duct tape around my ankels /wrists and neck .. wear my tuff guy dew rag on my head an go under with a big led light!.. someones got to do it!! not very many around will.


Zimmeh 11-23-2010 08:53 PM

Good Evening Domn,

I had a wonderful day, my best friend and I went to Target after dinner with her two little boys. I ended up buying the 2 year old, some hot chocolate from Starbucks and he ended up wearing it instead of drinking it, he is such a little devil..

How was your day?

Zimmy

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Originally Posted by DomnNC (Post 234264)
Good evening, I hope everyone had a good day!



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