I agree- so very heteronormative. And I think connected to the whole male ego garbage. Firstly, I am female and lesbian. Secondly, cock as sex toy or accessory is not gender specific. As I have said before, for me it is about clit extension and celebration anyway. My orgasms are products of my clitoris- no matter how and with what might be part of the stimulation that sends it into glory.

Fergoddessakes, in heterosexual sex, the guys penis was just part of the stimulative configuration. There are aspects of every human sense being excited during sex which all work quite well together, each doing their part to promote pleasure.

I really appreciate femmes wanting to talk about femme cock and take their rightful ownership of cock usage as femmes. In fact, it is refreshing.

I would also honmor a femme lover's feelings about not wanting to use or explore femme cock as I would any kind of sexual boundary.

For me, femme cock is not a sex toy. Nor does it need to be renamed clit extension. It is cock. Femme cock. And it makes my mouth water.

i appreciate that people are speaking from their own experience, but i do not like even the slightest sense that femme cock is being disempowered or considered a toy or an extension of a clit (love the clits). It is cock. Big powerful, throbbing, hot red meaty nasty delicious FEMME cock. To me.

i do not need to explain it away or any sexual response away to feel like i am avoiding being respectful to myself or others as a woman.

Sex is not politically correct. i am careful and loving with others and myself. But i can do that and maintain an outrageous non-conforming, hot to the bottom of my being sex life. And the femme cock i interact with is COCK. i worship it. And it is FEMME, which means female etc. But it is equally COCK.

A lot of good information. Thanks everyone for sharing.

Although you didn't attach this to my prior post, it is obviously in response to it. I would really appreciate your not bringing your personal animosity toward me on the site. In fact, this does fall under the TOS- passive-aggressive posts.

So don't rename it or refer to it as a toy. And I will call it, experience it as I desire based upon my own paradigms thank you very much. And all "cock" is clitorially based for me. Sexual freedom includes each person expressing sexuality and sensuality as they view it, including terms they prefer. No, sex has no political correctness- but it sure has individual preferences no matter what a person desires. Your statement is absurd and personally judgmental! Interesting as you would (and others, rightfully so) fly into quite a tizzy if anti-leather and D/s posts were made.

There is absolutely no disempowerment in femme cock nor is there any judgment in joining the center of female sexual response and pleasure with the use of what most commonly is used within this community and called cock. It simply is not what I like to call it in terms of myself or a partner. Many posting in the thread have some of the same feelings- we all are just not the same.

I have received several messages about your post as a rude response to what I was expressing. And every one of us has a right to express our personal feelings and attitudes in these forums.

I personally didn't find Martinas post rude. I assumed she was posting from her experience with Femme cock.. :|

I think I would buy my femme this one.

http://cdn2.edenfantasys.com/250x250...s_SE024904.jpg

I love the pink but CIJS, no offense to anyone but I just have to have mine ball-less.

Reminders of experiences not good for my own mental health. That's all.

Do love the thread.

If that is what your femme prefers, that would be a lovely gift.

I am the same way...for the most part...for a different reason. I find that, during vigorous sex, the surrounding tissues of whatever orifice is being fucked tends to get very, very tender and not in a good way when using a cock with hard balls.

Now, I've used a cock before that had much softer balls...I think it was one of the cyberskins....and that wasn't as bad.

Sometimes I just want to be fucked hard and, in that case, the balls work.

I'm complicated.

:blink:

Hmmm
 

This particular phallus is not appealing to "me" cause of the suction cup thingy, that and the see through reminds "me" of jellyfish.

you can still use it with an O ring.

It's a cool looking jellyfish.

I'm liking the double entendre.

Maybe its a good idea to shop for one together since they can't be returned.

I always consult with my partner before buying one.

Let me start with saying that I can rock my opalescent blue cock I call "Blue Thunder" like a hurricane. No one has even not taken me seriously with it. lol. xoxoxoxo

Not into the balls. Kinda creepy.

The pink one is pretty, but gotta go w Snow, the clear part? I don't know.

There is nothing quite so hot as getting a blow job! Swoon.

and shopping tohgether is foreplayyyy

I like the above cock for the symbolic content. The pink represents the femme. It's shaped like a screw - notice the large threads. It looks pretty yet quite powerful at the same time.

my thoughts (I am not speaking for Snow :)) Is that even if you use the O-Ring - that suction cup is going to push (rather hard) against something... the wearer. A lot harder and forceful than one without the suction cup. It's been my experience that this results in the not good kinda pain.

Hmm..
 

As a Femme I gotta say kannon that the color pink does not represent me AT ALL!! Matter of fact I can't stand the color pink unless Hello Kitty is involved. I dunno who the hell though up this whole

Pink=Femme