I was out to lunch a bit daydreaming about our topic here. Once I saw what was going on, I went and read all of this person's posts. In his 4:02 p.m. post, I quote small part:

"I just want to say, as a straight male ..."

I had a bad situation back in 1990 when an out of town straight male started attending my Gay recovery meetings. Long story short, he began stalking me outside of meetings. I did not fear him but it was all too creepy. This guy in the recovery meetings and this guy here tonight sounded a great deal alike in what they were saying.

To violent!
 

Woah, I hope we don't have guys, butches or TG folk who want to kick people's faces off their heads!


Yuck!
Not ok!

No threats of violence allowed (please keep this in mind, Jet).

If we want to talk about straight bio cis gendered males, someone please start a thread on that, but for now let's get back to rockin' the pillow talk!

I actually would like to write something a little hot musings on princessing especially to steer convo back on track but I'm not convinced our little superman wouldn't still be reading, which makes me feel icky tbh. :/

but I'm thinking it... I'm thinking it!!! :)

The Internet never stops being a public place, so make your decisions with that in mind!

rockin the pillow talk ...

liking that idea ;)

I found this way more dick-waggingly offensive than anything he said.

what kind of story would you want?

I am a pillow princess until I'm not, which probably makes me fall somewhere in the middle of the give/take spectrum, lol.

I find it liberating to do nothing except be adored and fuked out of my mind, but I can also be the one who does the giving, just because it is needed by my lover even if i am not in the mood.

Funny thing though, i would never think of her as a pillow butch. Hmmm what does that say about steriotypes (sp) in my head??

a clip of writing from being in that pillow princess state.

(I'll Show You Mine: Tales of Dyke Drama and Smut. 2012)

There you are...and I'm happy to see you lol

So Collette, tell us more about that goat milk bath :rrose:

the rumor mill is turning :rofl:

Just got reminded of this thread. And I am pretty glad there are those out there that enjoy a pillow princess. I was re-i produced to being one again this summer and I forget just how fantastic, lovely, hot, amazing it is to he wanted in that way. Turns me into a stack of greased pancakes, really.

I will always do what is wanted from me and do what I'm told to get someone off. I will service someone how they wish, and be happy about it. But as long as it's them being g the boss or the nuts at the end of the sunday.

I give back in many ways. I'm certainly not selfish. But I really am a pillow princess. And I'm active and submissive.
Hard to explain without going into graphic detail.

Some one asked me recently if I was a top,bottom or switch. And I said "an active submissive bottom that services as required"

I can't put anything into simple terms

I like rocking the pillow princess talk. I normally date stone butches or butches who don't mind being stone with me :) I just can't resist it because it's so hot! I love giving up control and going into a trance of ecstatic pleasure! I used to share a house with a bunch of butches and it was heaven. I don't need to switch and I think "pillow princess" is always a compliment when used by my kind of butch!

I am a total Pillow Princess. Realizing it's not for everyone, I made sure i found dudes that understood I like being a bodacious play-thing. They crave it as I do.

Those who aren't "into" it or have mistaken my identity to mean a lazy Princess who fluffs pillows and says "do me", will, perhaps never understand that's not so.

For this choice, I have been made fun of, told I was wrong for being one, yada yada. I agree, it's often said in a negative sense, like it's bad thing to be a Pillow Princess..
That kind of makes me dig it even more

It's the whole, mind body soul.....and the rest, is magic

Give and Take
 

I'm very fond of pillow princesses. My sexual pleasure is always present when they are feeling the their own from me. Nothing selfish about it either its just what we do. To have someone enjoy what I do for them in this sense. I love it!
Saying "Please" is the word for me.. nice.. all night all day!

I love stone butches! I'm a very exciting princess

I like pillow princesses a lot. I think it's hot when they're lying around not being all active. It's calming, it feels so nonthreatening, I don't have anything to be vigilant against or have performance anxiety about. I know this is 180 to the common complaint of "not active enough," but I love pillow princess behavior, the lazier and passive-er the better!