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ProfPacker 05-23-2014 06:20 PM

not looking me in the eye when talking to me is a big turn off
not having my sense of humor which is pretty dark and twisted
not interested in the world around them
not wanting to take on the status quo

but mostly, in my previous long term relationship and growing up I lived in a world of smoke and mirrors. I need to have someone be direct with me.

someone who doesn't say as I am talking, I'm not done, let me finish
belittling me
being emotionally abusive
If I even have a hint of that...I am out of here

I like to have fun. If someone can't be silly it is a turn off.

at this time in my life we must be sexually compatible. no more lesbian bed death, haha.

if they don't like that I have kids, it is a negatory (is that a word, no but I like it)

candy_coated_bitch 05-23-2014 06:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nycfem (Post 911274)
You scared me for a minute-- I thought you wrote unicorns were a turn off to you, and if that were the case, I'd really have to reevaluate our friendship.

NEVER that. On the contrary--I find unicorns very erotic.

Happy_Go_Lucky 05-23-2014 06:48 PM

When she showed up wearing a GPS ankle monitor.

https://mymainstreetnews.files.wordp.../img_03071.jpg

candy_coated_bitch 05-23-2014 06:53 PM

I am more turned off by those toenails, frankly. If you have an ankle monitor--at least show it off in style.

ProfPacker 05-23-2014 06:57 PM

I agree about the toe nails...but that means she is under surveillance. Well that gives you a lot of options regarding leaving the house...does she have to call her
PO first?

Happy_Go_Lucky 05-23-2014 07:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by candy_coated_bitch (Post 911293)
I am more turned off by those toenails, frankly. If you have an ankle monitor--at least show it off in style.

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-eZZqfmk49J...ughing_cat.gif

ProfPacker 05-23-2014 07:19 PM

chains and shackles is a look too, good for the bedroom later on, lol

Girl_On_Fire 05-24-2014 12:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by candy_coated_bitch (Post 911293)
I am more turned off by those toenails, frankly. If you have an ankle monitor--at least show it off in style.

I was going to say the same thing! It would have taken me a minute to notice the GPS tracking device for those toenails. Dayum!

deathbypoem 05-24-2014 12:50 PM

Lack of intelligence and wit.

gotoseagrl 05-24-2014 04:06 PM

~ intellectual snobbery (or any kind of snobberies)
~ over-inflated egos
~ materialistic fluff
~ designer labels for sake of showing off
~ keeping up with the jonses
~ abnormal paranoia
~ ambiguity, in general
~ facades
~ more words than action
~ flakiness/inconsistency
~ over judgmentalness

Duchess 05-24-2014 09:57 PM

Weakness
Dishonesty
Lack of ambition

aishah 05-25-2014 02:50 AM

threads like this are fascinating and make me grateful there's a lid for every pot.

Daktari 05-25-2014 04:45 AM

Acting like a teen who's just discovered sex

Not liking Rocky Horror Picture Show

Numerous 'turn-offs'

Degotoga 05-25-2014 08:18 AM

Lack of integrity
Self-absorption
Know-it-Alls
People speaking for me, or thinking they know me better than I know myself
Lousy drivers

Ginger 05-25-2014 08:51 AM

Cleavage.

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kittygrrl 05-25-2014 08:15 PM

don't tell me how amazing you are, let me find out for myself

candy_coated_bitch 05-25-2014 08:17 PM

Someone who WON'T. SHUT. UP.

Daktari 05-26-2014 05:28 AM

Self-absorption in conversation

Shystonefem 05-26-2014 04:49 PM

Being Mean
Drama
Dirty hygiene
not supportive
old before your time
complaining all of the time
putting more value on "stuff" than on those you love
Someone who argues all of the time

canadianmusician 05-26-2014 11:22 PM

Showing up drunk or high is definitely a turn off. This happened once.

Low self confidence.

Jumbled/compartmentalized communication styles. I like to hear it clear as a bell!


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