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Chancie 08-21-2012 01:24 PM

I am starting to get anxious about returning to work full time.

I don't want to wear shoes, or get up early, and

I don't want to deal with several of my colleagues.

The jury is still out on the new administrators, but

Though I don't really like change, fresh ideas and energy can be great.

spritzerJ 08-21-2012 04:51 PM

Well if pigs don't fly... the principal came to our special education team meeting, we agreed on a goal and actually got clear directions. It was such a relief to know what is expected and not have to guess. hee hee! I could just flap!

Made my to-do list and organized myself some tonight. sigh I have a goal... it is amazing.

bkisbutchenuff 08-23-2012 03:44 AM

So....here's the update...7th grade has 61 students (one class), 8th grade 62 (one class), 6th grade 25 in one, 35 in the other...I'm now at the 'bring it on' stage of rediculous...with that many students they want me to do Advanced Orchestra, Intermediate Orchestra and General Music at the same time - 75 minutes a day....just crazy...I don't even have enuff chairs...the General Music students will rotate out every 9 weeks...
The thugs have been no problem - as they really don't want to draw attention to themsleves...not good for their groups...its the many attention seeking wannabe's that are the problems...Still moving forward toward my plan....
Have a good day Educator's...it's almost Friday!

spritzerJ 08-23-2012 04:00 AM

BK your story reminds me of one of the reasons for moving to NH. I put up with the small towns, -isms of people that are very isolated (they are everywhere though, just more outspoken in the town I work in), grocery stores that close at like 7pm on Sunday, bugs, humidity (although compared to other places it isn't that bad), crappy winters for....

My daughter entering elementary school that has music, art, pe, technology, library as specials and a class size of like 20. We were leaving class sizes of 30 and music once a week and pe once a week and no art, tech or library.

For myself I was leaving a case load of 40 for a case load of 16.

bkisbutchenuff 08-23-2012 04:25 AM

The biggest problem we have is a State Law which prohibits State employees from unionizing...therfore continuous:
BOHICA (Bend Over Here It Comes Again) and
FUBAR (Fucked Up Beyond Recognition)

:)
B

spritzerJ 08-23-2012 04:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bkisbutchenuff (Post 637348)
The biggest problem we have is a State Law which prohibits State employees from unionizing...therfore continuous:
BOHICA (Bend Over Here It Comes Again) and
FUBAR (Fucked Up Beyond Recognition)

:)
B

Totally Agree BK... unions are good for working conditions. I know folks have varying opinions about unions. I am at times more involved than others yet I am consistently happy to pay my dues.

Chancie 08-23-2012 04:42 AM

I think it stinks that you don't have a union to look out for your professional and personal well being.

Chancie 08-23-2012 04:54 AM

I'm leaving for school in a little while.

The school year hasn't started officially, but

I have so much to do to set up my classroom!

There aren't enough disinfecting wipes in the world for

The Grime of One Hundred Teenagers.

Chancie 08-25-2012 04:20 AM

Good for me!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Chancie (Post 635139)
I want to develop a better relationship with one of my administrators.

I want to learn to lean on him more, and

I definitely want to stop talking smack about him.

<snip>

I had something on my mind, so I went to talk to this administrator.

He made time to listen to me and he validated my concerns.

I really appreciated his time and effort.

bkisbutchenuff 08-25-2012 04:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chancie (Post 638475)
I had something on my mind, so I went to talk to this administrator.

He made time to listen to me and he validated my concerns.

I really appreciated his time and effort.

It is nice when they take the time to listen! I also finally got to sit down with my Principal...she listened, saw my frustration and Got the picture (I hope). I told her - If I don't get some help -I will not make it through the year at this rate...It's not even Labor Day and I go in exhausted everyday...
Being caged in a room for 75 minutes with 60 students and no resources wears you down...Differentiated Instruction x's 9. On my left - Adv. Orchestra students, in the middle - Inter. Orchestra students and on my right - 25 General Music Students....within each group - students who do not, do and exceed standards as well as special needs...no technology, no books for GM, and no instruments for gen. music....I get one group engaged, the other side goes bonkers...I get everyone one engaged, actually try to instruct - turn my back and something goes flying across the room...did I mention - not enuff chairs for bout 20 -25 per class...(2classes like this)

The best part is I do have approx. 60 beginners on 6th grade who actually signed up for the class...
I also told her that under the current conditions - no one was getting served or justice...she was my evaluator 2 yrs. prior to getting the Pricipalship...she knows that is not acceptable for me...
We shall see...

bkisbutchenuff 08-27-2012 02:18 AM

http://i1171.photobucket.com/albums/...ff/teach-1.jpg

lusciouskiwi 08-27-2012 05:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bkisbutchenuff (Post 637348)
The biggest problem we have is a State Law which prohibits State employees from unionizing...therfore continuous:
BOHICA (Bend Over Here It Comes Again) and
FUBAR (Fucked Up Beyond Recognition)

:)
B

How can it be illegal to belonging to a union????? I just don't understand that.

lusciouskiwi 08-27-2012 04:50 PM

It's raining ...
 
Yeah, I know, this is Malaysia, tropical country = rain, no big deal right? I have 5 primary schools, 4 of which are kampung (village) schools. A whole lot of kids will be absent from school today, especially kids from the "last" classes.

At our last team meeting I mentioned this to my colleagues, saying I wish the schools would fundraise for raincoats or umbrellas. One of my colleagues (American, elementary school teacher) laughed at me saying that some of them don't even have pencils. Well, if the kids aren't in school, doesn't matter if they have pencils or not.

*sigh*

bkisbutchenuff 08-28-2012 01:38 AM

Yesterday: Had an awesome day compared to the last two weeks....I got to teach!!!!
Both 7th and 8th Grade were able to play...Addressing the other half of the class, I talked about vibrations, sound waves, techniques, accessories needed to play, etc.
Well wishes, vibes, prayers...all came through...Thank you friends on the Planet! Still lots to work out and manage...buts its a start!!!!

The counseling dept. is willing to set up a class within the classes...will make grade book a hell of a lot easier!

The 6th grade beginners...2 classes - 70 strong...love them!

I'm gonna make this work until change comes!....

spritzerJ 08-28-2012 04:03 AM

Today is the first day for students at the school I work at and my daughters school. I was up before my alarm clock this morning and oh so tired last night.

Both schools had back to school activities where students could meet their teachers yesterday. Both schools are title one schools. The one that is in the small town is where I teach. The General's school is in a medium sized town (pretty big for NH). The differences were amazing.

I think of where I work right now as in a time warp. As another teacher friend of mine described it... The town is an isolated town in NH by choice. Back to school activities happened from 2-3pm and loaded the families up with papers. The diversity is limited to economic diversity. The kids largely have new clothes for schools start, brought mountains of supplies (because what the teachers wanted was too much to fit in backpacks tomorrow) and took home mountains of form to fill out. The families spent their time in the classroom talking to the teachers.

Where my daughter attends school our neighborhood school is seen as the more lower SES school. Back to school included popsicles and was from 3-4:30 (thank goodness from the bottom of my working mom heart). The diversity is economic and racial/ethnic. The families and kids congregated on the playground talking to each other long after they visited the classrooms. No one brought in there supplies since the teachers asked for like 4 small items. The classrooms are clean but not overly cutesy. I am grateful for The General's school. It has it's challenges and it seems real.

We didn't talk her new teacher's ear off, it is my personal preference to let her get to know The General on her own a bit. I will send a coaching guide via email today or tomorrow. The General got to see her kindergarten teacher. Oh that was the best.

bkisbutchenuff 08-28-2012 04:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by spritzerJ (Post 640860)
Today is the first day for students at the school I work at and my daughters school. I was up before my alarm clock this morning and oh so tired last night.

Both schools had back to school activities where students could meet their teachers yesterday. Both schools are title one schools. The one that is in the small town is where I teach. The General's school is in a medium sized town (pretty big for NH). The differences were amazing.

I think of where I work right now as in a time warp. As another teacher friend of mine described it... The town is an isolated town in NH by choice. Back to school activities happened from 2-3pm and loaded the families up with papers. The diversity is limited to economic diversity. The kids largely have new clothes for schools start, brought mountains of supplies (because what the teachers wanted was too much to fit in backpacks tomorrow) and took home mountains of form to fill out. The families spent their time in the classroom talking to the teachers.

Where my daughter attends school our neighborhood school is seen as the more lower SES school. Back to school included popsicles and was from 3-4:30 (thank goodness from the bottom of my working mom heart). The diversity is economic and racial/ethnic. The families and kids congregated on the playground talking to each other long after they visited the classrooms. No one brought in there supplies since the teachers asked for like 4 small items. The classrooms are clean but not overly cutesy. I am grateful for The General's school. It has it's challenges and it seems real.

We didn't talk her new teacher's ear off, it is my personal preference to let her get to know The General on her own a bit. I will send a coaching guide via email today or tomorrow. The General got to see her kindergarten teacher. Oh that was the best.


Sounds like you both are in good environments! Best wished to you both having an awesome year!!!

Chancie 08-28-2012 04:36 PM

I am so tired.
 
I was happy to read both of your posts.

I hope some other teachers will share their experiences too.

Today was my first day with ninth graders.

I planned a nice hands on activity

And I learned a lot about where my students are at.

Don't worry. We administer plenty of norm referenced tests, but

For me, nothing beats checking in while we work.

Seniors start tomorrow, and

Because of a whole series of beaurocratic snafus,

I don't know who will be in my robotics class.

Chancie 08-28-2012 05:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chancie (Post 641208)
I was happy to read both of your posts.

I hope some other teachers will share their experiences too.

Today was my first day with ninth graders.

<snip>

Because of a whole series of beaurocratic snafus,

I don't know who will be in my robotics class.

PS I think I had a hot flash during first period.

lusciouskiwi 08-28-2012 05:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by spritzerJ (Post 640860)
Today is the first day for students at the school I work at and my daughters school. I was up before my alarm clock this morning and oh so tired last night.

We didn't talk her new teacher's ear off, it is my personal preference to let her get to know The General on her own a bit. I will send a coaching guide via email today or tomorrow. The General got to see her kindergarten teacher. Oh that was the best.

How was the first day for both of yous? :pirate-steer:

spritzerJ 08-28-2012 06:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lusciouskiwi (Post 641236)
How was the first day for both of yous? :pirate-steer:

The General had a great day.

I had a day that reminded me why I prefer children to grown ups! With 16-20 kids in a class you'd think a couple of the teachers could gripe less. Sigh. Just get to know each other for one day. We can chase their "need to grow in" areas tomorrow. Oh and I can not be in 6 class rooms at the same time to support math in class. Folks are going to have to submit to pull out or deal with once a week support. Both options will go over like lead balloons. :seeingstars:

Wine where is my wine!

spritzerJ 08-28-2012 06:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chancie (Post 641208)
I was happy to read both of your posts.

I hope some other teachers will share their experiences too.

Today was my first day with ninth graders.

I planned a nice hands on activity

And I learned a lot about where my students are at.

Don't worry. We administer plenty of norm referenced tests, but

For me, nothing beats checking in while we work.

Seniors start tomorrow, and

Because of a whole series of beaurocratic snafus,

I don't know who will be in my robotics class.

Agreed! Checking in while we work or real time assessment is so wonderful.

Mrs Arcstriker 08-28-2012 11:09 PM

I've been an educator for over 12 years and I have a hard time saying that because I am really just a nurse and not a teacher. I teach adult-ed at a local community college and I run the largest nurse-aide training program in the state of ct community college system.

Because I am not trained to teach and I only hold a bachelor's degree in nursing I feel overshadowed by the professional teachers and profs around me.

Taking this into consideration, my outness in the community college system is mostly insidious. Of course I am out to my collegues and to the community at large. The big reveal is always when my lecture style turns personal. Because nursing encompasses all things social and family, there always comes a time when my status as a woman married to a "woman" comes into play. I start half a dozen of my own classes each year and I oversee another 18+...and every time that first casual discussion comes up I hold my breath and hope my class doesn't leave for a bathroom break and not come back.

My internalized fear is always unfounded and I've always had nothing but support. The only awkward issue is that almost always there is a person who must "come out" to me and tell me about their gay/les/bi experience. This is usually a married person who must tell me of their one drunken same-sex experience and I never know how to respond to that. The openly GLBT people in my class never need to share with me, but there are the outlyers that I cannot peg. Does this ever happen to any of you?

Martina 08-28-2012 11:19 PM

I had a "where is the wine" day today. A very anxious mom projected a lot of anxiety into me. She wasn't angry. Anyway, whew. My eye was practically twitching when she left. It's amazing how much anxiety people can transfer onto others.

bkisbutchenuff 08-29-2012 12:32 PM

Best news I've gotten in a LONG time....!!!!Superintendent resigned - effective Sept. 30!!!! A-Hole go away!!!!

RNguy 08-29-2012 12:41 PM

:)
 
Yayyyyy for teachers !!!!!! Much respect for you all and thank you for all you do .
When I was in the 6th grade , I had a teacher who told me I would never amount to anything and I was stupid.
She had a massive stroke a couple years ago and who was her nurse ????
:) me , her stupid student who wouldn't amount to anything Haha.

spritzerJ 08-29-2012 05:04 PM

Day 2 was much better. Cooler weather and cooler heads all around. Administration stepped up and was clear. This will be fun... I am going to relax and let the process work.

bkisbutchenuff 08-29-2012 05:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RNguy (Post 641911)
Yayyyyy for teachers !!!!!! Much respect for you all and thank you for all you do .
When I was in the 6th grade , I had a teacher who told me I would never amount to anything and I was stupid.
She had a massive stroke a couple years ago and who was her nurse ????
:) me , her stupid student who wouldn't amount to anything Haha.

WTG RNguy! I'm always careful what I say...you never know what kind of impact it will have on them...of course, I spent the first 20 yrs growing up being told I would never be anything...well...I beg to differ...and when my Dad was sick...who did he have to rely on - who was his care taker?...'Ms. You'll never amount to anything'... :)

Martina 08-29-2012 08:25 PM

My caseload is growing, and I am having more typical real teaching problems. I wish there were the resources to lift these kids OUT of their worlds and show them the big beautiful terrifying world beyond for just a second so they'd know what is out there for them, if they want it.

Martina 08-29-2012 08:50 PM

ACLU talking points on Schools as a pipeline to prisin

http://www.aclu.org/racial-justice/s...talking-points

bkisbutchenuff 08-30-2012 02:45 AM

What a week...some better - but still a mess. I guess the difference between last week and this week - self resolution....I will do what I can, with what I have, as I can....everyone is now aware of the ridiculous conditions - still no chairs, Gen. music resources and MINIMUM playing time for the orchestra students, etc. .... I'm at 188 students yesterday - but growing. My admin. has made it clear that all they want is me to hold the fort down and see what happens as a result of the Super.'s resignation....
Yesterday - we lost 4 more teachers including one who is a bff of mine. She was promoted to a county facilitator and the others were placed in different schools...the man (a-hole) who created all this resigns...I was so happy to hear that and have felt it was coming...Now - if our board will not spend millions doing a search and choose someone locally who has a vested interest in our district and what's truly best for the students - we may actually salvage something good this year....either way - I still have my plan....

on a lighter note:
http://i1171.photobucket.com/albums/...enuff/text.jpg

http://i1171.photobucket.com/albums/...f/homework.jpg


Hang in there...almost TGIF!!!!

Chancie 09-01-2012 11:23 AM

I survived the first week!

I have two ninth grade classes and one senior class.

On the alternating weeks, I have three tenth grade classes.

A lot of those kids have been stopping by to say 'hey', and

That feels really good.

Everything has gone smoothly except for some glitches with ordering materials.

I did have to order 20 practice solder kits with my own credit card, but

I know I will get reimbursed.

I have a three day weekend and Pete didn't have to work today.

I sat in a cafe to get some grading done while my faithful Pete shopped at the coop.

Right now, I am really happy to be the teacher I am.

lusciouskiwi 09-03-2012 12:02 AM

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-XXVLJPpVzk...-49242-580.jpg

Not that all teachers are Miss or Ms :)

Martina 09-03-2012 12:15 AM

A dating site I am on sent me a few possibilities via email. I always look at them even though I am not looking to date right now.

ANYWAY, this one woman seemed way cool until I saw that she was a retired Special Education administrator. LOL. Not in this lifetime. I know some wonderful people who are or were administrators. But there ain't no red flag like that one as far as I am concerned.

bkisbutchenuff 09-04-2012 02:17 AM

I so enjoyed this three day weekend...back to the masses today...I'm stilling putting trust and faith in the powers that be, to follow through with their promises of assistance in the mess they created....

lusciouskiwi 09-04-2012 02:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bkisbutchenuff (Post 646747)
I so enjoyed this three day weekend...back to the masses today...I'm stilling putting trust and faith in the powers that be, to follow through with their promises of assistance in the mess they created....

Good luck!

Soon 09-04-2012 03:40 AM

First day back :|

Cheers to my fellow educators!

bkisbutchenuff 09-04-2012 03:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Soon (Post 646771)
First day back :|

Cheers to my fellow educators!

Have a great day! Best wishes!

spritzerJ 09-04-2012 04:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Soon (Post 646771)
First day back :|

Cheers to my fellow educators!

Have a fabulous 1st day Soon! Hugs and beverage of your choice!

spritzerJ 09-04-2012 04:02 AM

Week 2 is 4 days long. We add making our own lunches to the daily back to school routine! I spent lots of my weekend organizing for work. I need to make my schedule but waiting on some feedback from teachers. Time to start getting baseline assessments on kids and their goals. Yee haw! We will make goal setting fun this year!

bkisbutchenuff 09-04-2012 04:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by spritzerJ (Post 646775)
Week 2 is 4 days long. We add making our own lunches to the daily back to school routine! I spent lots of my weekend organizing for work. I need to make my schedule but waiting on some feedback from teachers. Time to start getting baseline assessments on kids and their goals. Yee haw! We will make goal setting fun this year!

Hope you have a great week!


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