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Andrew, Jr. 06-02-2010 09:41 AM


Today I am so stressed not only can I not talk about it, but I can barely write a word down about it.


Gemme 06-02-2010 11:13 AM

I'm stressed but I'm sick too, which gives me a 'who cares' feel, so I'm basically conflicted.

JustJo 06-02-2010 12:22 PM

Stressed, frustrated, depressed...take your pick.

My son is home sick with a fever over 102...I'm STILL trying to sell or find a tenant for the house I own....STILL trying to find someone who will rent to us with pets in Florida.... feel like I'm trying to force a miracle and am frustrated as heck and feel like just having a really good cry.

I'll be lucky if I manage a shower with the way the day is going....and it's almost 2:30 in the afternoon......ugh (w)

Rockinonahigh 06-02-2010 03:27 PM

Yep,stressed hear too.Today I have had to call a plumber for a stoped up drain in the kitchen.I should have been a plumber cause he shure made a bundle outta me today.For the record I did try to fix it myself but as much as I did it just didnt work.

Bad_boi 06-02-2010 05:08 PM

The best thing ever when I am stressed is to flatten carboard and put it in the recycle. Gets all that negative energy out and helps the earth lol. Well ok I mainly just like the stomping and crushing, its fun :D

JustLovelyJenn 06-02-2010 08:12 PM

*comes into the room and passes around the sweet baby kitten on my lap* She took away all my stress today. Shes so cute and adorable...

Leigh 06-02-2010 08:25 PM

Yeah I'm a tad bit stressed, but it'll pass (I hope) :blink:

Sybelle 06-03-2010 06:31 AM

Helping Mom. Her brother's lung cancer was staged at 4. Yesterday, sat down with her and helped her get paperwork together. She and another of their siblings are his medical power of attorney. Working on getting hospice in now, in spite of his insistence it isn't needed. Would you believe, sick as he is, he is still out scratching around in his garden? Can't say as I blame him. I would be too. Holding on to every inch of life I had left.

On top of that Mom was recently diagnosed with Graves' disease. She's been having some issues with her vision. The medications make her a bit edgy. The other night she fussed at me on the phone for things that made no sense.

It's been rather tough lately.

Add in my own personal life crap - makes for a high strung week.

Blade 06-03-2010 06:51 AM

STRESSED OUT!!!!

YES I'm stressed out I have so much to do outside today before the thunderstorms start up again. OK gotta run, will return for my hourly breaks. LOL yeah I work way harder at home than I do at my job so I take more breaks.

JustBeingMe 06-03-2010 10:39 AM

Moi Stressed out? HELL YEAH. Thanks to my new doc, I now am able to manage dealing with the stressors that stress me out so bad. I can just take my anxiety meds twice a day and it relieves some of it. YAY!!!

Sam 06-03-2010 10:43 AM

Im stressed to the MAX

Write14u 06-04-2010 09:44 AM

Yesterday, I was pretty sure I had an elephant sitting on my chest. I went ahead and named him Fred. Figured he needed a name if he was hanging around.

JustBeingMe 06-04-2010 02:04 PM

I don't know if mine is an elephant or not and I ain't naming no names dammit, that way it won't think it's home. KNow what I mean vern?
LOL I am going to be stressed for a lot longer until things work out the way they should, or the way I think they should anyway. Nothing much I can do about it but try to take it one day at a time until it's all over with.:seeingstars:

Soon 06-08-2010 03:53 PM

May be of some help for those with stress-related anxiety :)
 
6 Holistic Strategies to Reduce Anxiety: Food and Supplements

This Week's Client: Alicia, 23, a university student with a part-time job and a busy social life.

The Problem: She feels anxious nearly every day and suffered from panic attacks as a teenager.

It's normal to experience moments of anxiety, particularly when they stem from stressful situations such as writing an exam or attending a job interview. But Alicia doesn't need a reason to feel anxious, it's her state of mind most of the time.

Anxiety can be characterized by numerous symptoms, but the most common are chills or hot flashes, sudden overwhelming fear, heart palpitations, chest tightness, dizziness, numbness. Alicia described it as feeling like she'd had too much coffee resulting in a nervous energy she couldn't alleviate.

Her doctor recommended antidepressants to tame her anxiety, but she was determined to solve the problem by natural means, which is why she ended up in my office.

Six diet and supplement suggestions to reduce anxiety, after the jump..

After reviewing her food journal and doing an in-depth wellness evaluation I recommended the following to Alicia.

1. Eat blood sugar balancing snacks. The consumption of sugar and simple carbohydrates, negatively impact blood sugar levels and may promote anxiety. A healthy, blood sugar balancing snack could be a few almonds, a piece of fruit or a protein smoothie.

2. Perform a deep breathing exercise for a minimum of five minutes twice a day: Close your eyes and breathe in and out through your nose, feel your belly expand and contract as you breathe for five minutes. As mentioned in this post: Six Ways To Relax, focusing on deep breaths activates the vagus nerve which controls the relaxation response and is the antidote to the stress response.

3. Add the following foods to your diet as they supply valuable minerals such as calcium, magnesium, phosphorus and potassium, all of which are depleted by stress and anxiety: apricots, asparagus, bananas, broccoli, blackstrap molasses, brewer's yeast, avocados, garlic, green leafy vegetables, raw nuts, organic yogurt, figs, fish (especially salmon) and legumes.

4. A body under stress due to anxiety is more susceptible to free radical damage, according to Phyllis A Balch, author of Prescription for Nutritional Healing, and could benefit from these herbs: billberry, ginkgo biloba and milk thistle are all rich in flavanoids that neutralize free radicals.

5. Avoid stimulants of any kind: chocolate, coffee, black tea, cola or anything else that contains caffeine as these substances will promote anxiety. Instead drink peppermint or rooibos teas, both are energizing without caffeine.

6. Take a good quality vitamin B complex formulated for stress and anxiety as that will help maintain normal nervous system function. Women are often deficient in B vitamins due to taking the birth control pill, lack of proper absorption in the gut and inadequate B vitamins in the diet.

NOTE: It is not safe to go off an anti-depressants without doctor supervision.

Joy McCarthy, Registered Holistic Nutritionist and Health Coach of Joyous Health, loves to inspire others to eat well and live well. Joy is the resident holistic nutritionist at 889 Yonge, a Yoga & Holistic Lifestyle Spa in Toronto. Joy welcomes your questions or comments.

lipstixgal 06-08-2010 04:52 PM

I'm stressed out about school about internships coming up and the end of the semester being over which is about two weeks or so. Friday we have a internship meeting at 10 am hope it doesn't last that long have an appointment at 1 pm with my therapist and need to see her.

Gemme 06-09-2010 03:13 AM

Yeppers, I am. Personal stuff. For once, it's not about my work. I got a HUGE pat on the back from a national inspector today, so I'm still feeling like I'm all that and a bag of Sun chips in that area.

Mitmo01 06-09-2010 05:39 AM

my head and my mouth are stressing me out......the dentist and I need to chat very soon before i rip my face off

Rockinonahigh 06-09-2010 09:21 AM

Mitmo..I feel for ya on going to the dentis...I went thrue 5 oral surgries in 6 weeks...so glad when it was over,do take care.

JustBeingMe 06-10-2010 11:17 AM

I wish it was already over with cause I ain't feeling so good lately. I think my elephant's name is Drop Dead Fred.

Gemme 06-16-2010 08:00 PM

Nope. Not at all. I'm a cool cucumber today. :)

Ebon 06-16-2010 08:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mitmo01 (Post 126274)
my head and my mouth are stressing me out......the dentist and I need to chat very soon before i rip my face off

Man I hope you feel better soon! When you live where I live you don't those problems. Hint Hint!! lol

Sam 06-16-2010 09:02 PM

im actually not stressed. wow

asphaltcowboi 06-16-2010 09:37 PM

im stressed... was working on my truck and droped the back of the tranny on the side of my face, knocked three theeth lose. now i have a dentist apt tomorrow morning.. yuck! but it will have to feel better then it does now!

Gemme 06-17-2010 12:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Organicbutch (Post 132066)
Man I hope you feel better soon! When you live where I live you don't those problems. Hint Hint!! lol

Austin doesn't have dental issues? At all? :blink:

Quote:

Originally Posted by cody (Post 132127)
im stressed... was working on my truck and droped the back of the tranny on the side of my face, knocked three theeth lose. now i have a dentist apt tomorrow morning.. yuck! but it will have to feel better then it does now!

Move to Austin. According to Organic, dental problems go away or don't exist or something. *shrug*

*grin*

Miss Scarlett 06-17-2010 04:53 AM

Started counseling last month at the suggestion of the MD who is guiding my weight loss.

Beginning to see how much stress/pressure I have been under for a lonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnng time and dealing with it.

Turning off the radio and listening to some awesome music: classical, opera, meditation, etc. on my daily commute (1 hour each way) has really helped.

My counselor mentioned an exercise of 3 times a day stopping, asking self "How/what am I feeling?", and writing it down. I am too busy for that so I started doing something similar when I feel stressed or overwhelmed by something - I record the date, time, what I am feeling and anything I have to say about it. This has helped me get beyond what's going on and see the situation as it really is rather than from the skewed perspective of my stressed out self.

I've also got some crystals, incense and sage, etc. to help with the negative energies that love to hang onto me.

Ebon 06-17-2010 08:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 132249)
Austin doesn't have dental issues? At all? :blink:



Move to Austin. According to Organic, dental problems go away or don't exist or something. *shrug*

*grin*

That's right! But don't come looking for me if they persist if you do move here. lol

JustBeingMe 06-17-2010 03:52 PM

Stressed out? Who Me? Uhm, well, Uh, Yeah, as usual. :blink:

JustBeingMe 07-01-2010 12:54 PM

My stress is only getting worse. I got a bad news phone call yesterday, and it just seems nothing is working my way, no matter how innocent I am in all this mess.

JustLovelyJenn 07-01-2010 02:42 PM

I have been terribly stressed lately, so much so that I cant seem to think clearly enough to even post. However, I have decided I have to do something about it. SO... I have a plan.

1. Get up at a set time each day. Set an alarm and stick to it.
2. Be more active. Exercise Daily.
3. Spend time with my children playing games, even if I feel like I am overwhelmed or stressed. They will be happier and so will I.
4. Remember that everyone else can just... GO SHOVE IT!!!

JustBeingMe 07-02-2010 12:23 PM

For me, stress is a 4 letter word. You pick one. :blink:

Gemme 07-02-2010 08:58 PM

Indeed. I think I'm handling it well, overall, though. Although I am very grateful for the opportunity to do so, and will appreciate the OT, working every single day over and over and over wears on a soul. Throw the training of someone I'm beginning to think won't work out on top of it as well as trying to pick up the pieces of someone who was notorious for hiding (aka losing) important information and documents and you have an accident-bound train, I'm afraid.

Just another few days and I'll get a day off.... *wistful sigh*

JustBeingMe 07-08-2010 01:16 PM

Stress Smiley of the Day !!!
 
Stress Smiley of the Day.......:freak:

Jet 07-08-2010 01:39 PM

Red tape bureaucracy
appeals
hard times
PTSD
when does shit end?

Delish 07-08-2010 01:40 PM

I just found this thread so I will vent. I am stressed out because my Dr is an incompetent ELF! And really, that's putting it nicely! Went in Tuesday to see him and get more tests results from my hosptial stay. He said i am not sure you have Lupus but it does look like u have Nephritis. I asked him what that was....he NEVER could tell me. I come home and look it up...Lupus Nephritis??????? WTF??? I SWEAR he acts like if he causes me to die an early death, he gets some kind of an award!!!

Jet 07-08-2010 01:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Delish (Post 148048)
I just found this thread so I will vent. I am stressed out because my Dr is an incompetent ELF! And really, that's putting it nicely! Went in Tuesday to see him and get more tests results from my hosptial stay. He said i am not sure you have Lupus but it does look like u have Nephritis. I asked him what that was....he NEVER could tell me. I come home and look it up...Lupus Nephritis??????? WTF??? I SWEAR he acts like if he causes me to die an early death, he gets some kind of an award!!!

my cousin had lupus. we were very close.
i hope your case isn't severe

Delish 07-08-2010 04:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jet (Post 148051)
my cousin had lupus. we were very close.
i hope your case isn't severe

Thank you Jet. I have never known anyone to have Lupus but the way my health has went down in 2 yrs I am not sure what you would call severe. I just hope and pray this Nephritis doesn't make me have to have dialysis or worse.

Gemme 07-08-2010 08:23 PM

I was a little stressed earlier today. I had my first day off in almost two weeks and came in to one problem after another and I never seemed to get situated before another cropped up. I'm used to putting out fires, but c'mon! Let a girl eat! Two bites of oatmeal and a small yogurt do not consitute a well balanced meal no matter how you look at it, much less two. :blink:

Miss Scarlett 07-09-2010 04:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 148451)
I was a little stressed earlier today. I had my first day off in almost two weeks and came in to one problem after another and I never seemed to get situated before another cropped up. I'm used to putting out fires, but c'mon! Let a girl eat! Two bites of oatmeal and a small yogurt do not consitute a well balanced meal no matter how you look at it, much less two. :blink:

Are we living the same life?

Scorp 07-09-2010 06:41 AM

Everyone Step Back...
 
This is what I think of my work laptop this morning. Fuckin' thing...


:beatcomputer::beatcomputer::beatcomputer:


:explode::explode::explode::explode::explode:

JustBeingMe 07-09-2010 01:12 PM

:canoworms::dimbulb::blues::deepthoughts::bigcry:: brainsucker: Ah hell I just wanna :bolt: and get away to someplace I have never been and be able to relax just for a few freaking minutes before any stress in the morning hits me dammit.


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