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Arwen 01-10-2011 12:00 AM

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Originally Posted by June (Post 262610)
After tonight's dinner, not only would I date myself, I would marry me and give me a very large pink diamond set in platinum.

http://www.asiaone.com/A1MEDIA/justw...nk_diamond.jpg

That's tacky.
Give me it.
I'll date you.

Arwen 01-10-2011 12:14 AM

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Originally Posted by June (Post 262644)
Only if I get to be The Daddy.

You are my only DaddyJune.

Arwen 01-10-2011 12:30 AM

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Originally Posted by June (Post 262649)
Excellent! I can't wait till you fondle my *bits* just be sure you don't cut me with that rock, girl.


This is what's called "Negotiation". I hope everyone is taking note of how fast The Arwen is now running away smoothly this is going.

I hear my other Daddy calling. I'll be right back. No really....:blueheels:

theoddz 01-10-2011 09:31 AM

Of *course* I would date myself. :twitch:

One doesn't run across someone like me just every day, you know. :winky:

~Theo~ :bouquet:

PumaJ 02-28-2011 03:15 AM

Thanks for the many giggles, everyone.

Yes, I would date myself, I think."Wait...a date? What is that? Have I ever done that?"

"What?"

"Date, you know!"

"I do?"

"Yeah, yeah. Remember? You've been out on a few dates? You know, you get the call, or you make the call, then a few days later you get in your car, drive somewhere to meet up with the Butch you are interested in for a movie, dinner. You know that kind of thing."

"Oh, is that what those activities were a long time ago? Well, I never really went on many of those. Maybe a couple, once or twice, maybe... Yes, okay I admit it, I did a few times. Remember what usually happened? I'd go out on one or two of those date deals, then the third time, maybe actually the second time, the date was in the bed, or sofa, on the floor, you know.. forget dinner or a movie, we'd just skip to the sex:-) There would be a few of those kind of dates, then we'd move in together."

"Hmm, actually, I think there is supposed to be something about dating that I skipped. Like maybe actually dating, you know not getting into the sex stuff so soon. I haven't done anything like that for a very long time."

"Well, not with another person, dear. You've gone out with yourself, several times. How was that?

"Very fun. But you know, I hadn't even taken myself on a date before I jumped into the sack with myself."

"You hussy! I don't think its supposed to work that way when you date someone else, you know."

"Well, it didn't, I did wait until the second or third date when I dated someone else."

"Kayso, I've established that not only would I date myself, but I do date myself."

"Yes, dear, you have. Do you date anyone else?"

"Um, no."

"Do you want to?"

"Um...well...I don't know. Maybe...but, then maybe not. I don't think I really understand about dating."

Well, there you have it. I think my Gemini brain is done having a conversation with itself on the topic of the question.
:seeingstars:

AtLast 02-28-2011 04:55 AM

Yes, I would. I'm intelligent, honest, polite and a good dancer.... ;?)...

:byebye:

DapperButch 02-28-2011 07:08 AM

I can't remember if I posted in this thread already or not, but I am too lazy to look.

No, I would not date me. My core self, my values, yes, I would.

But, I can be too self absorbed at times, I think. No one I have dated has actually called me that, but I think it is accurate. I can get in my own head and focused on my own stuff, I think.

Also, I can become a bit emtionally distant and unaccessible, at times. Just because of the above, I think (not b/c I am "distancing", per se). I can be brought back, but personally, I like a more attentive partner! I HAVE gotten WAY better over time, though!

MrSunshine 02-28-2011 07:16 AM

fabulously

Jaques 02-28-2011 09:21 AM

I would date me for the super dinners i give - at least I'd get a good meal outa me :jester:

Julie 02-28-2011 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by MrSunshine (Post 292083)
fabulously

You would say that!
Me on the other hand...
I know I have said it before!
No F*G* Way.

BullDog 02-28-2011 11:24 AM

I think I already am. Except she never takes me anywhere. She's always working.

proximitywithoutintimacy 02-28-2011 11:41 AM

Would I date myself?

No.

But... would I sleep with myself?

Absolutely ;)

PumaJ 03-26-2011 12:49 PM

I am still only dating myself, these days. But..I have started having conversations with others about what dating is in regard to dating another person. I can't believe I am so ignorant in this area! But, within a year or so of coming out, the Feminist "movement" hit the San Francisco area and dating between lesbians seemed to get pushed out the window along with Butch & Femme.

In high school I didn't date because I wasn't interested in guys. I did hang out with my girlfriends, a lot. But they were as femme as I was and not latent lesbians, anyway. Plus, back then, even the "free love" attitude of the hippies in San Francisco did not include owning oneself as "gay" in the high schools of the city.

I think I've actually been practicing dating on myself the past few years and I'm a pretty good date, now;-) Maybe, someday I'll get good enough at it that I will actually date someone else! What a concept:-)

Quintease 04-07-2011 10:08 AM

Date myself? Oh no. For starters, neither of us would be able to decide where to go, I'd probably take offence at myself then be offended that I was offended, I'd have an opinion which went against everything that I believed, and I'd wanna be on top and so would I, so neither of us would be happy.

I much prefer dating other people thanks.

Kaison 04-14-2011 02:10 PM

I think I would if I were less hairy and had boobs and no muscles.

Abigail Crabby 04-14-2011 02:57 PM

Why yes I would

I'm cute
I'm funny
I'm true blue
I'm sweet
I'm adorable

And I'll do my best to beat you at any and all video games ;) :byebye::blueheels:

Heart 04-14-2011 06:35 PM

I'd totally date me. I'm a great conversationalist.

julieisafemme 04-14-2011 08:16 PM

I would not date me. Nothing personal. I am already spoken for.

violaine 05-02-2011 06:56 PM

yes. fork yeah! i appreciate: space, motorbikes, animals, multidimensionality, insects, twisted humour, differences, being activist/advocating - for The Good Fight, baked goods, getting lost, and nature [as a language also]. the big turn on>> crazy dancing in the kitchen, talking about art, an ability to see all the way round something, and maintain a reservoir of abundant bounce-back if holding on tight for the long run. right buttons pushed, please.

hpychick 05-02-2011 08:51 PM

Good Question
 
Oh Hell No.

Although, I am totally cute and funny and an excellent cook and a good hearted woman who'd like be loving a good hearted man, er woman :| (however IDed?) .

But, alas, I digress; the answer - more vehemently and with passion: Oh. Hell. No.


MissPriss 05-02-2011 09:12 PM

Absolutely...not. I am quite a handful, it takes a certain kind of person to handle me. Im not that person I would most likely kill me lol

Ciaran 05-03-2011 01:38 PM

I am moody, vain, sometimes petulant and can be a bit of a prima donna .... therefore, I probably would date myself but this would be a bad thing as the "relationship" would break-up with acrimony after a few dates. :hrmph:

Deborah 05-03-2011 03:30 PM

From a me place yes I probably would because I know me and get me....

From an 'other' place I would WANT to because I think I have a lot to offer...I love spoiling someone and being affectionate,Im funny, not too smart but can carry a conversation, I'm an excelllent cook, love critters, love chillin on the porch listening to the frogs (my special time is 7pm), I'm a home body and am very home oriented but I can be taken out in public without embarrassing you....

BUT I expect back what I give, attention, conversation, sex, understanding, same standard of living, similar levels of energy, I will make you the center of my world but it is a requirement that I be the center of yours....it can be all about you as long as you make me think its all about me :)

To me all that is pretty simple but again thats from a 'me place' and I get me most of the time....hmmm I wonder if I am available Friday night...lol

Janny 05-03-2011 03:41 PM

Nah...I'm just not my type. :p

Diva 05-03-2011 03:41 PM

Oh hellz yeah.....I would date me, I would eat my cooking, I would take me to heaven and back and show me how a Rubenesque redheaded wickedlyinnocentwildwoman should be treated and make me thank me later. Then I would kiss me deeply and ask me to marry me. I might do that in Belize, but shhhhhh....don't tell me that part.






redrose 05-05-2011 09:50 AM

date myself? why not? but enter into a relationship, i have to think a million times...

- physically speaking, you can't put me on display
- change moods easily
- nagger
- freakin jealous type, (as in paranoid)
- you'll be walking on eggshell
- not easy to handle
- you can never ever go out of the relationship

oh what was the question again,,,
would you date yourself?
YES, why not :)

1QuirkyKiwi 12-03-2011 08:41 AM

....Bump! :D

I date myself sometimes - I enjoy being with people, but, I don’t need constant social interaction and I also enjoy my alone time, allowing me to process my thoughts, feelings, to do my hobbies, to feel the Ocean bubbles gently kissing my feet or whatever I feel like doing.

Would I date me as a person? …….Ummm……..yes and no! LOL! I’ve been told I can be a handful (minds out of the gutters! LOL!). I’m an offbeat person with a somewhat demented sense of humour - having been told I often have people laughing in stitches and sometimes gob-smacked (although you may wonder just how my mind works! LOL!) I appreciate not everyone will understand me as a person and some have tried to tame me! I’m free-spirited, determined, most definitely unique and a little rebellious (within the law, lol!) at times. I refuse to conform to any ‘label’ that could possibly be given to me.

I have an abundance of thoughtfulness, love, affection, resourcefulness, sensuality, intuition, instinct, loyalty, devotion and kindness. These traits I’d DEFINITELY date me for and the sense of humour! As for being a handful, I’m not sure I could cope with that to be honest! LOL! I would have to have a loving and tolorent, yet, disciplined nature – one that is firm, but, not aggressive. Also, I’d need an amazing amount of energy to keep up with me! LOL!





Gemme 12-03-2011 04:53 PM

I've decided I would if it were an open relationship.

Slowpurr 12-30-2011 08:21 AM

Yes, because I am a caring, decent individual who tries deeply to be as honest as possible.

...and No because I can be rigid and selfish in my needs.

Morgan 12-30-2011 12:14 PM

Hell No....too butch, would be like dating my best buddy. Not that I don't have all the good qualities I am looking for in someone though, lol.

Daktari 12-30-2011 12:17 PM

Nope...I don't date numpties!

apretty 12-30-2011 12:21 PM

yes and often!

Queerasfck 12-30-2011 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by apretty (Post 495076)
yes and often!

She would also tell herself never to call again, tell herself to **** off, and then hang up.
But it would all work out in the end.

apretty 12-30-2011 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by John Shaft (Post 495084)
She would also tell herself never to call again, tell herself to **** off, and then hang up.
But it would all work out in the end.

i would NOT! MYSELF would have to common sense to stop calling. xoxo

MissItalianDiva 12-30-2011 12:37 PM

LOL....hell no! I think I am pretty wonderful and a great catch but I don't have the ability or patience to deal with me sometimes

ButchEire 12-30-2011 12:37 PM

Nope,

I'm just not attracted to blue eyes. True story.

apretty 12-30-2011 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by ButchEire (Post 495100)
Nope,

I'm just not attracted to blue eyes. True story.

me too! thankfully E's are green but I usually prefer brown--brown soulful terrier eyes.


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