Someone who doesn't make promises, they know they can't keep! Or runs off when they find out about other aspects of my life.

I want a partner who appreciates sharing the daily acts of living. One who is capable of communicating difficult things without raising their voice, and can have difficult discussions, rather than walking away or ending the relationship. I want to be with a woman/girl who adores me, as much as I adore her, one who loves being sexual and kinky and isn't afraid to make noise. I want a partner who enjoys taking walks with me, someone who readily shares what is going on in their life and mind, enjoys expressing their creativity, and likes to read books.

I know there are more things, but this is what is on my mind this evening.

I've resisted saying I give up meeting someone. But really, I give up. Looking in my area or online makes no difference. I don't know how other peeps find true love. The whole concept escapes me. Totally. Despite my attitude I would genuinely like a butch friend to just hang with and do stuff.

But have pretty much given up on that also.

Ideally would enjoy two sided conversations, coffee in the early morning air. Deep discussion. Sharing, mutual compassion, empathy and humor.

Ya I know. Good luck with that. :rofl:

Must have four paws on the ground ... that is the extent of my close relationships ... and I am good with it. :)

My trust tends to thin out in a hurry regarding anything else. I don't even want to be bothered. Please leave me out of your happy horse chit. (translation: sweet candy-coated lies)

I love my dog ... and about 3 people. ;)

Hey SleepyButch, I'll watch scary movies with you ... but we both already know to skip the hand-holding and cuddling with each other parts. LOL!
;)

Looks like we have a group of scary movies buffs hear,I have well over 100 scary movies,some are on tape and some on disk.I love the old grade B ones from when I was a kid,cheesy as all heck but fun to watch....we should have a movie night.

I've been grabbed, pinched, punched, and slapped a few times at scary movies. It kind of comes with the territory. lol

Dang SB... I'm too busy screaming and covering my eyes to hit or grab... for classic B movies I'm changing the dialogue and laughing ... I vote we all go over to Rockin's place... he's a chef!!!! I have a collection of 200 horror and sci fi. I'll bring it too.

I make a mean nacho platter. :koolaid:

Excellent list!

:hangloose:

For me personally, some of the things I need would be:

• Someone who is intellectually curious, especially a full-on nerd. So sexy. http://www.4smileys.com/smileys/cool...-glasses28.gif
• Lots of physical affection (both sexualized and non-sexualized). Let's touch base throughout the day, acknowledge each other's presence, engage in little pats and rubs and taps and shoulder kisses "just because." It makes me feel loved and all warm and mushy inside. :heartbeat:
• To feel like a priority in their life (as appropriate). Obviously all relationships have different levels and different standards of what's appropriate given its stage, but I think you should always feel like the person you're with is with you because they're interested in you specifically and see that they make a point to make room for you in their life. My presence in your life should not feel incidental or casual and I should not feel like I'm just filling a slot.
• An animal lover. Few things cuter than watching a butch fawn over a furry four-legger. I'm outnumbered by the furballs in my home and I like it that way. :dog: :ballcat: http://i264.photobucket.com/albums/i...ciGoss/cat.gif
• Someone who's open minded, willing to really listen to other people's opinions, and open to having their own changed.
• Someone who respects my time as much as I respect theirs. This can include making plans ahead of time and sticking to them, not expecting the other person to automatically drop everything to be with you, making sure the phone's off and away, ensuring that the time spent together is quality time, making a point to be together one-on-one in a non-sexual context (ie - the only time you're not accompanied by their friends or family is when you're in bed together), etc.
• Strong libido. I have one. So should you*. I've dated a string of otherwise very nice people who had average to low libidos recently and I'm done with that. I want to make up for lost time! :D
• No scary movies. Sorry, Sleepy et al. Can't do it. You'll only regret it later at 3 am when I'm elbowing you in the ribs or maniacally clawing at you in my sleep with my horror movie-induced nightmares. :|
• Chocolate. :chocolate:
  

Someone who is kind, loving, understanding, loves my dogs and funny! :)

I want lots and lots and lots of kissing.

I like to get all snuggled up in bed, get the low light just right and make those funny shadow images on the wall with our hands ... and giggle a lot ... then when we tire of that ... you know ... and I want to do it all now long ... ;)


And yes, butches do giggle. :)

I keep thinking of things....

Sooooo someone who likes to dance or at least puts up with the fact that I do.

back to fever
 

hey fever, I will lean forward in the theater while you, SleepyB and I watch the scary movie. You can claw my back all you want. I have not had that in a while. :)

Lol, Way to capitalize on someone's fright. She gets comfort and you get your back scratched. Win-Win in my book... lol

oh yes, slow dance hold her close against me, breathing in her scent ...

Someone who dances in the store with me... will stop driving so I can dance to my favorite songs... watches intently when I dance.... sigh.

Geez... I miss disco nights.

Disco!!!! I love disco. I'm positive that person is out there for you somewhere! Don't give up!

Someone who wants to be seduced and teased building that sexual tension between us.

Someone who will give massages and doesn't mind sitting in the middle of the bench seat next to me in my truck!

I think I would rather it be my face ... instead of the bench. :)

"As long as I have a face, sweetheart, you will always have a place to sit."

Sometimes some femmes are so funny. I make a crude, tacky sexual comment like the one above. They won't thank me publicly but will make notice of it in the hidden private comments reputation type points.

raising index finger to mouth - shhhhh, I won't tell *wink*
No worries, our secret! LOL! ;)

For someone................to get a home job so they can take out the damn trash!!!!!!!!!

:hamactor:

In reality Gemme, I would be very different in my remarks here if I were wanting or hopeful of finding a partner online ... a lot more keyed down and respectable acting... but since I would not even consider a LDR, I think maybe I go for the effect ... see what kind of playfulness can be evoked if I am in a "take it to the edge" mood. And if I drop off the edge, no one cares and I do not mind at all either. :)

Oh my goodness I didn't see this till now and Thank you!

Takes Gold Star and runs off with it!

............. :| <……… taking out trash face.

Oh and takes the rose and puts you in my room, in water!

:|Sorry had a dummy moment!

Yeah....every sunday night, that's my face. And a few others I will not share in polite company.

:| < Sunday AND Wednesday night face..... and the push giant trash can to curb face will remain undisclosed to protect the innocent. :pirate-steer: arrrggghh!!

I had a dummy moment also. I couldn't figure out why you took the rose and then put Sweet Bliss in your room in water... lol

To each their own I suppose.. I'm still cracking up.

HAHAHA Poor Sleep!

I just thought of this one or actually have thought of it in the past but was reminded of it tonight...

I need to be in a relationship with someone who truly appreciates me and my romantic side. It brings me a lot of joy and pleasure being romantic whether it's small gestures or large ones. I love it so she must also!

I often don't participate in this type thread because I can't put together the correct words for my feelings...but if I may with Sleepy's permission, plagiarize his post? My feelings exactly...as well as, I need and want someone that's emotionally stable, secure and confident. I need/want a healthy relationship, with healthy, positive energy that's built on a foundation of respect, integrity, and mutual acceptance and "listening to" each other's boundaries, desires and space...I need a relationship without fear of abuse, narcissistic or energy draining people....

In 2008, I was awarded the maximum 3 year restraing order against (a cismale that I hadn't been in a relationship with but I had allowed too close to my son and myself) who was very narcissistic and abusive. I learned a lot during that experience and what I needed in my relationships.
My main goal is a very healthy, very stable, mutually affectionate, deep connection with a compatible person who doesn't" crash" or get abusive when I need space or interact with friends and family.

A SOLID foundation to our connection (example friends first and getting to know each other slowly) is my key...as I've seen other relationships crumble very quickly when their foundation is built on resentfulness, spite, jealousy, or negative intentions.