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DapperButch 02-11-2012 08:07 PM

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Originally Posted by princessbelle (Post 525085)
She was just magical.

Magical really is the right word. I graduated from high school in 1988, so Whitney was a big singer in my high school years.

Now, you guys are going to think me whacked, but this is no bullshit.

I took at nap between 6:30 - 7:00pm tonight. During that nap I had a dream about Whitney. Well, really, it was a dream about a high school friend who I haven't thought about in a long time who was a huge fan of hers. The dream/ensuing wakeful thinking, was about my friend and her attachment to Whitney. I mean, I can't even tell you the last time I thought about Whitney Houston.

An hour after I wake up I read about this. How weird is that?

princessbelle 02-11-2012 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch (Post 525094)
Magical really is the right word. I graduated from high school in 1988, so Whitney was a big singer in my high school years.

Now, you guys are going to think me whacked, but this is no bullshit.

I took at nap between 6:30 - 7:00pm tonight. During that nap I had a dream about Whitney. Well, really, it was a dream about a high school friend who I haven't thought about in a long time who was a huge fan of hers. The dream/ensuing wakeful thinking, was about my friend and her attachment to Whitney. I mean, I can't even tell you the last time I thought about Whitney Houston.

An hour after I wake up I read about this. How weird is that?

I don't find that weird at all or maybe i don't find that weird because i'm weird. But, weirdly enough, i was thinking about Whitney just yesterday and even said to my mom "What ever happened to Whitney Houston, i haven't heard about her in a long time". My mom's response was "Well, we can only hope she is alive and happy somewhere."

So yeah....weird. I agree.

I'm just so freaking sad over this. I'm listening to all these songs and words people have posted and crying. Its so terribly sad. I truly believe she was an angel on earth.

She blessed so many people with her voice, her smile, her strength and her radiance.


Gráinne 02-11-2012 08:27 PM

Well, I'm weird, too, then :(. For some reason, I was just belting out "Wanna Dance With Someone" yesterday in the car, and hoping she would get back on track and make a comeback. It's been years since I heard one of her songs. I read she even had some work coming up and was clean.

I'm more torn up over this than losing the wreck that Michael Jackson had become.

macele 02-11-2012 08:34 PM

talent, just natural born talent. she was put on this earth to sing. and sing she did. i sure am sorry to hear this.

walking thru the house about a week ago, i over heard the tv ... talking about her addiction. she lived on the edge.

may you rest in peace, whitney houston.

Mr Nice Guy 02-11-2012 09:08 PM

I just can't believe it, I'm shocked.

mustangjeano 02-11-2012 09:17 PM

I just heard about Whiyney on Tv. I can't believe it. Her music was such a part of my life especially in the eighties. What a voice. She was a master! I was really hoping that she would soon come back better than she had been for quite awhile. Such a loss.

Skittlesluver 02-11-2012 09:37 PM

Sad Sad day for the music world...Whitney was a great performer and an awesome singer....R.I.P. Whitney :vigil:

Okiebug61 02-11-2012 10:02 PM

I cant' believe the media makes us watch a 30 second bank commercial to listen to her sing the national anthem. I so *(*** sick of corporate commercial CADFADFDSDSSDf I could puke. God Bless you Whitney.

~ocean 02-11-2012 10:19 PM

** sings I will always love you ** rip whitney

Scuba 02-11-2012 10:25 PM

Tragic indeed...in life and in death...

Leigh 02-11-2012 11:00 PM

R.I.P. Whitney, you will for sure be missed :(

Mtn 02-11-2012 11:52 PM

It's a very sad loss, but I hope her life lessons will be absorbed by the up and coming artists, RIP Whitney, few have ever been able to carry a note like you.

MissItalianDiva 02-12-2012 12:03 AM

Such a tragic loss. I had the honor of seeing and meeting her when I was a little girl while my dad was working on a production. The strength of her voice and her energy I will NEVER forgot. RIP Whitney...

Greyson 02-12-2012 02:33 AM

May she rest in peace. Certainly one of the best. I am not trying to be disrespectful in any way here. Do any of you remember before she married Bobby Brown all the rumors that she was a lesbian? She had the "friend" that was I believe a friend of her childhood. The friend played basketball and was her constant companion. I wonder where this woman is tonight.

My condolances to Whitney's daughter, mother, her ex-husband, her entire family and all of the people, fans who loved her.

musicman 02-12-2012 05:58 AM

Whitney
 
There was a time when I was able to walk long distances. I chose to walk in a local cemetery. It was peaceful and serene albeit for a male in his 30's who obviously lost his wife at a young age. He had his car door open and blasting out of the speakers was Whitney's song I will Always Love You. It was hard to hear the song over this young man's wailing. In watching the tributes of Whitney last night and hearing that song it brought me back to a young man's lost. I wonder what he is feeling today as we all try to deal with this tragic lost.

AtLast 02-12-2012 06:28 AM

Whitney Houston had an amazing range and depth in voice- one of the greatest we will ever know. Her ability to change keys in the middle of a song like it was routine was a vocal talent few have ever had.

Of course there is a lot of speculation about her death. We will have to wait for causation. Something on my mind is that due to her longterm coke use, her heart could have very well been damaged and it might end up she died of heart failure without any drugs in her system. I fear suicide as well because she was struggling so much with her music career comeback and dif lose some of her voice range. And her being an abused woman that obviously had poor self-esteem. yes, even someone as beautiful and talented as her can have low self-esteem- happens all of the time. Also, I hope to hell that she did not have one of the Hollywood docs to the stars that scripted her narcotics for sleep, etc. and her death was due to prescription drug abuse along with alcohol. Thinking about Heath Ledger and MJ (others) here.

She struggled so much with getting clean & sober and being able to remain so. It is like this for some addicts especially if they never get to the emotional components of their addiction. And like so many stars, she could never get away from the media when in crisis.

I feel really sad about this because it might be a story we have heard far too often about the deaths of music icons that have brought something extraordinary to their art. My heart goes out to her family and especially her young daughter.

I hope people see beyond the addiction and poor choices in her life plus just plain being fragile at certain points and see that she was simply human dealing with things that for most people are not judged continually in the public eye.

SnackTime 02-12-2012 06:47 AM

Rest In Peace Whitney Houston! You will be dearly missed.

My thoughts and prayers go out to her family

I just heard on the news a little while ago, she passed in her hotel room hours before Clive Davis' Grammy party. They reported, finding prescription medication(s), but no illegal drugs were found.

DapperButch 02-12-2012 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Greyson (Post 525211)
May she rest in peace. Certainly one of the best. I am not trying to be disrespectful in any way here. Do any of you remember before she married Bobby Brown all the rumors that she was a lesbian? She had the "friend" that was I believe a friend of her childhood. The friend played basketball and was her constant companion. I wonder where this woman is tonight.

My condolances to Whitney's daughter, mother, her ex-husband, her entire family and all of the people, fans who loved her.

Robin Crawford.

SugarFemme 02-12-2012 09:42 AM

Whitney, I hope you are able to find the peace that you so desperately sought in life. You will be missed. You touched many many lives. Including mine.

adorable 02-12-2012 10:18 AM

http://i1152.photobucket.com/albums/...rl/whitney.jpg

UofMfan 02-12-2012 10:33 AM

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Originally Posted by GPS (Post 525383)


The link you posted doesn't work and I have not found any credible news sources reporting this.

SoulShineFemme 02-12-2012 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by GPS (Post 525383)

Down at the bottom of the page this link leads to there is a disclaimer that the website is 100% fake.

GPS 02-12-2012 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by SoulShineFemme (Post 525400)
Down at the bottom of the page this link leads to there is a disclaimer that the website is 100% fake.

nice, my apologies

UofMfan 02-12-2012 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by GPS (Post 525396)
http://keanu.reeves.mediafetcher.com...tor_skiing.php

this link is working all over facebook


This one is. Still nothing in the major news feeds.

Hoaxes are easily done, this is why I always check credible sources.

SoulShineFemme 02-12-2012 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by GPS (Post 525401)
nice, my apologies

No worries. I'm just so glad the story wasn't true. I was kinda freaking out there for a min. :)

GPS 02-12-2012 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by UofMfan (Post 525403)

This one is. Still nothing in the major news feeds.

Hoaxes are easily done, this is why I always check credible sources.

i feel bad enough lol so i deleted them luckily i could do that. i have searched all over. i will watch and read before posting a death

UofMfan 02-12-2012 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by GPS (Post 525408)
i feel bad enough lol so i deleted them luckily i could do that. i have searched all over. i will watch and read before posting a death


Thank you. Due diligence is important when posting any such news.

CherylNYC 02-12-2012 11:25 AM

I was and am inspired by this woman's life and work.

(I'm really bad at this, so this link may or may not work.)

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/02/12/us...nt&tntemail1=y

Patricia Stephens Due Dies at 72; Campaigned for Civil Rights

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Patricia Stephens Due, center, in a protest at a segregated theater in 1963 in Tallahassee, Fla.
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Patricia Stephens Due, whose belief that, as she put it, “ordinary people can do extraordinary things” propelled her to leadership in the civil rights movement — but at a price, including 49 days in a stark Florida jail — died on Tuesday in Smyrna, Ga. She was 72.

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The cause was thyroid cancer, her daughter Johnita Due said. She had moved to Smyrna, an Atlanta suburb, to be near her family after living in Miami.

At 13, Patricia Stephens challenged Jim Crow orthodoxy by trying to use the “whites only” window at a Dairy Queen. As a college student, she led demonstrations to integrate lunch counters, theaters and swimming pools and was repeatedly arrested.

As a young mother, she pushed two children in a stroller while campaigning for the rights of poor people. As a veteran of integration and voting rights battles, she went on to fight for economic rights, once obstructing a garbage truck in support of striking workers. As an elder stateswoman of the movement, she wrote a memoir to honor “unsung foot soldiers.”

She fought beside John D. Due Jr., a civil rights lawyer, whom she married in 1963. For their honeymoon, they rode the Freedom Train to Washington to hear the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. give his “I Have a Dream” speech.

Mrs. Due paid a price for this devotion. She wore large, dark glasses day and night because her eyes were damaged when a hissing tear gas canister hit her in the face. She took a decade to graduate from Florida A&M University because of suspensions for her activism.

Her F.B.I. file ran more than 400 pages. Her stepfather urged her to give up civil rights, to protect her and his own job. She was kicked and threatened with dogs, including a German shepherd whose police handlers gave it a racial slur for a name.

Mrs. Due’s greatest prominence came after she and 10 other students were arrested for sitting at the “whites only” lunch counter at a Woolworth’s store in Tallahassee, Fla., on Feb. 20, 1960. It was 19 days after four black students in Greensboro, N.C., had made civil rights history by doing the same thing.

Mrs. Due and seven others refused to pay $300 fines for violating laws they abhorred. Five served the full 49-day sentence.

As leader of the sit-in, Mrs. Due became a national figure. Jackie Robinson sent her a diary for her jail-time thoughts. James Baldwin, Harry Belafonte and Eleanor Roosevelt endorsed her efforts. Dr. King sent a telegram saying, “Going to jail for a righteous cause is a badge of honor and a symbol of dignity.”

It was not easy behind bars. She and her sister, Priscilla Stephens Kruize, her compatriot in many battles, had to share a narrow bed. They suspected that a mentally disturbed woman was placed in the cell to unnerve them. Food was awful; nights were cold.

Thurgood Marshall, head of the NAACP Legal Defense and Educational Fund, questioned whether it was all worth it, given the deplorable state of Southern jails. But the drama of righteous incarceration seized the nation’s attention, a freed Mrs. Due went on a national fund-raising tour and the “jail-in” became a movement standard.

Patricia Gloria Stephens was born on Dec. 9, 1939, in Quincy, Fla., and was raised in Belle Glade, Fla. As high school students, she and Priscilla, who was 15 months older, started a petition to have the principal removed, The Miami Herald reported in 1990. Patricia said the two were “always testing things.”

In 1959, she formed a local chapter of the Congress of Racial Equality. It was the beginning of life as “a professional volunteer,” in her daughter’s words. She worked with youths, helped out in political campaigns and spoke on human rights issues. In the last year of her life, state, county and local governments in Florida honored her.

In addition to her husband of 49 years, her sister and her daughter, Mrs. Due is survived by two other daughters, Tananarive Due and Lydia Due Greisz; a brother, Walter Stephens; and five grandchildren.

In 2003, Mrs. Due and her daughter Tananarive, a novelist, wrote “Freedom in the Family: A Mother-Daughter Memoir of the Fight for Civil Rights.” The book discusses thorny issues like black people’s ambivalence about the civil rights struggle in the movement’s early days and the emotional turmoil of children whose parents are activists. It also contains many tales of courage.

“Stories live forever,” Mrs. Due liked to say. “Storytellers don’t.”

Lady Pamela 02-12-2012 11:37 AM

Miss Whitney Houston dies at 48


Miss Houston, May you sore free now and your transendance be beautiful and all you ever imagined and then some!
Thank you not only for your voice but also for being such a powerful role model with domestic abuse.
You helped many see it was possible to get out and leave.

You will be seriously missed by many, myself most definately included.


http://www.foxnews.com/entertainment...on-dies-at-48/


.

Chancie 02-12-2012 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Greyson (Post 525211)
May she rest in peace. Certainly one of the best. I am not trying to be disrespectful in any way here. Do any of you remember before she married Bobby Brown all the rumors that she was a lesbian? She had the "friend" that was I believe a friend of her childhood. The friend played basketball and was her constant companion. I wonder where this woman is tonight.

My condolances to Whitney's daughter, mother, her ex-husband, her entire family and all of the people, fans who loved her.

I can't believe that Whitney Houston is dead.

I came out in the '80s and I remember dancing to her music at the Duchess in the West Village. I always thought that she had a gorgeous strong powerful voice. Years later, when she was a guest on Saturday Night Live, she was hysterically funny in a skit with that little girl who used to smell her own armpits.

I did hear rumors that she was a lesbian and I remember her saying, I'm not a gay girl. Why would I be a gay girl? People said, Why doesn't she just say, I'm not a lesbian, but so what if I was.

When I heard that she was struggling with drugs and alcohol, I did wonder if her own internalized homophobia contributed to her suffering, and I felt so sad for her.

Of course I don't know whether she had a girlfriend, or was a lesbian, or that she died from drug use, poor thing.

tapu 02-12-2012 04:38 PM

Oh, sure, everyone cares about Whitney Houston dying, but what about the 86 Syrians who lost their lives today? Is it because they're white??

princessbelle 02-12-2012 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by tapu (Post 525601)
Oh, sure, everyone cares about Whitney Houston dying, but what about the 86 Syrians who lost their lives today? Is it because they're white??

Please, please tell me this is a joke!!!! Are you freaking kidding me Tapu? I don't believe i've heard a word said about Syrians and that no one cared. Is it because no one mentioned it? For real? What about the millions of POC AND white people that die and have died daily in wars, in epidemics, due to no food or shelter, and continue to die daily, world wide....are YOU saying you don't care about them now? Because you didn't mention those people either?????

I don't get steamed about many things on here but this has got my blood boiling.

Because we mention someone famous dying and just because she so happens to be a POC, now we are all "haters of whites"? Really????????

That's beyond rediculous!!!!!

SugarFemme 02-12-2012 04:46 PM

Are you serious?? Do you realize how racist this post is?? Your post was so wrong and offensive on may levels. We have all posted out of emotion, but sometimes you have to think about how what you say will hurt others.




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Originally Posted by tapu (Post 525601)
Oh, sure, everyone cares about Whitney Houston dying, but what about the 86 Syrians who lost their lives today? Is it because they're white??


CherylNYC 02-12-2012 04:57 PM

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Originally Posted by tapu (Post 525601)
Oh, sure, everyone cares about Whitney Houston dying, but what about the 86 Syrians who lost their lives today? Is it because they're white??

I've never reported a post before. This one is beyond the pale.

Janny 02-12-2012 05:01 PM

The fact that none of you get it, is beyond the pale.

DapperButch 02-12-2012 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by tapu (Post 525601)
Oh, sure, everyone cares about Whitney Houston dying, but what about the 86 Syrians who lost their lives today? Is it because they're white??

What the hell, dude? If this is a joke, it is a poor one. Really, guy. This is the RIP thread for the death of well known figures.

DapperButch 02-12-2012 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Janny (Post 525620)
The fact that none of you get it, is beyond the pale.

I "get it", I just don't find it humorous.

tapu 02-12-2012 05:06 PM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch (Post 525623)
I "get it", I just don't find it humorous.


Well, let me hear how you explain it.

tapu 02-12-2012 05:09 PM

Here's what I have to say after hearing various reactions, and I'll stand by it:

I'm truly sorry that some are offended, but when I think of a line like that that exposes and challenges the dominant paradigm in our society, I can't concern myself with who won't get it. There will always be those who don't. I still have to just grit my teeth and post it. Believe me: If you got the joke, you'd love it.

BullDog 02-12-2012 05:13 PM

Tapu you aren't challenging any paradigms. You're racist.


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