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catlady 01-03-2016 04:42 PM

I like to play my violin or any other instruments when I feel icky. Something about playing music helps me feel connected and sexy again.

grenade 06-22-2016 07:35 AM

I'm bringing sexy back. (Bump)

Gemme 06-22-2016 08:07 AM

Right now, in this moment? I'm sweaty.

Not sticky sweaty but half evaporated sweat from a good workout sweaty. Part of it is endorphins but there's something slightly erotic about seeing a fine sheen upon my body and feeling strong and powerful from the effort I made to get there. It plays to the raw, disheveled porno sexy part of me.

TL1 06-22-2016 08:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1071950)
Right now, in this moment? I'm sweaty.

Not sticky sweaty but half evaporated sweat from a good workout sweaty. Part of it is endorphins but there's something slightly erotic about seeing a fine sheen upon my body and feeling strong and powerful from the effort I made to get there. It plays to the raw, disheveled porno sexy part of me.


Yup, that's sexy :)

Zimmeh 06-22-2016 09:54 AM

Having someone respect me for being a quirky girl that likes to talk a lot about my pup and family.

Zimmeh

Gráinne 06-22-2016 10:02 AM

Returning to this thread:

On a purely physical sexy level, it would be taking a long swim and soaking in the hot tub. Then I like to scrub myself down and shave. Wow!

But the rest didn't change that much; taking care of my environment, solving problems, feeling in control of myself and that no matter what, I can take care of myself. Confidence is sexy.

Genesis 06-22-2016 10:47 AM

Ooohh!
 
What a fantastic thread idea!
What brings me back to my center and makes me feel sexy....
  • Spending a day with my Beloved the ocean
  • Walking on the grass or on the sand near the coast and being present...
  • Pampering myself with a good book, writing, dancing, and learning
  • A facial will do wonders!
  • Taking me time to nourish all my levels: heart, mind, soul, spirit and self...

Talon 06-22-2016 12:22 PM

Taking a hot bath, slipping on a silky nightgown, and then sitting outside in the evening, in front of a bonfire.

Arden 06-30-2016 12:20 AM

walking tall in heels with head held high wearing "that" dress

noticing that a cute butch is noticing you....

l'Cie 07-01-2016 12:03 AM

What makes me feel sexy? Doing my hair and make-up definitely. Can't leave the house without doing that. Even if I'm just grabbing some milk and cheese at the store.

Feeling strong and awesome after a workout, knowing that my body is capable of amazing things.

My favorite perfume...really really makes me feel sexy when I'm wearing it

CherylNYC 07-02-2016 05:52 PM

If I'm wearing revealing outfit and high heels, and then I notice the definition in the muscles of my arms and shoulders. I feel sexy when I feel physically powerful.

grenade 07-02-2016 11:22 PM

Wearing my hair down. I wear it up a lot because it's quick, professional and much cooler. I always feel dowdy with my hair up, though.

Gemme 07-03-2016 08:01 AM

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Originally Posted by grenade (Post 1073775)
Wearing my hair down. I wear it up a lot because it's quick, professional and much cooler. I always feel dowdy with my hair up, though.

Because of the heat and the length and weight of my hair (to my waist), I have to put mine up all the time in summer too and it's never a chic bun or trendy style....just an old school marm bun so I get this. I prefer my hair down as well, it's just not feasible above 70 degrees.

dark_crystal 07-03-2016 08:07 AM

Right now? Not being sweaty

Bčsame* 07-03-2016 08:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1073803)
Because of the heat and the length and weight of my hair (to my waist), I have to put mine up all the time in summer too and it's never a chic bun or trendy style....just an old school marm bun so I get this. I prefer my hair down as well, it's just not feasible above 70 degrees.

oh yeah, the hair in Texas, what to do?

My hair is so thick, it feels like a turtleneck or scarf, the heat is on. I usually twist it up , but make it cute with swirls, puffs, and accessories!

When the weather cools down, I'll forget what my hair length really is, and it will be LONG...lol

grenade 07-03-2016 07:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1073803)
Because of the heat and the length and weight of my hair (to my waist), I have to put mine up all the time in summer too and it's never a chic bun or trendy style....just an old school marm bun so I get this. I prefer my hair down as well, it's just not feasible above 70 degrees.

Mine is to my waist, also. I am the queen of the messy bun. I get compliments but day after day, it's so old.

Teaandroses3 07-03-2016 09:41 PM


Getting my hair and nails done, wearing a new dress, and going out.

Gayandgray 07-07-2016 04:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by grenade (Post 1073936)
Mine is to my waist, also. I am the queen of the messy bun. I get compliments but day after day, it's so old.

I'm a messy bun queen too!!!!

imperfect_cupcake 07-11-2016 12:41 AM

These days?
Being chatted to like my looks don't matter and my brain and sense of humour does.

Buying expensive sex toys for myself. Fun factory stronic line. Hello.

legally_b10nde 08-20-2016 10:21 PM

Trying on a new lingerie set with matching high heels on front of a full size mirror.

homoe 08-20-2016 11:37 PM

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Originally Posted by legally_b10nde (Post 1084087)
Trying on a new lingerie set with matching high heels on front of a full size mirror.

Who wouldn't find that sexy :sunglass:

Gemme 08-21-2016 08:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by homoe (Post 1084110)
Who wouldn't find that sexy :sunglass:

Femmes that don't like or can't wear high heels or don't like or don't want to wear lingerie, for example.

:police:

Femmes are very individual.

For example, I feel my sexiest when I'm strong and I'm at my strongest when I'm getting a good workout and using my body with intent. Can't wear heels and lingerie in the gym and get a good workout in, plus it is against most gym decency or proper dress clauses.

femmeandstrong 08-21-2016 10:39 AM

When the combination of brains...love for nature..lazy Sunday mornings...appreciation for when I am all femmed up...
And love of good food .... photography....
Meets its match ....♡

grenade 08-21-2016 11:11 AM

Good eyebrow days make me feel sexy.

Gemme 08-21-2016 05:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by grenade (Post 1084263)
Good eyebrow days make me feel sexy.

People underestimate a good eyebrow day.

DapperButch 08-21-2016 05:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1084386)
People underestimate a good eyebrow day.

I actually have great respect for well done eyebrows on women. It's true. I notice them and comment on them. I think well done eyebrows are very important to the overall "look" to a woman's face. I think it is more common to see poorly done eyebrows than well shaped eyebrows. Of course, when I say shape I mean more than just the arch. But, I assume everyone knows this.

Anyway, it seems to me you have to have a good "eye" for it. Not every woman/man can do it well.

TL1 08-21-2016 05:27 PM

I feel singled out. I got told butches aren't supposed to post here and yet butches are posting here and the person who told me isn't saying anything. So wtf lol



Ok as you were........

Gemme 08-21-2016 05:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DapperButch (Post 1084388)
I actually have great respect for well done eyebrows on women. It's true. I notice them and comment on them. I think well done eyebrows are very important to the overall "look" to a woman's face. I think it is more common to see poorly done eyebrows than well shaped eyebrows. Of course, when I say shape I mean more than just the arch. But, I assume everyone knows this.

Anyway, it seems to me you have to have a good "eye" for it. Not every woman/man can do it well.

Very nice. Thank you.

Now get out.

Said with love and affection, of course.


Quote:

Originally Posted by TL1 (Post 1084391)
I feel singled out. I got told butches aren't supposed to post here and yet butches are posting here and the person who told me isn't saying anything. So wtf lol



Ok as you were........

You were not singled out. If you go back through the thread from the beginning, you would see that femmes have been pretty strict about this being a femme zone only and not being oogled or sexualized by butches or transguys that come in here.

Personally, I'm more receptive to messages like Dapper just posted versus posts that lean more towards viewing femmes in objectifying ways.

Also, not all messages are posted on the boards. Some are private.

Bčsame* 08-21-2016 05:39 PM

All things lacy....


Bubala 08-21-2016 05:40 PM

the way Hy looks at me... that subtle change in Hys voice...

easygoingfemme 08-21-2016 06:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1084228)
Femmes that don't like or can't wear high heels or don't like or don't want to wear lingerie, for example.

:police:

Femmes are very individual.


Exactly. I'm an idiot in high heels and I don't have a body type that works with a lot of lingerie. I don't really like it anyway.

I'm at my best when I'm healthy, exercising, happy, and being valued.
Also new on my list of things is being on the back of my butches bike when she reaches back to hold my leg while we're cruising along. Yup. That's good stuff there.

DapperButch 08-21-2016 06:06 PM

I apologize to Gemme and the other femmes. I strongly support femme only space.

introverted1 11-24-2016 04:43 PM

Are butches really not allowed to post here? I welcome their input!

As an aside, I have seen femme posts in the Butch zone...

introverted1 11-24-2016 04:44 PM

I feel completely sexy when I put on lacy underthings...there's nothing like it!

A. Spectre 11-24-2016 05:00 PM

Are butches really not allowed to post here? I welcome their input!


My femme is so so sexy when she gets out her Makita and drives a screw, we give each other that look. A femme with power tools is extremely hot. When she talks about architecture, art, science, her Facebook friends. It's all hot.

Gemme 11-24-2016 11:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by introverted1 (Post 1110559)
Are butches really not allowed to post here? I welcome their input!

As an aside, I have seen femme posts in the Butch zone...

It's in the femme zone and sometimes there are topics that femmes, in general, don't feel the need to get outside input for. Also, sometimes, people act like dipshits and post misogynistic or sexist crap or just come to ogle (although that's usually mostly in the lingerie thread), which we get enough of in the real world. It would take a bit of research but this has been rehashed a few times in some femme zone threads throughout the years.

Courteous posts usually aren't problematic but what kind of input do you need from a butch about what a femme thinks makes her feel sexy? Just curious because it's about the femme and for the femme and really doesn't have anything to do with butches or transguys unless you are thinking about the femmes that need a butch's look or touch to give them that sexy feeling. Is that what you are referring to? Those that seek outside appreciation or validation?

deeds 11-25-2016 05:39 PM

curtsy..lol

I won't come in here anymore.. I appreciate, understand and respect a Femme who keeps sacred and private places with themselves..tho I wanna know what turns her on so I can be all that and more for her in private places...

:byebye:

candy_coated_bitch 11-25-2016 05:41 PM

Painted nails!

introverted1 11-25-2016 06:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1110629)
It's in the femme zone and sometimes there are topics that femmes, in general, don't feel the need to get outside input for. Also, sometimes, people act like dipshits and post misogynistic or sexist crap or just come to ogle (although that's usually mostly in the lingerie thread), which we get enough of in the real world. It would take a bit of research but this has been rehashed a few times in some femme zone threads throughout the years.

Courteous posts usually aren't problematic but what kind of input do you need from a butch about what a femme thinks makes her feel sexy? Just curious because it's about the femme and for the femme and really doesn't have anything to do with butches or transguys unless you are thinking about the femmes that need a butch's look or touch to give them that sexy feeling. Is that what you are referring to? Those that seek outside appreciation or validation?

Duly noted, Gemme...perhaps the butches will give me permission to post an all inclusive thread in their section.

Any butches who are interested in this, please give me a yea or a nay. And of course, I would expect respectful, yet HONEST opinions. ;)

introverted1 11-25-2016 06:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by deeds (Post 1110801)
curtsy..lol

I won't come in here anymore.. I appreciate, understand and respect a Femme who keeps sacred and private places with themselves..tho I wanna know what turns her on so I can be all that and more for her in private places...

:byebye:

It was just this sort of honest communication I was looking for, deeds.


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