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Judgmental people
People that have that better than tho attitude As for possibly partners always answering I don't know when asked what they want to do or where they want to go. I mean some times it's understandable nut are you really that boring that you never know? People that are always PC Finally people that assume others ate ignorant because the person does not spell every word correctly after all this is not a class room. |
Wishy Washy
Are you in or are you out? Make up your mind! |
People that are self-centered and believe the world revolves around them. People that make other's struggles their 'own'. People that lie. People that think money makes the world go round.
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Anyone who feels the need to be loud and obnoxious out in public! Being loud and drawing attention is the main thing that'll send me running for the hill!
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What do you mean?(not just a bieber song)..people who do not know how to make up their mind.First you wanna go,then you wanna stay..then you want to go left,then you want to go right(damn,it is that JB song)..I hate that! drives me crazy!!..how about this one,how about I leave your indecisive a** by the roadside.
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A loud drunk obnoxious woman!
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Inflexible traditionalism. Doing things by the rules for the sake of the rules. Massive turn off.
Basically, people who lack critical thinking skills and depend on rules of thumb instead. There are exceptions to everything. What are they? Why? Rigidity. I do like decisiveness, but people who make up their mind very quickly, without clear reasoning scare me. People who make decisions quickly, often change them very quickly without clear reasoning too. Without notice. Capriciousness. Believing absolutely in one thing one day, and emphatically going on about it, then when their emotions change, changing direction and dismissing their past opinion as just something they were going on about. I can't trust their enthusiasm or their will. It takes a long time for me to make a decision about bigger issues. But I won't go back and forth on something. I'll be very clear I haven't made my mind up, and it will be some time before I do. I want a lot more information before I: buy a flat, purchase a car, go on a six week holiday, get a pet, or get involved in a relationship with someone. So when I watch people rushing headlong into something, I watch just how long they stick with that decision before they say "meh, that wasn't for me." And walk away from it. Big fat clue that if they do that with other things, they will do that with me. I'd rather someone took their time and didn't make promises before they knew for certain what they wanted long term, not what they want now now now. |
Are you running into shouty drunk people a lot, homoe?
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elusiveness - I value someone who is direct about their intentions at all times
being occupied - If they cant give me their undivided attention, I immediately want to walk away |
Hygiene, especially not washing your hands after you go to the bathroom, :|ewww
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Yes , hygiene & smokers are a huge turn off for me.
Among a few others. |
lack of manners,my Dad always said manners are free use them,and this includes how you speak and relate to others around you,if you think a homeless person is less than you,we just won't get on.
being secretive,someone who getting information out of is like pulling teeth,I don't want to know your bank details but I think communicating is very important,and I mean a dialogue. This sounds judgemental,but believing Fox news is actually news,I just know I will drive you nuts. |
A person insists they never lie, but then you catch them in several
A person who insists they are always right |
An instant turn off/on for me is someone's voice
You can look like Selma Hayek (my lifelong lust) or Monica Bellucci, Big Boo or even like Jensen Ackles (my man lust) but you sound like a squeaky toy or Nanny Fine, I just can't. Can't. Conversely, you're not the least bit "conventionally attractive" but you have a voice like roughened velvet or smooth like glass? I'm so there. That's like major for me. The other big one is if we just don't click intellectually or in our humor. Those are deal breakers. I value cleverness above almost everything else. |
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Dirty nails gross me out. I even notice if someone on a TV show has dirty nails. |
No matter how good someone looks, if they belittle someone else FOR NO REASON, it's a done deal. Not only will you be unattractive, I will also instantly dislike you as a person...and trip you when you walk by....just kidding. 😃
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Turn-offs
I would not pursue any type of reationship with someone that is rude, cruel, arrogant, pompous, and or disrespectful.
Although....... I do agree with my buddy Homoe, loud and obnoxious is really up there on my list. |
A smoker. Anyone who smokes cigarettes or e cigs or vape.
Really bad hygiene. That poonanny better be clean and smell good. Someone who is insistent on trying to change any aspect of me before I can try to change myself. |
Nasty teeth, not brushing and flossing, Halitosis
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Someone who can NEVER NEVER EVER admit if they're wrong!
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A "know it all" personalty type!
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Someone who is rude and condescending to waitstaff or anyone in the service industry!
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Turn-offs
Inexperienced lovers.
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people who set standards higher for others than they set for themselves. People who judge others but cant and dont live up to their own judgemental ideals.
overindulgers of any kind, from drink to eats to shopping to gambling naysayers. People who are NEVER happy, and are always seeing them in a pessimistic light/darkness poor hygiene. GOD I hate that! people who make fun of others, and especially when they justify it I dont care how much education people have..but its a huge turn off when they make fun of me for having college degrees. I am NOT an egg head without common sense just because I spent years in college. Dont tear me down if you are insecure, in other words. religious yankers. I am so offended with people who shove religion down my throat. I also agree I dont like inexperienced lovers. Taught enough. Now I bask in my husband's experience. Insensitive people. Thick headed daft emotionally immature folks. Man, getting hit by them is like a 2 x 4 hitting you in your core. |
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Turnoffs: Rude folks. Lack of independence. Lack of confidence. Passive aggressive personalities. |
A conversation monopolizer- talks non-stop and does not know the give and take of actual conversation.
A gossiper. Someone that talks trash about other people. Prudes. Though I may look like one (dress modestly, do not like my cleavage to show in everyday life, do not swear in general -yes, I know I have been saying the F word more here since Trump has been pushing my buttons but not really in the world...) I am not a prude. A Trump supporter. That is one potential relationship that would be doomed from jump street. Forgot one of the biggest: heavy drinkers and druggers. About green meds, no judgment. I don't use green meds and know that they help a lot of people but I am unsure about that. I know I am allergic to the smoke. This would have to be some kind of compromise. |
Being close minded
Rudeness Passive aggressive Cheaters Emotional drainers When someone monopolizes the conversation and does not let you speak When someone interrupts you while you are talking When someone goes on and on about their ex's (which makes you surmise they have not worked through their past) Bad hygiene Constant negativity (where every conversation is all negative to the point that you have to ask is there anything good that goes on in your world?) Drama, drama, drama |
ppl who are showy ~ attention seekers that have all the characteristics of all the above descriptions ! I tend to be quiet at first while I am adjusting to the enviorment .
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the first BIG one has to be liars. Geez, I hate liars!
People who cheat on anything. Hypocrisy. People who constantly judge people. Bright folks who've chosen not to seek higher education. Sorry, I know this is not PC, but people with lower IQs. Rude people. People who violate my privacy...logging on my computer, searching my apt., etc. Anyone Right Wing whether in office or not. Those are the ones I can think of right now...sure there are more. |
Assumptions..
When other people try to comment as to my or other people's 'label' and where I or they 'fit' based on their assumptions or label descriptors. -- kind of makes me wanna say "You dont know me!!!" Huge turn off.. unbrushed teeth, and B.O.. worse is poured on cologne like it elimates the yuck BO smell.. |
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