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Gemme 02-24-2010 09:24 PM

I have, literally, a million things I'd like to do, from the gigantic and monumental events to the small, everyday kind of common wonders things. Sadly, realistically, the vast majority of them won't happen, but I am kind of excited to (eventually) learn what things do happen and how they affect my life from that point.

Hack 02-24-2010 09:48 PM

Go to Berlin.
Go to London.
Fly a kite over the Pacific Ocean.
Learn a foreign language.
Write a screenplay.
Live abroad, even if just for a year or two.

SuperFemme 02-24-2010 09:50 PM

I want to do it all.
But if I die tomorrow, I'm cool with it so far.

How come nobody's list includes acquiring as many
screen names as possible?

Peach 02-24-2010 10:08 PM

doing one of mine this week. going to the Olympics, attending the short track speed skating finals Friday, and just wandering about soaking it all in. never thought it would be in my own backyard like this!

Sachita 03-15-2010 07:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diva (Post 48580)
I woke up thinking about my Bucket List.....I wanted to add to it, please.....

~Swim with dolphins

~Have a lovely wedding

~Be a grandmother....they shall call me Diva (which will probably wind up sounding like BeeBah or something heinous like that.... :D )

~Have tons of money to give away....that philanthropy thing appeals to me... (aka: make a difference)

(Thanks again for this thread! It's really, really neat!)

OMG when I become a grandmother I will shutter at any granny nickname. lol you just gave me nightmares!

I'm with you on the money. wouldn't that be a cool job?

JustLovelyJenn 03-15-2010 08:06 PM

Just found this thread!
 
Its a long list... so maybe I will give it to you in pieces....

... Sing solo in front of an audience of no less then 5,000
... Never stop learning
... Learn to play at least one new instrument ever 5 years
... Record my own music.

Ok, there's a few for now.

Leigh 03-15-2010 08:18 PM

I have a few things:

~ Travel to Paris

~ Graduate from college or university

~ Buy a house

~ Get My driver's license

~ Buy a car

~ Get married

~ Have kids

sylvie 03-15-2010 08:35 PM

ooo, i need to ponder this one...
i know i've a lot of things i want to do -
just cant think of them all now, or have such a long list at once, so ill come back but definitely..

watch my children graduate
& see them fall in ♥ with wonderful, loving people
skydiving
trip to australia
forgiveness... lots more of it.
find love, for myself.
roadtrip w/friends, with no destination in mind.
jump into a massive pile of skittles!
nursing course
fall completely in love
learn to play guitar
get a tatt on back of my neck

Sachita 03-16-2010 05:45 PM

adding something...

I want to camp in the woods for a month and practice my survival skills. Then I want to go live in the forest until I die.

cinderella 03-16-2010 05:47 PM

Get laid...that's it.

JustLovelyJenn 03-16-2010 07:15 PM

A few more for today (please note I actually have a writen out list of these that numbers more then 100)

.... continue my education all of my life, taking at least one course each year
.... own my own home
.... threaten my daughters first date
.... go to a Broadway show
.... watch my children BOTH graduate college

SuperFemme 03-16-2010 07:33 PM

top somebody for a night.

Jess 03-16-2010 07:39 PM

find really great reasonably priced hats in 6 5/8 and wear them all...

SuperFemme 03-16-2010 07:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jess (Post 68191)
find really great reasonably priced hats in 6 5/8 and wear them all...

i have no idea why this gave me the giggles. :harp:

Jess 03-16-2010 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by SuperFemme (Post 68196)
i have no idea why this gave me the giggles. :harp:

I remember a story read on Capt Kangaroo when I was a kid. Caps for Sale! The illustrations showed the peddler wearing all of his caps. Stacked up according to colors... I realized after I wrote "and wear them all" it might end up looking something like that. Hey! I could be tall then! ;)

SuperFemme 03-16-2010 08:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Jess (Post 68223)
I remember a story read on Capt Kangaroo when I was a kid. Caps for Sale! The illustrations showed the peddler wearing all of his caps. Stacked up according to colors... I realized after I wrote "and wear them all" it might end up looking something like that. Hey! I could be tall then! ;)

http://www.mohumanities.org/images/E...apsForSale.jpg

friskyfemme 03-16-2010 08:30 PM

I have done alot in my life I sought to do. But...

create and market my line of lotions & potions

learn to glass blow

help teach people to heal themselves

be totally 'green' (except for travel)

travel, travel, travel

cinderella 03-16-2010 09:14 PM

Addendum, if my 'bucket list' wish comes true...this is how I want it...
[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pnVOt2LK2Gg&feature=related"]YouTube- The Pointer Sisters - Slow Hand[/ame]

Soft*Silver 03-16-2010 09:19 PM

why is she laying ontop of a flattened golden retriever?

Soft*Silver 03-16-2010 09:20 PM

so this is really important for me to do soon...I want to ride a horse at least one more time....even if someone has to lead me. I know for sure I can never have a horse again because of the spinal disease I have...but I CAN ride one again, at least one more time...

cinderella 03-16-2010 09:21 PM

That's a dead bear, honey.

Quote:

Originally Posted by softness (Post 68283)
why is she laying ontop of a flattened golden retriever?


Soft*Silver 03-16-2010 09:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cinderella (Post 68288)
That's a dead bear, honey.


OMG>>WHY DID SHE KILL THE BEAR????

miss entycing 03-16-2010 09:38 PM

continuation.....
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by EntycingFemme (Post 39336)
visit the Hawaiian Islands
go snowmobiling mid-winter in
Yellowstone
explore the Canadian and American San Juan Islands
take our time and ride the Harley across country
and give my SyrDamon a baby...
:praying:



build our log chalet in the mountains
publish my erotica
open my Bed an Breakfast on Lake Lure, NC
travel to Ireland and explore every magnificent inch of it

and I will open every door, and go to every edge I've ever fantasized about........

cinderella 03-17-2010 10:24 PM

It was already dead, silly...

Quote:

Originally Posted by softness (Post 68293)
OMG>>WHY DID SHE KILL THE BEAR????


Soft*Silver 03-17-2010 11:24 PM

WHAT is wrong with her? Why is she holding onto a dead bear..????? Dear goddess...is she mounting it? Dont they neuter dogs for that reason????? And someone had to kill it, didnt they? :fudd: why would someone put that in a video????

AtLast 03-18-2010 03:49 AM

Build a home on some land I have in the Napa Valley and grow a huge garden!

Possibly share that home with someone.

Go to Italy.

Learn how to play golf.

Take off half of each year on road trips.

See Great Granchildren!!!

Learn how to cook Indian food.

Take a cruise.

Soft*Silver 03-18-2010 11:55 AM

even tho I dont drink alcohol at all, the house I am buying has a HUGE pergola filled with ancient grape vines that were used for decades to make wine...I think I need to make some wine! LOL

I too want to have an enormous garden...and am already designing the area I am inheriting with this new house. They had a huge garden, fenced in, and I will put my hands within it soon...

I want to see my daughter happy, and not so stressed with graduation, not so nervous about not being married yet, not so needy to have children yet...I want her to be in a job she loves, with a man she loves, with babies all around her that she will share with me...

I want someone to love the color of my hair, the softness of my body, the badness of my mischief, the warmth of my heart...and if not, then I wish to be on my own as I will not sacrifice the joy I feel about myself for the burden of someone else's misery they could transplant onto me...

I want to travel some...and even tho I have this spinal thing, it comes and goes and if I take care of myself, Iwill have the energy and ability to travel.

and take care of myself is #1....I want to die sober. I want to live happy joyous and free. I want to keep a healthy lifestyle and I want to glory in my ability to take care of myself...

cinderella 03-18-2010 12:09 PM

AMEN, sister!!!

Quote:

Originally Posted by softness (Post 69278)
even tho I dont drink alcohol at all, the house I am buying has a HUGE pergola filled with ancient grape vines that were used for decades to make wine...I think I need to make some wine! LOL

I too want to have an enormous garden...and am already designing the area I am inheriting with this new house. They had a huge garden, fenced in, and I will put my hands within it soon...

I want to see my daughter happy, and not so stressed with graduation, not so nervous about not being married yet, not so needy to have children yet...I want her to be in a job she loves, with a man she loves, with babies all around her that she will share with me...

I want someone to love the color of my hair, the softness of my body, the badness of my mischief, the warmth of my heart...and if not, then I wish to be on my own as I will not sacrifice the joy I feel about myself for the burden of someone else's misery they could transplant onto me...

I want to travel some...and even tho I have this spinal thing, it comes and goes and if I take care of myself, Iwill have the energy and ability to travel.

and take care of myself is #1....I want to die sober. I want to live happy joyous and free. I want to keep a healthy lifestyle and I want to glory in my ability to take care of myself...


Leigh 03-18-2010 01:34 PM

~ Visit vineyards all around Napa Valley

~ Attend atleast one Reunion event

~ Lose weight

~ Complete My transition (take hormones, change My name, get top surgery)

JustLovelyJenn 03-18-2010 06:19 PM

..... write a book
..... build a gypsy vardo
..... own my own business
..... design and sew much of my own clothing from used items
..... attend a Native American powwow

JustLovelyJenn 03-21-2010 09:46 AM

.... visit the place where I was born
.... spoil grandchildren
.... take a cruise

Sachita 03-21-2010 10:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AtLastHome (Post 69093)
Build a home on some land I have in the Napa Valley and grow a huge garden!

Possibly share that home with someone.

Go to Italy.

Learn how to play golf.

Take off half of each year on road trips.

See Great Granchildren!!!

Learn how to cook Indian food.

Take a cruise.

I love indian food. I actually was growing my own curry leaf plant but it got zapped this last winter in the greenhouse. I really need to turn you onto this. I love combining things such as indian and asian, using a good seasoned wok. I love my flavors to be exotic and when I have time, which isnt much, I could live in the garden and kitchen.

Italy- wow, that would be so wonderful. I always wanted to visit the country side. Tuscany

Sachita 03-21-2010 10:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by softness (Post 69278)
even tho I dont drink alcohol at all, the house I am buying has a HUGE pergola filled with ancient grape vines that were used for decades to make wine...I think I need to make some wine! LOL

I too want to have an enormous garden...and am already designing the area I am inheriting with this new house. They had a huge garden, fenced in, and I will put my hands within it soon...

I want to see my daughter happy, and not so stressed with graduation, not so nervous about not being married yet, not so needy to have children yet...I want her to be in a job she loves, with a man she loves, with babies all around her that she will share with me...

I want someone to love the color of my hair, the softness of my body, the badness of my mischief, the warmth of my heart...and if not, then I wish to be on my own as I will not sacrifice the joy I feel about myself for the burden of someone else's misery they could transplant onto me...

I want to travel some...and even tho I have this spinal thing, it comes and goes and if I take care of myself, Iwill have the energy and ability to travel.

and take care of myself is #1....I want to die sober. I want to live happy joyous and free. I want to keep a healthy lifestyle and I want to glory in my ability to take care of myself...

I love wine. I understand how some people can't drink. Wine is magical. There's just something about it. I rarely drink anything else.

I have a few grape vines that just started producing. I think about putting in a lot more but then I battle with time and the truth is everything I do is just too much. I'm feeling a little tired and burnt out. Part of me wants to downsize into a tiny cottage, little garden and a few fruit trees. lol- but hell, I bought the 30 acres thinking, "I'll keep part, sell part and keep it simple." Next thing you know I was putting up buildings, greenhouse, chicken coops, small orchards and the like. I'm typical Taurus.

But the key Softness is finding the right partner who shares your dreams. I always said that I would marry the person I garden with.

Soft*Silver 03-21-2010 10:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sachita (Post 70914)
IBut the key Softness is finding the right partner who shares your dreams. I always said that I would marry the person I garden with.

me too! I am so tired of being the one who is out there, sowing the seeds, transplanting, setting up the rows, watering, making fert soup, etc..etc..etc...while they think just cuz they rototilled they did their part! The real garden is in the journey to the harvest, not in the start of the soil! I think symbolically, and literally, I need someone who wants to do the active part of gardening so the harvest is truly "ours"

I also said i would marry the person who helped me have horses. I dont think I can anymore, but I do want someone who will try to fill that need somehow...

again, its part of that slow dance, that knows how to lead because they know where I will follow...

Sachita 03-21-2010 10:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by softness (Post 70916)
me too! I am so tired of being the one who is out there, sowing the seeds, transplanting, setting up the rows, watering, making fert soup, etc..etc..etc...while they think just cuz they rototilled they did their part! The real garden is in the journey to the harvest, not in the start of the soil! I think symbolically, and literally, I need someone who wants to do the active part of gardening so the harvest is truly "ours"

I also said i would marry the person who helped me have horses. I dont think I can anymore, but I do want someone who will try to fill that need somehow...

again, its part of that slow dance, that knows how to lead because they know where I will follow...

exactly. don't settle. Someone has to really step up to the plate to impress me. I'm a strong and capable woman. I can run circles around most. I'm tired really and agree that its time for someone to lead... if only they can. I will not turn the reins over to just anyone. The truth is I just might end up alone. My expectations are pretty high.

But how about we make a silver haired femme pack/group... if we're alone we'll get together and garden with each other.

Soft*Silver 03-21-2010 10:59 AM

[QUOTE=Sachita;70918

But how about we make a silver haired femme pack/group... if we're alone we'll get together and garden with each other.[/QUOTE]


Sachita..I think we should do that anyway. We dont have to be each other's last plan. Let us become friends and garden together and share our lives along the way...I am no longer looking for a punctuation mark that says "aha! There is the end of what I was looking for!" No...my moments are Now. So...I did plant peas today! And after my medical tests are done tomorrow, I will go and get stuff I need to start my gourds and punkins...

Sachita 03-30-2010 12:42 PM

I have been thinking... lol... such a dangerous thing, I know.

I dont want to wait until I die. I want to do this within the next 5 years. I'm a serious as a heart attack.

I'm so bloody sick of government and this bureaucratic BULLSHIT. I've come this far to sustainability and I need to go much further. I would like to live as people did before all of this. To be independent of money, taxes, the damn structure. Hell I'm not even sure about being green if it means I have to rely on industry to provide me parts. If I was stranded on an island it would be hard and I'd fight for my survival yet the reward is at the end of challenge when I arrive at peace and a connection to my universe. Now we can struggle to survive and it never ends. It makes us more tired, more fearful and spiritually unfulfilled. The root of this evil is money.

Is anyone else feeling this?

Sooooo, I think I'm going to make some changes and they could be drastic. There's so much more to life than this.

MrSunshine 03-30-2010 12:43 PM

Redemption.

Sachita 03-30-2010 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by MrSunshine (Post 75799)
Redemption.


::::slaps you on the forehead:::: BAM you have been redeemed!

Dante 04-03-2010 12:00 AM

As a cancer survivor of going on 19 years now, I actually made a list of sorts, and have fulfilled most of My dreams. One left is to swim with dolphins...... I can hardly wait, AND I will have the dream come true. I am glad that I have had the time to experience a lot of My dreams. I recommend everyone to try and fulfull their dreams. Life is precious, and oh so short.


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