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Plaidandroses 03-28-2019 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by ~ocean (Post 1243489)
dancing ~~~~~

I LOVE to just lose myself in the music...

Bèsame* 04-18-2019 08:21 AM

This morning..
Sitting on the balcony, wearing my nightgown, feeling the cooler temps (I'm in Texas, this is rare) on my skin, listening to the rain, and drinking coffee in my favorite pink mug.

Great way to start my day, especially a day off. (Oh, and I can hear the train whistle coming thru town)

I woke and it was dark, it's getting lighter, which means this band of thunderstorms is coming to and end.



Glenn 04-18-2019 02:46 PM

Well, right now, after a rain, just standing in the doorway of my Hermit shack by the beach, looking at the peaceful lagoon, smelling the fresh Spring air, seeing the pretty flowers and new leaves on the trees and grass growing is therapeutic.. Still too cold to swim, but I like going beach-combing. Sometimes, just sharpening my tools and knives is therapeutic, or going to the flea-market and buying an old chair or table to strip is therapeutic. Sometimes just watching some old Disney cartoon can be therapeutic for me.

CherylNYC 04-18-2019 05:30 PM

Gardening. Barefoot gardening feels fantastic. Naked gardening is the most therapeutic.

FireSignFemme 04-18-2019 06:10 PM

Writing, uncensored getting all those feelings out, then burning what I've written.

Buying canning jars too roughed up to use for canning, taking them home/outside, and smashing them all to bits. Then sweeping up the mess. Tranquil.

Ask others what they suggest when it comes to fixing a problem. Then in most cases, do my all out level best to do the exact opposite. Sometimes I don't know what the right choice is until I hear the wrong, stupid one.

Doing something nice for someone I care about who has it so much worse than me. I had a nun suggest that to me once and so long as it's done in moderation, it really is helpful.

kittygrrl 04-20-2019 12:57 PM

https://s3-media3.fl.yelpcdn.com/bph...27yuO1uw/o.jpgthe morning after

Bèsame* 04-21-2019 05:09 PM

Planting pretty geraniums on my balcony..

And they are pink!

C0LLETTE 04-21-2019 05:15 PM

Listening to Post Modern Jukebox works for me (too)

Kätzchen 10-31-2019 10:43 PM

Soaking in a hot tub, while watching the waves roll in at the beach. There's nothing like the breeze of cool salty ocean air and watching the birds fly above and hearing the waves crash onto the beach nearby, while soaking in the hot tub.

Vincent 11-01-2019 12:29 AM

walking Scout through the rainforest to dreamtime beach at dawn,just me n her and the ocean,the joy in that pitty/staffie smile they have.
playing guitar and trying to find the notes for my voice

watching the birds,in my garden,ive turned it into a mini rainforest,planting indiginous plants,that grow local to this area,attracting the local birds.

And yes,a hot bath

RebelDyke 11-01-2019 11:02 AM

sitting outside by a bonfire, watching the star or the fire, smoking a cigar

Kansas has the most beautiful stars (as well as Minnesota)

JDeere 11-01-2019 06:57 PM

Music
Sleep
Laundry, yes i said laundry... Something about clean and smelling good clothes puts me at peace

RebelDyke 11-01-2019 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by JDeere (Post 1255876)
Music
Sleep
Laundry, yes i said laundry... Something about clean and smelling good clothes puts me at peace

Weirdo.....:| as i leave the laundromat... ahahahaha. I find it kinda zen hearing all the dryers. I like mowing the lawn too. but shhhh don't say that too loudly :cigar2:

JDeere 11-01-2019 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by RebelDyke (Post 1255885)
Weirdo.....:| as i leave the laundromat... ahahahaha. I find it kinda zen hearing all the dryers. I like mowing the lawn too. but shhhh don't say that too loudly :cigar2:

:eatinghersheybar: yup I'm a huge weirdo...

RebelDyke 11-01-2019 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted by JDeere (Post 1255886)
:eatinghersheybar: yup I'm a huge weirdo...

^10 bro. :eatinghersheybar:

RebelDyke 11-01-2019 07:32 PM

I think you (JDeere) and i need to go open a laundromat...just so we could do laundry...lmao and make money

Gemme 11-01-2019 08:07 PM

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Originally Posted by RebelDyke (Post 1255885)
Weirdo.....:| as i leave the laundromat... ahahahaha. I find it kinda zen hearing all the dryers. I like mowing the lawn too. but shhhh don't say that too loudly :cigar2:

When I go to a laundromat, I love watching the comforter tumble in the giant dryer. The thump thump of the dryer plus the repetitive motion is very relaxing plus it's always warm and cozy in there.

RebelDyke 11-01-2019 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1255892)
When I go to a laundromat, I love watching the comforter tumble in the giant dryer. The thump thump of the dryer plus the repetitive motion is very relaxing plus it's always warm and cozy in there.

NICE! do you grab a bag of popcorn too!??? if not I'll join you and i'll bring the popcorn

JDeere 11-01-2019 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by RebelDyke (Post 1255888)
I think you (JDeere) and i need to go open a laundromat...just so we could do laundry...lmao and make money

Im down for that!

~ocean 11-01-2019 09:31 PM

laughter ~ along with a diverse conversation

Chad 11-01-2019 09:36 PM

Therapeutic
 
Hard labor, like yard work, home repair, automotive repair, and gardening.

Gemme 11-02-2019 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by RebelDyke (Post 1255894)
NICE! do you grab a bag of popcorn too!??? if not I'll join you and i'll bring the popcorn

No popcorn. Don't want dirty fingers handling clean clothes.

But there are TVs and some comfy chairs to wait in and they put tiny vehicles on display, like these. When the laundry's done, I'll take you to the restaurant and sushi bar next door. How's that?

RebelDyke 11-02-2019 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1255935)
No popcorn. Don't want dirty fingers handling clean clothes.

But there are TVs and some comfy chairs to wait in and they put tiny vehicles on display, like these. When the laundry's done, I'll take you to the restaurant and sushi bar next door. How's that?


NEAT! Yeah, laundromats do tend to have tvs..and they tend to play them really loudly too! haha. Alright Gemme, YOU'RE IN! in business w/me and JD that is. :cigar2: and bring the sushi... we want to attract lesbians...:sunglass:

Bèsame* 11-02-2019 08:18 PM

Cutting quilt squares, sewing them together, my cat stopping by to meow the latest 'all's good', and a good movie! (Football game too!)



I know it won't appeal to many..lol

kittygrrl 11-03-2019 06:40 AM

bird song
quiet
a full moon

Orema 11-03-2019 07:06 AM

Occasionally housework is therapeutic for me. Sometimes I get into almost a meditative state where my thoughts are free-flowing while I do repetitive work. Unfortunately, this doesn’t happen most of the time.

RebelDyke 11-03-2019 02:16 PM

sometimes for me it is the simple sound of silence that helps me focus my thoughts and process down problems. If i have music going int he background I cannot think.

Cleaning and organizing my apt also helps. Perhaps it is the whole organizing thing. IDK. I'll look more into that one.

JDeere 11-03-2019 09:24 PM

So where is this laundromat, we are supposedly going to open?

I need to do some laundry for my anxiety LOL

RebelDyke 11-03-2019 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by JDeere (Post 1256033)
So where is this laundromat, we are supposedly going to open?

I need to do some laundry for my anxiety LOL

Same, bro... but there are ZERO all night laundromats here in small town USA

JDeere 11-03-2019 09:47 PM

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Originally Posted by RebelDyke (Post 1256037)
Same, bro... but there are ZERO all night laundromats here in small town USA

The laundry room is occupied by mom LOL

Bèsame* 11-05-2019 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Bèsame* (Post 1255950)
Cutting quilt squares, sewing them together, my cat stopping by to meow the latest 'all's good', and a good movie! (Football game too!)



I know it won't appeal to many..lol

Finished two quilts, lap size.
One Christmas and the other shabby chic-ish

Quite relaxing to see finished projects.


Blade 11-28-2019 02:12 AM

Quiet

Being off work for a week. It's therapeutic for my mind.

Bèsame* 11-28-2019 07:02 AM

Up early, drinking coffee, listening to the still of the morning. I can hear the train whistle and the rumble as it travels down the track, off in the distance.

I'm about 3 blocks away.

Chad 11-28-2019 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Bèsame* (Post 1257796)
Up early, drinking coffee, listening to the still of the morning. I can hear the train whistle and the rumble as it travels down the track, off in the distance.

I'm about 3 blocks away.

I think that you may have the start of a good country music song there.

:cowboy:

Chained Daisy 11-28-2019 10:04 AM

Jigsaw puzzles, online jigsaw puzzles to be precise.

I nestled down the other evening on the sofa under a fur throw and a cat, mug of hot chocolate, twinkle lights on, candles lit and whiled away an hour or so with a jigsaw.

I find evenings like this very therapeutic. It crossed my mind how reclusive I have become in middle age. I am content.

homoe 11-28-2019 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Chad (Post 1257799)
I think that you may have the start of a good country music song there.

:cowboy:



:goodpost:

Chad I couldn't agree more, she does!

cinnamongrrl 04-27-2024 07:23 PM

Listening to death metal very loudly in my car on my way home…..

The loudness seems to balance my thoughts and make me calmer. Maybe it’s my ADD brain that makes it that way…

Gemme 06-06-2024 09:51 PM

I listen to music and tinker about the apartment, do versions of Solitaire on the computer or scroll through TikTok. The last one also keeps me up at night so I try to limit that one.

Chancie 06-08-2024 05:17 PM

I find playing in the pool at my local Y very therapeutic. I feel like a mermaid when I’m in the water. Unfortunately my right foot and ankle are healing from tendonitis, and I haven’t been able to enjoy the pool for about two weeks.

Kätzchen 06-09-2024 10:02 AM

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Spending time with people (friends and family) I love and adore and respect.

Especially with my partner. Spending quality time together with people I care about always gives me peaceful feelings and enriches my life and theirs.


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