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Good Morning Lofters! I hope everyone has a wonderful week and stays cool
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Hi Everyone! I hope all is well with each of you, and staying cool in this heat wave. Enjoy your day. :hangloose: Namaste, Andrew |
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Some people are just punks Ruthie & don't know their own mind or they are leading people on by have several to pick from the online dating pool and thinks its one of those bachelor shows on tv. Just plain rude!! |
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Just dropping bye to say hello and that I hope everyone is having a great week!
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Hey all!
It was a fun and busy weekend - just now able to get on a computer. Weekend in the country - visiting old friends and making a bunch of new ones. Lots of laughs around the fire. good times. Ruthie - I know how you feel. It seems I can never figure out what the heck is going on! I hope things work out for you. |
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THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU Apparently, you two just didn't click. It happens Ruthie. However, your date was already showing poor signs of communication, so it just may be a good thing how it ended up. Chalk this one up for experience. Not every single person you meet will work out. There's lots of weeding to be performed prior to walking in the Garden of Love. I think you're super special and any Butch that's fortunate enough to cross your path, will know that instantly when you're just being you. |
Thanks folks.. Idk.. I thought we were hitting it off. I questioned her bc her words and her actions were telling me 2 different things. Anyway.. onward. *shrug*
Anybody have any career ideas? I need to change what I am doing. I don't make enough and I am 48 ... need to start trying to save something. Everything I have been able to come up with in the last 2 years either takes too much college... too hard on my back... don't have an apptitude for.. or there is no job market for. I need to figure out something soon. Thanks. |
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G'day Lofters one and all.
I hope everyone had a fantastic weekend, there's been some proper sunshine and temperatures here in the UK for the last couple of weeks so Mrs.Incubus and I have spent the weekend whipping the garden back into shape and enjoying getting nekkid in the sun - the most enjoyable way of getting one's vitamin D! :groucho: Oooooh the vagaries of dating, keep kissing frogs Ruthie because eventually you'll find a lovely froggy to share a lily pad with. |
Good Afternoon All! I hope everyone is enjoying themselves today. I just wanted to jump on by here and say hello. Ruthie, Please ignore that person. You are a gem! Never forget that. Some lucky guy will be thrilled to have you on his arm! Andrew |
afternoon everyone :) got home safe and sound from the cross country drive to Seattle... tired, road weary and emotionally drained, but no speeding tickets, not sure how that happened, lol..... ! (have I mentioned how much I LOVEEEEE my new Camaro?) hope everyone has been doing well, and has had a good past week- |
Afternoon everyone,hope ur day is going well.IT"S raining hear....yes!!! Every sence last night its been thundering,lightning,blowing wind and feels so good standing out in.Yep,I did that..even my fur kids injoyed a walk in the rain.
ruthie...I know how u feel about the probs in dateing as well as ppl showing one thing and saying another,we have all had this happen in one way or another.Beleave me finding out now is better than later. |
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ok ... "She" and i had left it as friends right. So today I invite her to a 4th of July party I'm having on Sat. She turns me down, so I ask her... we are still gonna see each other as friends yes? She gets sarcastic... mean actually... and NO not friends. Really? she was the one who wanted to be friends again... OMG .. She was hurtful.. I am better off without her.. but ouch.. it still hurts. I am having trouble with "this" version of her and the one I saw the rest of the time. Dodged a bullet for sure.. Jeeze I sure can pick them.
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Tired today but just have one job to work so i should be able to rest tonight. Feeling better about things and myself. Not one to stay down long, life is wayyyyyyyyyy to short for that.
Anybody know anything about being an ultrasound tech? Gonna see if there is a job market for that around here. Have a wonderful day friends! Ruthie |
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Hi Lofters! I hope everyone is having a good day. I'm really sleepy, I kept waking up in the middle of the night
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I had a wonderful morning. And, I smell good...Nag Champa lotion! Have a great day! |
Hey all!
Not much going on today. I'm lost without any World Cup matches on the tv! Have been reading - a book my SIL gave me the other day. Quite interesting. Suppose I shall head out now and pick up some groceries. |
Good afternoon lofters, hope you all are having a fine day, took the little guys for a walk they loved it, the weather here is beautiful nice and warm with low humidity!!
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Hello lofter's I finally got my truck back from the shop I'll give it a test drive myself and head out to the movies to see Ironman 2. Have a great one everyone!
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Have a good night all. |
Hello lofters, I just need to 'rant' a bit... lol...
So, has anyone else experienced the whole 'invisibility' dilemma that seems to happen around younger groups of people and/or people who just don't see you after a certain age? This has been a super annoying thing that is happening more and more as I approach 50. I'm going on 47 this year and it is just getting really icky annoying... I have even experienced it with butches that are my same age. I sometimes feel like a heterosexual woman dealing with man/woman issues, if that makes any sense at all. Anyways, I just wanted to throw it out there and see how everyone else is coping with getting older and the whole invisibility thing. I think it happens more to us femmes than butches because of the whole 'gender' thing too. I have noticed that it's totally attractive hip and cool for an older butch to be with a younger femme or be attracted and vice versa... like younger femmes seem to be totally attracted to older butches - maybe it's the whole daddy girl dynamic thingy. Anyways, I was at this social gathering talking in a group of people that were all close to my age and mixed (butches and femmes) and then these two young girls (in their 20's) show up and the butches just totally dismissed me and the other older femmes and started drooling and making little side flirty comments... it was like we were all of the sudden 'invisible'. It's hard enough getting old and dealing with the changes in our bodies, etc.. without this sort of behavior. Anyways, how do you all deal with this. Just a little disclaimer... I'm in a relationship and am totally secure in it, I'm not single and I'm not looking, etc.. so, it wasn't like I was offended, but it did trigger some 'aging' issues within me. |
Yeah I have noticed the same thing. I am single and it is quite annoying. I seem to have become the "femme stand in" for single butches or butches who want to be single. Then when some one, skinner or youner or prettier comes along.. I am toast.
Hope everyone had a wonderful day. Weather is great here. I am staying home, dying my hair and generally loafing around for a change. lol |
I, for one, am not attracted to young women. ( In their 20s or 30s)
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Boy have I ever been there,the last time I was at the gbar(the only place hear to meet anyone) I could have been the mom or grandma of nearly everyone in the building..talk about feeling out of place. One of them even had the stupidy to ask if I was in the wrong gbar..nasty little wench.I have dated younger but it never worked,if anyone my age wants to date younger is all there is hear to go out with.U bet im not a stand in till something better comes around.
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Morning everyone..
Doing something nice for myself everyday to boost my spirits. Dyed my hair last night.. Get a hair cut tonight... etc etc. Little things.. but they help. Planning a party for this weekend... Will be fun. Have a wonderful day everyone! Ruthie |
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Well, I am a 46 yo single Butch. And I plan on staying single. I do not have time to put into what is required to have a good and stable relationship. Trying to have one would not be fair to either party. So, I just do not date, and have not for almost 8 years. Until I am finished with my schooling, however long that takes, and am into a solid working enviornment, it is not going to happen. I am happy with what I am doing, and it have given me an opportunity to really learn myself, and there is just nothing wrong with that. Besides, I have Bob. He is more than a handful anyhow.
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Hey all!
Today is Canada Day. :canada: In a little while I'm heading into Toronto - going to try hit the gay village for lunch. Got some plans for later with a friend. Looks like I'm going to be on the road again this weekend - going to pick my sister up from her visit and then I'm taking a nephew to one of Toronto's northern suburbs. I'm bummed because it is PRIDE weekend and I'd hoped to go to the Dyke March. I guess since I'm not working that people assume I don't have anything planned. I might be able to check in here tomorrow - if not everyone have a happy and safe holiday weekend! |
Good morning everyone! I hope everyone has a good day
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Good afternoon lofters, hope everyone is having a great day!!
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Good *morning/afternoon/evening (* delete as applicable to your time zone) Lofters
Another of the non-femme (not exactly butch but a genderqueer poof! :winky:) persuasion here who prefers older women. I've always preferred older women, I was dating women in their 40's and 50's when I was in my 20's and 30's... then I became 'older' myself and tried the younger ones for a while, even someone who was nearly half my age (42 - 22) and having tried it I know I will never go back there again :scared: Let's have a big Woooo for older women! The current Mrs.Incubus (I say current, it keeps her on her toes ::giggle:) is a tad younger than me but suffice to say she's in her 40's and drop dead gorgeous :tongue: I hope everyone is having a grand day of fair wind and plain sailing. ps. Happy Canada Day Wryly :mountie: |
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