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kittygrrl 11-17-2016 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Orema (Post 1108153)
If they call Michelle Obama an "ape in heels" what on earth do they call someone like me?

yeah, I heard her explanation for it was "she was tired"..it's ignorant red neck jerks like this that make me wish I could live way up north..but you can't escape it, even there.

Gemme 11-17-2016 08:35 PM

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Originally Posted by kittygrrl (Post 1108157)
yeah, I heard her explanation for it was "she was tired"..it's ignorant red neck jerks like this that make me wish I could live way up north..but you can't escape it, even there.

There's no such thing as a 'progressive North' anymore. There have been some serious racial issues in diverse areas even like Boston and NYC. Since Nov. 8th, it's been one hurt after another.

bright_arrow 11-17-2016 09:50 PM

My grandfather passing, and how I am grateful and at the same time sad that there is no funeral. Instead he will be cremated and his ashes scattered.

deeds 11-17-2016 10:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Orema (Post 1108153)
If they call Michelle Obama an "ape in heels" what on earth do they call someone like me?

They fear strong women, black woman especially.

It is of my opinion, after reading the Bible thru and various other ancient text ,that slaves were lied to and their history stolen from them..That black folks are in truth descendants from Egypt and are indeed a so-called "lost tribe" of Israel..And that's why they fear you and lash out with their sneaky snake tongues..

nhplowboi 11-17-2016 11:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Orema (Post 1108153)
If they call Michelle Obama an "ape in heels" what on earth do they call someone like me?

I find the two women who engaged in this social media conversation to be (plain and simple) disgusting white trash. When they think Melania is going to be a classy and dignified FLOTUS I can only shake my head. I feel Michelle Obama's time as our First Lady was reminiscent of the Kennedy era.

~ocean 11-18-2016 12:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1108439)
There's no such thing as a 'progressive North' anymore. There have been some serious racial issues in diverse areas even like Boston and NYC. Since Nov. 8th, it's been one hurt after another.

there are ppl (youngins) with loose gun fingers everywhere ~ I TOTALY disagree with you when it comes to back and white prejudice in the northeast. I live here and there is no hate .

Gemme 11-18-2016 06:26 AM

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Originally Posted by ~ocean (Post 1108534)
there are ppl (youngins) with loose gun fingers everywhere ~ I TOTALY disagree with you when it comes to back and white prejudice in the northeast. I live here and there is no hate .

I live in the NE too and yes, there is. Go into Andrea's thread about the events that have occurred since Trump was elected. I think it's called 'so this is how we make America great again' or something similar. It's illuminating.

It's everywhere. To think otherwise is irresponsible. You're going to have to lift your head out of the sand at some point, ocean. Hatred is contagious and is running rampant right now. Even in the NE.

For example, a teacher was just fired in Boston for screaming racial slurs at students in the classroom. That is in the Northeast and sounds like hate to me. :blink:

I'm glad that you haven't personally witnessed any of this but to declare that there is 'no hate' is inaccurate and quite cavalier.

BTW, what do 'loose gun fingers' have anything to do with what I said or what kittygrrl (to whom I was addressing) said? We were referencing the women that commented on Michelle Obama.

homoe 11-18-2016 06:34 AM

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Originally Posted by nhplowboi (Post 1108517)
I find the two women who engaged in this social media conversation to be (plain and simple) disgusting white trash. When they think Melania is going to be a classy and dignified FLOTUS I can only shake my head. I feel Michelle Obama's time as our First Lady was reminiscent of the Kennedy era.

Very well put, I totally agree!

easygoingfemme 11-18-2016 07:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1108439)
There's no such thing as a 'progressive North' anymore. There have been some serious racial issues in diverse areas even like Boston and NYC. Since Nov. 8th, it's been one hurt after another.

Absolutely. This is a map where Cuomo has started documenting and tracking hate crimes. Mind you, these are only ones that are being reported and then seen as an actual hate crime. That's a whole other set of issues. Like this woman and the crime against her not being determined instantly as a hate crime.

Brisa 11-18-2016 08:14 AM

Brisa
 
There has been hate long before DJT was elected. That is all I have to say.

Bèsame* 11-18-2016 10:14 AM

No spoiler here..


Grrrr....Grey's Anatomy!!!!

Gemme 11-18-2016 06:19 PM

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Originally Posted by easygoingfemme (Post 1108652)
Absolutely. This is a map where Cuomo has started documenting and tracking hate crimes. Mind you, these are only ones that are being reported and then seen as an actual hate crime. That's a whole other set of issues. Like this woman and the crime against her not being determined instantly as a hate crime.

OMG, how can they NOT?!?!?

I'm officially horrified.


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Originally Posted by Brisa (Post 1108661)
There has been hate long before DJT was elected. That is all I have to say.

True. There was also gasoline and fire for a very long time but it took one person to put them together.

Trump is fuel on the fire of hatred, of all kinds. He does nothing to stop what he started. One day, it will come back to him. Sadly, not soon enough for my taste.

Brisa 11-18-2016 06:22 PM

Brisa
 
Obama is still in office..why doesn't he do anything about the violence?

easygoingfemme 11-18-2016 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1108834)
OMG, how can they NOT?!?!?

I'm officially horrified.




True. There was also gasoline and fire for a very long time but it took one person to put them together.

Trump is fuel on the fire of hatred, of all kinds. He does nothing to stop what he started. One day, it will come back to him. Sadly, not soon enough for my taste.


Exactly. It wasn't a perfect world before- not by a long shot. But before this, Trump's name wasn't painted on the churches being burned or being chanted while women and non-white/not hetero/non christian/non "gender conforming" folks (quotes because folks prefer a variety of terms for this area and I'm trying to not be too wordy) are being harassed.

In other news of what's on my mind. I'm glad my daughter asked me to go see a play with her tonight. It was entirely crafted by high schoolers and the script was rather painful. But she knew the whole tech crew behind the scenes and I enjoyed seeing her run off to be with them during intermission and after the play was over.

candy_coated_bitch 11-18-2016 09:17 PM

Thanksgiving and wondering how it's gonna go. Thinking about seeing my sister and having some one on one time with her.

clay 11-18-2016 09:42 PM

Winter weather.......:(

Gemme 11-18-2016 09:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Brisa (Post 1108836)
Obama is still in office..why doesn't he do anything about the violence?

Hey, how about the idiots doing the damage and vandalism NOT do it? How about people taking responsibility and accountability for their own actions?

Oh, yeah. The new president elect says they don't have to. Who do you think a bunch of racist, homophobic, xenophobic bigots are going to listen to? Certainly not the logical, even tempered African American boss on his way out of office.

What would you like Obama to do, Brisa? I honestly want to know.

Kobi 11-20-2016 07:46 AM


Having been sick for months, I have lost an impressive amount of weight. It didnt bother me until I had to go to a doctors appointment and discovered none of the pants I own fit. They either looked like clown pants or they slipped right down to the floor as soon as I fastened them.

So I did an emergency clothes order of multiple sizes trying to find something that fit. I found the general size range but am in between sizes, complicating things.

The nurse suggested I resort to leggins until my weight stabilizes. Leggins? Me? Really? Not my thing but they do fit. Of course I didnt know some leggins come with pockets and some dont. So I bought the no pocket ones. Then I had to buy a purse to carry stuff in. A purse? Me? Oy. I wanted a fanny pack but with surgery, I cant have anything around my waist.

I look in the mirror now and I dont see me anymore. My face is now a combo of my Mom and Grandmother. My body feels and looks foreign and strange to me. It's a very weird and odd thing.

Hopefully, solid soft food will be tolerable soon. Thickened liquids are not my favorite form of nourishment.

Absolutely bizarre experience.

cinnamongrrl 11-20-2016 07:56 AM

I hate my once a week (today) job....a lot.

I just pull in and anticipate 4 hours of non literal tooth pulling that results in my also non literal hair pulling.

With any luck I'll have won the Powerball and never have to return again. Ever. Like keep my check even. I won't be back.

Meh

easygoingfemme 11-20-2016 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Kobi (Post 1109403)

Then I had to buy a purse to carry stuff in. A purse? Me? Oy. I wanted a fanny pack but with surgery, I cant have anything around my waist.



How about a small backpack for carrying your things? If a purse isn't your style?

Kobi 11-20-2016 08:35 AM

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Originally Posted by easygoingfemme (Post 1109415)
How about a small backpack for carrying your things? If a purse isn't your style?


Thanks for the suggestion. Didnt think of that. Doh.

Bèsame* 11-20-2016 10:00 AM

We were just reminiscing about our Thanksgiving date, two years ago. We didn't have reservations, it was a spur of the moment thing. We ended up sitting at the bar, eating a family style Thanksgiving meal.

We were still early in our dating, stealing kisses and handholding. We are smiling huge with memories of that day.

And of course he just had to remember the burnt marshmallows last year!

Gayandgray 11-20-2016 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by cinnamongrrl (Post 1109407)
I hate my once a week (today) job....a lot.

I just pull in and anticipate 4 hours of non literal tooth pulling that results in my also non literal hair pulling.

With any luck I'll have won the Powerball and never have to return again. Ever. Like keep my check even. I won't be back.

Meh

I feel for you, my friend. I have been there too and this new gig isn't turning out as expected. Hang in there!

SnackTime 11-20-2016 11:24 AM

Last night, I went to a gala event. The event was benefiting our one and only true no kill shelter in the area (10 year anniversary). I felt blessed to be around so many generous people.There were several local artist who donated some of their masterpieces. There was this one painting of a large paw and inside of it was an ocean scene (below and above the surface). It was an amazing piece. That painting alone brought in 4100.00.

The food was out of this world with choices of Asian, Greek, Italian, and American. There was an open bar, I MAY or may not have had one too many vodka/cranberry juice drinks (lol)

It was an amazing event! I am looking for to volunteering for this shelter.

cinnamongrrl 11-20-2016 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Gayandgray (Post 1109432)
I feel for you, my friend. I have been there too and this new gig isn't turning out as expected. Hang in there!

They're all pretty much the same when you really get down to it. I can't wait to start and finish school and have a fresh start of things in a newish career. Definitely a step up.

Kenna 11-23-2016 07:47 PM

Planning a big trip, and taking 2 dogs including all their luggage.

Gayandgray 11-24-2016 05:10 PM

The talk I had with my boss today.

Orema 11-25-2016 03:53 AM

Hats. I used to wear them but stopped. I'm gonna start wearing them again. Saw a black hat yesterday that would be cute on me. I'm gonna find one just like it.

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com...7327fad9ec.jpg

Gemme 11-25-2016 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Orema (Post 1110640)
Hats. I used to wear them but stopped. I'm gonna start wearing them again. Saw a black hat yesterday that would be cute on me. I'm gonna find one just like it.

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com...7327fad9ec.jpg

I love hats but don't have a 'hat head'.

I'm deliberating on when to advance into society and the shopping frenzy today. I was lazy on the 23rd, when I should have done it and now I'm here because it needs to be done before the store opening tomorrow morning.

Bah.

Gayandgray 11-26-2016 06:12 PM

Too much right now! Time to find my beach!! :wine::wine::wine:

JDeere 11-26-2016 08:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Gayandgray (Post 1111044)
Too much right now! Time to find my beach!! :wine::wine::wine:

I agree with this, too much on the mind.

EmJay 11-26-2016 09:58 PM

Just thinking that maybe sometimes I don't give someone enough credit for the role they play in my life. How when I'm feeling pretty close to the lowest of lows, they've always been able to pick me up. Kind of silly but it actually made my eyes a little watery, thinking about how much they truly mean to me. I think you can count yourself lucky to have someone like that in your life. xox

Soft*Silver 11-26-2016 10:31 PM

how I just found out one of my former AA sponsors died two months ago and I didnt know it until now. We had had a falling out (my fault) and never were on good terms again but I owe this woman so much. If I had to say who was the one person who most influenced me positively in my life, it would be her.

Glenn 11-28-2016 04:05 AM

On my mind... a profound and truthful conversation I had yesterday with a Rabbi, an Artist, and a Poet, regarding an amazing, and beautiful, spiritual, experience, we all had shared.

Amulette 11-28-2016 04:31 AM

Fret not dear one there is a warm loving hand up waiting for you. I love you like my own child. Spread your wings, become one with the wind and your desires and fly. Glide into life with all the courage your heart can muster, and live in beauty.

clay 11-30-2016 10:58 AM

Concerned about some not so good changes I am seeing in my little dachshund, Hope. Dammit! I have only had her 4 months today.

Jesse 11-30-2016 11:22 PM

As I stood in line at check out in a local store today, the person standing (rather closely) behind me sneezed. There was no way to see if they had bothered to cover their mouth/nose; I was immediately grossed out wondering if they had just sneezed all over my back. Now I am wondering if there is some sort of protective garment to wear when in stores/public areas especially during flu season without looking like a complete idiot. Lol! :sunglass:

Gemme 12-01-2016 06:17 AM

A washable jacket?

What's on my mind this morning is that I think I need to work on my relationship with my bed more. We definitely need more time together.

easygoingfemme 12-01-2016 06:56 AM

I have an unexpected job interview tomorrow. One that could lead to great things if it comes together. The interview includes a written piece and I need to turn in two essays. I'm writing and editing and am nervous and excited!

clay 12-01-2016 02:53 PM

salacious thoughts...oh my gay


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