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Looks like I got the ball rolling for some conversation. Sorry I missed all the excitement. Kobi you asked some great questions. Too bad we all could not get on a web cam together and have a getting to know you gathering.
I am from Jersey. If anyone is close I am open for coffee and conversation. Just let me know. I agree there is a problem with community in Jersey. People tend to be to themselves. Do not know why. It is hard to meet someone locally. I have read all the posts since yesterday and you all sound like really great Femmes. You also sound like great cooks. Butches always like a home cooked meal. I know I really appreciate it when a femme cooks for me. Like to tell you all a story of what happened to me last night. Last night I had to work late. I met a friend in a rest stop near my home to pick up a shirt she bought. Before she got there I was sitting in my truck and this guy pulls up next to me. He looked like a serial killer right out of the movies. He gets out of his car and stands there and stares at me. Gave me the creeps. So I asked him "What's up Buddy" He asked me if I was Kevin. I said no and he said are you sure. I said yeah. He got back in his car and just sat there. Then my friend finally pulls up on the other side of me and I told her about this guy on the other side that was creepy. I wanted to make it quick. What does she do. She proceeds to take her time and look through all her bags for the shirt then searches in her handbag for the receipt. It did not faze her. I was thinking what is her problem? Well that concludes my night out in Jersey. Have to get ready for work. Talk to you all later I hope. |
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Good Morning Kobi,
I am 36 years old and I will be turning 37 in December. I don't have any children, just four nephews and two nieces, who I spoil like they are my kids. I like to date people around my age or just a little older. I can honestly say, I have never dated a transman, I have friends who are, and I have dated both male id'd and female id'd butches. I am currently in college working on my second bachelors degree in nursing. My first bachelor's degree is in computer programming and web design. I live in North Florida and I love meeting new people. One of my best friends is butch and hy lives in Ireland. Hope you are having a good start to your Saturday, Zimmy Quote:
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Suggested topic for today.....
It was fun rereading the last few pages here. Your answers helped us to get a better picture of who you are and what you are about. Always a nice thing, with pleasant surprises as well.
I noticed folks saying that it is difficult to find femmes or butches in their particular area, even if it is a well known or close to a well known "queer" mecca. I live about 30 miles from Ptown so I know what you mean. One of the problems I have as a butch who likes femmes, is my gaydar is differently abled. If I think someone is queer, they arent. If I think they arent, they are. If I think someone is flirting with me, they arent. If they are flirting with me, I am oblivious to it. :seeingstars: So, my suggestion for a topic today is how can impaired butches like myself distinguish a queer femme from a straight femme in everyday living? Hope everyone is having a good day. Look forward to reading more here later. :) |
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It's like as Femme's we're invisable. You're right, I guess it is up to us to make first contact but what if the Femme is shy? A signal is a good idea |
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But then there are the 2x4 butches like me ;)
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[QUOTE=little_ms_sunshyne;222151]I have a similar problem. I am a femme and MOST people just assume I am straight! Blah!!!
Hi ya singles..... I have this problem as well. Also I am in a small community where it is very conservative. There are no "Gay" clubs to go to to meet people, and not many butches, most here just identify as lesbian. I don't think I'm quite ready for dating yet after the recent hellish experience I went through lol but it is often in my mind, when I'm ready where will I meet that someone?... Hope you are all having a great day |
Just a reminder that tonight we change our clocks... I think we set them one hour back
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Good Morning Singles!!!! Its a beautiful day here today...chilly but beautiful. I hope everyone has a wonderful day!!!
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Its cold here too in NJ hope your day is going great.
Good morning Singles hope you are having a nice Sunday after we changed the clocks I always feel weird then next day like some big change took place but it was just one hour of extra sleep would never know it because dogs were up at like 5:30 AM this morning geesh animals!! |
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Good Late Morning Everyone,
It is chilly outside but beautiful! To bad I have homework to do, or my happy ass would be outside power walking,.... Hope you all have a wonderful day! Zimmy |
Mornin all. Hope you all remembered to set your clocks BACK rather than ahead like I did. Going to be a dufus day. It a cold, windy, looks like snow day here. Perfect for a day of watching football. Enjoy your day :) |
good morning singles.. today is set your clocks back day... for those of you that have to... we dont here in az.
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