1) to remember that life is just life and to enjoy life while I can.
2) that at least it’s not as bad as other things that can go wrong.
3) to give myself a huge hug mentally so I know that I’m loveable.


Gimme three things you want to get done by spring. :bow:

– Lose some weight (seeing my GP next week for Ozempic)
– Buy a Cicely Tyson style wig
– Go to a Meet Up for lesbians over 50

Give me three ways to pick yourself up when you’re feeling low.

1) yesterday I went out to see my friend to get a pedicure.
2) I basically do nothing, on purpose, so I can clear my mind.
3) I also do lots of self care ( think positive thoughts, accept only positive outcomes , etc)

Give me three ideas to explore for an alternative vacation.

• Go on a humanitarian vacation. Go to a poor area in America or a country of your choice (even a communist country like Cuba) and use some of your vacation money to learn about the area and help fund their communities.
• Go on a vacation to do something you enjoy like a cooking class in Spain (or New Mexico), tasting wine in Paris (or the wine country in California), or learning to cook Soul food (or Jewish cuisine) in Brooklyn.
• Take a stay-cation where you stay home and learn about your area, city, or state. Go on a day tour of your area or city and you can learn interesting things you didn’t know. I plan on doing this in Detroit.

Give me three people you’d like to chat with and why. They don’t need to be famous, could be your neighbor, grocer, a long-lost freind, or the cutie pie at the post office.

1) anybody at the BOLI office: to find out if I can launch a complaint about my former employer not honoring the 47 hours of vacation pay I never got after giving notice (…).

2) my honey’s mom and dad: to find out the cutest story they remember about my honey. I’ve heard his version but I’m truly interested in how they remember it.

3). The person who keeps entering our property through the wrong gate and why they keep doing it (the office is closed usually by the time I come home from work, I’d ask them too what they intend to do : ie, will they enforce legalese in renter agreement about property violations).


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Give me three movie recommendations for the summer, if you know of any good movies we should try to see. :bow:

Hollywood Squares
Wheel of Fortune
Jeopardy

(I loved watching afternoon game shows on tv, back in the day)


GM3 ways you plan to celebrate next time you feel like celebrating 🥳

Hmmm. There should always be music. Then some friends, and something good to eat/drink.

GM3 things you're proud of yourself for.

1: no matter what tries to stop me. I persevere. Getting hit by a semi twice. Almost going blind. Losing my family farm. I have picked myself up from these things and carried on.

2: I own my own house free and clear. It’s small and humble, but it has a massive garden. And everything was it I have manifested.

3: I am incredibly proud of my massive garden. I Love, the beauty garden brings to the person who created as well as those she shares it with. People always know how I’m doing by the quality and quantity of my gardens.