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Leigh 01-11-2011 12:30 AM

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Originally Posted by softness
BBW also have more area to spank!


All I gotta say is this ~ A*M*E*N

xxfemmexx 01-11-2011 03:38 AM

Mmhmm that is the truth :p

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Originally Posted by softness (Post 263529)
BBW also have more area to spank!


bigsodakluv 01-11-2011 06:37 AM

Hello to my fellow BBW's !!!
 
I've been reading through the threads that are BBW related and I am impressed by the positive attitudes that people have. Being a big girl myself and tall to boot (6 footer here) It is so nice to read peoples thoughts and feelings and being able to relate :thumbsup::thumbsup:

Leigh 01-21-2011 04:43 PM

Still worshipping the beauty of bigger femmes :rrose:

Soft*Silver 01-21-2011 06:50 PM

as my body started to change after my surgery and I dropped weight, I had mixed feelings. I loved feeling more healthy and that I would be buying clothes that didnt cost more just because they were a larger size. But I also missed my own ampleness. I had gotten comfortable in my curves and really liked the way I felt. I had loved myself that way. I had to "mind adjust" that I could love myself this way too, altho I felt I was betraying the "fat girl" in me. She remembered the lover I had had, who looked at me scornfully for gaining weight (even tho she outweighed me..lol...isnt that a farce!) I made a promise to to the All of me, that no matter what size I am, bigger or smaller, no one was allowed to make me feel bad anymore. Especially myself. I didnt need to internalize her message. And that pretty much took care of the BBW in me! I am by no means thin ..never plan to be, but as the weight drops off, I am moving further away from being a BBW. I am wondering if others, who have lost weight, have also mourned this departure too, as I am?

is there a title for a tweener body sized girl? Not thin, not BBW, but not exactly average either.

Oh my goodness...am I seriously looking for another label!!! ACK! SOMEONE KNOCK SOME SENSE INTO ME!!!! LOL

Leigh 01-21-2011 07:24 PM

No matter what size you may, or may not be softness, you will always be beautiful My friend :rrose:

undone 03-30-2011 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by softness (Post 269978)
as my body started to change after my surgery and I dropped weight, I had mixed feelings. I loved feeling more healthy and that I would be buying clothes that didnt cost more just because they were a larger size. But I also missed my own ampleness. I had gotten comfortable in my curves and really liked the way I felt. I had loved myself that way. I had to "mind adjust" that I could love myself this way too, altho I felt I was betraying the "fat girl" in me. She remembered the lover I had had, who looked at me scornfully for gaining weight (even tho she outweighed me..lol...isnt that a farce!) I made a promise to to the All of me, that no matter what size I am, bigger or smaller, no one was allowed to make me feel bad anymore. Especially myself. I didnt need to internalize her message. And that pretty much took care of the BBW in me! I am by no means thin ..never plan to be, but as the weight drops off, I am moving further away from being a BBW. I am wondering if others, who have lost weight, have also mourned this departure too, as I am?

is there a title for a tweener body sized girl? Not thin, not BBW, but not exactly average either.

Oh my goodness...am I seriously looking for another label!!! ACK! SOMEONE KNOCK SOME SENSE INTO ME!!!! LOL


I know it has been a few months since you posted this softness, but I stumbled into this perfect thread by chance today and want to say my peace.
BBW is not all about size in my perspective, it is about loving yourself for who and what you are, It is about altitude and confidence and the power in our selves to maintain that confidence not matter what someone else's opinion happens to be. It is about owning and taking pride in the beauty of yourself/ourselves regardless of what the not so norm norm seems to show.
I believe for most once you have spent a part of your life as a big woman who understands her beauty and has seen what it entails and how we are reflected on in most of the world, we have learned a certain amount and perhaps type of compassion for everyone that could not ever be duplicated.

As far as looking for labels :) I like your screen name!
That is my perspective


:soapbox:

msW8ing 04-28-2011 10:48 PM

Good evening. I'm also a BBW and an Amazon one at that lol. Just peeking to say hello and what a wonderfully positive thread.:thumbsup:

Goo 04-29-2011 10:22 PM

Cheers to all the BBW's out there...

I am a BBW and loving it. Aint nothing more beautiful than a woman who embraces her curves

undone 04-30-2011 12:05 AM

Okay so i have a funny story, I was planning my trip to Maui it was supposed to be me my mother my cousins and aunts and uncles. i figured great some all of us stuff and maybe some cousin time so i didn't feel like i was joining the senior center at 35... well my cousins dropped out one by one due to various issues, so I was left to figure out what i was gonna do when I needed some decompression, so i put an add out just looking to see who was about and up for making a quick new friend or hanging out while there... BBW coming to visit, seeks tourist company.
I got a few responses but only one seemed umm..... sane? we emailed a bit back n forth and talked on the phone a little, we spent some time talking and walking around the island, and at some point she said I am not so good at the computer lingo, what dose BBW mean? she thought I was saying that I was a black woman. poor woman she must have been all confused because we did send pictures and I am Norwegian and Irish, and look every bit of it. I asked if she did see the pictures i sent and she did, so now I am laughing a little and confused at how she could have seen the pictures and thought i could still be a person of color...

But i am proud of my self I got my self up on a surf board and learned how to stand up on it for a little while anyways!

:hangloose:

ScandalAndy 06-23-2011 09:33 AM

SO happy to see this thread on here!!

If you haven't already, I encourage you all to check out adipositivity. :)

Honestly, this is just what I needed. A great thread full of wonderful people who have made me feel fantastic this morning. THANK YOU!!

tapu 06-23-2011 09:59 AM

I love big beautiful bodies on women. Come to think of it, on men too. Before I came out I married a guy who carried 260. I think I weighed 110 or so at the time. I always have loved a woman's soft body to caress.

Other shapes and sizes, too. I don't have a set type, but if I had to narrow it down it would be... wider. :)

kissinfemme 09-03-2011 02:50 PM

My 2 cents as a BB femme.... I love my body, I love its curves & roundness... I love wrapping my entire self around my butch with all my softness... I am giving, accepting, lush & passionate, completely satisfied with me, as a BBW & lover. I find that confidence = attractiveness, I "own" who I am & my weight holds me back from nothing!


kissinfemme
:lips:

Soft*Silver 09-03-2011 03:59 PM

such beauty there is in the embrace of a plush body. To lay next to softness, to feel the warmth of plus flesh against mine...to spread open large thighs and find treasures in ampleness....nothing finer...

nothing finer....

bigbutchmistie 09-03-2011 04:46 PM

I cannot wait to have the honor to have one beautiul bbw princess as my Queen... So lovely, so soft. A BBW doesnt put up with crap. They hold their own, but yet have a vulnariblility to them that I love. I love the beautiful curves of their bodies. The realness of their personality and so much more. Yep this big boi loves me some bbw femmes... :)

bigbutchmistie 09-04-2011 12:46 PM

Good Morning Beautiful Femmes :rose: I hope you guys are enjoying your Sunday.... :)

Its 92 degrees here in Big D today... I am loving this weather. Finally getting cooler... :)

nycfem 09-04-2011 05:03 PM

[nomedia="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yDSK91mUNLU"]MIKA - Big Girl (You Are Beautiful) - YouTube[/nomedia]

Big Girls, You are Beautiful! :)

bigbutchmistie 09-04-2011 05:20 PM

I will propose and one day marry my BBW Queen! But first I have to meet her, and I cant wait :)

paintedleofemme 09-04-2011 05:23 PM

Love to the BBW!!
 
Oh how I love a chubby butch, oh baby turn me on! This probley has to do with me being short(5'4 1/2) and chubby!

smouldering 10-21-2011 07:40 AM

Just peeking in to say hello to my fellow BBW Femmes and Admirer's *smiles* I hope you are all enjoying your Friday- i am so glad it is the weekend although it is a bit chilly Brrr i am looking forward to hopefully being able to go to the little fall festival we are having here for some pumpkin flavored wonders.


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