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little_ms_sunshyne 12-23-2010 11:07 PM

Living life always thinking the dreaded two words..."What if"

ravfem 12-24-2010 03:20 AM

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Originally Posted by little_ms_sunshyne (Post 252115)
Living life always thinking the dreaded two words..."What if"

i had to nod at this.... i have a habit of playing the "what if" game, and i really hate it.

But, after going through some of the what ifs in my head, i have occasionally taken a chance that maybe i wouldn't have normally taken, so though it's a bane, it has helped once or twice.

little_ms_sunshyne 12-24-2010 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by ravfem (Post 252176)
i had to nod at this.... i have a habit of playing the "what if" game, and i really hate it.

But, after going through some of the what ifs in my head, i have occasionally taken a chance that maybe i wouldn't have normally taken, so though it's a bane, it has helped once or twice.

I need to take a chapter out of your book lol

Gemme 12-24-2010 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Gentle Tiger (Post 252050)
dying alone

Many wise folks have said that we all die alone, but I understand what you mean. It's comforting to know that someone will be by our side during that time.

For myself, I don't want to be in a situation where I'm trapped in my own body....vegetable state....and not be able to communicate what my desires are. I don't want someone to keep me alive because "they" think it's the "best thing" for me. They don't know. It's my body...my life...and it's mine to live as I see fit.

Once the quality is gone, I'm perfectly fine with letting go. Heaven knows, I've tortured myself enough over the years. I'm good. I'm solid. The medical community can torture someone else. Use what you can of my body and then let. me. go.

I've already had this conversation with Organic and, when we can, I'm going to work on getting the documents in order to prevent this circumstance.

girl_dee 12-25-2010 05:22 AM

ending up bitter and cold like my mom, I wish she was not such a downer.

SouthernStud 12-25-2010 05:48 AM

NEVER finding another love that makes me truly happy....

sylvie 01-07-2011 08:10 AM


i fear putting myself out there at times, because there is a fine line between extending yourself to help someone sincerely, and getting yourself involved in something that just drags you down..

Jet 01-13-2011 12:20 AM

Dead-pale little girls in black who ask, "would you come out and play with us?"

Nightshade 01-13-2011 01:01 AM

That I will never know what true security feels like.

That there is something deeply, inherently wrong with me and not only will it prevent me from having love term love in my life, but I will never ever get to know what that intolerable thing is.

Miss Scarlett 01-13-2011 05:14 AM

Unemployment

sylvie 01-13-2011 08:55 AM


- the dark..
i've a real fear of the dark, especially when i'm all alone..
at night, i don't feel safe and it interferes with my sleep..
even if my children are here, i feel responsible for them, so i don't feel a sense of safety..
and yes,i even run and jump on my bed so the boogie man doesn't grab me from beneath!
:blink:

Chancie 01-13-2011 09:00 AM

I have a deep fear of losing the security of my own home.


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