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Hmmm, I actually had to sit back for a SECOND and think about that and had a moment of an out of body experience.
The verdict is (If I must say so myself): FUCK yes I would date me. I'm the best of both worlds <wigglin' eyebrows> and I too have a lot (and will be offering) to someone (which unfortunately all, I am quite taken and soon to be married). I know, I know, <sigh> I'm sorry to disappoint all you lovely ladies, but, the Stinger is finally settling down with my beautiful, intelligent woman. And before some of you ask, why the hell I waited so long, no clue, I just did and am ready now for all the right reasons in this crazy ass world. P.S. Now try not to puke all over yourselves reading this "mushy" post. :canadian: |
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Probably not. I'd probably realise that I wasn't in a good place to be in a relationship at this point, or that I might just not be the relationship type. As long as both me's realised it, I guess it'd be alright lol Of course it would depend on the type of person "other me" is, since me me is not really the be-with-each-other-every-waking-hour type. I need my space...but if I am identical to myself, I guess I'd be good for me. And now I feel kind of insane:p
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no!!! im way to butch for me!
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I'd date me, there surely would never be a dull moment. Probably wouldn't last long though, because I'd never get a word in.
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Preparing delicious meals from scratch (scratch me out) Seriously -- Why would anybody want to date someone just like themselves? Where would be the fun? Where would be the allure? Where would be the mystery? Where would be the debate? And what about sex? What if you are a TOP - would you constantly Top yourself? If you are bottom - MY GOD... talk about suffering. And if you are a switch - well... Who goes first? Why would anybody want to date someone just like them? |
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Now there is good stuff about me - integrity, honestly, good communicator, good listener and emotional supporter, loyal, kind, great in a crisis....but... I like someone who is more gentle in nature and is a different kind/type of nurturer than I tend to be (no, I can't describe it..but it is a different way of nurturing...the way I nurture wouldn't meet my needs). In terms of values and general approach to life, I seek someone similar to me. |
My first reaction was no. But, upon further review, Me, Myself and I already have a good relationship going, I'm a good guy, have a big heart, and don't take much for granted. So, my answer is yes. Yes, I would date Myself. :hangloose:
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Would I date me? I will say yes,but with a caveat; I am fairly intelligent and can hold a good convo, attentive,funny,loyal, and though I am steady as a rock, I can be spontaneous and unpredictable. I think those are good traits for being dateable. (is dateable a word??) On the caveat emptor side... I don't like crowds and will usually be one of the first to leave if an event goes much past 11 pm. I live for working out, ANYTHING to do with bikes, triathlons, etc. so much of my time, at times, will be tied up with getting ready for some type of event.
I tend to live inside my own head a LOT, so if silence bothered a potential date, that would be an issue. I am a "quantum leaper" in my thought process and will spew forth a soliloquy that may start with how strong ants are for their size and end with why Greek, Doric, French Provincial architecture intriques me, stopping along the way at dogs,bikes, and the price of gas, etc. Luckily I have found my perfect counterpart and she actually LIKES these things about me... so YES I would date me, but it's a moot point!! |
well, my impish first thought was to be funny and say that ever since I strapped on, my dating pool got smaller, so dating myself might be my only option but....thats not true at all...funny but not true...
At the moment I wouldnt date me because I am emotionally not available. I am not damaged goods. I just am not emotionally willing to participate in a romantic relationship. So, no, I wouldnt put myself in that position. If I was emotionally available? No. I am bullheaded and two bullheaded people in a relationship does not work. Locked horns do not end up in stalemate. It oftens ends up in a blood bath. I am also the worst possible combination of being bullheaded AND sensitive...so imagine bloodbath and tears when I am with someone like myself..or someone deft and clumsy at relationships. My best companion tends to be someone who helps me lighten up and makes me laugh. Its like I sit around in a bathtub full of sorrow sometimes and they have to pull that damn plug so we can fill the tub with bubbles. I respond really really well to that! |
No way!!!!! I am wayyyy too much of a girl for my personal taste in dating. I couldn't wait over an hour for me to get ready to go out on a date. I don't have enough patience to put up with me. :|
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Not at all.....i'm way to femme
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I've never looked in the mirror and said "I'd hit that!"
I'm not my type. And if I did, I'd dump myself for the first femme that smiled and flashed some cleavage at me. |
I do date myself. :) I take myself to the movies, take myself to museums and cafes and trips. I sleep with myself. I don't even mind myself snoring. I even buy myself flowers sometimes.
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When I was dating myself it worked out so well that I married myself. I cheated on myself a couple of times, but in time I forgave myself, and now I'm more together than ever!
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I would not and could not date myself. It would scare the pure hell out of me to see me coming at me with my strap on ... I would run for the hills.
I am attracted to the girly (femme) types. Your posts are hilarious ... fun reading them! :) |
did I misunderstand the original post? Didnt it state not to worry about the butch-femme part of ourselves. For heavens sakes, thats a given in our polarized world. I wouldnt date a femme.
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