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When in a relationship, my girl is told she looks amazing/stunning/hot/beautiful/sexy/gorgeous in her favorite little black dress, jeans and a t-shirt, in her work wear, wearing one of my dress shirts, in her pajamas, in my pajamas, in shorts, in whatever. Clothes don't make the girl. Everything else does.
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But having the appearance of confidence does not mean that I am not having a bad day b/c of work/illness/traffic or a myriad of other reasons. And when the world gets to be overwhelming, a kind compliment-especially a unique one is much appreciated. Even confident people like to hear that someone admires a certain quality about them, especially when that person is someone whose opinion we value OR when it is a complete stranger. I went out a few years ago with a platonic friend of mine. We went to the local alt bar AFTER the party at the dungeon. It was easily 2 in the morning. But, as we were waiting to get in, she peered at me and said "your eyes look like works of art." She did not have to say that but she did and, despite her moving away, she will always have a special place in my heart. About a year prior to that, a woman ahead of me in post-Christmas returns line at Wal-mart (a place that I hate by the way) made my night with a compliment. She told me that my eyes look like polished glass or gemstones. She took a stressful/tiring situation & turned it into a fond memory. Never doubt the power of a compliment. :sparklyheart: |
Ya know....just as we ask the gentlemen to respect our femme space....
we should respect the Butch space. I'm not trying to be thread police BUT, it is marked BUTCH zone and alot of us ladies are in here telling our Butches what they should be talking about. Fair is fair.....just saying! |
If I read it correctly, I'm pretty sure that Merlin (OP) welcomed input from femmes. (post #2)
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if thats the case, I appologize. I did not read all 64 posts. I read alot, and it was mostly femmes postings.
Sorry, as sorrys are do! ETA:...Yes, post two says femme please apply. my bad! |
No bad. Perfectly reasonable comments/concerns actually. (f)
To be honest, I find it's sometimes hard to know who is welcome in which posts, and when. I would not normally post in a thread entitled "For all things Butch", but I just felt so welcomed by Merlin's invitation. :) Now I better go back to reading about girlie stuff! :byebye: Quote:
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Question...
Okay, this may or may not be the place to post this, but I have a question that I think needs to be answered by someone in the butch zone. I consider myself a soft femme, I'm dating a lipstick lesbian...she is HOT! This is where my question comes in: I am attracted to other soft femmes (or so it seems) and soft butches. What the hell? I love looking at a femmes ass and then I love making eye contact with a butch thinking "man I really go for that". Am I confused or just a middle of the road type person?? Someone please answer me.
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Just my opinion...
I appreciate the thread and all of the comments. I know that as a Stone Butch, I like to feel appreciated. Also, being called sexy or hot is certainly fine by me. Sometimes I am in my head a bit too much and forget to say out loud what I am thinking when I see my girl. She is sexy and beautiful...and needs to hear that from me. Bottom-line...we could all probably use some stroking living in a world that can be very harsh towards those that look or seem different.
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If you weren't a SB do you think you wouldn't still like to feel appreciated? I know I would! :)
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Point taken... Red
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Well... You could always choose to date all over the gender spectrum till you find out what you like, a fine ass comes and goes a good person to share life with, that my friend is rare.:) |
i have a different take...
This is my ideal answer to the big butt question:
"yes, baby, your ass looks big in that skirt. and oohhhhh, baby, you Know i sure do like it that way." ...as s/he grabs me for a kiss. *giggling* lol- How bout that? Doesn't sound so bad to me! ...how does that song go? itty bitty waist and round thing in your face, you get sprung... ;) |
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agrees with intrigue...and yes night...very well put! I am one who loves to compliment "people" on something I may admire about them, or what they may have on..be it clothes..be it cologne..be it a smile...and am easily "bruised" when someone isn't able to accept it just for what it is..a COMPLIMENT. Caring and concern, being ones also...let it just be simply that...care and concern..and a compliment...thanks for the post! Clay
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I totally agree with Intergue...Tommi those are the key words "Beauty Is In The Eye of the Beholder" It doesn't matter what others think is beautiful, its only what you think
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