There in lies the rub.

What you consider "less than" is what others may consider best.
Agreed, attraction is based on one's personal preference.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Etc.

The words..." Less than" are so caustic.
If you stated..." I know what I want and will not accept what I don't want."
That statement sounds so much better and leaves out the negative implications that do not belong there.

As far as experience goes,
I was just wondering what would happen if you fell for a blond haired woman who was a natural red head? She just happens to color her hair.

Just a few of my thoughts.

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I was just wondering what would happen if you fell for a blond haired woman who was a natural red head? She just happens to color her hair.

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That would be perfectly fine with me. I just have no attraction what-so-ever to redheads.

That would be perfectly fine with me. I just have no attraction what-so-ever to redheads.[/QUOTE]

I think the point trying to be made is you being superficial about a potential partner just because their hair is a certain color. It doesn't make a woman any better just because her hair is lighter or darker. So tell me this, if you fall in love with "Jane" who has awesome blond hair and a year down the road she decides to let her hair go back to the natural color of flaming red, you would end the relationship? After all, she is a redhead and that disqualifies her from what is acceptable. I'm curious to know....

Being one of those artsy types, and being very visual, what attracts me initially is visual. Words on a screen, a pleasant face, or photo. Here at bfp it's usually the words on the screen. Not everyone posts a photo. Me included. That's due to my lack of techie skills.

Only once has someone posted a photo that sent me reeling with unrequited love. So anyhoo, its the tall dark handsome types that attract me usually. The opposite of me. The intellectual types with dry sense of humour, strong hands that play musical instruments. Someone with a strong lap to sit upon. There are loads of other things, at least a 1,000.

But that doesn't mean that's the one I fall for. It is usually undefinable, mysterious, and on the quirky side.

Would love to meet "the one " . Hasn't happened. Que sera.

I got it covered, apart from the tall and handsome parts :winky:

That would be perfectly fine with me. I just have no attraction what-so-ever to redheads.[/QUOTE]

Why is hair colour such a button pusher? I know peeps who go ape for red hair. So what if someone else doesn't.? What's at stake here? It's like having a personal say in what a total stranger likes for breakfast. My exe has thing for blondes, there are pictures of Marilyn Monroe in every room in her house. Not one of me, ever. Try competing with a dead Sexual Icon.

I'm a pretty good catch, as far as I know, I have a special way about me that's lovable.

And I'm still single. So red hair isn't the problem, I wish it were that simple.

A little levity on the subject of personal ads (courtesy of the BBC)
 

I am ...
 

I am the marshmallow in your hot chocolate
the sugar in your coffee
Ice cubes for your tea

The teaspoon in your bed
a pillow for your head
The pencil for your lead

The flowers in your garden
apple from your tree
pollen to your bee

Me and thee
At last you see
Are meant to be

Oh my giddy aunt, I posted reply #69... it's an omen!!!!

Would like to meet ...
 

a sweet smart ass with twinkling eyes, crooked smile, and ticklish toes.
irreverent sense of humor, unabashedly naughtily wired for fun.
relaxed life view, infectious laughter, occasional flatulence in public.
admiration for natures gifts, fury, mystery.
voracious learner, under the sheets aficionados.
animal lover, cigarette free, silliness provider.

all nerds, goobers, misfits, underachievers welcome to apply :)

You keep describing me, when will you see the Britlandian light? :hamactor:

perusing for useless facts junkie,
avid spiritual seeker,
liberal taste buds,
sober magician,
nature lover .... :praying:

...and still you continue to describe me :canoworms:

you are so cute :rrose:

why do you live so far away?

Put kettle on love! :tea:

New ad by me:

My six month celibacy stint is over and I'm looking for something casual and fun. And I'm open to entertaining if you are on the way though my city, since most (all) of you don't live here. I personally can't travel due to school but I'm happy to be very good, attentive, charming and frisky ;) company... I give a great massage among a few talents.

I'm a sub, mostly a bottom but I service top for those that need a particular kind of finish and happy to do what's asked of me.
I like soft butch, butch, tg butch, non-transitioning ftm, stone butch, garden variety butch...
Daddy's and/or Doms and Dom heavy switches. I don't do well with old guard style leather stuff: I'm just a kinky dirty tart and a smart ass. I like those who are perverted and able to be dirty, look me over and be handsy,. I like those that can say the kind of filth on their mind and not worry about "offending a lady"

I am kind, I am actually really sweet in person but I am not a lady nor am I a princess - I do not wish to be treated like one (cautiously, afraid of offending). With casual sex and a quick visit (one or two nights) I really don't have the time to do a courtship style wooing to get to point. Treat me like a sweetheart tart.

Treat me well when we go out for dinner but be able to be dirty. Be able to touch me. Be able to read body language and be brave enough to touch my leg without having to ask permission. If it's not ok I will very gently let you know. But if we've had a chat long enough to agree to a visit, it will most likely be ;) I get curious just as much as you do.

OR I also would be able to swap sex texts or phone sex as I don't have a local play friend. No strings. If it's just the internet or texts there is no long getting to know you. Just hot play. I'm very good at being very descriptive, I have done it for a living.

Send me an IM if you are interested.

I know girls don't put these kinds of ads up here but there isn't really a place to put it. Craig's list just has men writing to me or bicurious house wives or dykes wanting a relationship! Even though I've been blunt. I have done this in other dyke forums when in other countries and it's received just fine.

So, I hope if anyone else was wondering where on earth they could possibly just get a little friendly attention... You can put an add here yourself or if you are butch... try sending me an IM and see if we mesh for a bit of fun.

What a refreshingly honest post, honeybarbara!
;)

Good luck!

thank you Happy go lucky! appreciated!

I forgot to add - I don't care what size anyone is: I've had partners from size 8 to size 26 and from 5'4 to 6'3. So in terms of casual fun, I'm more concerned about courage, drive, dirty and the ability to talk/state ones fantasies. I am also rather fond of anyone with a tit fetish.

ha.

:)