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Dance-with-me 09-14-2012 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Nadeest (Post 653878)
"@Nadeest- According to Dance, her butch uses female pronouns. (My pet peeve.) "

Oh! Now I know! Thank you for correcting me. :)

Actually she's good either way, but I totally get why it's important to pay attention to these things.

Dance-with-me 09-15-2012 03:22 PM

Have a few minutes to myself so thought I'd update. Stopped by Torrent on the way - Oh. My. Maude. If a lot more things had fit me right I would have descimmated my budget instead of just seriously damaging it!! I was disappointed to not find any of their teddies or bustiers to fit me right, but I did get a cute date outfit and some very nice/sexy bra and panty sets. I may see if she wants to go tomorrow to the local Lane Bryant (which she said carries all of their sexy intimates, unlike the LB store near me) and help me pick something out. ;) I have to worry a bit about getting arrested if she comes into the dressing room with me...

pinkgeek 09-15-2012 08:57 PM

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Originally Posted by *Anya* (Post 653420)
We have a corsets thread.

I think it may be time to bump it and I think that I shall!

Pink, I would love to know where you got your "why did I spend so much" corset.

None other than....Dark Garden!!

pinkgeek 09-15-2012 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Dance-with-me (Post 653659)
I'm going to have to rally all of you to do an Extreme Makeover: Femme Who's Allowed Herself to Get Frumpy edition!

Seriously, you have no idea how much I need and would LOVE to have a bunch of femme's to go shopping with me and help me figure out what looks good on me, then return home to give me a femme-in-her-50's makeup lesson (I don't wear makeup everyday and can do a basic subtle application just fine but don't know how to do my makeup when I want impact without going overboard), then hang with the boys/butches to get their honest feedback. Anyone want to meet me at Torrent in Annapolis tomorrow afternoon to help me pick something out? ;)

I've only been in this community a few hours and already I feel that I've found My People. :)

I'll be in DC again in early October - if you want to make the drive I'll shop with you!

Cheers!!

Rope 10-02-2012 02:03 PM

Hell if hy/she doesn't like the corset---fly out here where we have slut night for ALL AGES AND SIZES. What makes the corset is the confidence of the femme wearing it. As others have said, 'work it'.

The best surprise I got from a femme was from one that said she'd NEVER wear one---hot damn when she did.

*waving from San Francisco,

Rope--

Toughy 10-02-2012 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Rope (Post 666606)
Hell if hy/she doesn't like the corset---fly out here where we have slut night for ALL AGES AND SIZES. What makes the corset is the confidence of the femme wearing it. As others have said, 'work it'.

The best surprise I got from a femme was from one that said she'd NEVER wear one---hot damn when she did.

*waving from San Francisco,

Rope--

Hy is telling the truth............we will have a Slut Night..aren't we due one anyway???


in case folks don't know.......Slut Night was named by the femmes who come to B/F Socials gatherings......

*Anya* 10-02-2012 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Toughy (Post 666749)
Hy is telling the truth............we will have a Slut Night..aren't we due one anyway???


in case folks don't know.......Slut Night was named by the femmes who come to B/F Socials gatherings......

What exactly is Slut Night?

Inquiring minds, purely as a sociological question, of course...

Rope 10-03-2012 02:03 PM

Slut Night is where you put your sexy on however that seems fit for you. NO lingerie required and for butches it usually means, rough trade dress. It's a time that we get together and socialize--singles and couples.

Slut Night got started because a man dared to tell one of the femmes in our company that she was dressed 'too slutty' for the Gay bar we were in---and well, the next time we got together it was a case of, 'you thought that was slutty...'

Rope--

Jane Bond 12-31-2015 10:09 PM

So do I take the risk that it might produce a very awkward (and humiliating for me) moment? Or find a way to figure out if she likes corsets first?

Any other suggestions as to what sorts of things I could do as a treat and thank-you that would more likely be appreciated? I just don't know her well enough yet to know what she likes for sure, but I'd sure like to give back some of how she's made me feel!

Thanks for any advice you can give.[/QUOTE]

Do it, do it, do it, do it. A luscious, full bodied woman in something sexy like a corset or a silk camisole will make a butch do things you'd not believe. If she doesn't respond, run for it, and go find a real butch.


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