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waxnrope 05-26-2010 07:03 AM

Today, I light a candle for Andrew and all the people at the hospital who come in contact with him. That he is protected and covered by all the love shown here and elsewhere. Let us acknowledge the awesomeness of the twin healing powers of technology and love.

In the lighting of this candle, I also speak into the flame for our sister, Spirit Dancer. In wonder and gratitude for the selfless care that she provides to a loved one and for her continued loving presence right here, even in the midst of her own life stressors. May she be given that love ten fold; may she be provided with rest and respite.

Lady Pamela 05-26-2010 09:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by waxnrope (Post 114524)
Today, I light a candle for Andrew and all the people at the hospital who come in contact with him. That he is protected and covered by all the love shown here and elsewhere. Let us acknowledge the awesomeness of the twin healing powers of technology and love.

In the lighting of this candle, I also speak into the flame for our sister, Spirit Dancer. In wonder and gratitude for the selfless care that she provides to a loved one and for her continued loving presence right here, even in the midst of her own life stressors. May she be given that love ten fold; may she be provided with rest and respite.


I light my candles from your candle to carry on the energy already in place.

http://i3.bebo.com/042a//6/skin/2008...in_bg_5854.gif

One for Andrew and One for Spirit Dancer.

May you both have the Energy...Courage and Strength needed.

To you both,
Remember you are not alone!

Namaste

Diva 05-26-2010 01:55 PM

This day, I have lit candles for SD's partner, Lady Pamela, Andrew, Junie's cousin and my daughter.....who has just told me she will move to San Antonio tomorrow.....<sigh>


Spirit Dancer 05-26-2010 02:58 PM

Ya'll we now have two pages of candles lit this day.
Can we feel the light and energy flowing, I can.
My list is long, but know
I am humbled by each of you, as is my family. Thank you so very much for the prayers
I light my candle from yours for
Diva
mini Diva
Wax
Pashi
Andrew
Lady Pamela
Fierce Girl
Another lit for Sammy
Delores
wolfy
and Syr

Lady Pamela 05-26-2010 11:13 PM

I light this candle for
DIVA

For added strength and energy and health needed in your daily life at this time!

http://memoriesforonna.com/candle.gif

Lady Pamela 05-26-2010 11:28 PM

Spirit Dancer

May this flame light your path always!

http://www.freewebs.com/wolflady64/firewolf.gif


http://i231.photobucket.com/albums/e...veAmerican.gif



Lady Pamela 05-27-2010 10:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spirit Dancer (Post 114859)
Ya'll we now have two pages of candles lit this day.
Can we feel the light and energy flowing, I can.
My list is long, but know
I am humbled by each of you, as is my family. Thank you so very much for the prayers
I light my candle from yours for
Diva
mini Diva
Wax
Pashi
Andrew
Lady Pamela
Fierce Girl
Another lit for Sammy
Delores
wolfy
and Syr


I light my candles from yours to continue the prayers, thoughts and energy flow for all those needing it.


http://www.mytagcodes.com/comments/candles/candle.gif



Spirit Dancer
Diva
mini Diva
Wax
Pashi
Andrew
Fierce Girl
Sammy
Delores
wolfy
Syr
Onenida's mother, and her member/friend, and her neighbor

my sister ( Sharron & Children )
and myself ( Lady Pamela )

Also for any of you who might quietly be needing it but haven't allowed others to know yet.
May this reach you in a quickness.

Special request:
"Andrew and Fierce Girl today...just saying. Send them prayers/thoughts of healing . Andrew just had surgery and Fierce Girl is as well.

Btw..You all are fantastic!
If you know of others...add there names please!


Glenn 05-27-2010 10:23 AM

I am lighting a candle for Onenida's mother, for her friend, and also for her neighbor.

Lady Pamela 05-27-2010 10:57 AM

I light these candles from your candle popcorninthesofa

I light these candles for:
Onenida, her mother, her friend, her neighbor.

http://www.mobilclub.org/img/wallpapers/candles.gif

I also added it to my last candle.

May they feel comfort and healing and understanding.



WolfyOne 05-27-2010 11:32 AM

Once again, I've been absent from writing in this thread, but not from lighting a few candles.

Today I lit a candle for Shadow. She's one of our rescues and has contracted this mouth infection that I think Silver had to be put down because of it last year. Our vet said we probably have a carrier that doesn't show any signs of the infection itself. Heck, at this point, I need to pray for all our rescues. If we find the resources to have Shadow tested, at least we'll know what to do for all the other kitties.

Lady Pamela 05-27-2010 12:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WolfyOne (Post 115429)
Once again, I've been absent from writing in this thread, but not from lighting a few candles.

Today I lit a candle for Shadow. She's one of our rescues and has contracted this mouth infection that I think Silver had to be put down because of it last year. Our vet said we probably have a carrier that doesn't show any signs of the infection itself. Heck, at this point, I need to pray for all our rescues. If we find the resources to have Shadow tested, at least we'll know what to do for all the other kitties.


I light this candle from your candle WolfyOne

For:
SHADOW


I light this candle for Shadow

May those in care be directed and guided in what to do.
May healing and understanding be with you and those who dearly love you.
May you feel the healing and love from your loved ones and friends who still surround you.
May you be showered with Animal Medicine needed as well.
And may time be one your side to heal quickly.



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Lady Pamela 05-27-2010 12:42 PM

I light these candles and leave it burning for all those wanting to write a letter to:

Heaven, The great spirit, loved ones past, or any other reason..Here is a link to do so.

http://i769.photobucket.com/albums/x...s/candles5.gif


http://members.cox.net/wanita1/letterstoheaven.html



Spirit Dancer 05-27-2010 12:56 PM

My Candles continue to burn and a new one lit for
Onenida and her family and friends.
For Shadow the kitty
and for our lil one who is confused
may great spirit soothe her spirit this day.

Passionaria 05-27-2010 02:36 PM

Magic happens.........
 
Full moon over Yosemite falls ~ magic happens.......

http://www.astronomy.com/asy/image.a...0409.jpg&w=500

Spirit Dancer 05-27-2010 05:51 PM

Burning Sage for all those whom we lit
candles for.
http://i895.photobucket.com/albums/a...cs/IndianL.jpg

Tommi 05-27-2010 07:00 PM

((((((((((((Andrew :candle:and Fiercegrll :candle: )))))))))))may your healing begin with all the love and hope we can share.

Tommi

and for the little one :candle: who must be lost among the big things going on in hyr life.

Andrew, Jr. 05-28-2010 12:07 PM


Thank you all for your love and support. I am very sore, and tolerating pain to a good degree. Now is the hard part...waiting for the results.

Today I lite a candle for burn victims. I know the pain of being burned on my flesh. I have no idea of how people survive such an ordeal. I also lite a candle for Fiercegrrl for her surgery. It is the last one of the day. The agony of having to wait. I cannot imagine it. My thoughts and prayers are with her, and her recovery.

Love,
Andrew

Lady Pamela 05-28-2010 01:12 PM

Healing Waters
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr. (Post 116165)

Thank you all for your love and support. I am very sore, and tolerating pain to a good degree. Now is the hard part...waiting for the results.

Today I lite a candle for burn victims. I know the pain of being burned on my flesh. I have no idea of how people survive such an ordeal. I also lite a candle for Fiercegrrl for her surgery. It is the last one of the day. The agony of having to wait. I cannot imagine it. My thoughts and prayers are with her, and her recovery.

Love,
Andrew


Thank you Andrew for this candle!
This is one I am very passionate in lighting myself.

I continue the energies from your candle to keep your energy flowing.

For all those who have been in fires, gotten burned by any type of flame or checmicals and those who live day to day with the memory or scars from it!


May this candles energy, find its way into your spirit!
May it sooth and cool your pain.
May it regenerate afflicted areas on your body.
May it help wash away the fear and sorrow.
May it help you to know your physical body is not who you are.
And may it give you the endurance, courage and strength to meet the challenges ahead.

May the wise ones and guides surround you in healing light.
And help you to see past the physical pain and tourment.


http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_OArhSE6FSN...-wallpaper.jpg

I will forever remember my healing waters!

http://i252.photobucket.com/albums/h...lingWaters.jpg


My personal story with burns and fire:

When I was 16 years old and on the run living in an apartment I should not have been in. I had a friend who's husband used to beat her.
As a result of this happening while I was there, I knocked the crap out of him on 2 occasions to save him. ( He wasn't a very big guy )

One night I had just returned from a party and stumbled up my stairs to go to bed. (Back when I drank ) My body had extreme amounts of alcohol in it and I passed out on the bed.
When I woke later, I was very hungry so in my drunken stupper I went to the kitchen for a snack. Looking for anything fast to eat.
Standing there I lit my smoke in the middle of the room and was very disoriented from what I saw.
There were beautiful swirling colors all around me! They looked like oil mixed with water when the sun was shining one them. ( Still drunk and disoriented remember )
There seemed to be no time. I was looking at it as if in slow motion. But I know now it was just brief.
I looked up and realized my ceiling was turning dark. Even a black gray in areas...It was then tht it hit me! (but I was so confused ) I WAS IN FIRE!
WHY ISN'T IT HURTING?

I ran to excape the flames and as I exited the room it was in...Once the air in the other room hit my flesh. I felt pain worse than anything I could have ever imagined! I ran for the bathroom because I wanted to see myself.

There in front of me was someone I did not know. A woman with no hair from her crown foreward. Her face so big, red and swollen that it looked like a balloon. Her hands very burnt and swollen that they would not work.
Then all of a sudden...No sight! I couldn't see anything! I had gone blind!
The alcohol level in my body made me burn very fast and worse than I would have if I was sober.

With every second passing I hurt more...With every touch of the wall to find my way to help my hands acked and burned as if acid was on them.
I had to go down 4 flights of steps to get to my friend..Which was all I could think of doing.

There is much more to that story but getting to the point,
I was blind for three weeks and had burns over 70 percent of my body. I was very blessed to not have been scared for others to see..But I still see them.
The healing took forever!

The husband of my friend was the reason I was burnt..He stuck a hole in my stove gas like with a pen.



Andrew, Jr. 05-28-2010 01:25 PM


Lady Pamela,

Thank you for sharing your story with us. The surgeon used the laser scapel on me, and I have internal sutures that dissolve, and the glue on the outside tissue. It feels like I was burned. There is no other way to describe it. The surgeon told me ahead of time that this is what it would feel like, and not to be alarmed.

I feel a close connection to water. I am not sure of why I posted about this, but knew I had too. No mistake about it. And no mistake about the response I got. :harley: It is the circle of life. We weave in and out of each other's life.

The one thing I do want to post is that Gary Coleman died today. He had a seizure of some sort, fell, and was found unconscious. As a result of his fall, he had an intercranial bleed - the same as I did. But he was put on life support then died. I was fortunate in that I survived my fall. I just feel the pain of loss that his family, friends, and fans feel. That is the empath in me.

Lady Pamela 05-28-2010 02:11 PM


I light this candle for the children who are in threat of abuse of any kind. " Physical, Sexual and Emotional "

May they be blessed and directed by the Spirited Ones.
May they find the strength to endure.
And find the courage to speak out to someone!

Also for those in service to protect them.
May they be blessed for the services they provide.
And forever save our children.


May we as individuals, all take a stand and find a way to help.
May we take more notice of those around us and not turn the other cheek!
As so many often do!

You might be the only one who knows...Think about it.



Lady Pamela 05-28-2010 11:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr. (Post 116198)

Lady Pamela,

Thank you for sharing your story with us.


You are most welcome Andrew!

Hope your resting and keeping your pain under controle.
I will light a candle for you here at home as well as the one lit here for you.

Lady Pamela 05-29-2010 02:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lady Pamela (Post 115358)
I light my candles from yours to continue the prayers, thoughts and energy flow for all those needing it.


http://www.mytagcodes.com/comments/candles/candle.gif



Spirit Dancer
Diva
mini Diva
Wax
Pashi
Andrew
Fierce Girl
Sammy
Delores
wolfy
Syr
Onenida's mother, and her member/friend, and her neighbor

my sister ( Sharron & Children )
and myself ( Lady Pamela )

Also for any of you who might quietly be needing it but haven't allowed others to know yet.
May this reach you in a quickness.

Special request:
"Andrew and Fierce Girl today...just saying. Send them prayers/thoughts of healing . Andrew just had surgery and Fierce Girl is as well.

Btw..You all are fantastic!
If you know of others...add there names please!



I keep these candles alive and ask support in helping all those within the list...That they feel the energy and strength from our thoughts and prayers..


Update on Fierce Girl I seen on the Dear thread

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...?t=23&page=185

Lady Pamela 05-29-2010 01:12 PM

For you my friend! ~*~ Wildcat ~*~
 
I light this fire for:

~*~ Wildcat ~*~


May the energy from it bring you,
Peace,love,comfort,harmony,health,enlightenment,jo yious moments,understanding and serenity!

You have been my Guardian Angel the past lil while and I wanted to thank you for being so unconditional and understanding.

I also ask for others to add energy to this flame.

I would dance around it to buld more energy if you was here playing the mother drum..smiles But when I do it when I camp, I will light that fire in your honor!

http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y8/...mated-fire.gif



Jude,

Thank you so much for being there for me.
You have seen me both in my angelic state and my exorsist state of mind...lol
Yet you stuck around and when I needed a call..You were there.
This past month couple of months have been very challenging for me as you so well know...Again...Thanks my friend!

Lady Pamela

Spirit Dancer 05-30-2010 01:22 PM

Today I light candles with gratitude
and light for
Diva
mini Diva
Wax
Pashi
Andrew
Lady Pamela
Fierce Girl
Delores
wolfy
Syr
And for those heros who have fallen in the line of duty.
http://i367.photobucket.com/albums/o...ANDLES/158.gif

__________________

Passionaria 05-30-2010 03:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spirit Dancer (Post 117824)
Today I light candles with gratitude
and light for
Diva
mini Diva
Wax
Pashi
Andrew
Lady Pamela
Fierce Girl
Delores
wolfy
Syr
And for those heros who have fallen in the line of duty.
http://i367.photobucket.com/albums/o...ANDLES/158.gif

__________________

Adding my prayers for you all, to the river of consciousness........



http://www.serenescentsations.com/Pr...et%20grass.jpg

WolfyOne 05-30-2010 04:47 PM

Today I lit a candle for all the candle lighters that have come here to light candles for whatever the reason is.
Sending you peace, light, love, hope and faith for all days to come.

Damara 05-30-2010 06:03 PM

I light my candles today in gratitude for the beauty that surrounds us. Sending healing thoughts and peaceful moments.......


Lady Pamela 05-30-2010 11:28 PM

Soulmate
 
I light this candle for those seeking a life mate.

~*~ Soulmate ~*~


May the energy from this candle and all who help generate energy towards it,

Bring that special person home safely within our arms.

May we know what still needs to be done to ready ourselves for our union.
And prepare our lives so things will be in order for that day.

May we feel the energies from them and may they feel ours
This very minute!
And may we hold that feeling as a beacon...That we will remember and know without dought...When we meet Eye to Eye.

Also,
May we connect to that emotion and feeling often.
To create the energies to draw our love close.



To my Love and Soulmate:

I feel you often...And await your arrival with excitement!
I am paiently waiting for you to come to me now.


Lady Pamela 05-31-2010 12:09 AM

I light this candle for all those effected by addiction...Or those wanting to send energy to someone who does.


May it reach those who need it
And help heal, comfort, and calm the mind
so that they might see a clear path to recovery
and finding their way through the journey!

http://i294.photobucket.com/albums/m...ndleprayer.gif



AtLast 05-31-2010 01:57 AM

I light this candle :candle: for my Mom & Dad, sister Jeanne, and my brother John.

Any kind of holiday just make me think of you all a bit more than usual. I miss you so much. We used to have some BBQ's on Memorial Day, didn't we?

Ut, Oh, I don't have a candle image.... but I do see and feel their light, every single day!
:candle:

... and one for my dog, Valentino... :candle:

WolfyOne 05-31-2010 08:30 AM

Today I lit a candle for the fallen and those that have been left behind to grieve for them.
May the fighting not have gone in vain.
May we one day find freedom for all.
May we continue to help those in need, no matter the cost.
Let us honor the brave souls that helped us to keep our freedom.

Spirit Dancer 05-31-2010 10:20 AM

Today my candle is lit for hope,
and health.
after a rountine doctor's visit
Syr is being readmitted
with complications.
http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f3...bc_Lys-1-1.gif

Lady Pamela 05-31-2010 12:17 PM

Special Candle request
 
Yeserday...

My 12 year old son,My 3 year old grandson and my grandaughter age 6 as well as myself..

Seen a very bad accident happen to a 55 year old man on a motorcycle.

I am asking for a few things..

Prayers for the family and friends of this guy to help them get through the pain.

Prayers for the lady who hit him...Not her fault btw...That she as well as her passenger, will be able to release any guilt and fear from this accident.

Prayers that allll who wittnessed it will heal and release this from their minds.....My kids are taking this very hard...It was really bad!

And prayers in rememberance for the guy who passed away..May he transend easilly.

Here is the link to the story:

http://www.deseretnews.com/article/7...and-State.html



Andrew, Jr. 05-31-2010 01:05 PM


My candle is burning for everyone alive :candle: and another for those who have passed over. :candle:

Peace and all good, (f)
Drew

femmedyke 05-31-2010 01:58 PM

We lost our three week old foster kitten on Sunday and are grieving terribly.
Sending along white light for her brave little soul.

cinderella 05-31-2010 02:47 PM

Lighting a candle for all those valiant soldiers who gave their most precious gift so we can have, and keep, what so many of us take for granted - our freedom.

Spirit Dancer 05-31-2010 07:14 PM

Lighting more candles with light, strength and love
asking for the healing that Syr needs this day.

Nat 06-01-2010 12:15 AM

Insomnia had me surfing Post Secret and I ran across this.

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_a7jkcMVp5V...0/prayaway.jpg

Lighting a candle for anybody whose orientation is forbidden by their religion or culture, for anybody who's tried to pray away their orientation, may they find love, peace, safety and acceptance.

http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:N...nd-6949918.jpg

AtLast 06-01-2010 02:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nat (Post 119245)
Insomnia had me surfing Post Secret and I ran across this.

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_a7jkcMVp5V...0/prayaway.jpg

Lighting a candle for anybody whose orientation is forbidden by their religion or culture, for anybody who's tried to pray away their orientation, may they find love, peace, safety and acceptance.

http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:N...nd-6949918.jpg

And may we light candles each day to illiminate the global violence against women in the world. We remain so focused on our own society and culture and walk right past the horror women endure worldwide simply because of their gender. What may have changed for us is present to women around the world. Let us not forget!

waxnrope 06-01-2010 06:15 AM

I light a candle today in thanksgiving for early morning bird song. Their sweet music brings a calm and meditative spirit over the bubbling frenzy that sometimes threatens to take over my life.

I listen to the back and forth call, watch the cats return home in the not-so-dark before sunrise. In the beauty of morning darkness, I am reminded that life's complications are not so complex, not so impossible. The breathing in and out, the pulse of Creation illuminates this day and animates my spirit. I am thankful and humbled by this reminder.


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