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Spirit Dancer 07-28-2012 01:24 PM

Love is......Knowing hard limits and trust.

ruffryder 07-28-2012 07:41 PM

Love is the weather of life.

Love is when you and I become one.

Love is the sweetest poison ever.

Love is not free. The price is your heart.

Love is about trust, happiness and compassion. Love is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance, and buidling confidence. Love is about what you say, what you mean, and what you do. Love is about seeing people for who they are and not what they have. Love is about choosing to use your Life to touch someone else in a way that could never have been achieved otherwise.

Metro 07-28-2012 08:43 PM

Being present for, paying attention to, and respectful of the one you love -- this includes oneself.

Mar 07-28-2012 09:37 PM

To Me Love is...
 
Loving with your whole heart always, not just when it's convenient to you.
Seeing the light even when times are hard.
Working out problems.
Adapting and compromise.
Loyal above anything else.
Showing what you can give, not what you can benefit from or take.
Thinking of the other person in everything you do.
Caring about *our* future, not just *yours*.
Appreciation.
Not selfish.
Making her smile when she doesn't want to.
Letting her know how good she is when she can't see it for herself.
Guidance and support.
Appreciating all the little things you adore as well as the ones that drive you nuts and being able to smile at them all.
Being smart enough to know what you have, and making sure she knows it every chance you get.
Not giving up just because the road gets bumpy.
Finding the good and letting go of the bad.
Sharing your lives together.
Loving beyond faults and forgiving the past.
Honest even when it's scary.
Eternal not fleeting.
Seeing and appreciating what you DO have and NOT constantly thinking about what you don't have or could have etc...
Not always looking for the next best thing out there.
Hard but worth it all.
It's the most beautiful gift you can give or receive.

Taking chances.
Waiting for the right person, not taking what's *there*.

Final note, sometimes love is looking at you in the face, are you wise enough to see it? A lot of the time we tend to pick and choose, I think that is human nature (to a degree), but if you can slow down a moment and look closer...see the bigger picture, chances are you just might see your soul mate has been there with you all along..waiting for you to figure it out.


I could go on but you get the idea.

Ginger 07-28-2012 09:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruffryder (Post 622653)
Love is the weather of life.

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Love hangs in there, when the weather changes.

tazz 07-28-2012 09:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mar (Post 622687)
Loving with your whole heart always, not just when it's convenient to you.
Seeing the light even when times are hard.
Working out problems.
Adapting and compromise.
Loyal above anything else.
Showing what you can give, not what you can benefit from or take.
Thinking of the other person in everything you do.
Caring about *our* future, not just *yours*.
Appreciation.
Not selfish.
Making her smile when she doesn't want to.
Letting her know how good she is when she can't see it for herself.
Guidance and support.
Appreciating all the little things you adore as well as the ones that drive you nuts and being able to smile at them all.
Being smart enough to know what you have, and making sure she knows it every chance you get.
Not giving up just because the road gets bumpy.
Finding the good and letting go of the bad.
Sharing your lives together.
Loving beyond faults and forgiving the past.
Honest even when it's scary.
Eternal not fleeting.
Seeing and appreciating what you DO have and NOT constantly thinking about what you don't have or could have etc...
Not always looking for the next best thing out there.
Hard but worth it all.

Final note, it's the most beautiful gift you can give or receive.



I could go on but that's the basics for me.

***i so agree Mar!

Love is Unconditional

Love is Tolerance and Patience

Love is work (nothing comes easy that is worth having)

and...

Love is the deep understanding and accepting the other person for who they are... even if it means they are not in love with you...

tazz 07-28-2012 09:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by IslandScout (Post 622689)
Love hangs in there, when the weather changes.

***IslandScout... i would so love this... sounds so simple, eh?

jac 07-28-2012 10:00 PM

Love is...

Her knowing you had a long LONG day at work and eagerly wanting to hear about it all... no matter how much you spew that unscripted rambling. :hamactor:

Kenna 07-28-2012 10:10 PM

Love is.. ..when you dream of dancing in the rain...

Hollylane 07-28-2012 10:15 PM

Loving each other for your differences, not despite them...

puddin' 07-29-2012 06:44 AM

randomness...

Miss Scarlett 07-29-2012 10:37 AM

Love is missing each other & eagerly anticipating the next time you're together before you're even apart...

gotoseagrl 07-29-2012 10:52 AM

sometimes letting go.

spritzerJ 07-29-2012 11:16 AM

Love is that ache while remembering followed by a burst of joy at the imagining the next time.

Blade 07-29-2012 11:20 AM

Love is...pruning

Together pruning things from your life as one, that don't fit with the Masterful plan.

Ginger 07-29-2012 03:02 PM

Love is drunk. And it's still there when it sobers up.

gotoseagrl 07-29-2012 04:03 PM

... agreeing on what love really is (not constantly fighting over it), & wanting what is best for yourself. i think if those two things are true, real love will come & stay.

Kenna 07-29-2012 09:02 PM

The affection, respect, trust and dignity shared between two long time friends...
and
The affection, respect, trust and dignity shared between two new friends that are in the "discovery phase" of learning about each other...

Each friendship feels slightly different, in good ways...
different kinds or levels of affection (how many different meanings does Italy have for "Amore"?),
different feelings of respect because we all come from different walks of life,
different feelings of trust and reasons why we feel we can trust the new or long time friend...but it feels good to trust and be trusted (especially with each other's safety and emotional well being) ...
and Love is (no matter the meaning or the level of friendship or connection to each other) is treating each other with dignity...

Love is....enjoying the company, laughter and affection from each friend... and being thankful for the connection you share with them...

Love is.... when you can't imagine life without them...

Love is also adopting a slow pace at getting to know new friends and not pressuring each other...

Ms. Meander 07-29-2012 09:10 PM

Love is
 
forgiveness

LeftWriteFemme 07-29-2012 09:24 PM


Ginger 07-29-2012 09:25 PM

A long time ago, in a poetry class, one of my students wrote, "Love is a mean dog."

Another student wrote, "Love is a flower that blooms in the night, and sometimes by day."

We talked about each analogy and what it says about that writer's experience with love.

I think love changes all the time.

LeftWriteFemme 07-29-2012 09:58 PM


Bleu 07-29-2012 10:01 PM

[nomedia="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QE61Bz7IHKg"]Howard Jones "What is Love" - YouTube[/nomedia] :stillheart:

Hollylane 08-01-2012 10:48 PM

Going somewhere, or doing things that are not particularly interesting or fun for you, just because that place or activity makes their eyes light up with excitement...Suddenly finding that you enjoy these things or places as much as they do, just because you're together and their delight makes it fun and interesting to you...

Bard 08-01-2012 10:55 PM

love is sweet kisses and sleepy ones to when I get home from work. looking at her over our laptops and just grinning like a fool XOXO

Miss Scarlett 08-12-2012 06:14 PM

Love is the sweet little things you do for each other just because...

bigbutchmistie 08-12-2012 06:59 PM

Watching her planning her wedding for next year to someone else and dying inside cause I wish she was planning it with me. But supporting her and being happy for her anyway.

*Anya* 08-12-2012 07:59 PM

Love is
 
Letting go when you have to, even if you don't want to,

and

Still wanting happiness and the very best out of life for the other, just because.

:moonstars:

sylvie 08-15-2012 11:47 PM


Love is...
Him and i having a deep conversation this afternoon, talking future plans and knowing deep within my heart and soul that He means every word He says and that He is all about following through. The trust and honesty in Our relationship, and not having to worry, ever.. i look at Him, hear His words, and feel so at peace, loved and ready to take everything on that needs doing, because i know We're always, always so good, real, connected and on the same path..

Kenna 03-15-2014 10:06 PM

For Papi...
 
Love Is....
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-qGlJDYzqBd...74914528_n.jpg

Kenna 03-27-2014 03:01 PM

http://24.media.tumblr.com/cb6387c58...sbpfo1_500.jpg
Love is...
Our own kind of sexy ....


Cid 03-27-2014 07:04 PM

love is
 
....unattainable for me it seems.

SnackTime 06-25-2014 09:35 PM

Love can be...
 
A friendship caught on fire.

deb0670 06-25-2014 11:38 PM

Love is: Seeing the person inside and watching him transform on the outside and the look of gratitude in his eyes after i called him Son for the first time.

Trev 06-26-2014 07:04 PM

Love Is....
 
When your heart whispers...she's the one.

WingsOnFire 06-26-2014 07:12 PM

Love is.... holding my friends baby and talking to him while he coos at me...

Kenna 04-29-2018 10:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kenna (Post 328028)
Supportive
Positive
Healing
Refreshing
Encouraging
Empowering
Powerful
even if it's all about love for one's self and building one's healthy inner-self

Yup...still true

firecat242 04-30-2018 04:06 AM

love is
 
those eyes that spark the fire
a touch that calms the fear
a sound like silence, deafening in its wake
the fullness of the moment
and the emptiness of its passing
it defies our attempts to define
to wrap words around it.

Love is a state of being.

girl_dee 08-22-2019 07:51 PM

love is home with my love..
love is the butterflies i still get

Kenna 08-22-2019 09:04 PM

Love is...feeling confident and secure that it's ok to be single and being single is the best choice for oneself. Love is supportive and building oneself up.
Love is telling oneself it's ok to be proud of yourself.
Love is being ok with yourself before you try to love another.


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