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*Anya* 04-19-2013 11:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by calibri (Post 661556)
I've found that quite a good way of finding the kind of person you want is online dating. Yes, I know, it has its downfalls, but really it's just a mixed bag like with meeting people in person. The beauty is that you get to know a lot about people (and have a good guess at whether they're suitable for you or not) just based on what they say on their profile. You don't have to waste time on entire dates screening people when a quick glance of their profile gives you a good indication of compatibility.

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Originally Posted by *Anya* (Post 661563)
I agree completely. I am very honest with what I am looking for in my profile. I am looking for a life partner at this stage of my life and dating is the only way I know of to possibly meet "the one". As stressful as dating can be, I also find it fun and interesting to meet bright women with such varied backgrounds and occupations.

I believe that chemistry is everything. It can't be manufactured or wished to happen; it either is there or not. Unfortunately, there is no way to know if it is present or not, without meeting someone in person!

There really, for me, is no way to know without that meeting. Once you know if there is chemistry, you still have to find out if values, beliefs, outlook on life matches or meshes with yours. That takes a lot more time and energy but I feel it is totally worth it unless one wants to spend the rest of ones life alone.

I do not.

Shortly after I wrote this I did find "the one". The one I laugh with ( sometimes at) cry with, act like a silly, goofy girl, talk with about everything under the sun and listen to her own hopes, fears, dreams and joyful moments and dry her eyes when her butch eyes leak and the most special and life-affirming of all: we make love, every glorious chance that we get.

Sometimes I have to pinch my self that I am so lucky. What did I want?

What I have found: a brainy, sharp, attractive, funny, loving butch who loves me, thinks I am really funny and laughs at all of my jokes (even the groaners)!

girl_dee 04-20-2013 09:45 AM

to not feel like half of me is missing no matter where i go

TheMerryFairy 04-20-2013 11:03 AM

I want these cramps to go away, to watch a movie with company, a coffee milkshake and more lunch.

imperfect_cupcake 10-13-2013 09:42 AM

well I finally think I'm ready to be able to have a relationship. I'm actually pretty open to many things but there are things I *need* not want:

they can't be hung up on "being a gentleman" or we'll never get anywhere. I do need someone who isn't sexually shy. who can talk filth. who is t going to hold back because they think they need to act to some bizarre code. we'll be waiting forever if they wait more me to get dirty first. I can talk filth to peel paint off a wall but I am reactive and I bounce off of another's desire for me. being lusted after gets me going. I will respond very well but they have to start the engine.

I need a sense of humour that can take teasing/taking the piss. this is how I flirt. banter. I need someone able to tease and take the piss back so we can flirt with humour/sex. then get dirty. talking to me about flowers and chocolates and kittens and the colour of my eyes is not going to turn me on. think burlesque humour. naughty. nasty. slightly vulgar.

I'm still old fashioned in many ways but not in "protecting my honour" stuff. my honour doesn't need saving/protecting, it needs ravaging

I need someone who is a bedroom dominant rather than a top. I go weak kneed for someone who wants to use me for their own pleasure, not someone whos main concern is my pleasure. if their pleasure is to force me to orgasm 15 times then do it, don't ask me in bed what I want. I'm not a bottom, I'm a submissive. I there to be thiers. to do/take whatever they want. if the onus is in me to decide or say... doesn't work well for me.

I need someone who loves to talk. or converse. ever since coming home I dated a string of lone wolf/string silent types and it just doesn't work. if you can't laze about with me and talk about yourself and your life or how you see things or what you want to be doing... I'll get bored and lonely. I want to go to the natural history museum and sit on the floor by the butterfly case and talk about what the things you see makes you think of or remember. we'll have a great shag in the morning, have coffee and brekkie, then head out for a day of exploring and conversation.

and a submarine. I'd like someone to have a submarine.

cinnamongrrl 10-13-2013 09:53 AM

I want a pony...it's long over due....

Oh...and time to magically elapse me past this uber boring unit in school...blah

AND

For ice cream to be health food...with advertisements saying... Eat More Ice Cream!

and world peace

That is all for now....

Venus 10-13-2013 01:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cinnamongrrl (Post 853650)
I want a pony...it's long over due....

Oh...and time to magically elapse me past this uber boring unit in school...blah

AND

For ice cream to be health food...with advertisements saying... Eat More Ice Cream!

and world peace

That is all for now....

TOTALLY agree on the icecream part. Wish I had some right now! Coffee flavored! I also want to be one of those people who manage to sleep during the day since I worked over 12 hours last night...

Soon 10-13-2013 04:05 PM

...more time together...

DaddyNik12 10-13-2013 05:43 PM

what I want is , life , to be okay and not have to stress ,

I want peace inside of myself , and peace again with a few others , theres more wants that I wanna post but don't think I can do it yet

RockOn 10-13-2013 07:16 PM

For a drunk to get honest, clean and sober. Then come back to me. She and I could have it all. It would take a very dedicated commitment and loads of hard work for things to level out to the good part but I have seen others do this and become very happy. The key is total honesty and total sobriety. She is gaming hard now, running on ego. I hope she will be okay.

I am not stupid. Chances of her getting honest, cleaning up and returning to me are a billion to one.

I love her.
Always will.
That is all.

Helena_Handbasket 10-13-2013 10:23 PM

I want someone who has the same definition of love that I do. Someone who is capable of commitment and a meaningful relationship. Someone who is responsible and intelligent. Someone who wont cheat and lie.

I'd like to have a better filter. :)

Bad_boi 10-14-2013 02:32 AM

A cup of tea

For this virus cold thingy to be done

No more anxiety

All of my friends and family to be healthy, happy and successful in their lives.

selty 11-08-2013 04:42 PM

I want someone who enjoys being doted on

selty 11-08-2013 04:43 PM

wait change my last note, I shouldn't be so personel..... I want cookies.... ohhh and some milk to dip them

ONLY 11-08-2013 08:33 PM

For it to be quicker and easier to get my girl (f) home for good, no more seeing each other every 2 - 3 months for 5-7 days.
I want her home so we can share our lives together as it is meant to be.
I want her happy.

ONLY 11-09-2013 04:44 PM

Was thinking how much I want to dance with my girl (f) right now, hold her nice and close, my lips right my her ear, my hands moving slowly up and down her back........
most likely won't get to do this until Christmas *sigh*

SimpleAlaskanBoy 11-09-2013 06:10 PM

Some rugelach & a nice big couch to cuddle on, instead of these stupid recliners.


~SAB

ConCrtAnge1 03-24-2014 03:25 PM

I just want to be loved without any fears!

RockOn 03-25-2014 02:57 AM

Woke up about 2:30 a.m. ... Been eating brownie cookies and playing on the Internet for the past hour.

I need to go back to sleep now ... won't happen though. My butt will be dragging late afternoon. :(

*pulling another cookie out of the bag, accepting my fate*

Kimpooh 05-10-2014 10:58 PM

I just want to be loved, wholeheartedly & unconditionally... The way I love

kittygrrl 05-11-2014 10:38 PM

ripe strawberries & peace

Trev 05-12-2014 04:39 PM

What Do I Want?...
 
.... I'm feeling pretty blessed these days. Thanks for asking, though :)

Barb42 06-14-2014 05:42 PM

I want...
 
I want... Honesty..faithfulness..communication...to hold her hand.

Charmingbutch21 08-16-2014 07:51 AM

I want a woman to share my life with (I know I ended a sentence with a preposition, ugh). I'm happy with where I am and who I am in life. I don't need someone to save me or complete me. I've been single for three years and recently started dating again. I have no baggage. I've worked through most things that kept me from being emotionally available from dating. I wanted to be completely sure that I was ready to genuinely give dating a chance again. I want to share the happiness, sadness, love, fear, and all the ups and downs of a relationship with a woman who is at the same (or near) place as me in life. I'm ready. Now, where is she? :)

EnchantedNightDweller 08-16-2014 08:20 AM

I think I only want what I can't have. And that if I get it, I really won't want it anymore.

Teddybear 08-16-2014 08:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EnchantedNightDweller (Post 928179)
I think I only want what I can't have. And that if I get it, I really won't want it anymore.

I think most ppl want this. We chase what we cant have faster and harder then anything else. If we put that kind of energy into other things just think of what we could accomplish

Charmingbutch21 08-16-2014 09:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EnchantedNightDweller (Post 928179)
I think I only want what I can't have. And that if I get it, I really won't want it anymore.

I've found that when I want what I can't have that it's actually me that's not ready for a relationship. May not be applicable to you though. :)

Jayce 08-16-2014 11:44 AM

dairy
 
A quart of milk.....

EnchantedNightDweller 08-16-2014 02:01 PM

I totally just got my hearts desire. :hk14:

cinnamongrrl 08-16-2014 02:58 PM

I want....

absolute certainty

and

peace on earth and good will towards men (and women)

JDeere 08-16-2014 10:30 PM

I want....

Honesty

Respect

Communication

Robyn08 08-16-2014 10:43 PM

What do i want....
 
I want to let it all out....

Femmadian 08-18-2014 05:12 PM

So much to ask?
 
I just want to be holed up somewhere in the middle of nowhere alongside someone who has an insatiable libido... with nothing to do but each other. :sunglass:

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JDeere 08-20-2014 07:41 PM

I forgot to add to my list:

LOYALTY, if you don't have that, don't bother with me

Contessa 08-30-2014 01:20 PM

1. Someone enduring; not someone I have to endure.

2. She always has my "back".. no matter what.

3. Pillow princesses need not apply (not into that, sorry)

4. Intelligence

5. Honesty

6. Not a Uhauler

7. Respectful & polite

8. Well mannered

9. Loves Aminals (but doesn't have 12 cats)

10. General love for man/womankind

11. Not lazy

12. Has empathy for others.

13, Is able to communicate and gets along well with others

14. Not evil or vindictive

15. Solid self esteem without being full of herself

Sweet Bliss 08-30-2014 01:58 PM

Not a darn thing. :cheer: Really... not a thing.

If I don't already have it.... don't need it. Simple.

EnchantedNightDweller 08-30-2014 02:14 PM

Someone with computer and automotive knowledge willing to help a girl out. Lol :bow:

bobbi46 08-30-2014 03:20 PM

what do i want ?
 
right now i want strawberry ice cream and a chocolate bar chaser...
if have these things apply ________!! :eatinghersheybar: LOL

TimilDeeps 08-30-2014 04:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bobbi46 (Post 932199)
right now i want strawberry ice cream and a chocolate bar chaser...
if have these things apply ________!! :eatinghersheybar: LOL

Strawberry ice cream is of the devil!!!!

TimilDeeps 08-30-2014 04:38 PM

Cheese. Something cheesy. A cheesy something. And crunchy, I want something crunchy too.

JDeere 08-30-2014 08:01 PM

A nice ice cold big can of miller lite


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