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I have to say first of all that I *LOVE* this group!! I've been thinking alot about losing weight lately, and especially since finding out that I have to go for surgery I know for a fact that I need to lose weight (for My health, not for any other reason). I've been truly inspired reading this thread, not only by Candace and her will to lose weight in a way thats healthy for her but also that she has created this space as a way for herself (and others) to remain accountable for their own weight loss .............. brilliant !!!!!!!
I went to a specialist this past Tuesday to find out if I had to go for surgery or not (long story but turns out I do) and they weighed Me on a scale (which is the first time I've been weighed in a LONG time). The numbers were in kilos so once I got home I looked up the conversion into pounds on the internet and almost fainted when I saw what those kilos actually meant ............ I am at 354 lbs!!!!!!! Holy crap, how in the HELL did I ever let Myself get this far???? I saw those numbers and said to Myself alright man, its time to stop letting yourself go and start doing something about it so I'm coming back to this thread to get motivated to become healthy!!!! I will be coming back to this thread often ............ thank you to all of those who have posted so far (and those yet to post), and I look forward to being along for the ride with all of you while we get healthy and lose weight :thumbsup: |
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I didn't know you called. I got this voicemail a while back from a 512 number was that you?? I couldn't understand anything you said on the message!!!!!! I thought it was a bill collector :) hahaaaaa....... CALL ME AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote:
I am so glad you are putting your best foot forward :) So, I finally had so much pain in that ankle that I had to go to the doctor. I have the worst sprain the doctor has seen for a while. We wrapped it and he has instructed me to NOT workout for a week. A WEEK!!!!!!!! Geezus..... I've been doing so well, this makes me nervous. I will continue and keep my head up...and my leg up for that matter hahaaa... I'm sorry I missed the chat room tonight...unfortunately I was at the damn doctor. Had a late apt 6:30 since I procrastinated so long. I hope it went well. I love you all.... |
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One of the things that I would like to make mention of here is that I think we all need to be mindful of not measuring (or diminishing) our individual progress against each other.
The lovely Diva said something, that I am sure was tongue in cheek, about her "measely three pounds". I think that we need to remember that each of our bodies are different and while I may be on a plan where I lose 7lbs in a week, you can't compare yourself to that if you are on a plan where you lose 7lbs in two weeks. Just as we are all different in how we think, etc, our bodies are wired differently. I think that ALL of our victories and efforts are cause for celebrations with fanfare and grandiosity! Kudos to each of us in our efforts to be healthier! :cheer: |
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Thank You, Christie......it was tongue in cheek..... And I can't say "measely" any more....because I've lost 5 now....:D :flowers: |
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WTG!!! I am really back on the no carb wagon now! I came home early this week and Jess had made me a delish broccoli soup and ground chuck steak dinner - no carbs! yay! I have discovered that WaWa not only has the eggs/bacon bowls, but i can have them take a cheesesteak and make it in a bowl too! I hope with the sale of Ukrops to Giant that I dont lose the amazing salad bar! That would be tragic! |
If you miss mashed potatoes, try mashed cauliflower. Chili's used to serve this dish. Really loved it. I also like mashed turnips. :) Blame that on my crazy Yankee aunt. She blames it on our cousins in Ireland.
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I think you're doing great! I also love reading your post and hearing about your challenges. I even visited a few sites.
I suck at counting and keeping track. Last year I was feeling like crap. I had pain in my chest, stomach and for years trying to lose 50 lbs I picked up after a break-up. anyhow, I looked into a diet called "Eat to Live". It seemed really extreme but I was ready to not only lose weight but heal my body. I adapted it quite a bit and lost a lot in a short amount of time. I struggled because I still like meat now and then and eat organic chicken. It was also hard to center your life around eating but I will say this... I never felt better. I still eat things I really love just not as much. I love tacos and buy free range bison and organic ground turkey. Here's the key and if you do this, just add this, it will greatly improve your health which will also help you naturally lose and begin to change your life. I bought a Bullet Express. I juice carrots, ginger, celery and some kind of green- kale, spinach, whatever. I also chopped cabbage, broccoli, parsley, all kinds of raw veggies. Put some olive oil and balsamic and some crumbled goat cheese. I also do a fruit smoothie. Frozen berries, a banana, pineapple, frozen mango and a bit of organic soy milk. I make a BIG one too. Its very filling so many times i have this later in the day to help with my cravings. I try to get as many raw fruits and veggies in my diet as I can. I make brown rice ahead and throw in all kinds of stuff. I eat whole wheat wraps with humus and more greens. BUT I also eat other stuff, however many times I'm full from all the greens. I dont count anything. I focus on getting as many nutrients into my body as I can and stay away from processed food. The other thing that helps me is that I make stuff ahead. Not just salads but chili, curry stews, things that are comforting, warm and will curb some cravings. I just make sure I add a salad or something. I also buy organic fruit babyfood simply because some things are hard to get where I live and you run out. I want to get at least 6 servings of fruit a day... pears, blueberries, banana, mango, etc. Im in a hurry I eat babyfood or I run out of fruit. I grow a lot but with this diet I need to increase but I dont grow fruit in winter. I started figuring out cost, gas, time and availability. In the winter it makes more sense for me to www.diamondorganics.com the food is shipped FREE overnight and its really fresh. Fresher then the stores. I get a large sampler packaged for 115 (12 lbs of produce) and that last me about 10 days. I still buy my organic carrots and tubs of spinach elsewhere. You have to do what works for you. This works for me and I am noticing a difference in every aspect of my life. I do a pint of ice cream once or twice a month, love fresh bread and other goodies. I treat myself and I am still losing and week by week notice lots of things. I fell off over the holidays, ate too much crap an within 2 weeks felt like crao again and quickly got my ass in gear. I just stopped smoking again, FIVE DAYS now and really feeling good. |
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I joined sparkpeople today and because my exercise is limited, I am going to track my nutritional levels to see just where I'm at.
I have DDD, fibro and arthritis so there are things I just can't participate in. |
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You know my home is open to you if you need a place to park your head. :alarm:If you are allergic to cats, however.... :) They will sit on your head. |
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I need to get me a juicer. And a blender. Those are my next missions :) I always wondered if what they said was true about carrot juice being tasty. hmmm... *smiles* Welcome aboard! Quote:
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*sad face* where is everyone??
Today was an okay day. I worked. I came home. I cooked dinner, I packed my lunch. I'm now watching TV and posting here. I'm sort of bored. Kass went out tonight. She invited me...but....I didn't go. I'm still really leary of going out after what happened the last time. I can't stand the thought of anyone....looking at me. I hate it. |
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I hope you feel better soon! I am not going to ask what happened last time I just hope it doesn't happen again It is ok, just fine, normal to have feelings |
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Candace, you are such a darling person. Like ami, I don't know what happened last time, but I can guess. It's so difficult when you are at the point that you are. You're still figuring out what is best for you and are making some strong and well-defined but also some tentative and unsure changes and the last thing you need is negativity coloring your world. Let them have their own damn coloring book. Yours is taken! Hugs and a little :ohm: for you and some :nyahnyah: and :spider: for them. |
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Wanted to apologize to everyone who came to the WLS group on Thursday. I started getting sick that evening and havent been back since then. I have pneumonia :( So I havent been here since that night. I do check my email once a day so if anyone needs to get a a hold of me, PM here at BFP and I will see it in my email. Im so proud of everyone who has made that first step towards a longer life and better health. Im sorry I havent been much support since we started the WLS group, but I promise as soon as I am better I will come out fighting.
My love to all, Jewel:bunchflowers: |
Wishing you a speedy recovery Jewel.
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There's a long road ahead to forgiving myself for fucking up my body so badly. I am not who I want to be now....but I'm working towards becoming who I want to be. The me who I am. Quote:
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Hope you feel better soon, love. It sucks to get sick. blegh. So, I am now working a lot. To make up for the days of my suspension. |
I wanted to give everyone a nice pat on the back for any and all progress made! :cheesy:
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I totally know that everyone has a life. So, I'm going to keep posting, and hope that everyone will come back so I'm not talking to myself.
So, today I decided to go back to school. I found a school in lower washington that has an LPN to RN program which I am uber excited about. So, I have to take a few more pre-req courses before I can apply. They even have an online option where I only have to drive up there a few weeks out of the whole program. WHOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! So, if all of my plan goes right I will be at my first weight loss goal (250), in an RN program and have all of my debt paid off by this time next year!!!!!! WHOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It has become pretty easy to stay on top of my calories. Though, I have been working every day so I haven't had time to sit around and snack. Also, by the time I get off of work most restaurants are closed :) I have been tempted a few times to stop off at like taco bell or burger king. I had to talk myself out of it.....and breath a few deeps breaths and relax. The only thing I'm can't quite do is stop the smoking. I'm still doing about 3-5 a day, which is WAY less than what I was doing before. I also can't seem to work up the courage to get back to the gym. My ankle is starting to feel better and I know I should get in there...but......blegh. Anyway I'm going to the community college on Wednesday to take care of registration for my pre-req courses. |
WOOHOOO Good Morning Biggest Losers! I hope that everyone's week is off to a happy, healthy start!
CONGRATS Candace on heading back to school. See, positive changes are taking place in your life. Good for you for continuing to learn, grow and making a better future for yourself. I am hella proud of you for not falling into the late night eating traps... something I myself can be so guilty of. You've done awesome honey, keep up the good work. As for the smoking kick... at least you have cut down. I KNOW that it is damn near impossible to do 2 drastic life changes at the same time, so I applaud you for cutting back on the smoking treats. You'll be able to quit in the near future... I see it! As for me, honestly I haven't even stepped on a scale. I KNOW that I've gained weight... I can tell by the way my clothes fit (or better yet, don't fit right). But, I have started paying more attention to what I've been eating and started walking with one of my girlfriends. Not to mention, as much as I hate to say it, trying to cut back on the Diet Cokes. Yes, I know they are Diet, but research shows that although they have no calories, they still aren't good for you. So, I've been trying to drink as much water (with Crystal Light added) as possible. It's tough when those afternoon caffeine headaches kick in and I really want a Diet Coke. I am going on vacation to Mexico in April, so I wanna lose a little weight before my trip. It's my motivation right now... along with all of you! Everyone has been doing an awesome job... let's keep it up! |
You are not talking to yourself!
Has anyone ever read the label on crystal light and other to go drink mixes? Well I did recently. Did you know each tube is 2 (two) 2 servings? Really that is just wrong. When was the last time you shared your water? That does explain why they say to add it to 16 oz of water. |
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Considering it's still only about 10 calories for the whole thing and has much less sugar and/or sweetener than diet sodas, I'm not too irritated with them. Can you imagine how TINY the packages would be if they actually came in SINGLE servings? lol |
For those of you who haven't been working out regularly, it's just fine to go for a walk. There are thousands of people out there who have taken of lots of weight just walking 30-60 minutes a day. Now I realize that California has been inundated with rain over the last 10 days, and it's butt ass cold in the rest of the country, but when we get a break, a nice walk outside will do every one of us good. I got a 2 miler in yesterday and it felt great. (The :dog: likes it too)
For those of you who smoke, you'll find the more you walk and work out, the less you'll want to smoke and eventually you'll be able to just quit. Keep it up, y'all are amazing! |
I stepped on the scale this morning and was pleasantly surprised. Down 7lbs. Considering I am retaining water like the Mississippi River (its nearing "that" time), I was really really happy.
Jess's cousin just posted a pic of me on her facebook from last February. I am more than appalled. I was ginormous. I suppose I need new pics. :clap::clap: yay me. |
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Never talking to yourself. I'm always here, just quiet since I really don't have to lose weight. I just have to eat healthy. So I feel a little akward chiming in. When you feel temptation settin in feel free to text me. There's been a few times I've been tempted and just the thought of textin you has been enough to keep me from the little debbie swiss rolls. Quote:
I need to get back at it but have plenty of excuses besides the weather. My dad lives in wi and when he can't walkd outside he has a place at the university to go. I know a lot of malls open up early for walking also. If you are in an area where school security isn't as big of a thing there might be a school you can walk in also. Always seem to be alternatives. So when i've wanted something sweet lately I've been throwing an apple in the little toater oven and baking it then throwing some cinnamon on it and low and behold on the biggest loser they suggested the same thing except using a micorwave. I prefer the toaster oven myself. It's amazing how many naturally sweet things are out there. Honestly I usually enjoy them more, I just eat the others not even as much for comfort as for distraction. Just like I use the damn arcade on here to distract me from my life. |
Oh my dear gay....where's everybody! Louise!!!! Christie!!!
Shhhh....I don't wanna jinx it......but I've lost 20 lbs!!!!!!!!!! :cheer::clap::cheerleader: |
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Thats AWESOME!!! Way to go!!! You should be so proud of yourself!! |
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I saw the other day on Candace's facebook page, that she's down over 16 pounds! Y'all rock... just sayin'! |
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She's doing great! She's my inspiration! I heart her! The deal for me now is to not backtrack.....I get excited about this and I sometimes think, 'oh good....let me celebrate with this pizza'.... And THAT'S the kind of behavior that must change for me personally. And I am doing it. :ballerina: |
Hello lovers!!!!
Sorry I've been MIA.....just sooooooo busy yesterday getting school stuff together. Now I am up at 7:30am on my day off to take my fur daughter to get spayed. It's that time and she is NOT happy about not having eaten since 11pm last night :) hahhaaaa... Divalicious I am sooooo proud of you for 20 lbs!!! whooot whooooooottt!!!!!:crowd-surf: Keep up the good work everyone....I'll be around later tonight to post more I love you. |
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Just a reminder that tonight is the weight loss support group meeting in the WLS chatroom. 6PM PST/9PM EST. Please come out and support yourself and your friends on your journey to better health :) PM me if you need the password.
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:cheerleader: Congrats way to GO DIVA:happyjump: |
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In no time, you'll :flyaway: |
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I however, gained back 7 so far. I went down 4 sizes in jeans, it helped me in a sense, but it was not the right way to lose the weight. My next lifes journey is about to start in a few weeks and i'm hoping to make better changes. I commend ya'll. I gotta get that Biggest Loser cookbook |
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