sexy arms and a great sense of humor

self confidence

getting cruised from across the room!

strong shoulders and backs are my weakness.....always have been....

Yowza! I second all of these!

Ohhh non physical ones...lol my bad...

Intelligence, a way with words (not always a hand in hand thing) and yes...confidence....swagger if you will....

These are a few of my favorite thingsssssss

My client was bed bound for a duration and watched a LOT of The Sound of Music..... :|

I love accents as well. Certain South and Central American accents are my favorites. I feel them on a visceral level. And a passion gap or a crooked tooth always move me, I’m not particularly attracted to too straight cookie cutter teeth. My ex husband had a crooked slightly broken tooth from a hockey accident and it was one of the things I really enjoyed about his looks. It made me sad when the tooth died and he had to have a root canal and get it capped. It made him quite sad too, just not for the same reasons.

Truthfully though there aren’t instant turn-ons existing in a vacuum for me. There isn’t anything I can think of that would work instantly and singularly for me. It’s a package thing and really more like two separate things. There are things that I am attracted to in a person, things that would get my attention, turn my head. But in my experience they rarely translate to anything meaningful. Then there are things that a person I am attracted to can do to turn me on. My wife doing or saying something that I find particularly hot (which happens often really) works instantly but I doubt it would have the same effect if anyone else were doing/saying it. I guess she has the keys to the instant turn-on switch.

there are certain fragrances that Victoria secret has that for some reason flip a switch , I have a very hard time containing myself

I just felt shallow only stating THOSE....since it really is all about the mind for me.... ;)

I interpreted an instant turn on to be a fleeting, fun moment. If we are speaking of a more physical outcome then a turn on with one person does not translate into a turn on with another. I agree with that. I also cannot tie one thing into an instant turn on other then a general physical and mental butchness which has to be accompanied by the attractiveness, as interpreted by me, of that person as a whole.

I can remember mentioning to people who would comment on my crooked teeth that it my unique characteristic and is a part of what makes me me. I expect it was your positive reinforcement that allowed me to believe it.

I'm sure that is what it is supposed to be. I don't know if you know this about me, but I tend to over-analyze stuff. I turn it over and over looking at it from every angle possible, then I might dunk it in a pail of water to see how it handles being wet. Then I squeeze it making sure to wring out every bit of spontaneity and joy. I examine and then re-examine. I even bore myself.

Instant.
 

Instant to me is visual, audio, physical.
The click of high heels on the floor.
Blonde hair.
Beautiful & manicured hands.
Manicured nails on my skin.
Said hands in my hair.
A soft whisper.
A soft Southern accent.
That look...in her eyes & in her appearance.
Damn, I got more but I think I beat stop here.
Lol

Her smile as I get
 

that one spaghetti strap slipping off the shoulder shimmy look :love1:

This is how you see me? Wow. I love you forever. Your kaijira

Oh, I do know that gets you Love. Big Hug. j

ziiiiiinnnng...
 

Great conversation that makes 7 hours disappear.

When they lean their body into yours .

A sexy text out of the blue.

When they give you vivid details of what they want you to do to them.
When they do little surprise things to make you smile because they know you will love it.

Attentive

and involved in the relationship.

Emotionally mature.

When they fall asleep in your arms with their head on your shoulder and their soft warm breath on your neck.

Lying in bed holding each other close in the dark , talking about everything under the sun.

Inside jokes and special names for things that only you two know about.

Total trust.

Intelligent conversation that make hours disappear and the mundane seem interesting

Being passionate about a project they are doing and showing that passion as they describe it to you

The innocent touch on the back of my neck at just the right time and just the right spot

Shared secrets about the day or life that only the two of us know

Enjoying each other as we make dinner together or compromise and pick out two movies to watch while their head is on my lap or in my arms

the feel of her skin under my fingertips...

You could be talking about your Kitty cat..... lol
:hiding::rollcat:

Confidence, protective of me, a naturally deep voice .<3

No vile creatures allowed. :| You are ruining my visual. lol

LMAO TOUCHDOWN!!!!

Now that's a good visual!

Instant
 

Cologne, not too strong, just a whisper when I am near. Leather, musk, woody, masculine.

Her smile. The curve of her lips, the sparkle in her eyes, the arch of her brows. The way my name sounds when she calls me out on my bs. The smell of her perfume on my pillows when she's gone...

I predict you will fall in love with a cat woman with more than one cat in her company.

:| <…… JAGG's predicted face when he reads this post ...... :pointing:

I love redheads

Short list...
 

Eyes that hold secrets in crouded places...

Soft shiny lips
A good kisser
Passion
Keeps promises
Dependable

Ahem . .well.. .
 

For starters a great butt, feminine dress sense and lady like jewellery. Oh, and a shawl . ... sophisticated look, nice :-)

In saying all that on the aesthetic level what binds it all together to become a turn on is a nice accent and someone that likes to play with words semantics stylie :cigar2: x

a comforting nature

No !!!!! That's the first question I ask, they have cats I cross them off my list. Disqualified!!! hahahaha