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Leigh 08-26-2010 07:31 PM

I love this thread :D

nycfem 08-26-2010 08:00 PM

And don't y'all forget to give some big love to the companion thread:

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...ead.php?t=1118


Quote:

Originally Posted by Braedon (Post 180631)
I love this thread :D


Leigh 08-27-2010 04:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nycfembbw
And don't y'all forget to give some big love to the companion thread:

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...ead.php?t=1118


Of course not, can't forget our companion thread :D

naturlover_52 09-06-2010 12:29 PM

this goes into clothing and caring about OURSELVES
 
why is it that straight people especially women....therapists especially try to hmmmm get us to dress differently.

I am soft butch and I am MOST comphy in Tshirts w/ Sayings/characters and jeans and or shorts...and I don't always LOOK Shnazzy...GREAT....
and get looked at as IF I don't WANT to take care of myself. BUT I just don't know how to change...LOOK different AND I sure AS hell DON"T do make up.....

JUST asking and needing a lil advice....

Thanks....

:superman::piratelaugh:
:2butch::batman:
:reader::flying:

naturlover_52 09-06-2010 03:46 PM

addition to my post
 
I also wear solid colored shirts...and the winter hoodies....I am a soft BUTCH and this is how I am most comphy....JUST don;t know how to dress....the only word coming to mind is glamorous, BUT I am thinking,,,,Proper is the better term

thanks

Wryly 11-04-2010 02:35 PM

clothes
 
Hi all! Just thought I'd bump this up a bit.

naturlover_52 11-08-2010 02:02 PM

hey there
 
glad that U did
good to see you

take care

Tcountry 11-11-2010 04:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by naturlover_52 (Post 186780)
why is it that straight people especially women....therapists especially try to hmmmm get us to dress differently.

I am soft butch and I am MOST comphy in Tshirts w/ Sayings/characters and jeans and or shorts...and I don't always LOOK Shnazzy...GREAT....
and get looked at as IF I don't WANT to take care of myself. BUT I just don't know how to change...LOOK different AND I sure AS hell DON"T do make up.....

JUST asking and needing a lil advice....

Thanks....

Quote:

Originally Posted by naturlover_52 (Post 186911)
I also wear solid colored shirts...and the winter hoodies....I am a soft BUTCH and this is how I am most comphy....JUST don;t know how to dress....the only word coming to mind is glamorous, BUT I am thinking,,,,Proper is the better term

thanks

I do get where you are coming from...I have everything in my attire from sweats and tanks to a soon to be suit...
I am most comfy in my work clothing (work boots, jeans, t-shirts and hoodies)...

A few soft butch things:
Have you tried polo shirts...same type of material as t-shirts but with a collar...
If a full button down shirt is not too butch than soft(I have no clue) then those are great with a solid t-shirt under them with the top 2-3 buttons undone(been told by a few femme's that's yummy...lol)...
Darker blue jeans look sharper than lighter colored...
hoodies are ok...solid colors best(no rips/holes/stains...even tho my fav is this way...not best in public...lol)
They make sweatshirts and sweaters that have a zipper at the top...still a pull over but a little more "style" than just a hoodie...

Just a few suggestions of course...and my own personal opinion...Just trying to take what you said you are comfy in and spruse it up a little ;)


bigbutchmistie 11-11-2010 05:46 AM

Im just the "boi next door" I wear cargo shorts alot with t shirts and a cap, or polo shirt and jeans. To work its cargo pants/ polo shirt. Im a big boi but I feel sexy as hell... :) I just love it when a femme thinks big butches are sexy....

kookybroad 11-11-2010 01:10 PM

I must say there is nothing more exciting then being with a butch that is confident and comfortable with the person they are. I do love the bigger, confident butch, and I love falling asleep and waking up in those strong arms.

Sending out a big HELLO to all those that make my heart flutter!

naturlover_52 11-11-2010 01:22 PM

clothes
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Tcountry (Post 225334)
I do get where you are coming from...I have everything in my attire from sweats and tanks to a soon to be suit...
I am most comfy in my work clothing (work boots, jeans, t-shirts and hoodies)...

A few soft butch things:
Have you tried polo shirts...same type of material as t-shirts but with a collar...
If a full button down shirt is not too butch than soft(I have no clue) then those are great with a solid t-shirt under them with the top 2-3 buttons undone(been told by a few femme's that's yummy...lol)...
Darker blue jeans look sharper than lighter colored...
hoodies are ok...solid colors best(no rips/holes/stains...even tho my fav is this way...not best in public...lol)
They make sweatshirts and sweaters that have a zipper at the top...still a pull over but a little more "style" than just a hoodie...

Just a few suggestions of course...and my own personal opinion...Just trying to take what you said you are comfy in and spruse it up a little ;)


thanks Bud
right now I don't have the money for new clothes. looking for a job and such and most of my stuff has holes in it. Only have 2 pairs of pants right now....because I went from being a Prince....to down and out in like 3 weeks.
Don't like Polo Shirts I don't do many things w/ a color
but learning...and for me for dress it would be slacks and some nice boots and a vest dress shirt and tie
:moonstars::hangloose::fastdraq::batman:

naturlover_52 11-11-2010 01:25 PM

being butch
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by kookybroad (Post 225555)
I must say there is nothing more exciting then being with a butch that is confident and comfortable with the person they are. I do love the bigger, confident butch, and I love falling asleep and waking up in those strong arms.

Sending out a big HELLO to all those that make my heart flutter!

This is all new to me....soooo working on the confidence. I am a big teddy bear that has met her fellow butch to go through life w/ and has the attitude of if u don't like it than Fuck it.....I think that is a lil harsh but she is more my protector.

and yes...I understood what u meant.

AnaLee 01-09-2011 01:18 AM

I just wanted to pop in and give love and support to the big butches here and elsewhere in our universe. You are sooo attractive and sexy. Big shoulders, strong arms, tight jeans ... omg, now where IS my fan!

Sweet thoughts,
Ana

CherylNYC 01-09-2011 01:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AnaLee (Post 262071)
I just wanted to pop in and give love and support to the big butches here and elsewhere in our universe. You are sooo attractive and sexy. Big shoulders, strong arms, tight jeans ... omg, now where IS my fan!

Sweet thoughts,
Ana

I couldn't agree with you more, Sis. I miss snuggling into a strong, broad shoulder and feeling securely enfolded in a big bear hug.

musicman 01-09-2011 02:24 PM

Thanking all the ladies/femmes that love us big butches :)

Gives me hope ;)

Musicman

Nightshade 01-10-2011 10:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nycfembbw (Post 180661)
And don't y'all forget to give some big love to the companion thread:

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...ead.php?t=1118


Just subscribed to both threads! Give me a butch or TG with presence who knows and appreciates a curvy woman any day!

bigbutchmistie 01-10-2011 10:31 PM

Im glad to see this thread again :) I had missed it... I love seeing all the femmes out there who love us big guys :)

asphaltcowboi 01-10-2011 11:07 PM

this is the first time ive seen this thread.. its good to see it.. tho i recently went from 280lbs to 210 at 5'10 im still built like a line backer.. ive always worried esp when i was at 280 that i was to big. that my size scared people away. i know there are some femmes that love the big butches. growing up i was fairly on the too skinny side lol and worried that some big butch would kick my ass if i didnt behave right. as an adult and a older butch im proud to join the ranks!

Leigh 01-11-2011 12:13 AM

I am SO very glad to see this thread again, missed it alot :)

Miss Scarlett 01-11-2011 05:56 AM

Here is what this Femme notices (in order of importance):

1 - eyes

2 - mouth, including smile

3 - hands

...

99 - body size


Miss Scarlett 01-11-2011 07:23 AM

There's so much more to us all than that number on the scale or the tags in our clothes. A short list of things that matter to me are:

1 - even tempered;

2 - mature, well-mannered, respectful and polite;

3 - personal appearance - as in well groomed;

4 - employed;

5 - emotionally secure/confident - no need to prove themselves to anyone or for any reason;

6 - sense of humour and loves to laugh;

7 - understands the difference between breaking and curbing this high spirited femme;

8 - loves conversation/discussion;

9 - loves animals; and

10 - not hung up on an ex (or exes) and/or will not let an ex move back back in, tell me after the fact and expect me to be OK with it all.


stepfordfemme 01-11-2011 10:06 AM

Big Love :)
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Miss Scarlett (Post 263608)
Here is what this Femme notices (in order of importance):

1 - eyes

2 - mouth, including smile

3 - hands

...

99 - body size



Not me!
If I see a big tall handsome (linebacker to use Cody's word :)) I'm done! I'm so in. Its the first thing I notice. Its just the presence and the way they can carry themselves. I love butches that are taller in particular. And if they look like a big farm boi or football player....I'm like melted butter. Broad shoulders are always a plus.Big strong arms & a tummy that I can use like a pillow when cuddling on the couch. Aww sure is nice to dream!

:cheer: Love to all the big butches! :lips:

Leigh 01-11-2011 11:35 PM

Its women like all of you that makes butches and guys like us keep fighting to be ourselves because we know that someone out there, somewhere, will love us for who we are ............. thank you :stillheart:

storyofmylife 01-15-2011 03:52 AM

:cheer: Big Butch Love :cheer:

:cheer: :cheer:

Leigh 01-21-2011 04:41 PM

I love this thread :heartbeat:

AnaLee 02-09-2011 12:29 AM

Hi all you sweet butches - just dropping in to give you some LOOOOOVE!!!

You handsome hunks are FINE by me.
Sweet thoughts,
ANA

Merlin 05-08-2011 04:13 PM

<< big butch here :sunglass:

bigbutchmistie 05-08-2011 04:51 PM

I'm loving this thread. Big Butch here. I like seeing all of the big butch adoring fans lol

Rockinonahigh 05-08-2011 05:19 PM

Reading this thread gives me hope that my chubby body wont turn off the beautiful women of the world.Yes,im a bit on the chunky side all of 258 and just triming down is what im doing cause I doubt I will ever be able to get back to my fighting weight of 165.I just want to be healthy even if chunky.

Rocket Boi11 06-04-2011 01:02 PM

Big Butch Here....
 
I have a woman who tells me on a daily basis how sexy I am and she loves my body....gotta love that....

clay 06-04-2011 03:18 PM

Big Beautiful Butch here, too
 
Hi everyone: BBB here as well. I walk tall, stand proud, and and comfortable in my own skin, and confident in myself. I loved the attributes list Ms. Scarlett posted!!! Thank you, ma'am (in my best Rhett voice) as I bow.
Hope all of us find our truly beautiful femme someday....with eyes and heart wide open...I am...truly a BBB....Clay

Heavenleahangel 06-04-2011 06:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rockinonahigh (Post 335307)
Reading this thread gives me hope that my chubby body wont turn off the beautiful women of the world.Yes,im a bit on the chunky side all of 258 and just triming down is what im doing cause I doubt I will ever be able to get back to my fighting weight of 165.I just want to be healthy even if chunky.

Hi, Rockin; Congratulations on trimming down to be healthier. You will need your new found energy when the lucky femme who wins your heart shows up! <wink>

SoberBoi 06-04-2011 07:14 PM

Rockin,

Size is transient...it is the inside that is constant....

I love to have a big strong butch, with a full rack if I can say that out loud, and strong yet caring arms and shoulders.

When I am on top (not always), I want something to grab onto...a full-figured boi with curves is nice.

What I find unappealing (for me myself) is someone who is too thin and I feel like I am sleeping with a waif. I want butch, but a butch woman.

Don't ever feel bad about who you are because life is not a dress rehearsal. You are who you are. I was 254 lbs at 5'6" and lost over 70 lbs.

I do not feel any different inside... I am still me. I don't look at others and say, why don't you lose weight?... no one did that to me. My wife (now deceased) looked at me just as sexually then as when she first met me (relationship was almost 20 years when she died).

It is attitude, esteem, confidence.... but, I will admit, at any weight, I prefer some arm muscles just because I have various fetishes (don't we all...).

I lost most of my weight through lifting free weights and making better food choices (replacing white sugar/white flour/white pasta with whole grains, more lean proteins and more veggies, etc).

I am who I am. If you love me, you love me for me. If you don't like what you see, get out of line, because you will be quickly replaced.... LMFAO

Happiness is more attractive than the waist line.

Of course, this is just one boi's opinion...

;)

greeneyedgrrl 06-08-2011 11:29 PM

so i have to say... i only read part of this thread... short attention span tonight! :D
but i think it's pretty fantastic. big love to all you hot big butches!
:cheer::cheer::cheer::cheer::cheer::cheer::loveBFP :

msW8ing 08-27-2011 05:00 PM

Just stumbled across this thread..lovin it...I totally agree with all the other big butch adoring femme's..gimme some big arms to melt into..makes me feel all safe and protected.

msW8ing 08-27-2011 07:31 PM

So Ummmm is this where I place my order for my very own big butch to hug and squeeze??:tease::drool:

clay 09-18-2011 02:16 PM

Bummmpity Bump Bump

smouldering 10-26-2011 07:09 AM

This thread has been much too quiet for much too long so I wanted to revive it, I am a curvy BBW who just adore BBB's and wouldn't mind seeing more action from those BBB's in this thread just to know ya'll are out here! ;)

Inuus 10-26-2011 07:27 AM

Thanks for reviving this thread. I guess I fit into this category. I'm 6' and about 225. Would like to see others post in this thread

clay 01-17-2012 09:02 PM

Buuummmpppppping!
 
this here Big Butch is needing to "feel the love" from an appreciative femme....so come on out ladies...show us some love!


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