Yes your ex was part of who you are, but talking about them in nearly every conversation? Not cool

Aggressive driver... not a fan

hi
 

Bad teeth for sure but cocky Spoiled rotten Butches who think nothing but thereself like get over yourself grow the F up:canoworms:

its a sad situation when you are out on a date and the person you are dating wont get off the damn phone.....

Selfishness in bed or in general, poor hygiene, rudeness to anyone at all, endless name dropping, no awareness of social justice issues and why they matter, entitlement, humor that relies on mocking people to be funny, and probably several others, but those are the things I notice right off the bat.

Wishy washy people

Narcissistic people

Agreed buddy.

Braggarts.

People who talk about politics 24/7. That will make me run off really fast.

Ignorance with refusal to become educated on a major issue.


Do people really go on dinner dates refusing to get off the phone? Amazingly rude.

Bad table manners. One of the quickest and fastest way to turn me off.

Narcissists. Sometimes you can peg them instantly. Sometimes they take a while.

Anyone mean spirited at another's expense!

Arrogance...not nearly the same as confidence.

One-sided "conversations". Someone that never stops talking and never listens.

Body odor, in this day and age please use deodorant!

Anyone constantly bragging about all their "material" possessions!

I have a friend that does this and it's so annoying! I asked her just last week when she died was she gonna be able to fit all her crap in her coffin? Because you can't take all your stuff with you when you die!

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Dirty cars.... or ..... tardiness.


Please, PLEASE, for the love of Johnson & Johnson Wax and chamois cloths, clean your car, get it detailed, make sure the floor boards and under the seats are vacuumed, and for the LOVE of Windex, please make sure the windows are spotless, mirrors too. Also, make sure the interior seats are well groomed. Make sure the car smells divine (synonym for clean).



Be Clean. Bee On Time.


Bonus points for making sure all tires are properly aired and balanced... :blush: :eyebat:

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Language
 

Profanity. You can be absolutely amazing but if you use foul language consistently to express yourself it's an instant turn-off for me.

However, with that being said there are time where it can be appropriate though...

When someone with a negative assumption and comments on something you say, that's not needed. That type of rudeness is a huge turn off . I'm very attracted to a classy person as a friend or date .

emotionally cold personality

Stupidity and ignorance.

I just saw a guy do this on TV and it reminded me of this: a winker.

Someone that winks at me in the middle of a conversation. People that are winkers tend to do it no matter how serious the conversation. I don't even like it if someone is flirting and does this.

I think it is kind of creepy.

*wink, wink*

Ooh.

Weird presumptions. You're butch, so you must blah, blah. You're well educated so you must think this way. You're white so of course you feel the same way I do, etc.

Major timidity about trying new things. Trepidation is okay if we don't let it cripple us.

The classic chestnut, bad hygiene.

back to *Anya*
 

winkie blinkie at *Anya*
Heh Heh!
Only joking around ... but you knew because you are smart like that.
:)

*mental note ... nix the wink if ever you meet Anya* :p

A wink is a very delicate expression ... gesture ... whatever. I can go very easily wrong ... or pretty darn right! It should be used with the utmost of caution and with much forethought!

Yes, I've been known to wink on occasion ... on occasion. :blink: <-- not winking! :)

Lacking even the minimum ... a modicum of social grace ... aka manners! I don't expect her to know what fork goes with what course but I do need her to be attuned to when "please" and "thank you" are appropriate.

Treating anyone in a service capacity with anything less than respect. That's a major no-no with me!

Here's my top 3:
You're a racist.
You don't like kids.
You don't like animals.

Oh my gosh! We have a winking smilie!

:winky:

:lol2:

Ha!

:cheesy:

being rude then pretending they were "just kidding"

being dismissive to ANYONE (including pets)

failure to communicate, covers HUGE area.

See! A good wink requires a serious workout regimen! Winking is not for amateurs! :p

Instant turn-off = Fakery and disingenuousness. Like, that thing where you meet people who are bullshit artists. They aren’t even themselves, just bits and pieces they’ve gleaned as “special” from other people’s experiences or personalities.

No no no!

Some instant turn-off
 

Lying is something I despise (the main offense).
Excessive swearing (especially when unnecessary)
Impolite behavior to anyone. I don't care if it's the janitor, they deserve acknowledgement.
An individual is not equal only to the job they hold. Even professors can be schmucks.