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Jet 09-24-2010 01:02 PM

Barb,

I don't see anything wrong with butch on butch. I think it's just a preference and different kind of sexuality or attraction.

Luckydwg07 09-24-2010 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Jet (Post 197358)
Barb,

I don't see anything wrong with butch on butch. I think it's just a preference and different kind of sexuality or attraction.

Jet ~ I agree with you & butch love will continue to be with or without approval.

morningstar55 09-24-2010 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by JoSchmooze (Post 197356)
My thing is femmes....
Femmes in all shapes, sizes, short or tall....
Femmes with a sly sense of humor....
Femmes who don't mind a butch helping in the kitchen...
Femmes who like to have their butch open their doors....
Femmes who can dance a two step but who know when it's time
to sit down and take a bit of a rest....
Femmes who may be able to get me to do what I don't want to do.......
Femmes who are independent, those who know how to stand on their own two feet...
but who also lean a bit when they need to....
Femmes who can cock an eyebrow as if to say "oh no, you did not just say that".....
Femmes who also like butches!

Me likem Femmes......

:cigar2: :cigar2: :cigar2:

WOW.... Mr Schoooommmzz..... i LOVE all that kinda stuff....... lol wooHOO...

ok hideho Lofters..... just peeking in reallllly quick here......
and wow.... hadnt checked in this thread for a spell .. heh......
ok i see nothing wrong with the butch on butch thing.... to each there own.. :) ...
i was just saying...... it seems lately i have come across some single handsome butchs. and well flirting a little then come to find out... they like other butchs.. * deep sigh*..... story of my life.
anyways....... ill bbl...... i am waiting to get my truck loaded and its taking FOREVER!! .. bbl

naturlover_52 09-24-2010 05:29 PM

morningstars last post
 
hey this is just MY own opinion or Jive on ur last post.....and I get it from ur sigh.....what U are saying is that U are disappointed that they aren't wanting to be w/ ANY femme.....you included. I am sorry that that has you bothered or sad. BUT like Jet said IT is out there...and will be..and what hy said also was whether we like it or not. I feel a lil offended or hurt by the not part. BUT u know I am not going to mince words here. I just only know what I like....and who I am. Like I said...I identify as me....a soft butch/andgy....who is into other softies and androgynous women. I also like other Female Id butches.

BUT also understand that there is all this diversity......and that is great it is what it is and makes the world go round.

I think the best thing I can say at this pt. JUST to live and let live.

thanks for letting me rant.

lipstixgal 09-24-2010 05:32 PM

I'm sorry but I'm really into the butch-femme dynamic like Morningstar so I understand her dilemma not really into femmes !!

MysticOceansFL 09-25-2010 05:40 AM

I'm only interested in femme's <<<

justjoanie1 09-25-2010 06:09 AM

I'm new here, but thought I would chime in. I'm only into butches. But I see absolutely not problem with 2 butches together. All depends on what you're attracted to.
I'm in FL in a tiny little town in the middle of nowhere, and there aren't many of us here, so I'm looking to make friends on here and a couple online dating sites.

morningstar55 09-25-2010 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by justjoanie1 (Post 197857)
I'm new here, but thought I would chime in. I'm only into butches. But I see absolutely not problem with 2 butches together. All depends on what you're attracted to.
I'm in FL in a tiny little town in the middle of nowhere, and there aren't many of us here, so I'm looking to make friends on here and a couple online dating sites.

mawning Lofters.....
hey there Justjoanie.....
natural .. sorry didnt mean to hurt your feelings....... sometimes i guess i word things wrong... *sigh*
Jo ...... where ya been?? how have you been??? howz the Shhmooooozz mobil coming along?? :)
Lipstix..... is the weather cooling down where you are??
i had a rough day yesterday and very stressful..... soo im going shopping and get caught up on some art projects.. :)
have a good day everyone.

lipstixgal 09-25-2010 09:42 AM

Hi Morningstar yes its cooling down but like the hot weather instead how about you is it cooling down where you are?

Hope everyone has a great day here on Saturday morning!!

Heavenleahangel 09-25-2010 11:31 AM

Hi, Everyone; Ive been away for a while and am popping in to see who's around and make new friends. I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!

friskyfemme 09-25-2010 11:37 AM

Let me just say... my / your preferences in life and love is NOT about questioning others,
BUT about finding the one(s) that share what I / you are looking for...IMHO

Having the WEB to search for my heart throb, friends, and educate me to others' sameness and differences is amazing.

Tho I have lived over a half century, I haven't learned everything (I don't even know what I don't know!). Being a people person I thrive on diversity :)

Enjoy your day!

morningstar55 09-25-2010 02:01 PM

hideho newbies.....
Lipstix... im from Buffalo new yawk.... and right now im hangin in Gerogetown KY until monday... tis when i get the truck unloaded at Toyota.

lipstixgal 09-25-2010 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 198081)
hideho newbies.....
Lipstix... im from Buffalo new yawk.... and right now im hangin in Gerogetown KY until monday... tis when i get the truck unloaded at Toyota.

so its warm in KY right now right?? Buffalo they get bad weather in the winter right?? I'm looking for a warm climate to live in!!

morningstar55 09-25-2010 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal (Post 198084)
so its warm in KY right now right?? Buffalo they get bad weather in the winter right?? I'm looking for a warm climate to live in!!

really??? im wanting to move to NC.. was hoping to be there this fall but it maight have to wait till spring.
Buffalo . ha yeah.. tthey get a lot of snow..
and yes its warm here in KY.. but not surper bad.. I dont know what the temps are here....

lipstixgal 09-25-2010 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 198090)
really??? im wanting to move to NC.. was hoping to be there this fall but it maight have to wait till spring.
Buffalo . ha yeah.. tthey get a lot of snow..
and yes its warm here in KY.. but not surper bad.. I dont know what the temps are here....

Ooh NC is nice tood but I'm thinking more like Florida like JO did!! But Orlando though!!

morningstar55 09-25-2010 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal (Post 198126)
Ooh NC is nice tood but I'm thinking more like Florida like JO did!! But Orlando though!!

AHH ....... I like the betwen charlotte and umm greensboro area or a lil west of all that... i like to visit fla .. it wouldnt be to far to zip there for a few days. :)

Jet 09-25-2010 04:35 PM

flyin' by
have a good one

lipstixgal 09-25-2010 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 198144)
AHH ....... I like the betwen charlotte and umm greensboro area or a lil west of all that... i like to visit fla .. it wouldnt be to far to zip there for a few days. :)

Really that would be great to come for a visit once I get down there!!

Lady_Wu 09-25-2010 05:28 PM

haven't been around in awhile...
 
nin hao, lofters! i haven't been around in awhile. during my time away, i've survived a relapse of rsd, a break-up (amicable), and contuning to be a care-taker. it IS difficult to be in your 40s and 50s and suddenly becoming a care-taker when one did not expect it.
though not greying yet (genetic?), i too would not go back to being younger. i have learned too much to want to do so. in fact, i am trying to unlearn things i learned when younger. i know more about what/whom i want now and can afford to jettison old attitudes and things that simply do not work anymore. i am quite happy w/me and my own company now. been a long journey to get here, though.
Lady_Wu:glasses:

lipstixgal 09-25-2010 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Lady_Wu (Post 198186)
nin hao, lofters! i haven't been around in awhile. during my time away, i've survived a relapse of rsd, a break-up (amicable), and contuning to be a care-taker. it IS difficult to be in your 40s and 50s and suddenly becoming a care-taker when one did not expect it.
though not greying yet (genetic?), i too would not go back to being younger. i have learned too much to want to do so. in fact, i am trying to unlearn things i learned when younger. i know more about what/whom i want now and can afford to jettison old attitudes and things that simply do not work anymore. i am quite happy w/me and my own company now. been a long journey to get here, though.
Lady_Wu:glasses:

What's rsd? hope you are on the mend!!

Lady_Wu 09-25-2010 05:42 PM

weather report
 
the weather has been very strange here in WV. though sept, the temps have been hot for here-almost 90 in the daytime! today it's somewhat cooler. i'm very glad for that! i do NOT look forward to the snow, however! i live on a hill and getting to the dr and to the groc is hades! just getting down to the street is difficult! very slippery and dangerous when i am using a cane! or two. :(
i'd prefer to live around the asheville area in NC. i've heard the temps are more moderate there. in asheville would be best, i think, so i can get public transport and access to the kind of dr.s i need. plus, there might be other buddhists or taoists there for fellwship. perhaps one day....
Lady_Wu, listening to Gossip-awesome!

morningstar55 09-25-2010 05:46 PM

wow....... did ya'll feel that??? that breeezzz??? hmmmm ** looking around**.. must of been that Jet stream coming in from Georgia way.. heh

evening LadyWu .. glad to see you doing ok over there..

Lady_Wu 09-25-2010 05:51 PM

rsd
 
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Originally Posted by lipstixgal (Post 198190)
What's rsd? hope you are on the mend!!

rsd is reflex sympathetic dystrophy, other defined as "PAIN disease."i am quite serious-that IS how it's defined. it is sometimes caused by an accident or sometimes you are just born w/it. in my case, though i did have a very bad auto accident, i think i was born w/it. i remember having these symptoms-extreme pain and cramping of my right extremeities-as a child. i am on the fentanyl patch and ultram for pain. sometimes even that does not help. i deal pretty well, though, and try not to complain. others have things far worse.
thank you for the well-wish!
Lady_Wu:tea:

Jet 09-25-2010 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 198199)
wow....... did ya'll feel that??? that breeezzz??? hmmmm ** looking around**.. must of been that Jet stream coming in from Georgia way.. heh

evening LadyWu .. glad to see you doing ok over there..

i'm glad i cooled u off barb heh

morningstar55 09-25-2010 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Jet (Post 198243)
i'm glad i cooled u off barb heh

cooled off??? nahh actually . it was a nice warm breeze ..the kind that feels like a hug and leaves you with a smile. *wink*

morningstar55 09-25-2010 06:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 198199)
wow....... did ya'll feel that??? that breeezzz??? hmmmm ** looking around**.. must of been that Jet stream coming in from Georgia way.. heh

evening LadyWu .. glad to see you doing ok over there..

Lady Wu.. well glad ur ok for the most part...... sorry your going thru so much pains... wish there was something we could do to help.

ruthie14 09-25-2010 07:37 PM

Well spent yesterday in lots of pain, last night could only pace and toss my cookies, so today I spent in the er trying to get rid of a migraine. Whatever new stuff they give for migraines these days didn't work as well as what they gave me 4 years ago.. took 3 times with new meds to finally get rid of it. Came home had grits and slept for 4 hours. Figured I best get up and get dinner at least and move around a bit so I'll sleep through the night. Strange having dinner at 9 pm. lol Oh well, at least the pain is gone!

morningstar55 09-25-2010 08:14 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 198259)
Well spent yesterday in lots of pain, last night could only pace and toss my cookies, so today I spent in the er trying to get rid of a migraine. Whatever new stuff they give for migraines these days didn't work as well as what they gave me 4 years ago.. took 3 times with new meds to finally get rid of it. Came home had grits and slept for 4 hours. Figured I best get up and get dinner at least and move around a bit so I'll sleep through the night. Strange having dinner at 9 pm. lol Oh well, at least the pain is gone!

wow glad ur feeling better.....

lipstixgal 09-26-2010 05:50 AM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 198259)
Well spent yesterday in lots of pain, last night could only pace and toss my cookies, so today I spent in the er trying to get rid of a migraine. Whatever new stuff they give for migraines these days didn't work as well as what they gave me 4 years ago.. took 3 times with new meds to finally get rid of it. Came home had grits and slept for 4 hours. Figured I best get up and get dinner at least and move around a bit so I'll sleep through the night. Strange having dinner at 9 pm. lol Oh well, at least the pain is gone!

I don't understand why they don't put you on imitrex or something like it for maintenance so you don't have to go to the ER all the time. but glad you are feeling better. I used to get migraines all the time with Lyme's disease so I understand pain!! glad you are on the mend..

morningstar55 09-26-2010 06:12 AM


ruthie14 09-26-2010 07:17 AM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal (Post 198389)
I don't understand why they don't put you on imitrex or something like it for maintenance so you don't have to go to the ER all the time. but glad you are feeling better. I used to get migraines all the time with Lyme's disease so I understand pain!! glad you are on the mend..

Tried imitrex but it didn't work on me. I am on other stuff.. but about once I year or so I end up with one getting that bad. I can usually head it off at the pass as they say. However work has been extrememly stressful both emotionally and physiclally, so I am getting more of them. This was the first to land me in the er however. Hopefully things at work are changing and the stress should decrese a bit. What I need is a new job that makes more money and has less stress.... but I have been looking for quite a while and can't find anything I can do. I just keep looking! Of course, now I have another hospital bill to deal with!!! urrrggg

justjoanie1 09-26-2010 07:24 AM

Good morning, lofters...... Hope everyone's weekend is going well.

LotusFlower 09-27-2010 05:46 PM

Weekend
 
Hi,

I had a nice weekend. It would be nice to see more people - friends are nice but !!

Too bad there wasn't a regular b-f thing going on in Philadelphia. Is there a dating thread going on anywhere here?

Love ya all

:heels:

ruthie14 09-27-2010 06:01 PM

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Originally Posted by LotusFlower (Post 199099)
Hi,

I had a nice weekend. It would be nice to see more people - friends are nice but !!

Too bad there wasn't a regular b-f thing going on in Philadelphia. Is there a dating thread going on anywhere here?

Love ya all

:heels:

There are lesbian happenings but b-f.... that is hard to come by. I keep trying! Look on the nj thread. I post general things in NJ there, but I have had a hard time getting b-f folks to get together. If you have any ideas let me know. I am just over the bridge from you.

Ruthie

Jet 09-27-2010 06:12 PM

Flyin' in and out.
have a good one.

MysticOceansFL 09-27-2010 06:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 199108)
There are lesbian happenings but b-f.... that is hard to come by. I keep trying! Look on the nj thread. I post general things in NJ there, but I have had a hard time getting b-f folks to get together. If you have any ideas let me know. I am just over the bridge from you.

Ruthie

Its the same way in The Floridian thread!!!

lipstixgal 09-27-2010 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticOceansFL (Post 199123)
Its the same way in The Floridian thread!!!

Mysticoceans how's the weather in florida? Wishing I was there already!!

How are the lofters tonight?? HOpe everyone is doing well and had a great day!!

Jude 09-28-2010 10:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JoSchmooze (Post 197356)
My thing is femmes....
Femmes in all shapes, sizes, short or tall....
Femmes with a sly sense of humor....
Femmes who don't mind a butch helping in the kitchen...
Femmes who like to have their butch open their doors....
Femmes who can dance a two step but who know when it's time
to sit down and take a bit of a rest....
Femmes who may be able to get me to do what I don't want to do.......
Femmes who are independent, those who know how to stand on their own two feet...
but who also lean a bit when they need to....
Femmes who can cock an eyebrow as if to say "oh no, you did not just say that".....
Femmes who also like butches!

Me likem Femmes......

:cigar2: :cigar2: :cigar2:

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Sounds like you're attracted to bona fide women and not baby girls.

Jet 10-03-2010 03:45 PM

Hope everyone had a good weekend

lipstixgal 10-03-2010 04:28 PM

Good evening lofters not feeling well at all. Sneezing, runny nose, scratchy throat achy took some allergy meds and some ibuprofen to help with the pain. HOpe you all had a good weekend!!


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