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Mr Nice Guy 06-19-2012 06:43 PM

I agree FtM, it's hard to find Femmes anywhere. Especially in small towns. I'm trying the online thing. It's worth a shot.

ruby_woo 06-19-2012 09:43 PM

The single butches should come to Vancouver, you'd all be very popular. There are about a million femmes, and maybe 4 butches. I've already dated two of them. :|

I may start hittin' up Seattle, lol.

Julien 06-20-2012 07:22 AM

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Originally Posted by ruby_woo (Post 604332)
The single butches should come to Vancouver, you'd all be very popular. There are about a million femmes, and maybe 4 butches. I've already dated two of them. :|

I may start hittin' up Seattle, lol.

I may have to consider moving way north. Thanks Ruby Woo for the info.

Good morning to all the singles. I hope you have a great day and I'm off to play in the library.:sunglass: I'll check back later.
Julien

Breezy 06-20-2012 08:26 AM

Good morning everyone. :rrose:

It is quiet so far today. It is bright,beautiful and promises to be a scorcher. I think frequently about the things I can do to bring my energies up into the positive realm so I don't keep creating negative experiences in my life. Does anyone else do this?

What are some things you do or can do to bring yourself to a positive state of mind? I remind myself I can change my mind anytime I choose. I remind myself I am in control of thoughts and therefore in control of my emotions. I know my thoughts lead directly to what I feel. If it is negative thinking my emotions are negative, the same for positive. I also make sure I belly laugh at least a few times every day, leave my past in the past and move forward. I don't pretend away or ignore issues or grief, I process them in a timely manner.

Okay, your turn.

Julien 06-20-2012 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Breezy (Post 604436)
Good morning everyone. :rrose:

It is quiet so far today. It is bright,beautiful and promises to be a scorcher. I think frequently about the things I can do to bring my energies up into the positive realm so I don't keep creating negative experiences in my life. Does anyone else do this?

What are some things you do or can do to bring yourself to a positive state of mind? I remind myself I can change my mind anytime I choose. I remind myself I am in control of thoughts and therefore in control of my emotions. I know my thoughts lead directly to what I feel. If it is negative thinking my emotions are negative, the same for positive. I also make sure I belly laugh at least a few times every day, leave my past in the past and move forward. I don't pretend away or ignore issues or grief, I process them in a timely manner.

Okay, your turn.

Hi Breezy,
Let me commend you on your approach to life and I agree with you, you have the power to control your negative and positive thoughts. I must say at times it can be so difficult to do. I know this to be true. However, I work daily at framing things in as positive a manner as I possibly can. Of course it can't be done on everything. I remind myself to not compare myself to others because that can be a cause of trouble. I smile at everyone I meet and do not judge them unfairly. With that being said I value integrity, loyalty, honesty, honor, fairness, and compassion. I look for the same values in others. I have figured out that if those things are lacking then a connection will probably not be made.

I'm not sure if that is the answer you were looking for, but it is a start.


Mr Nice Guy 06-20-2012 05:31 PM

Still single and wanting a pool to jump in.

FtMGuy 06-20-2012 07:37 PM

I agree, I have had some good luck meeting femmes on line, my ex & I met on line we were together 11 years so it does work although it can be expensive, she lived with me for 4 years here in lincoln and I lived in the UK with her for 7 years
I am willing to travel, and I like traveling so its all good.

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Originally Posted by Mr Nice Guy (Post 604234)
I agree FtM, it's hard to find Femmes anywhere. Especially in small towns. I'm trying the online thing. It's worth a shot.


MickMan 06-21-2012 05:59 AM

Good morning everyone. Just popping in to say hi. Hope everyone is well.

Mick

Julien 06-21-2012 06:07 AM

Good morning everyone. Nothing to say other than I just woke up and am getting ready for my day. I hope Your day is a good one. I'll be back after work at the library, yes I know fondling books.

Breezy 06-21-2012 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Julien (Post 604656)
Hi Breezy,
Let me commend you on your approach to life and I agree with you, you have the power to control your negative and positive thoughts. I must say at times it can be so difficult to do. I know this to be true. However, I work daily at framing things in as positive a manner as I possibly can. Of course it can't be done on everything. I remind myself to not compare myself to others because that can be a cause of trouble. I smile at everyone I meet and do not judge them unfairly. With that being said I value integrity, loyalty, honesty, honor, fairness, and compassion. I look for the same values in others. I have figured out that if those things are lacking then a connection will probably not be made.

I'm not sure if that is the answer you were looking for, but it is a start.


Julien, there are no right or wrong answers. :) Thank you so much for your input.

Any other takers on my question?

Julien 06-21-2012 11:07 AM

Hi Mick and Breezy

:glasses:
Well I'm back from the library, it was a short day filled with books, book jackets, bar codes, spine labels and tape. No wonder I had a tough time staying awake. I didn't see any interesting books come in, or at least those that I might be interested in. Bummer.

:blink:

Breezy 06-21-2012 12:15 PM

Hugs for you Julien. Good books tomorrow maybe? :)

Mr Nice Guy 06-21-2012 02:00 PM

Hi all. Hope you all aren't melted like I am. I feel like a piece of chocolate. :)

Julien 06-21-2012 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Breezy (Post 605007)
Hugs for you Julien. Good books tomorrow maybe? :)

I won't be there tomorrow Breezy, they'll just have to wait. :byebye:

hey Mr. Nice Guy, I guess all we need now is some graham crackers and marshmallows. :chef:

Mr Nice Guy 06-21-2012 03:05 PM

Very funny. Are you calling me a s'more? Lol

ruthie14 06-21-2012 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr Nice Guy (Post 605092)
Very funny. Are you calling me a s'more? Lol

Does that mean you are a marshmallow inside? ( I know lots of butches like this.. crunchy grahm cracker on the outside and wonderful gooey sweetness underneath!)

Hope everyone is staying cool.. It's almost 6 pm and it's 96 outside. YIKES!

Ruthie

Julien 06-22-2012 07:13 AM

Good morning everyone. Happy Friday! The weekend is almost here.

asphaltcowboi 06-22-2012 02:27 PM

hello to all the singles... im just back in the "single" status.. just looking around to make friends.. my heads still spinning a little but its all good in the long run.
its friday!!! get to hit the local pub,play some pool an have a brewski or two!!

GreeneyedMe 06-22-2012 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 605120)
Does that mean you are a marshmallow inside? ( I know lots of butches like this.. crunchy graham cracker on the outside and wonderful gooey sweetness underneath!)



Ruthie

Hi Ruthie!!! My thoughts exactly!

Julien 06-22-2012 06:23 PM

So what's on the agenda for this evening? Is everyone going out to play? Some of us are staying in waiting for tomorrow to play.

For the Ladies :rrose:


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