`1) I am a procrastinator. To a fault. I use to have to live by deadlines and day planners. My schedule was so tight I rarely got home before dark and almost always left before daylight. Now, I fight to make sure that doesnt re-occur consciously but also, in a very passive aggressive unconscious way. I find myself missing appts. I forget meetings. I drag my feet on things that have a time schedule.

2) I hate hate hate talking on the phone. Its gotten much worse the past couple years. I think this comes from believing you could get to know someone and have a relationship with them if you spent enough time with them online and on the phone. (I learned this is SO not true) And also because there was a time when every phone call was a crisis, from my former line of work. It really doesnt matter how it started. What does matter is that there are dear friends I havent spoken to for almost a year because I cant stand to be on the phone. New friends know I have about ten minutes max before I start to get anxious. If you dont pick up my cues, or my direct request to get off by 30, there is a good chance I simply wont pick up the phone again when you call.

3) my fav purse designer is Dooney & Bourke. I would so die for one of their pink ones!

4) I religiously watch reruns of the 70s show and then Criminal Minds every night

5) I dont cry anymore I use to cry alot. I had alot to cry about. And that made me sensitive to things that would also move me to tears. I realized the other nite, that I hadnt cried much at all this year and when I did, it was over physical pain, not emotional pain.

1. I love having fresh flowers around the house

2. I am grateful for my blessings in my life and say so daily

3. I am a hugger, don't expect a limp handshake

4. I rarely carry a purse, have had one stolen and gun shy now

5. I bought a set of gozilla salt and pepper shakers the other day, VERY tacky

that boy
 

1. I am a Marine

2. I studied Ballet as a child/teenager

3. I secretly covet Country Music

4. I can pee standing up and not get my socks wet

5. My intentions are amazing. But my follow thru is shit.

1. I grow and collect cactus.

2. I'm sort of addicted to science fiction games/movies/books.

3. I think cowboy hats & boots are really sexy... :blush:

4. My arms are full of small birth marks... like polka dots.

5. I design and sew costumes for fun. Preferably Steampunk or Anime stuff.

1. I refuse to walk barefoot in the house.

2. I love sleeping with a fan on, cannot sleep in dead silence.

3. Everytime I buy poptarts (which isn't often) I hide them or eat them when I'm alone. They are yummy and I hate sharing.

4. My roots are Canadian and German

5. I check the entire house for insects/bugs every single night before I go
to bed just to make sure there is nothing lingering around before I snooze off. It's become an obsession.

1) I still wear my much beloved sterling silver Tear-drop earrings; but I recently treated myself to a brand new pair of Austrian crystal, Crystal-ball-tear-drop-like, earrings.

2) I thank my lucky stars that I understand a plethora of logic utilized in the game of Chess and subversively apply that particular logic to most areas of my life.

3) I do not relish experiencing job and income insecurity.

4) I am developing a finer appreciation for the moments of free time in my life.

5) I have loved living in my home town for nearly 20+ years now, but lately I am tempted to move. I have no idea if this is an fleeting temptation or if I should act on this particular temptation. It might only mean I should listen to The Temptations or the elements of Earth, Wind & Fire - but it's a real temptation, the temptation to move (relocate).

1. i'm way short
2. i have rhythm, but no music
3. i'm complex, yet simple. and can cook... lol
4. i adore parlour games
5. i'ma nut (well, you might've already known this)

1- I need help with hemming my son's school pants :( (HELP!!!!! I checked online but need to know is it okay to use regular scissors to cut the hem..way to much material)

2- I love buffets :p

3- I enjoy going out for breakfast/brunch

4- We eat at the table for supper BUT Fridays are special nights we sit in front of TV with whatever we wanted to buy (pizza, Chinese food, Subway etc.....)

5- My son and I like to watch movies that have more than 1 to it (not sure what they are called.....such as Rocky 1, 2, 3 etc.....Mission Impossible 1, 2, 3 ...think you get what I am saying :))

No one knows
 

1. I was a barrel racer when I was in highschool
2. I am a mushy guy
3. I am part cowboy
4. I like disco/dance music and ballads
5. I have two sons by love not blood

1. I have family photos on every wall (I am picky about frames)

2. I am very close to my mom

3. I am happy about the cooler fall weather

4. I walk 5 miles or more everyday

5. I am a bit of a neat freak

5 things...
 

1~ I have a scary mask in my coat closet to catch people off guard and get a sinister thrill when they jump as they open the door and almost always get a ... "wow that's creepy", response... lol
2~ My calves are hard as a rock. *flexes*
3~ I sing like a rockstar (although not truly talented) in my car when I am driving around town...
4~ I find serenity in the mornings sitting on my front porch listening to the sounds of downtown coming to life...
5~ I have a didgeridoo in my living room that i randomly attempt to play on occasion... still can't get the circular breathing down...

5 things...
 

1. I am a very good cook.

2. My hair has been various lengths and many colors.

3. I sing in the shower.

4. Snakes frighten me.

5. I once threw my panties at a woman from across the bar.

I am actually quite hateful when I want to be. (just like everyone else)

I hate my new boss with a burning passion generally reserved for murderers and pedophiles

I like to play bookworm but I am not good at it.

I love to cook but hate recipes

I like to be boring at home with my sweetie pie

Friday night fluff.
 

Saturday morning prattle
 

5 Things No One Would Know About You From BFP Alone ...

1: I am afraid of the dark, and use nightlights.

2: My favourite board game is Who Killed Dr Lucky.

3: I do not like to go out to eat often, but when I do, I don't like to try new places.

4: I love garlic, LOVE IT. If there was a garlic cereal I'd eat it.

5: There can never be enough big, clean, fluffy, colourful towels in the bathroom.

5 Things You Wouldn't Know.....
 

1. I'm built like a Roman gladiator.

2. I'm actually "The most interesting man in the world", portrayed by the bearded guy in the Dos Equis commercials.

3. I'm a computer nerd. I repair all Bill Gates' stuff.

4. I'm actually the one that invented the internet, not Al Gore.

5. I don't always tell tall tales, but when I do, they sound like 1-4.

1. Wil Wheaton is my cousin (no joke)
2. I have Hans Aspberger's
3. I was placed in a clinically induced coma at the age of 16
4. My elder sister died when I was 8
5. I don't know how to swim

5 More things:

1. I am descended from the Yngling kings of Norway
2. I was born with rubella
3. I loathe plates
4. I am proficient in 3 languages besides English
5. I can talk like the Disney character Stitch

1. I make a conscious effort every day to find good.
2. I have sometimes crippling anxiety, but was raised to hide it at all cost
3. I have HUGE feet... a size 11 in women... someone told me I had tug boats.
4. I hate to clean a dirty space, I know... that makes no sense... but if I let things get out of control, it takes me 5 times as long to clean it...
5. I love love love Lindt white chocolate truffles.

1. I wanted to be a cartoon artist when I was little and I still make a lot of cartoons in my spare time.
2. My favourite cartoonist is Don Rosa, whom I have met and he was super awesome.
3. I've lost a lot of weight and feel really self concious about it.
4. Actually I'm just self concious in general :p
5. I dont think anything feels better than making someone laugh


Oh my gosh thats so cool. Ask him to do cards against humanity on table top- pretty supercalifragilistic please!

1- When I cook I need to have all the cooking implements (measuring cups, spoons, bowls etc) ready with all the ingredients out.

2- When I cook I need to clean up as I do (that is including washing dishes)

3- I tend to update my bankbook at least 2 a week sometimes more (depending if I am near a bank machine and I pay my bills at the ATM also....YES I am probably the rare few who do this lol )

4- I have an amazing respectful son.

5- My girl (f) and I are working towards immigration. We are hoping to start the paper work within the next month or so :) She is American and I am Canadian. The plan is for her to move here with my son & I.

PS If anyone has gone through this (American immigrating to Canada), if you are willing to, maybe you could message me and let me know how the process was for you :) Thank you.

1. I'm very compassionate. I come off here as being precise and exacting, but with a lover, friend, child, or service person, I am as patient and understanding as the day is long.

2. I don't place a lot of value in bodily form or integrity. I can be attracted to the right person regardless of her size or shape, and regardless of disability or affectation. I find all forms potentially lovable--depending on the personality of the person inside there.

3. While I come off here as very intelligent--I am--but I can also be disarmingly stupid about things. That's why those with complementary intelligences meld well with me. I'm dumb about so many of the more femme/subjectives things and I suffer from that.

4. I'm open to exploring friendships/relationships from anywhere. Though I am ensconced in Maine, with a son here and a full life, I am adventurous and long for more travel beyond the extensive moves and journeys I have done.

5. Probably my number one personal trait is that I'm comfortingly and frighteningly forward about what what I think and feel. You never have to wonder about me, "Man, what's that tapu thinking?" I'll fucking tell ya.

It's all so individual.. can be easy peasy or a 5 year long pointless quagmire. Canadians and Americans seem interchangeable but we are not , on many levels, and that border can make a 20 foot difference into a thousand miles.

Hmm, only 5?
 

1. My college expenses where paid for in part via tennis scholarships. (with part time jobs filling in the void).

2. My education in college was with aspirations of being a National Park Ranger (life member of the GSA was my inspiration) until the first female Kansas park ranger was murdered 30 miles away from me.

3. I am not PC and sometimes it has caused my personal and professional biting of my tongue more times than I would prefer.

4. My son is my most important gift that I was and am able to give to all who know and share his presence.

5. I am not as good of a listener as I should be. I am deaf in my left ear

1 My best personal trait is my ability to get along and communicate with anyone. No matter their background, education level, handicap, age gender ...
you get the picture.

2 Helping people if only by listening is my biggest joy.

3 I grew up believing that I should be or end up in a better place then my parents were financially. I am better off in a lot of ways and more importantly I consider myself a better person.

4 Although I was never lucky enough to have children I think that the type of patent you are says a lot about you as a person. Which is why I do not have anything to do with most of my bio-family. After all kids and animals are the best judge of someone character.

5 I am the worse speller in the world to the point that it embarrasses me. No matter what I have done there ate just words that I can not spell and I am ok with this most times. However it has stopped me from going into chat and I dislike being corrected publicly. I am however very grateful for the Google browser since it has spell check :)

-i'm really short
-i adore classical music
-i love parlour games
-i love to travel
-i like crunchy peanut butter

I love:
rain
acorns
pink tulips
the ocean
antique wood planes

5 more things

1 I do not like nuts of any kind

2 I like to receive flowers mainly bcs I rarely get them being a guy

3 Although I put on the front of being a hard ass 24/7 I do have a soft side I am very comfortable with and share with those that know me the best.

4 I have a code that I live by that no one has to understand or approve of but is at the center of who I am.

5 with all the different hats I wear the two biggest honors someone can give me is to call me their friend and to call me Daddy both of which I believe in earning and once I have I continue to do so for as long as I know the individual

1) *surprise, surprise* I have health insurance now but I'm not so sure I will find the kind of service providers I would like to have. I'm not sure what to do about it, yet.

2) I give up, when it comes to my vision: My last glasses worked for a few months and now I can't see anything at all with them on. I fear that I am better off being half-blind, but I will find another eye doctor (soon).

3) I want to go swimming but it's not that time of year yet.

4) I know I need to prepare my taxes but I am putting it off for just a little bit longer.

5) I want a new bed but can't afford to get a new one.

1. Loud people can irritate me.

2. I have sexy feet.

3. When I was a kid my dad would take me to the zoo and I loved feeding the seals little fishes from a cup. Each cup was $.15 and my dad would buy one after another for me.

4. I have way too many clothes.

5. I still wish upon falling stars.

1. I think making your bed is stupid... since you're only going to mess it up again in a few hours.

2. When I was a kid I loved to drink hot Jell-o when I was sick... and it still makes me happy now.

3. I don't have a lot of good friends, but the ones I donate family... and will always stay that way.

4. I collect hats and scarves... my favorite hats are my witches hats.

5. My dad had my name picked out before he graduated high school.

1. Ive probably road tripped to every town in North America with more than 5 people in it

2..I laugh at my own jokes.

3. I wear sweatpants when no one is looking

4.I can whisper French sexual innuendoes like nobody's business

5. I have no idea how my oven works.