When I find someone to crush on I get all shy and bashful. I mean my face gets red if they smile at me. How bad is that? Lol I'm such a dork.

I am sooo crushing on the pizza delivery butch tonight! Hubba hubba yowza! Shame I only order Pizza once a darn year lol :blink:

[SIZE="4"]Well if you must know the truth what I am feeling is way beyond the crush stage. The progression was natural not forced or phony. Like Sleepy Butch I carried a crush for her but never had the courage to tell her but I found reasons to be around her and we developed a good friendship. Yes butches and femmes can be friends. lol Then one day I got a text from her that absolutely made me sit down and read it like 5 times to make sure I was not seeing things. "Hi and why don't you flirt with me btw". FYI femmes sometimes you have to hit us with a 2x4 for us to figure out your crushing on us. From that second on I concentrated on only her and by doing so I was rewarded with the best relationship I have ever had. Simply because she sees ME, All of Me. I still find at least one thing about her everyday that renews the crush making the actual relationship much stronger. There is communication and lust on both parts. This is a good thing because for me lust, communication, and crush feelings lead to one beautiful strong RT relationship. Oh and did I say she knows all about how I feel. :wine:

Now that I am no longer single I still get my innocent crushes on people her at BFP and I would not trade my bro crushes for anything except of course for more time with the femme that saw me.

Sorry Mr. Nice Guy I still will NOT reveal her name. I am old school that way, I do not kiss and tell and she appreciates Me for it!

Have a wonderful weekend....now back to the exciting world of crushes.
:byebye:
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Hmmm... Right now I'm not really crushing on anyone but I look forward to when that will happen again. It's so fun!

This reminds me of some of the questions I used to get asked in maths class when I was a young (and very well-behaved) child i.e. kind of "if you take two crushers crushing on a crushee and the crushee is a crusher on three crushees, how many crushers and crushees are there in total?" :confused:


I don't know if it means she is crushing on you or not. However, I do know that, second only to the ability to cook an excellent lasagne, the willingness to do my laundry (and other housekeeping) is high on the list of what I look for in a lady.

She could lack personality (well, I do too so evens itself out), not look particularly attractive and I may not be turned on by her sexually ... but if she's happy to do my laundry, I'd probably be happy enough to make out with her, even if I have to close my eyes :blush:

Crushes? Hmmmmm ...... I think I'm way pass that stage of the game. I'm more of a rt person. I like to take my time and get to know the person, I hate surprises ... lol.

I am so with you on that, Nice Guy. I can blush just thinking about someone I'm crushin'. (talk about dork!):blush:

I don't have a crush but I DO think someone is really attractive from the looks of their photos in the gallery. :blush:

I gasped in horror as I read this as it sent bolts of shock through my laundry-loving system. :laundryday:
LoL!

<<<<< Already pondering what next weeks pizza will be lmao

After many years of limp performance between the sheets, it's been my long-term dream to send bolts of shock through the system of an attractive lady. Alas, I wasn't hoping for it to be the case in these precise circumstances ..... it's true what they say - the world does work in mysterious ways.

Tell you one thing, the next time that I pray for a dream to come true, I'll be a bit more literal.

Why am i getting butterflies right now thinking of this certain butch coming over to help with my laundry. Actually, she is bringing her laundry too. So not actually helping me as much as keeping me company while she does hers as well. She will be lifting the heavy things though so yes that in itself is a big help.

I am nervous. Hahahah, laughing because no butch ever makes me nervous.I am always the one standing there looking into their eyes while they are getting shy and turning red and looking away. Seldom can a butch keep eye contact with me when they first meet me. Seems i have been told my eyes are too intense to look at when first meeting me. So for me to be nervous right now is making me laugh, well in a nervous kind of laughing kind of way.

I think i am gonna puke now. LOL :seeingstars:

Wish me luck. :laundryday:

Oh and....

I am now crushing on 2 planet butches and 2 planet femmes tee hee:blush:

Okay all of ya'll spill the beans... enquiring minds want to know.....

But Ciaran, dear, you made no mention of an attractive lady in your scenario. You spoke of one not particularly attractive but whom you'd snog, tightly-lidded, were she a willing taker of your sweaty vests, stiff socks and skid-marked knickers. (I did indeed take a liberty there!)

I only take issue with this because me being such the lover of all things freshly stacked on the bed, and a proud domestic goddess, I would say your standard in seeking a spic-and-span oriented companion/housekeeper-with-benefits, may prove to be too narrow. We, the alluring head-of-household-type are a rare breed, but we do exist. You may want to broaden your scope, branch out a bit dear, explore their native habitat more closely, maybe? (Pack plenty of water...cologne is not suggested.)

And, I have found it best to ask for exactly what I want in prayer. :praying:
Good thing is that even when you get results you may not have been expecting on the first try, simply try, try again. Seems as though someone up there has quite the sense of humor.
~Bleu


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Supermam Underoos are not embarrassing, just so you know. :)

It's ok Alix, you can keep your secret. I'm just happy to see all the Crushers crushing. :)