I am new to the butch/femme dynamic. A good friend asked me one time how do you queer yourself? He was asking when I am not with my partner how do I communicate to the world at large that I am queer? I thought this was an excellent question. I am still working out how that works for me. I guess what I am saying is that if you queer yourself in general then butches will see you too!!!

i suggest the greatest femme weapon of all time...
eye contact... and a smile...
even here... in text.... it still works...
i guess i should add....if you look at me... and i notice... (i own a bit of a 2x4 mentality...)
if you look at me and smile and then put yourself into my space sometime... even as thick as i can be i will still see the writing on the wall....
in my case after i figure it out i will do the rest...
others... you may actually have to talk to...

This helps....http://www.trex.com/images/specs/Lar...EdgeBoard2.jpg....:cheesy:

hey that kinda turns me on. like hit me again

Smiles Melt Me
 

A simple smile works for me. Maybe hand them a company card with your name & salon's number so they can schedule a hair cut with you :)