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ruffryder 10-05-2011 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Merlin (Post 350831)
Why when a femme asks you how she looks in an outfit .. Does she think your lying when you tell her she looks amazing ?

I hope not, because I'm not!

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Originally Posted by Hack (Post 400969)
When in a relationship, my girl is told she looks amazing/stunning/hot/beautiful/sexy/gorgeous in her favorite little black dress, jeans and a t-shirt, in her work wear, wearing one of my dress shirts, in her pajamas, in my pajamas, in shorts, in whatever. Clothes don't make the girl. Everything else does.

Jake

Definitely Jake, I agree. If you are with the girl, she looks good always! (:
I got accused of "staring" at my girl cause I kept looking at her cause she is damn amazing and beautiful and I was mesmerized. The clothes she wears, the way she acts, and her mannerisms are all a part of who she is and it's all beautiful to me! :gimmehug:

LaneyDoll 10-05-2011 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by ruffryder (Post 431865)
Definitely Jake, I agree. If you are with the girl, she looks good always! (:
I got accused of "staring" at my girl cause I kept looking at her cause she is damn amazing and beautiful and I was mesmerized. The clothes she wears, the way she acts, and her mannerisms are all a part of who she is and it's all beautiful to me! :gimmehug:

Awww, that is soooooo sweet!

:sparklyheart:

AtLast 10-05-2011 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Starbuck (Post 401050)
Okay, this may or may not be the place to post this, but I have a question that I think needs to be answered by someone in the butch zone. I consider myself a soft femme, I'm dating a lipstick lesbian...she is HOT! This is where my question comes in: I am attracted to other soft femmes (or so it seems) and soft butches. What the hell? I love looking at a femmes ass and then I love making eye contact with a butch thinking "man I really go for that". Am I confused or just a middle of the road type person?? Someone please answer me.

I think you are who you are and that is just fine!

ruffryder 10-05-2011 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by AtLastHome (Post 431883)
I think you are who you are and that is just fine!

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Originally Posted by DCStone (Post 401062)
I do not necessarily think you are confused. Nothing wrong with allowing yourself to enjoy all types of women.

TO STARBUCK: I agree. I think you will figure it out in time, no need to be confused darlin.

Deborah* 01-01-2018 12:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Merlin (Post 350831)
Why when a femme asks you how she looks in an outfit .. Does she think your lying when you tell her she looks amazing ?

Sorry, I'm a femme answering this at a butch area of the planet.

I honestly believe it's due to low self-esteem. There are many women with self-esteem issues who would react like this, it's because (in my opinion) they truly feel on the inside that they're not deserving of the compliment.

Deborah

homoe 02-09-2019 09:41 PM

I've never experienced a femme not believing me when I said she looked good in something..........Compliments are wonderful things, they cost nothing to give and it can make a person's whole day!

cathexis 02-10-2019 05:44 AM

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Originally Posted by homoe (Post 1240235)
I've never experienced a femme not believing me when I said she looked good in something..........Compliments are wonderful things, they cost nothing to give and it can make a person's whole day!

Jest with me a minute. Maybe all the femmes were good at deception in order to have an easy "icebreaker" to a hot butch. lol

Or you are correct about them believing you, and you did make their day.

OR maybe they were very gullible OR both even!

homoe 02-10-2019 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by cathexis (Post 1240261)
Jest with me a minute. Maybe all the femmes were good at deception in order to have an easy "icebreaker" to a hot butch. lol

Or you are correct about them believing you, and you did make their day.

OR maybe they were very gullible OR both even!

.......:giggle:.........

homoe 04-04-2019 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by homoe (Post 1240235)
I've never experienced a femme not believing me when I said she looked good in something..........Compliments are wonderful things, they cost nothing to give and it can make a person's whole day!

I'm in a super good mood today and I plan on complimenting any and all women I run across today.....:eyebat:

homoe 04-04-2019 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Guy (Post 350945)
My experience with this topic is that anyone, wether butch, femme, allien, etc, would much rather be complimented before they ask



........:goodpost:......

laura4daddy 05-09-2020 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by homoe (Post 1240235)
I've never experienced a femme not believing me when I said she looked good in something..........Compliments are wonderful things, they cost nothing to give and it can make a person's whole day!


Please excuse me, I'm a noob I know but I loved this quote ^.

And yes I totally agree. I have suffered with low self esteem and apparently am told I'm quite attractive but it definitely means a lot when someone looks you in the eye and you can tell they mean it when they compliment you no matter how small, having spent some time getting ready and trying to look your best I guess it's validation in a way but for me, perhaps it's a femme thing but I love dressing to please or to impress so it's almost like an achievement to get a 'you look nice' as most likely I wanted to impress someone or catch someone's eye in the first place. Hope that makes sense.

homoe 05-09-2020 07:40 PM

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Originally Posted by laura4daddy (Post 1267649)
Please excuse me, I'm a noob I know but I loved this quote ^.

And yes I totally agree. I have suffered with low self esteem and apparently am told I'm quite attractive but it definitely means a lot when someone looks you in the eye and you can tell they mean it when they compliment you no matter how small, having spent some time getting ready and trying to look your best I guess it's validation in a way but for me, perhaps it's a femme thing but I love dressing to please or to impress so it's almost like an achievement to get a 'you look nice' as most likely I wanted to impress someone or catch someone's eye in the first place. Hope that makes sense.

I had to look up "noob"....:giggle:

Stone-Butch 05-09-2020 11:03 PM

Butch to Butch
 
I think every femme deserves a complement just for being a femme and taking her time to look her best regardless of her original appearance. Inside is so much more impressive than outside in my opinion. Besides guys there might be a super brain in there and more than likely is. Brains, talent and a good heart far outdoes appearances. If she is good looking that is a bonus.


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