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Orema 07-10-2014 07:05 AM

A party, a brothel (long before Viagra, thank goodness), the internet.

Queenie 07-10-2014 08:17 AM

I met my husband on my 26th birthday. At the time, I was going onto a music site a, morrissey fan site. He liked my user name so he sent me a pm to ask me about it. I sent him a short pm back about my user name and that was it. Well, I thought that would be it. A few months later I saw a thread of his asking should he grow out his hair. I was curious to see what he looked like so I clicked on the thread. The moment I saw his photo I knew I was going to be his wife.

I wrote a cute post about my thoughts about him growing out his hair. I spent so long making sure my post was smart and cute. I really wanted him to notice me. It worked!

We started to talk via pm and then onto IM and then onto the phone. It was just easy with him and different. Seven years ago this week he came to vegas to meet me in person. We both fell more in love with each other that week and we both knew that what we had was the real deal with each other.

A few months later I moved to, London to be with him and thats it. I have been here ever since. I still dont know how it all worked out. But it did!

JDeere 06-09-2015 10:31 PM

I have mainly met them from online. Mostly dating sites.

Sweet Bliss 07-17-2015 09:28 PM

online, in person..... still single, lmao...

AnAwkwardAccident 08-03-2015 04:27 PM

I think everyone I've been involved with I've met online through various websites, dating websites, etc. ....*sigh*

JRM 08-03-2015 04:47 PM

2 of them by just standing there minding my own business .. Must of had a post it stuck on me that said talk to me .. 1 online

Karysma 08-03-2015 06:47 PM

Chat room... where the most disturbed individuals live. I like a challenge! LOL!

TruTexan 08-22-2015 04:48 PM

Just bumping for some folks to read.

JDeere 01-09-2020 05:15 PM

On old yahoo chat, another bf website, pof and this one I met in a Facebook group.

Stone-Butch 01-09-2020 05:28 PM

met people
 
mostly through other friends.

CherylNYC 01-09-2020 10:25 PM

The really important relationships?

At school.
She was a student in my Pagan/Wiccan study group.
At NYC Pride.
She was drumming at a Goddess party my ex threw.
She came to an LSM meeting.

I've met a few whackdoodles online and will not be trying that again. EVER. I also met my last gf when she showed up at an LSM meeting, but that wasn't a particularly important relationship.

GeorgiaMa'am 01-10-2020 09:52 AM

- Through an ex-boyfriend in high school. He told me, "I know this girl who's a lesbian, and she doesn't care who knows!" He introduced me to her, and that was all she wrote. I was head over heels. It was a short relationship, but an important one.

- In college through friends. It lasted about a year and a half, but then we moved to different cities after school.

- After moving to Atlanta, in the local womyn's chorus I met a woman who had an incredibly similar background to mine. I mean, she grew up on a farm and knew how to can vegetables. We would sit on the porch and shell peas together, and then put them up. She raises chickens now. (I got out just in time - I moved to Atlanta specifically because I was tired of living on a farm.)

- My hairdresser introduced me to one very important person. My relationship with her lasted for 7 years. I was a member of her extended family - until I wasn't. Never want to do that again.

- The latest I met online, and we've been together for 14 years. It started out as a hookup, and I really didn't think it would last more than three weeks. Just goes to show, you never know.

homoe 01-10-2020 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by homoe (Post 724391)
This is one of my favorite threads to read. I am always fascinated and love hearing how people have met. I’ve only had one what I would call a serious relationship. We met at work, and we ending up being together for 14 years.

I now have a dear friend and what I would call a traveling companion. We met at the hotel I stay at when I'm in Chicago.

homoe 01-10-2020 03:23 PM

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Originally Posted by homoe (Post 1260087)
I now have a dear friend and what I would call a traveling companion. We met at the hotel I stay at when I'm in Chicago.


Maybe I should clarify she's a part time employee there....:giggle:

homoe 01-11-2020 08:06 AM

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Originally Posted by homoe (Post 1260103)
Maybe I should clarify she's a part time employee there....:giggle:



At the front desk.......

Chad 01-11-2020 10:58 AM

Relationships
 
I agree with CherylNYC, the most important relationships were met through friends.

Seems more like hookups on-line.

:sigh:

kittygrrl 01-11-2020 11:57 AM

i've met girlfriends in just about every kind of venue, through friends, in bars, blind dates, group dates, by chance and yes online...online has actually been my favorite..i like to really know the thoughts & feelings w/o a facade which usually accompanies face to face encounters and it's usually a great deal quicker...as for hook-ups.. those happen everywhere..it depends what your motive is, in the first place:byebye:

Tuff Stuff 01-12-2020 02:53 PM

No longer called hook-ups but "traveling companions"...I like that term better myself.

Love all my buddies, really I do.

:gotmail:

GeorgiaMa'am 01-12-2020 06:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Tuff Stuff (Post 1260215)
No longer called hook-ups but "traveling companions"...I like that term better myself.

Love all my buddies, really I do.

:gotmail:

Ohhhhh! Is that what we used to call a trick?

Chad 01-12-2020 07:04 PM

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Originally Posted by GeorgiaMa'am (Post 1260229)
Ohhhhh! Is that what we used to call a trick?

Oh Ma'am, thank you. I thought that I was the only one that remembered "trick" with the over night bag in my car trunk.


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