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~ putting dishes in the sink without rinsing food off
~ not replacing the empty toilet paper roll ~ people who cut me off in traffic |
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~ dirty socks left lying around ~ crumbs on the kitchen counters not wiped off after someone else has been in there making food ~ having to ask for a drink refill at a restaurant |
I don't like to ask twice for anything... if you didn't hear me then please ask me again... but don't fricken ignore me...
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before this thread i thought i was a nit-picking easily annoyed person. Ok i am.
but in reading all this i am not alone! for the life of my i have never understood what is so dang hard about just picking up after yourself (unless you are my Syr and give me the honor of doing that for you).... If the sink is empty, and you put something in it, it's not empty anymore. it would be nice if it became empty once again after you were done with it. my first roommate thought and felt like me, it was amazing because neither of us felt the other was disrespectful! |
I've pretty much come to the conclusion that I probably shouldn't live with others. While I can put a lot of things on "ignore", I can't do it forever and eventually I become resentful of the dirty dishes in the sink, the other person "never" vacuuming, dusting, just plain ole not cleaning at all. All of it drives me nuts after a while, and I find it incredibly disrespectful. Maybe I'm just gettin old LOL ;) |
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Now, I know that if I leave a mess, I will have to deal with it later. Personally, I hate going to bed with a messy kitchen. :sparklyheart: |
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Maybe this is me too! It festers then i become resentful. Not a good way to be. I lived with someone long ago and I said *why don't you ever do the vacuuming? they said "because you do" :| |
Clutter.
I don't mean a plate or glass on the floor because you had a meal/snack while watching TV. I'm talking about throwing your stuff on the table when you come in which gradually builds up over a few days until the table is buried under piles of letters, receipts, tissues, 'borrowed' pens, sachets of sugar (why!?) Yes I know you'll be wearing that jacket tomorrow so I'm fine with it hanging on the back of the chair. But, a jacket on the back of each chair? No. |
Maybe, it’s menopause talking today. LOL
I feel annoyed today. :(
Smokers who hold their cigarette outside the car window, so it blows into my car. If you don’t want you or your car to stink, stop smoking. Not covering or putting food in closed containers in the refrigerator or cupboard. Don’t phone me while you are in the bathroom, nothing is that important. Also, don’t call and eat your lunch, dinner, supper or snack in my ear. People who believe they are entitled and don’t feel they have to work to get ahead, believing things should be handed to them. (see ‘what pissed you off you off today’ thread) |
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I don't answer the phone when I'm eating, letting it go to answerphone; then, I call them back. Another pet peeve is people who talk over me! That really grates my garters no end! People who insist on doing something they believe to be important, whlist allowing a long queue to form, because they believe they are more important than the patients! *Grits Teeth and growls!* |
phone vs in person
When i am at an appointment, talking to someone, i cannot stand when they answer the phone and make me wait while they talk. Either let it go to voice mail or don't answer it! |
My Pet Peeve is when my co workers make coffee at work they spill the creamer, sugar, hot cocoa, coffee...... you name it all over the counter and never wipe it up !!!
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A few more pet peeves of mine.....
I cannot stand it when someone opens the fridge door when they have something on their hands (food, dirt, etc...) and leave the handle smeared, neglecting to wipe it off so that when I then open the fridge I get the lovely feeling of dried yuck coating the handle! I feel the same way about someone grabbing a paper towel off the roll and leaving whatever is on their hands somewhere on the rest of the roll....EW! Drinking directly out of a bottle or carton from the fridge...which would be fine, I suppose, if one lived alone...but when you share a home with others, that is just gross! I would prefer not to get a helping of your bacteria when I want something to drink. |
When doctors don't listen to the patient!
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Another pet peeve is when someone makes an assumption about me from what I buy. I was asked today when buying Fire Extinguishers, when the fire was. I explained that I’m the Fire Safety Officer at work and I take basic fire safety precautions at home. And another pet peeve is when someone is talking to me on the phone; instead of saying: “Excuse me” and answering the person asking them a question, they just talk to them. It’s rude! If you want to talk to them, end the call to me, then you can talk to them. I will make excuses to end the call after that! Grrr! |
If I put something down somewhere don't move it. It's there for a reason and I'll move it if I need too. Sheesh! My Mom does this.
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My mom would go through my mail and hand me each envelope, telling me where each envelope was from. Going through any photographs that she found, she has a photograph obsession and has to see them all Showing up to check on me when i tell her i am OKKKKKKKK Walking in without knocking, after i asked her to knock first, she then knocked first and walked right in. i asked her to find her own place when she was ready, 10 years later she was not ready... i bought her the house next door and moved her in it. i am now 2500 miles away from my mom :) |
When people in a parking lot walk in the middle of the road and are completely oblivious to the fact that there is a line of cars behind them as they mosey on down to their car! Makes me wanna sit on the horn!
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at work..
when I have to ask my boss five times for something!
not knowing how to schedule so they f*** up everyone's time off or schedule you to work nine days straight! not knowing your schedule for the week till the day before! It's not like you can make plans now! people that thrive on drama and like to sit there and complain about every damn thing.. who cares! It's like if you don't like your job, leave! |
people that have no patience whatsoever..
people that somehow think they are owed something for free.. rich people that feel just because they are rich they are vip and shouldn't have to pay for anything and get special priviledges and be treated better than anyone else.. people that come to me with an attitude thinking somehow their problem is my fault.. people that ask you to go to the store for them or pick them up something just because their ass is lazzy.. people that are gonna sit there and complain about cleaning but somehow they fail to pick up after themselves.. ungrateful sobs.. people that never say ty or please.. people that drive unsafe, not using signal lights, cutting others off, pausing at stop signs, running red lights, swerving in and out of lanes.. |
WHen you bother to do something really nice for someone and they don't even bother to say THANKS or that they received the dang package!
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When someone borrows something from you, and the item(s) are damaged when they are returned.
Longwindedness...:help: |
When a person says something or does something that is rude and inappropriate, then pretends like nothing ever happened and expects you to just be "okay" with it and let it go.
When someone says or does certain things just for the sake of trying to make others jealous or to get a rise out of people. When someone drinks all my tea and doesn't tell me :( |
I hate "text speak."
Certain things (like most the acronyms) do not bother me like: LOL OMG BFF (when used by teenagers) b/c for because w/o for without s/o, b/f, g/f, MtF, FtM, GQ or GF But, I cannot stand it when educated people type "u" instead of "you" or "ur" instead of "your" or (the worst one) "ure" instead of "you are." If you have some type of disability that makes it easier to shorten words, if you are bad at spelling or using a language that is not your first one, I have no problem with shorthand typing. However, if you are blessed with an education, please use it. :sparklyheart: |
do not put da empty ice tray back in da freezer. oy
do not reposition thangs on me coffee table or bookshelves. double oy do take your shoes off befo' enterin' me abode. thank you vera kindly! |
the *one up* thing
why do some people have to offer a better or different way for every single thing you suggest or do? |
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Another pet peeve of mine is those who think their opinion is the ONLY opinion and thinks they are always right.. :| |
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yes, i sometimes wonder if people can just say *wow that's a good idea* instead of OR you could do this OR you could do that or offer some (and usually silly) suggestion to top yours. i know someone who constantly uses *what you could do is this or what you coulda done was that* Unless your name is SYR i don't really like it. :eyebat: |
When someone is wicked nice to you in private but ignores you in public forums, like this one. Either own we are friends or don't, i don't care. When people talk over me during a session at work, they come to me and ask advice only while i am trying to give it to them they are explaining louder than i am what they are doing to be so perfect. When someone (other than Syr) watches me, assesses me and tells me i "look like" i am upset, if i am and i wanted to talk i would, now i feel self conscious and want to hide so i won't be gawked at! Maybe i just woke up, maybe i can't be upbeat 24/7, maybe i have PMS, maybe maybe i just read a story about June eating a kitten.... .... Personal space please! When people take the victim role throughout life. We all have our pity parties but it seems some people are always a victim of something, and at times i think certain people exaggerate/make it all up in order to get attention. (remember the gal claiming to have cancer? GRRR) Like a (no longer) friend who claimed she was sexually assaulted by a man that she could not identify. She refused to make a police statement and after getting tons of sympathy from everyone and driving her poor hubby bonkers with worry, driving around looking for a man she could not identify, she confessed that she was having an affair. She was always having a crisis and not minor ones, really bizarre ones. She loved stopping hubby from going to work and worrying him to death when he could not be there with her. She loved that he called constantly to check on her and his main concern was always her when they were apart and his coddling when together. Those sorts of people annoy me and i feel need help. Maybe i am a skeptic but i just don't believe most of what i hear/read. PS he divorced her, that crap gets OLD. |
People who constantly sniff and when offered a tissue, and then refuse it, only to hand you something after wiping their nose with their hands..... Gross!
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hair in the food, mine seems to be shedding at a rapid rate (it does this twice a year) and i keep it up when cooking, however if there is ONE hair it is going to inevitably end up in Syr's plate. :| |
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Naw that's not one upping in my book. What IS is this Once i sailed around the world Yes me too, only i sailed around the world in a balloon Wow, i would love to do that, i did however cross the grand canyon on a burro's back Well IIIIIIIIIIIIIII went across the grand canyon, on a burro, uphill both ways, while balancing a saucer on my head Oh man that is amazing, i once tried to juggle some pins, i could do 3 at a time oh i am amazing at juggling, i could juggle 3 pins and a small child i think you are talking about the medical one upping; i have a headache well i have a migraine oh my knee hurts well my WHOLE leg hurts well i once broke an ankle and still played ball well i once made a touchdown with a broken neck and my hair on fire |
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if it's a medium brunette hair that is my sister if it's a longer red hair thats me Syr's is too short to fall out so if it's not one of those two............. |
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Another peeve is when someone has handled dirty laundry and goes to make a meal without washing hands..... *Continues to take deep breaths* |
LOL yes, how about licking the fingers while cooking, tasting, using food fork to get things out of pots.
Maybe because i work on feet for a living, i just can't stand the hand to food thing at all. |
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