JD - I know you're not stupid - yet you DID post off-topic here, so it looks to me as if you didn't actually get what the thread is about. There is no need to warn anyone about someone they've probably never heard of that's "out there" in this thread, such doesnt serve the purpose of this thread. If you feel there's a need for a thread with such warnings, why, go and create one! :-) Take care, and my thoughts are with you and your dad.

Esme, your posts have been reported. Please don't tell other members what they can and can't do on threads. Also, you continuing to use this thread to go back and forth on the issue with JDeere ALSO takes the thread off-topic. Finally, if you are sorry for what just happened to his father and what he is going through right now, then instead of saying it, simply don't make his life more stressful. Thank you.

Jennifer (Moderator)

My personal story is,I knew at 2 yrs old,I was male and I was acting out in ways,in which,my mother told my father,something was wrong with me,they took me to see a shrink,my family was blue colar working class,so we had no health insurance,and Australia had no universal health care,in 1962.

I was about 15,when I gave up, of ever being male,by this time,I was into crime and alchol and heavy drug use.

these feelings never emerged again,till I met a femme,who gave me "stone butch blues"although for me now its 11 yrs on T,and top surgery.
I would rather die than go back.

I am free now,I look like me

I know this is a year old,but I wanted to respond to both esme and dapper

cheers