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cuddlyfemme 04-30-2011 06:43 AM

Just popping in to say good morning to all the Lofters! I haven't been here in awhile. Its good to be back with everyone!

morningstar55 04-30-2011 07:37 AM

mawning lofters
i should of slept a lil longer after being woke up during the night, and was woke again by another car honin outside for someone in a house.. whats up wth that crap,im sure they have a cell phone and can call the person they r there for.. GGRRrrr .. ok count 1 , 2 , 3
Ok.. i am thinking.. will go to Homedepot and get a couple of poster size cuts of ply wood, and paint 2 signs and post them on each end of the street.....

QUIET ZONE MIDNIGHT TO 7AM!!!! NO HONKING OF CAR HORNS!!!


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blueeyes226_l 04-30-2011 07:59 AM

To all
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme (Post 330156)
Just popping in to say good morning to all the Lofters! I haven't been here in awhile. Its good to be back with everyone!

Hey,
Welcome back cuddlyfem! A lot of us haven't been on here. By the way welcome back everyone!:hangloose:

cuddlyfemme 04-30-2011 08:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by blueeyes226_l (Post 330211)
Hey,
Welcome back cuddlyfem! A lot of us haven't been on here. By the way welcome back everyone!:hangloose:

thanks for the welcome back, its good to see this thread starting to get active again!

free-to-be 04-30-2011 08:15 AM

Hey - nice thread!

I'm 42 but already feel like there's little to discuss with girls in their 20's. If I wanted to raise someone I'd adopt! Trying to talk to someone who looks at their phone every 20 seconds makes me feel like I'm dealing with my ex's 3-yr-old.

I don't do the bar scene, either. After an ugly ending to a LTR in November I'm cautiously dipping my toe into the dating pool. I'm starting to think my goal is too ambitious, though. Is it still possible to find an employed, sane yet slightly adventurous woman to share our lives or did that go out of fashion while I was being a wife and mother?

Anyway - hello to everyone. After lurking about and reading old posts it looks like I can expect some lively discussions here from time to time. Doesn't look like many folks are in my part of the country, though.

morningstar55 04-30-2011 08:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by free-to-be (Post 330225)
Hey - nice thread!

I'm 42 but already feel like there's little to discuss with girls in their 20's. If I wanted to raise someone I'd adopt! Trying to talk to someone who looks at their phone every 20 seconds makes me feel like I'm dealing with my ex's 3-yr-old.

I don't do the bar scene, either. After an ugly ending to a LTR in November I'm cautiously dipping my toe into the dating pool. I'm starting to think my goal is too ambitious, though. Is it still possible to find an employed, sane yet slightly adventurous woman to share our lives or did that go out of fashion while I was being a wife and mother?

Anyway - hello to everyone. After lurking about and reading old posts it looks like I can expect some lively discussions here from time to time. Doesn't look like many folks are in my part of the country, though.

lol 3 yrs olds i hear ya about the phone issues..... heh
i been single for a while now..... and well had a few interesting dates here and there..
and it is hard to find the right one..... lately sometimes i feel like im interviewing dates for a job.. and well i dont want that.. lol
like you .... i just want someone im compatable with , I know we cant like all of the same things.. but someone whom has a job, or retired is ok.. just someone who is independant, adventurous is good too, as im always on the go go go .. lol ...
i love my domestic side , and enjoy being the lady of the house. now if i could just find the right man of the house that would be awsome.

msW8ing 05-02-2011 12:33 AM

Stopping in to say hello to all Lofters. Hope ya all had a great weekend

morningstar55 05-02-2011 05:51 AM

mawning loft thread dwellers and peekers

wel my truck wont be ready until tomorrow .. *sigh* ..
i have however applied for a few local jobs .. soo hopfully something will happen soon.

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morningstar55 05-02-2011 05:53 AM

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Originally Posted by MsW8ing (Post 331519)
Stopping in to say hello to all Lofters. Hope ya all had a great weekend

good morning MsW8 .. :) ..... love your siggy
:)

Sweet_Amor_Taino 05-02-2011 07:31 AM

Single and I do not own a U-Haul.. LOL
 
I once read an add that said Lesbians give the U-Haul a lot of business that it was best to own one. Why becuase they are ready to move in within weeks of knowing each other. I am sure it does not apply to us all but we are nesters by nature and unfortunately run fast into what is not right for us.

After rushing in and not looking both ways before crossing over I have learned to take it slow. I beleive in getting to know each other slowly and enjoying the beauty of dating. Though it does not guarantee it will work but it offers us both the opportunity to romance,have fun and our true nature to emerge and show who we really are and if its meant to be.

Taino
I think I went off line but any how I hope it was useful.

Sweet_Amor_Taino 05-02-2011 07:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 331567)
mawning loft thread dwellers and peekers

wel my truck wont be ready until tomorrow .. *sigh* ..
i have however applied for a few local jobs .. soo hopfully something will happen soon.

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Good luck and have a nice day !

morningstar55 05-02-2011 07:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sweet_Amor_Taino (Post 331595)
I once read an add that said Lesbians give the U-Haul a lot of business that it was best to own one. Why becuase they are ready to move in within weeks of knowing each other. I am sure it does not apply to us all but we are nesters by nature and unfortunately run fast into what is not right for us.

After rushing in and not looking both ways before crossing over I have learned to take it slow. I beleive in getting to know each other slowly and enjoying the beauty of dating. Though it does not guarantee it will work but it offers us both the opportunity to romance,have fun and our true nature to emerge and show who we really are and if its meant to be.

Taino
I think I went off line but any how I hope it was useful.

soo soo true...... Sir amor :) .. i enjoy some old fashion dating .. i think its a lost part of getting to really know someone these days.

cuddlyfemme 05-02-2011 08:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sweet_Amor_Taino (Post 331595)
I once read an add that said Lesbians give the U-Haul a lot of business that it was best to own one. Why becuase they are ready to move in within weeks of knowing each other. I am sure it does not apply to us all but we are nesters by nature and unfortunately run fast into what is not right for us.

After rushing in and not looking both ways before crossing over I have learned to take it slow. I beleive in getting to know each other slowly and enjoying the beauty of dating. Though it does not guarantee it will work but it offers us both the opportunity to romance,have fun and our true nature to emerge and show who we really are and if its meant to be.

Taino
I think I went off line but any how I hope it was useful.

I totally agree, I think both people should get to know each other and see each's true nature before living together. I've been in several relationships that ended because I wouldn't rush in to live with the Butch

morningstar55 05-02-2011 10:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme (Post 331638)
I totally agree, I think both people should get to know each other and see each's true nature before living together. I've been in several relationships that ended because I wouldn't rush in to live with the Butch

i was accused of not really being gay cuz i wouldnt jump and move in right away...... and on top of it.. my sister had just pased away .. anyways our relationship ended.

msW8ing 05-02-2011 06:16 PM

Your so right Taino, when people rush they miss cherishing all those wonderfully romantic firsts...the first time you hold hands...that first long kiss so deep you forget to breath...the butterflies when they call you..the excitement of the dates to come..the neckin and sweet stuff...learning about one another. *sigh* I'm such a sap I know lol But I do agree with you.
Quote:

Originally Posted by Sweet_Amor_Taino (Post 331595)
I once read an add that said Lesbians give the U-Haul a lot of business that it was best to own one. Why becuase they are ready to move in within weeks of knowing each other. I am sure it does not apply to us all but we are nesters by nature and unfortunately run fast into what is not right for us.

After rushing in and not looking both ways before crossing over I have learned to take it slow. I beleive in getting to know each other slowly and enjoying the beauty of dating. Though it does not guarantee it will work but it offers us both the opportunity to romance,have fun and our true nature to emerge and show who we really are and if its meant to be.

Taino
I think I went off line but any how I hope it was useful.


msW8ing 05-02-2011 06:19 PM

Why thank you kindly. I appreciate the compilment and good morning back. Hope your having a better day.
Quote:

Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 331568)
good morning MsW8 .. :) ..... love your siggy
:)


msW8ing 05-02-2011 06:27 PM

Reminds of one of my dear little straight friends when I left the ex..she asked me how long we were together I said only 3 years. She said "only" wow thats like 15 in lesbian years isn't it. roflmao made me laugh til I cried. Then I have a Stone Butch friend in Mo. that is in a band..they had rent a u-haul trailer one weekend for thier equiptment and one of the fans walked over to meet Hym as Hy was loading the equiptment after the set and she said " Wow now they bring the uhaul to the bar?? They don't even wait for the first date anymore. lol Synical yes funny too.
Quote:

Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 331676)
i was accused of not really being gay cuz i wouldnt jump and move in right away...... and on top of it.. my sister had just pased away .. anyways our relationship ended.


blueeyes226_l 05-02-2011 08:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MsW8ing (Post 331905)
Why thank you kindly. I appreciate the compilment and good morning back. Hope your having a better day.

Hello MsW8ing and welcome to are group.:clap:

msW8ing 05-02-2011 11:49 PM

Well thank you so much blueeyes. And hello back atcha.
Quote:

Originally Posted by blueeyes226_l (Post 331987)
Hello MsW8ing and welcome to are group.:clap:


ruthie14 05-03-2011 04:22 AM

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Morning all!

Morning star... good luck on the job search. I am having the devil of a time finding a new job so for now, stuck with the very stressful one. Ended up in the er again on sunday night with a migraine. This job is too damn stressful!

Welcome to all the newcomers! Nice to see some new "faces"!

I love what all of you are talking about. Getting to know someone before you rush in. I am also having trouble with friends here insisting that I just go out and get laid. NOT into that either. I get a lot of offers for that kinda thing, but no one wants to date or have a gf.. just sex. I'm just not built that way. OK for them, not a prude, just not right for me. Don 't get me wrong, love sex, have a high sex drive, but only within a relationship... just me. Glad to see others who share this point of view. I was begining to think I was one of a very few.

Ruthie(f)

morningstar55 05-03-2011 04:40 AM

good morning Loft thread dwellers and peekers
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ha ruthie...... i been told that before too .. about getting laid.. lol
i been in such a slump... with my mood for drawing/painting /creating.. some told me i need love in my life to get my mojo back...... or to just get laid.. ha .. well i dont know about that... there has to be feelings there in the love making dept for me.
just my 2 cents.. ty for the reppies everone.

msW8ing 05-03-2011 11:31 AM

I'm so right there with ya all on the just sex thing. Personally I need an emotional connection to go there with someone. I'm not wired for a "friends with benefits" or just to "get laid" if I wanted just to get laid I'd crawl up a chickens butt and wait. lol It's not just the sex it's the intimacy. So many have no clue that they are NOT the same thing. I'm so glad there are others that think as I do. Thank you!

msW8ing 05-05-2011 07:28 AM

Good Morning everyone. Just stopping in to wish ya all a Happy Thursday!!

morningstar55 05-05-2011 02:38 PM

wow what a eventful day I had ........

just got in from doc's and getting scrips filled......I just went in to get my test results from all that blood they took from me last week.. then got a awsome load to pick up and take to pittsburgs.... but i was feeling like crap all morning, chills, yucky tummy , and my blood pressure was spiked way high.. soooooooooo
took a nap, and ate a few crackers, ginger ale.. now having some freshly made won ton soup.. :) feeling better.... cancelled my load.. was feeling to sick to move , much less running down the road i n the truck..
oh and it seems that .. my test results said i had NO vitamin D in my system.. sooo im on some major strong D's..
anyways....... think im gonna plant myself in front of the tv for a spell ..... bbl
hope everyone had a better day then i did.. heh

Galahad 05-07-2011 11:02 AM

Happy Saturday, hope everyone is over the virus and the terrible weather. Looks like another day in paradise here, except, I need to go shopping and have lazed about watching the garden shows until too late. It will be so crowded out now. Hate that.

rustedrims 05-08-2011 11:47 AM

Peekin-in
 
Hello everyone..

A few new names in here since i was in here last..Great.!!.

The thing about "gettin-laid"..Yeah we can all do that but is it who we really want to be with..Yeah close your eyes and imagine who you want it to be and really get into it BUT,,Ya gotta open your eyes sometime..Now you have possibly given that person false hopes of a relationship and maybe another night with your eyes closed..
There is a guy at work that has made his News Years Resolution on getting me in bed with him..Keep telling him it will never happen..Come on now..I am a butch woman and look every bit of it..Do i need to explain..??..

Hey blueeyes have things quieted down for ya yet..??..

Wishing everyone a good week and happy chatting..

blueeyes226_l 05-12-2011 07:17 AM

22 mounth old needs prayer
 
Dale Padilla Secor URGENT PRAYER REQUEST!!! KAYLA SCOTT'S 22 MONTH OLD SON SHOT HIMSELF IN THE CHEST WITH A BRAD NAILER~ IT WENT IN HIS HEART~ HE IS NOW IN CRITICAL CONDITION AND NOT DOING WELL ~ NEITHER IS HIS MOM ~PLEASE START A PRAYER CHAIN FOR THIS BABY~ PLEASE COPY & REPOST AS YOU WOULD WANT.
Thanks,
blueeyes226_l

morningstar55 05-17-2011 06:28 AM

mawning Lofters
hope you all have a awsome day :)
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morningstar55 05-17-2011 09:16 AM

on my way to the shower.. ya know them claw skill games with the prizes inside you have to grab with it??? well silly me... thought id throw in a buck , try it out .. as i rarely ever play them things.. and .. WOW.. look what i won!! lol .. a MP3 player... now i guess i have to figure out how to work it.. lol

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blueeyes226_l 05-17-2011 12:58 PM

sorry
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by blueeyes226_l (Post 337369)
Dale Padilla Secor URGENT PRAYER REQUEST!!! KAYLA SCOTT'S 22 MONTH OLD SON SHOT HIMSELF IN THE CHEST WITH A BRAD NAILER~ IT WENT IN HIS HEART~ HE IS NOW IN CRITICAL CONDITION AND NOT DOING WELL ~ NEITHER IS HIS MOM ~PLEASE START A PRAYER CHAIN FOR THIS BABY~ PLEASE COPY & REPOST AS YOU WOULD WANT.
Thanks,
blueeyes226_l

Hey All,
I feel like I have egg on my face from this post. I found out this is not true. How I found out was I went to post it on a group I'm on. I cought heck from the admin of that group. I wanted to corect this on here as well. I'm sorry if I inconvenic any one.
Thanks
blueeyes226_l

cuddlyfemme 05-26-2011 07:17 AM

Good Morning Lofters! I hope everyone has a beautiful day!

Jar 05-26-2011 07:32 AM

Good morning! This looks like a place I could hang out :)

cuddlyfemme 05-26-2011 07:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jar (Post 346396)
Good morning! This looks like a place I could hang out :)

Good Morning Jar! Its a nice place here and some interesting topics are discussed although it can be quiet sometimes...time to liven the place up!

Electrocell 07-06-2011 07:05 PM

Ole fart peeking in lol.

intrigue_in916 07-06-2011 08:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jet (Post 9220)
I'm bumping this up. Am I the only one who's old?...LOL

You are not the only 'Not 30 something' :balloon: Although I must admit that turning 50 next year, has me going gray!

ruthie14 07-06-2011 08:59 PM

I turn 50 next year too! I am coming up with a list! 1 thing I have never done or tried for each decade. So far.... 1 or 2 singing lessons, a henna tatto, ..... now I just need 3 more! Suggestions?.. must be inexpensive at this point, but who knows what a year may bring?

Right now I am craving chocolate red wine! Had some on 4th of july, incredible!!!!

Glad to see this thread being bumped!

Ruthie :rrose:

blueeyes226_l 07-07-2011 09:22 PM

Well.in Nov. I'll be 55 years young...LOL I may have found someone for my life. How ever she lives in N.J. and I'm in N.Y. Nether one of us can afor the $$$$$ for her to come up this way to visit. She seems to have a heart of gold. We talk every night after 9pm and email each other alot. I hope this works out. I told her about my family and she is very understanding. Best of all she dosen't hold how my family is agance me.By the way she will be 60 July 30 or 31.
blueeyes226_l

morningstar55 07-08-2011 06:07 AM

good morning Loft dwellers

this thread really needs some serious bumpin.. lol


blue thats awsome... congrads. :)
Electro..... bout time you should up here.. lol
Ruthie...
chocolate red wine?? hmm i heard about that... havnt tried it yet... i do say yet.. lol


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blueeyes226_l 07-09-2011 09:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 374518)
good morning Loft dwellers

this thread really needs some serious bumpin.. lol


blue thats awsome... congrads. :)
Electro..... bout time you should up here.. lol
Ruthie...
chocolate red wine?? hmm i heard about that... havnt tried it yet... i do say yet.. lol


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Thank you Morrning Star.
i don't know how we will get together. I can't leave and move there,I have Mom to take care of She has to have oxogen and she has heart spells. I don't mind being here for her but my sister and her worce 1/2 on the road ramming all the timne. I just can't up and leave here. The gal I'm talking about lives in N.J..

morningstar55 07-10-2011 08:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 374518)
good morning Loft dwellers

this thread really needs some serious bumpin.. lol


blue thats awsome... congrads. :)
Electro..... bout time you showed up here.. lol
Ruthie...
chocolate red wine?? hmm i heard about that... havnt tried it yet... i do say yet.. lol


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morning ....... Lofters.. :)

ahhh i see Blue .. didnt know moving anywhere was mentioned ... glad your there for your mom.

have a awsome day everyone


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