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socialjustice_fsu 11-06-2016 12:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 1104863)
Well, another weekend is here and it is already November. Time flies.

I'm going down to the predominantly gay part of San Diego tonight. My coworker is forcing me out on the town. Actually, my colleague actually works for me. I'm wondering how appropriate it is to have drinks with a direct report. Would you or would you not?

Mel, I have been in a number of meetings with direct report staff. It's not even a slippery slope. In my opinion it's a loud and clear "no."

Mel C. 11-06-2016 03:28 PM

Thanks for the input all!

Gemme 11-06-2016 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 1105156)
Thanks for the input all!

What did you do, cupcake? Was it drinks? A show? Dinner? A quiet night?

Inquiring minds....:thinking:

Mel C. 11-06-2016 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1105161)
What did you do, cupcake? Was it drinks? A show? Dinner? A quiet night?

Inquiring minds....:thinking:

We met for drinks in the predominantly gay area of town. Not sure whether there will be another night on the town. There are only 25 or so employees where I work but we were recently bought out by a company of 4,000. They will probably end Mimosa Monday's (yep, we really do drink alcohol at work sometimes).

Gemme 11-06-2016 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 1105175)
We met for drinks in the predominantly gay area of town. Not sure whether there will be another night on the town. There are only 25 or so employees where I work but we were recently bought out by a company of 4,000. They will probably end Mimosa Monday's (yep, we really do drink alcohol at work sometimes).

Glad things worked out okie dokie.

Zimmeh 11-08-2016 07:27 AM

Hope you all are having a good start to your week! I'm taking my pup to the park here in a bit.

Zimmeh

Mel C. 11-08-2016 09:34 AM

Well today is the day...time to elect a President. I will be watching shows off my DVR to avoid stressing too much. I hope all the singles who are registered to vote got their vote on. I voted by mail a couple weeks ago.

*drumroll*

Zimmeh 11-08-2016 11:50 PM

I worked in the unit where my stepdad's grandma is. I walked in and she didn't recognize me. I held her hand and told her I was there to keep her safe. She hasn't eaten anything in over a week and I left her room in tears. So we are preparing ourselves to accept when she goes home.

Now to cuddle with Babygirl and relax before bed.

Zimmeh

Zimmeh 11-15-2016 11:32 AM

Hope you all are having a good start to your week! I have bought three gifts so far and I love shopping online :)

Leaving a pot of hot water and Teavana's Peach Tranquility tea for us to enjoy.

Zimmeh

Nattih 11-19-2016 10:03 AM

Have been trying to be a responsible adult lately. Was hallway successful lol. I had my heart set on renting an apartment in an awesome high rise but it decided that saving more each month is the responsible thing to do. So still at the apartment hunting drawing board.

I hope everyone here is doing well! Hopefully the weekend holds some great adventures

Mel C. 11-19-2016 01:04 PM

Happy Saturday Singles! The holidays are rapidly approaching, which can be hard for some people. I'm hoping that all of the singles have an enjoyable week!

Zimmeh 11-21-2016 07:54 AM

It is a chilly start to my morning here in Florida! My poor pup was shivering all night and is still cuddling in her three blankies lol.

Leaving all of us a big pot of Starbucks Thanksgiving Blend coffee and omelets for breakfast.

Zimmeh

Zimmeh 11-21-2016 08:49 PM

I am enjoying a cup of Hot Cocoa. This weather is for the birds, but I love it! I have had my windows open all day and Babygirl enjoyed that.

Hope you all had a great Monday and a good start to the beginning of your work week.

Zimmeh

Zimmeh 12-01-2016 09:44 PM

It has been a crazy week for me. My step dad's grandma passed away on November 21st, so we have been dealing with that and now shopping for Christmas. My oldest niece will be moving to Texas in January with her mom and step dad. This will also be her last Christmas with us until she comes back in two years, it bums me out.

Have a good night,

Zimmeh

Mel C. 12-03-2016 08:56 PM

Sorry to hear life has been stressful Zimmeh.

Where are all of the singles on a Saturday night?

Chad 12-03-2016 09:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 1113007)
Sorry to hear life has been stressful Zimmeh.

Where are all of the singles on a Saturday night?

Hey buddy, I am here. Meet me in CT in the the spring for a beer. Let's invite Salty. :)

Mel C. 12-03-2016 11:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Chad (Post 1113011)
Hey buddy, I am here. Meet me in CT in the the spring for a beer. Let's invite Salty. :)

I'm game. I will be in the Boston area in January. Come get cold with me.

Zimmeh 12-05-2016 08:52 PM

Thank you Mel! My step dad has been in denial over her death and my mom is supporting him. Have you finished your shopping? I think I'm done and then realize, I'm not.


Zimmeh

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Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 1113007)
Sorry to hear life has been stressful Zimmeh.

Where are all of the singles on a Saturday night?


pumpndude 12-08-2016 07:24 PM

Zimmeh, Sorry to hear about your grandma, she is now is a better place and for your stepdad- grieving takes as long as it takes...everyone is different...

My mom has slowed down a lot and looks really skiny, I'm now cooking for her and my sister....Any loss of a family member can be really hard....

take care and happy holidays to you and your loved ones....

Zimmeh 12-09-2016 12:06 AM

Thank you Pumpmdude! We donated all of her clothes and her wheelchair to the nursing home. I am not sure what happened to your mom and sister, but I hope they have a speedy recovery!

Zimmeh


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Originally Posted by pumpndude (Post 1114615)
Zimmeh, Sorry to hear about your grandma, she is now is a better place and for your stepdad- grieving takes as long as it takes...everyone is different...

My mom has slowed down a lot and looks really skiny, I'm now cooking for her and my sister....Any loss of a family member can be really hard....

take care and happy holidays to you and your loved ones....



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